AGE GAP COUPLE - HIM DYING FIRST (BIGGEST FEAR EVER)

[@wadebowenfan6743]

Hi, guys. I know such worries are normal in an age-gap relationship, but my mother and father had a 16-year age gap. Despite the fact that my mother was so much younger, she died of breast cancer in 2010. My father is still alive at 90-years old now, and I care for him. So just live each day to the fullest. You never know what the future will bring. Just love each other every day

[@zekereilly9390]

R.i.P ik the feeling of losing a mother and mine died from blood clots

[@eriqglyptis8816]

My husband and I have also been together for 8 years. We have a 24 year difference and we continue to grow each day.

[@dubcampbell2870]

I met my partner when I was 27 and he was 47. I am now 54 and he is 74. To think of my life without him is unthinkable. However, for me to die first and him have no one to care for him in his later years is just as frightening. It is hard to think of these things but we are so very lucky to have found each other and have shared our lives.

[@tyebrown6348]

Russ -Chris It's not the one who dies that we worry about it's the living who's left alone. Who's there to love me now?

[@yannikavadas1490]

Tye, there is a solemn truth in that mate. You can never really fill the void , however, You can bridge it.🍻

[@genesiesky3756]

Hey guys, scenarios can come up that you never anticipated. I am 70. At 48 I had an unexpected quadruple by pass surgery. My partner always thought I would go first. When he was 53 he was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. He died 4 years later. After he got diagnosed, we redid our wills and pre-planned and he pre-paid his funeral arrangements. (I felt better because I wanted to spare my son of having to go through that heartache of that experience. ) When he died, everything fell into place and I just acted on what had already been planned and his wishes in his will. We shared a property, but we always kept our money separate and that proved to be a very good option for us. In the last month, he wrote his own obituary because he wanted it to mention certain things and thank certain people. That was 10 years ago. My point is, you can only plan to a point, and then let the universe take you through the rest. You guys are sweet. I hope you both have a long life. PS: wear socks to bed.

[@1969pootie]

I have been in a relationship with my partner for 14 years. We actually just got married this past Sunday (so I can now say Husband). I had to stop watching your video half way through because I'm in full fledged tears thinking about one or the other of us dying. I don't think I could handle it. I have given it some thought in the past, and I don't know if it's better if I go first or if he goes first. I feel like I would want to go first because the heartbreak would be so bad if he went that I couldn't handle it. But then I think that if I went first his heart would be broken and I can't handle that either. It's definitely a no win situation.

[@CJ-hz1uj]

Bryan Tankersley ❤️ There’s a lot I could say right now, I’m still hoping to rest tonight, there’s a little rain, we were in the woods here. Just know I’m right with you on this, if only I had had the broken heart syndrome that day our life was so wrongfully cut short.❤️

[@1969pootie]

@@CJ-hz1uj ❤

[@fluffyclouds555]

You two are the best. Your vulnerability, honesty, and humor are a joy and comforting to watch.

[@dramonmaster222]

Hey Guys! Thanks for posting such an emotional video and sharing your life with us,.

[@rtro80sguysacramento33]

Chris and Russ, I'm a free fairly New Subscriber Russ is Totally on point. I met my first partner when I was 23, he was 34..we worked in Nascar together and traveled the country, we built a life and a bond sooo strong I thought we were set for life.. We Were, til he died at the age of 40 of lymphoma 9 days after his diagnoses. Not much time to really react. It was in the late 90s before marriage was possible . I'm 51 now the loss of him and the true colors his family showed still is a memory. I honor him a few times a year ie: Birthday, Anniversary etc. MAKE A WILL !! And Cherish each other just as I see you do in every video 💗💗⚖⚖🐩

[@bryanl2725]

I lost my partner last July who was 22 years older than me. We’ve talked and thought about it since we started dating in 2009. No matter how much I have conditioned myself, it was still devastating when that day happened. I still send him a message every morning to express how much I miss him and love him. Your videos have been helping me cope with the loss. Stay strong! LYLT!

[@matthewejcrepin9675]

We like the fact that you two talk about everything and anything, and sometimes we squirm because of the subject matter but we continue to listen because they are discussions that need to be had. Thank you both and much love from north of the 49th.

