Wyn has an announcement...

[@sampriceandeverythingnice]

“I can’t sit here and confidently say I am nonbinary forever and ever.” I’m a nonbinary singlet who started identifying that way in my mid twenties after never doubting my gender before, and I can’t make that promise either! And that’s ok. Gender is supposed to be fluid, and it largely exists in our own minds, which doesn’t make it any less real. Neurodivergence affects gender identity a lot, and that doesn’t make it any less valid. It’s just another piece of the complexity. If you wake up tomorrow and feel like a cis woman for the rest of your life, this identity was still valid and real. You are loved, you are valuable, and you are valid 💜

[@psychokittypancake]

Welcome to the NB club! It can be so hard to realize that you're nonbinary when you don't fit the androgynous stereotype. I still struggle with that sometimes. Something I found helpful when discovering that I was nonbinary was a drawing that says, "femmes can be thems". It helped me realize that there is no "right way" to be NB ❤

[@AnastasiaPlantlegs]

YES THIS! So many people think NB has to be a split down the middle of the 'two binary genders', but the whole point of NB is that basically the ENTIRE SPECTRUM OF NON-CIS PEOPLE FALL UNDER THE UMBRELLA! especially when Wyn was talking about how their interests didn't change, I was like, they wouldn't! Throughout all of my gender escapades my interests have remained basically identical minus some shame-based coverup situations. I'm happy to see our community grow and flourish

[@KairaTepes]

Yes!! None of us owe anyone androgyny in order to be valid, including ourselves 🤍

[@boneitch]

I relate to this *so much*. I started my transition (FTM) years before I realised I was part of a system. So first I had to grapple with the idea that I as a newer host was trans, but maybe the rest of me isn't trans-trans? And what does that make me? Then, a lot of shifts and skedaddles happened in our system, and now the new version of me doesn't feel male at all. The whole combination of DID, transness, neurodiversity makes identity and gender so complex. So thank you for talking about this. We needed to hear this today ❤

[@Coolest_Ade]

There is nothing wrong with temporarily identifying with something. The idea that if something is "just a phase" it's not worth experiencing is so stupid. You should identify however you feel most comfortable in the moment and I'm so glad that you found that label for yourself

[@orbweaver9750]

It was Janet from The Good Place that made me realize that just because the package presents as femme doesn't mean the AFAB person in it is a cis woman. I was like "OH, I too, am Not-A-Girl!"

[@TheEntropySystem]

Janet is truly an icon -Wyn

[@j.gillette5411]

Congrats on coming out, Wyn! You're in good company. ;)

[@LanternSkyy]

Yaaay! Thanks for sharing and congrats on coming out as NB. DID loves to take us on a ride, right?! Appreciated you before, absolutely appreciate you now, and will appreciate ya if your gender identity ever does change in the future thanks to the DID Game of Life.

[@TheEntropySystem]

Thank you, lovely 🥰

[@EmilyRitcheson]

I can’t even begin to imagine how complicated DID must make the whole idea of gender. But the fact that Frankie was able to be an example and make the process a bit easier for you warms the cockles of my heart - both for you and others out there who might need the same thing.

[@sweetoreo33]

Congrats on coming out!

[@patchoulicolt7093]

Wyn, what true bravery it takes to stand on the stage and pronounce truths such as this. You did so with such respectable clarity and dignity. I am very proud! 💜🌈🏳️‍🌈💐

[@nerdyvalkyrie9230]

Whether this is just a temporary stay in Nonbinarysvil or you're setting up permanent residence, you are welcome in this community and we are happy to have you! Gender is a journey, even for us singlets, and you are no less valid for taking the senic route

[@AnastasiaPlantlegs]

Been waching you since I was a suspicious egg, and it's comforting to see how we have both grown and changed since that time period. I was so sure because of my ability to harness memories from other versions of myself that it made my systemhood/split nature invalid. Very glad to be in spaces that understand the fluidity of dissociative disorders. Thank you so much for being here and making videos. And thank you for always ending your videos with the same reminder: that we are loved, valuable, and valid. 💚

[@xx-sof-xx]

Gender is weird, and especially as a system. We collectively identify as genderfluid which has been very freeing! We went through the common system experience of coming out as genderfluid before we learned we were a system, but we still use the label genderfluid. Transgender system pride! 🏳‍⚧

[@Alice83ashla]

So true we experience that when we have splits, all of our communication internal and external becomes different

[@antonioloma2327]

Hi Wynn! Life is a journey to find new things, congrats for your discovery!

[@lunaudbjrg5457]

Congratulations, Wyn!!! 💛🤍💜🖤 From one femme enby to another, I see you, and your gender expression does NOT determine what gender (or lack thereof) you are!! 💖 💖

[@GianuSystem]

Fusion works that way in our system too. The ripples are unpredictable, and it takes a while to really know what all changed.

[@KitahKat]

I'm proud of you for overcoming your fear and coming out! Anyone who expects ANYTHING of your gender identity is absolutely not worth another thought; it is YOURS and no one else is entitled to that. Side note, LOVE this whole look as a divinely nonbinary style! What a fantastic combination of the masculine and feminine! 👏👏👏

[@SeaforgedArtifacts]

Coming out as a trans woman and then 5 years later discovering our DID BECAUSE in part an alter who is non-binary, Is one heck of a twist our primary is still reeling from.

[@Prof_Granpuff]

This is quite relatable. I had the perhaps more standard "realized I was nonbinary the whole time", and in fact this was before discovering our plurality, but I did realize thereafter that I wanted to present more masculine (despite being designated male at birth) lol. Gender is just one of those things! We can all do whatever we want forever. Thanks for sharing!

[@pardalote]

Hi Wyn, I love your therapist's comment! So, no nonsense and down to earth! 💗

[@gibbysun123]

Thanks for sharing and explaining as thoroughly as you did! I hope you and the rest of the system are in a healthy headspace and doing well.

[@paigeloria7926]

Also, REALLY looking forward to hearing your thoughts on the crowded room!

[@lostsoulforever18218]

Ever evolving! Congrats on moving forward 💚💚

[@placethatiknow]

congratulations on coming out! 🫶

[@altLeaf17]

my internal appearance and sexuality changed, and i was feeling invalid because everything online was saying your sexuality cant change. i didnt know i had split off and im still not 100% sure of everything. but i know now that that stuff CAN change for alters.

[@ErinaBleu]

you mentioning the fear of being a 'trans-trender' makes me so sad. i remember a few years back there was this huge trend of making fun of trans people, specifically non-binary people, and calling them trans-trenders (and an unfortunate number of people making that content were trans themselves, which IMO adds and extra layer of sadness) but i don't see it as much anymore... but that doesn't even matter, because the harm was still done and still obviously affects people to this day. your therapist is so right- gender IS fluid and more complex than people think. i don't have DID, so i can't begin to understand the complexities that brings, but i know for myself it's already confusing. glad to meet you, they/them Wyn :)

[@VanLMT]

This happened to us this year. Thought I was crazy. Thank you for sharing. -Van

[@TangleHamain]

1:24 I agree with this. As a fusion myself of the primary protector and an alter who was discovered recently at the time, when we fused, I mostly stayed like the primary protector, I didnt change much. It was so surprising, especially that, when I heard of fusion, alters were changing entirely and I thought something was wrong. But no, its normal

[@theamethystsystem329]

I'm not sure if any if us are non-bionary but I definitely identify with the experience of all of us shifting when a fusion happens. Especially when it's what we would call "original" alters who have been here from a very young age. I also totally get the feeling of discomfort with things shifting again and again and the struggle to ask the people around me to adjust. We had a recent fusion and I, the host, am no longer who I was and my name is different but I don't feel comfortable asking my family to change what they call me again because they just recently started calling me by my preferred name rather than my name from birth.

[@toclownornot]

congratulations wyn! no matter if this is temporary or prone to change, we will support you! ❤ and gender with DID is definitely a complicated thing. i have a male alter who took about 7-8 years to fully split off directly from me, and i distinctly remember that in the weeks leading up to when we theorize the split finally ended, i came out as a trans boy... just to say "why the hell did i do that, i'm not a man, i don't feel like a man whatsoever and i never have!" in less than a month. when i became aware of his existence two and a half years later, it all made so much sense. we were incredibly blendy all the time due to having been a "siamese twin" situation for almost a decade without my knowledge. but i'm now very comfortably a feminine genderqueer who doesn't mind presenting as a cisgender woman in day-to-day life, and his gender hasn't changed whatsoever! DID is messy and confusing and might make you want to rip your hair out sometimes, but we've learned to be patient and admire our brain more than we fear it. so even if my current gender is just a passing moment in time, then i hope future me is happy in their own skin!

[@Shamazya]

That is really interesting! Thanks for sharing your experience!

[@toby_9438]

So proud of you Wyn! We have struggled a LOT with differing/fluid genders and sexualities between all of us. Do what makes you happy and comfortable, and if you find new things that make you feel happy and comfortable, thats more than okay. Surround yourself with supportive and loving people and remember theres no wrong way to be you

[@tlwf.system]

Thanks win for explaining this! ❤ sexuality and DID is very confusing! Ten years into this and I don’t know what I am 😢 I’m so happy for you. Excuse us as we readjust (sorry for any future mistakes - mis gendering!) I may forget. Will try not to. So proud of you all! I’ve loved being here since the start of the Channel and watching yall grow ❤

[@iliveonatropicalisland6086]

Even singlets experience fluidity and changes in their identies! Thats what fantastic about being human, we get to grow and change and reinvent ourselves!! Your identity is yours to express and no can get a say in it😤😤 (Sorry for the multiple comments my queer ass really resonated with this vid lol)

[@ohyeswedid4260]

Thanks for the vid Wyn! 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@angelx9724]

Sending you love! My StPD influenced my experience of gender, and I feel validated because of the support of the trans and NB community I had during the worst of it. (Now I'm happily married.) Sometimes things can have weird knock on effects. Your experience is still real and your identity/identities are all part of your ongoing journey through life.

[@rhutabaga420]

Welcome to the NB club ❤. It's very interesting to hear about this experience when DID is involved. Thanks for sharing!

[@RelentlessSoul]

This is great! Just go with the flow and if it changes it does, and if it doesn't - be you - the many parts of you! This is something I personally struggle with and to see you embrace this is simply beautiful. I don't feel fully female and not physically a male - I'm teetering in that "in between" spot.

[@kinashy8863]

It's interesting to see how it can work, thanks for sharing this

[@Ravenous_Phantom]

So that's the fun thing about gender, is that it ebs and flows, never constant. I didn't start really questioning my gender hard core until the pandemic hit and self reflection was all I had. I had some doubts of being cis in my mid twenties (I'm only 33 😭) and it really wasn't something I thought much about until I met more queer folks who gave me a safe space to allow myself to explore my what I thought at the time was agenderness. Years later and I'm comfortably sitting at Genderfluid, I am doing hrt as an AFAB person because there are some changes I'm looking for, specifically voice wise, but it took me years to get to that point. What also helped me feel better accepting my identity is a KZbinr by the name of One Topic, he reads a lot of different sub reddits and a lot of them were trans/non binary related, and one thing he said in his videos really sticks with me. He said that if you feel like you're faking it, you're obviously NOT faking, or something to that effect anyway. I mean a person who's faking anything knows they're faking, so they don't need to question if they are or not. Sure this situation may not be forever, but that's okay because gender is so very fluid and that's what's cool about it! It might change over time, it did with me, which is a big part of why I struggled with it so much. So congrats on coming out! If things are different next week, month or year, just know that doesn't invalidate the experience you had in the slightest. 💜💛🖤

[@TheCagedCorvid]

Omg! One topic is the most wholesome bean... his videos helped me a lot too, since the pandemic began I've discovered that I'm not an inadequate female singlet, but a genderfluid audhd system, and those videos got me through some of the hardest moments of my life (& I've been through some $h!+ so that's saying something!). I'd recommend his content to pretty much anyone that lands outside of what 'sOciEtY' expects, for whatever reason... as he says, he's just a dood reading memes, but he just makes you feel like you've come home.❤

[@Chr0mium_D5rkened]

This is all very valid :> We are pretty new to figuring things out ourselves, I only realized that I was the host of our system like around last Christmas and your videos help a lot

[@NeverlandSystemZor]

Congrats on coming out! We (all of us in Neverland System) wish you all the best and hope you have the best life possible! Oh and we love Frankie Stein for that reason, too...

[@KairaTepes]

Congrats on coming out! Welcome to the club 😅🩵

[@KairaTepes]

Love the colors on the thumbnail btw lol

[@sleepyote]

I am part of a system and experienced something similar. I thought I was a cis woman for most my life. When I was 16 or 17 to my early twenties, I felt more transmac. Recently, I've felt more non-binary, more specifically, agender.

[@gattoleone1843]

As a singlet (binary) trans person, this is interesting to learn more about, and made me consider a bunch of things I hadn't before. Thanks for sharing, and for conveying info in a way that makes it easy for potential allies to better understand what it's like to be a system.

[@Ravenovia]

Question: What are y’all’s views on the Internal Family Systems model? I’m still learning about it, and I don’t know too much yet, but my therapist keeps recommending it to me, and it seems to talk quite a bit about DID.

[@TheEntropySystem]

We actually talk about this in one of our Patreon exclusive videos! I have mixed feelings on the subject -Wyn

[@ScurrySquirrel]

So proud of you for being who you are. Gender is hard, we get it.

[@ThatSocialMoth]

This is amazing, congratulations on coming out! It's been amazing seeing you guys all back on KZbin and sharing your experiences and im glad this is something you could share as well. And you're so right, there is no saying what's permanent, lots of things in life aren't, especially with things like DID that are ever changing but what is important is the you that is living right now and how you take care of and love and serve them the best and that you is non-binary and that's beautiful. Even among singulars, labels, pronouns and identities work best as tools to love and respect the person using them, and if that person changes then so will the tools but that doesn't make either state any less real 💜💜

[@paigeloria7926]

Congratulations on getting to the point where you can express who you are! Welcome to the NB club. Not totally surprised about this one to be honest 💕 I didn’t come out as nonbinary or even realize it until I was like 30-31!

[@the-iron-queen]

Nonbinary singlet here: firstly welcome to the enby crowd 💕 People have already said a lot of good things here in the comments but basically the first thing that came to my mind is: imposter syndrome is pretty common in trans people (including nonbinary ones) and I can only imagine how much stress the worry must cause that this is a temporary thing. But: it's a quite common thing even for singlet nonbinary people to experience. This is not meant to invalidate your feelings, what I wanna say is: we see you and we hear you, and you are valid, no matter what. ❤

[@Aurora_veil1580]

This is one of the most relatable videos of my life

[@practicepositiveprogress5396]

You are so valid! Comments cuz I love seeing y'all's videos and cuz y'all are cool as heck.

[@Katra21]

Thank you so much for sharing your journey of functional multiplicity with us. These tidbits into your life as a system has been so insightful and freeing. Life changes affecting your sense of self is the most valid of stuff. One of future stepkids called me their mom for the first time the other day. And I am waking up to a whole new world around me too.

[@andersonsystem2]

Great video thank you all❤

[@lilianm6880]

Cool! Welcome to the club! ❤🎉

[@theyxaj]

I LOVE this video and how simply (to me) it explains an experience of gender. That you still have all of the same likes, just your internal sense of your identity has changed. It may change again, it may not, but that it's still valid to acknowledge this change in yourself, and that it's WORTHY of acknowledgement, even with uncertainty. Maybe it just makes sense because I can relate, but I'm hoping I might be able to share this video with someone else to help them understand it a little bit more.

[@LyricAndCompany]

Congrats on coming out. Gender has always been weird in general (I'm a cis guy in an afab body, that alone just is convoluted to me) but I fused a couple months ago with my sibling who was transfemme. I don't think I've changed drastically, I still use the same pronouns and identify as a man, but I guess I feel.. Softer? In a sense? It's been a little easier to let myself stumble and not hold myself to the same rigid standard I usually do. I'm allowed to be weird and make stupid jokes more than I used to. I don't think I'm more 'effeminate', but I don't know, maybe some of it just helped round out some of those rougher edges I wasn't even totally aware of.

[@TheEntropySystem]

Daniel identifies as a cis male too even though our body is afab. As he puts it, he's not trans in the headspace so dealing with the "wrong body" is only a part time issue for him. -Wyn

[@nejdalej]

Our main social alter, B1 (codename) is the same. He's a cisman in a cis female body. The men in our system identify as cis because they don't feel they've got lived experience of being trans.

[@ilexdiapason]

i'm nonbinary in the sense that we don't have a base gender, and only experience gender when alters come in on top of that base (we don't have a host, just a neutral state that everyone then supplants when they front). so pretty different! congrats on working out your gender

[@aalesu]

I find this kinds of things about DID pretty funny like omg who would have thought! I mean, makes sense this could happen but I can't help laughing a little

[@The_Lemurian_Witch13]

As a Non-Binary person I am so proud of you

[@heliumchaser]

Love you! and all of you!!!!

[@malonerevenant4584]

I'm afab, nonbinary, and present feminine too, and I use he/him pronouns most often. You're allowed to do whatever makes you most comfortable. And that includes embracing a gender identity that might be temporary. Maybe it will change, maybe it won't; what matters most is doing what is right for ourselves right now.

[@raspyraccoon6530]

I’m not sure if there’s any way you’ll see this, but could you do and advice video for fictives on how to deal with the hatred people have for your source? We like ourselves, and we don’t want to split, but we don’t know what to do because it’s starting to really get to us. Tag blocking , blocking specific profiles, and deleting social media accounts only goes so far. Thanks for your work either way. -a system with a bunch of Hazbin Hotel fictives :/

[@TheEntropySystem]

Blitz is planning to make a video about being a fictive and what it means to him. He says he’ll definitely make sure to touch on this. -Wyn

[@katsmaddworld9907]

Hi! Enby host here! I'm so proud of you, Wynn! You explained that perfectly! I'm a pretty feminine person, love wearing dresses, and absolutely adore dolls! (Don't have Frankie yet, but I really want them!) I actually found out I was Non-Binary because I told my friends to call us they/them when referring to the whole system. My co-host is Non binary aswell and I was talking to them and I told them it felt so good to use they/them because it felt so right. I felt kinda uncomfortable being called a girl and it must be because we're a system. Other headmates said they didn't feel the same uphoria and I wondered why 😅 Then my Co-host was like: "You sure you're not Non binary?"

[@TheEntropySystem]

Isn't wild when your headmates can see things about you that you can't? XD -Wyn

[@katsmaddworld9907]

@@TheEntropySystem For real! It's insane! -Kay

[@zenhydrasystem]

Thank you for talking about this. Gender and DID is indeed unique, it often puts us in this “other” place as with so many things, socially. I have identified as male since this body was 6. No system changes have ever changed that, or even so much as put doubt to it. It wasn’t until we had a main part start to fuse then apparently go dormant that I began to recognize and accept that I am a trans man though. But even that experience isn’t the same as a singlet trans man, because I still exist with parts that are very strong women. Suppression of sexuality and gender can be interesting topics to explore as a system, for sure. - Sam

[@soccerandtrack10]

Groups are litterly metaphysical.

[@KateCantDraw]

Noice, Wyn is already a pretty gender neutral name so that works pretty well

[@TheEntropySystem]

I feel like I lucked out there! -Wyn

[@user-wi3yx3gy2o]

I think having alters that are different gender or sexuality or both (in the sense of being both female attracted but different genders) can have a strong effect on your sexuality and gender identity in and of itself, if the system is active, you are aware of it, and there is occasional co-consciousness, or passive influence, that is).

[@youareheretoslayher]

welcome to the club

[@willowthemushacorn1055]

Hello 👋 I'm our system's host and a fem non-binary, my name's Willow. I struggled with this for a long time, especially being a he/they nonbinary. I tried to fit the androgynous stereotype so I could "look" nonbinary but something I learned was that there is no "look". No matter what you do, people are going to gender you, and try to put you in a box, so you might as well make your own box and decorate it however you want! You can show the label on the box to the people who care about and respect you, but everyone else is going to do whatever they want anyways ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[@themoonlit-wolf3773]

Welcome to the enbie club! For however long brain is vibin with us, we welcome you!

[@izzy6455]

We BECAME non binary, too ❤

[@maggied1709]

congrats on coming out! - signed a fem presenting nonbinary person who loves frankie stein

[@raspyraccoon6530]

Congratulations on your self discovery!!!! 🎉

[@The_KrowConstellation857]

This is so validating! As someone who became a fem presenting non binary last year after a big split

[@MadKarinStudios]

That’s how it is for us too. We identify as genderfluid because we experience the spectrum of gender all over the place

[@limendrop]

i’m *so* proud of you!

[@cawareyoudoin7379]

Heya, welcome to the club, even if you're not staying forever! Nonbinary does not have to mean androgynous, you can be as feminine or masculine as you like. Have fun exploring this, and if this ever changes - cool, you'll get to explore your gender again!

[@TheIndigoSystem]

We are a system but also non binary host. I’m afab with feminine gender expression sometimes but mostly agender. Took me til I was 30 (5 years ago) to realise that

[@BigBrotherJupiter]

thats exactly why we are nb! our previous host was a guy but majority of us are fem presenting and we had all decided that using they/them was best to describe us. (and also all the transphobes who say that they/them is a plural pronoun only would technically be right in our case)

[@Angelic_Dreamz]

Glad you decided to make this video, I really want to use the right pronouns on people! Reminder, you are valid!

[@TheoSwinford]

Thank you for sharing! So excited to hear your thoughts on the Crowded Room! Have you seen My Favorite Girlfriend? We haven't watched it; we're too nervous lol

[@TheEntropySystem]

We hadn’t heard of that one, but it’s on the list now! -Wyn

[@buggieboss2899]

I’m thinking about starting a podcast called Buggie Daze; it would allow me to provide an outlet for my system to express their different perspectives without taking all of the anonymity. I don’t think I feel ready yet to tell the audience that most of the “speakers” are from my system, though… can anyone tell me if this sounds like a good idea?

[@catlady9401]

Jessica Mann is so nice.Our host is Southern.❤

[@Rebelion209]

You make a lot of sense. In my system we had a part that we all identified as non binary, now he associates as male. He had formed from a fusion of a female little and a split from another alter and for a while no one could quite figure out his gender so when we started to hear the term non binary it just made sense. Now he fully identifies as male and presents masculine. I as the host went through a long period of time where I felt non binary but didn't have the vernacular for it, and sometimes I still feel that way but still go by she/her pronouns. I no longer feel uncomfortable with my pronouns but I did for a long time. But you make sense and your videos have been so helpful to myself and the rest of my system!

[@earth232]

You are all valid no matter where this journey takes you all❤

[@SonniXD]

Quiet some years ago I found the genderfluid label and thought that's right for me and now I don't even think about my gender anymore 🤔 accepting I might be anything at any point in time kinda takes away the pressure to conform to any of the clichés... And because I know it changes I don't expect others to address me the right way ... I think I only ever experienced it once that I felt offended by someone calling me the opposite of how I felt that moment but that was something I had to deal with myself and not the others fault 🤔

[@riverjewett4031]

I think there's a beauty to being ephemeral. Will I be the same me I am now in a year? Who knows, but that's okay. Nobody stays the same forever, life changes everyone. It just so happens that for systems things change a bit more than for others. But theres a beauty in that. Congrats on coming out ❤

[@GuyBelievesInWorldPeace]

I am feeling a similar experience too

[@charmainede-bell8763]

Welcome to the nb club Wynne!

[@allison-jane757]

Thats really cool you came out as non binary! Congratulations. We are a transfeminine system and most of us so far are women. We do have one or two non-binary alters who use they them pronouns and we even have genderfluid alters as well and even a few men but they are in the minority. We've all collectively decided it's in the system's best interest to pursue medical and surgical transition. It's a little weird for the men but they are on board with it and we've promised to make accomodations for them. DID and gender is definitely an interesting ride as we've grown to understand over this past year. We wish you nothing but the best! -Annabelle from the Delayney's Expanse System.

[@ceekay3143]

Life and gender and society are always changing to some degree, hardly anything is permanent. I'm a singlet and can't imagine how much more chaotic this would be with DID and the fragmenting and fusing that comes with that. I have always thought of myself as a cis female who doesn't really do Girl correctly. I have PCOS, so I'm fat, hairy and never quite got the hang of "normal" regular periods (I've also never wanted children). I prefer pants and culottes out of practicality, can never be bothered doing makeup or heels, and am good at traditionally masculine subjects like Science and Maths. But I've been contemplating whether I might be agender, or some other form of gender diversity. I don't want to participate in the social structure of gender. I am enjoying playing with masculine and feminine elements of fashion, trying to dress more "queer coded" so my people can find me. I'm unlearning that feminine thing where we're meant to be of service to everyone else and consider everyone else's needs and feelings before ever taking care of our own. Having boundaries, taking up space, speaking up, never apologising for my existence. You can be feminine AND those things, but that doesn't really fit me. I do not care about my pronouns.

[@dulcechavez9736]

You are happy and I love that for u wyn ❤ is all it matters

[@TheLovelyluxray]

as a transmasc genderfluid system, Welcome!

[@DasOrangensaft.]

Yay, Wyn, they/them! 🙋 Addition: It is also "allowed" to identify as non-binary and use she/her or any other pronouns. 😊

[@solsystem1342]

Onyx: yep, been there. I'm enby now again recently after a fusion I went through. I kinda tend to flip flop between women and enby and I mean, I used to be a fusion magnet part so my memories run deep into different branches of the systems past and that includes different gender experiences 😅

[@ImmmaI]

I'm sorry but where did you watch the latest monster high?

[@TheEntropySystem]

In the US it's available to buy on Amazon

[@sygilloux-v2]

we started using genderfluid enby cause its what the outside world would experience us as lol

[@sparklestorm1236]

Congrats! Remember, all NB people are hot. I don't make the rules.