[@maureenval1047]

The two of you are looking extra handsome,and you are not dying anytime soon.so chill darlings 🌈🌈🌈❤️❤️❤️💖💖

[@hispid1]

Hugs Chris! Been through health stuff with my guy and we've still survived 22 years together! ... and Russ you aren't too old to be spanked! Keep yourself safe.

[@synful1969]

You Guys are so sweet, I can tell you guys really care for each other. Just live life to the fullest and remember to tell each other you love each other every day. Never go to sleep mad, cuz if you wake up mad it's just gonna ruin another day

[@kellypunteney]

Once again a great post Dillion talking about important issues. I would bet most people need to have more than just the discussion about death and dying. It does take some action too.

[@steves4639]

my partner and I have an age gap of 21 years...been together for 30 years. my small extended family is somewhat supportive, but his large extended family is not and could be problematic. although we didn't feel the need necessarily, emotionally, as we'd been together so long, we decided to get married to ease any issues when one or the other goes. I didn't expect this, but getting married turned out to be an emotional thing after all...I feel closer to him and more 'settled'...which surprised me. I'm glad we did it. Still, we're gonna redo our wills anyhow, just to be safe. any prep you do now will make it so much easier for the survivor, as I found out when my mother recently passed. I know I would want my partner to have an as easy time of it as possible in what will be a very difficult time, and vice versa. take care guys.hey, I'm a 'daily' too! lol

[@cyl742]

Hahahaha Russ you made him blush! You two are a great match and so hilarious.

[@johnwright2509]

Me and my spouse have an age gap of 40 years.....Love knows no age, or age.....please tell that to USCIS (U.S. Customs & Immigration Services).

[@justnaji679]

When my Fiance and i started dating 4 years ago he had a big issue with our age difference, currently im 29 and he is 59! Now he doesnt find any issues with it which is great but intergenerational relationships do require a little more work and a whole lot more conversations and planning

[@eldritchjoe7642]

This resonates so much with me. My husband and I are less than a year apart, but he has some health problems and there have been more than a few times that I had this heart wrenching fear that the unexpected quiet or the sound of a fall was It. But you're right, it could just as easily be me while working. It's nice to hear those sentiments from outside your own head. Thank you for sharing so honestly with the world.

[@johnmcneil1284]

Hi Guys, I've been living with my partner for 36 years, with a 22 year age gap, so him dying before me should be the natural order but I too worry about it at times, but you never know who will go first! The longest we have been apart was 5 weeks and that was due to work,, so I kmow it can be done but I just pray we'll have a while together yet and that we can make the most of it. Take care and look after each other. Love from the UK xx

[@brian52763]

with each and every new post, I fall more in love with the two of you! So many people should follow your example of how to be in a relationship and how to be just a real human being! Love you guys, don't stop being you!

[@kristinschiller1763]

There is such a thing as broken heart syndrome, which is caused by emotional stress, and can cause death because your heart begins to pump incorrectly. I’ve heard it happen when one partner dies and the other partner dies shortly after.

[@comestayawhilewithl5696]

Stop worrying and enjoy the life you are building together. Worrying only takes time from the beautiful memories that are waiting to be made .

[@AmySpivey01]

I lost my husband almost 2 years ago when he was 38. He had a seizure and passed away unexpectedly. We were high school sweethearts and he was my best friend. We had a deal that I got to go first. Our kids were 5 and 13. I am living for them only. I for sure have always understood this fear. I never thought it would be us.

[@alabamagirl342]

My daughter was diagnosed with type 1 11 years ago. She's 18 now and they do think about their health a lot!!! But that's good because it shows they are serious about taking care of themselves. She'll do fine.

[@abrahamgranados8913]

My husband is 10 years older than me and I everyday pray God to take me first because I will die if he died first and let me alone, he is my everything. Love you guys. Beautiful couple.

[@erickz7433]

"he is my everything." True love, summed up in this statement. May God continue to bless you and your partner with many happy moments ahead. ❤️

[@chefdwh]

My ex husband died of an overdose 2 days prior to Christmas in 2014. He was 21 years younger than I. No one knows what tomorrow brings. Live each day to the fullest. Chris does need to put a ring on it !

[@kevincrain6090]

I understand your feelings. I'm 57 and my boyfriend is 25. I'm scared of leaving him behind and wondering if he will be okay. thank you for sharing this video

[@tkzjones7621]

l am glad you take time to think about your partner. but for now just enjoy the moments you are together and make the most out of them.

[@celticqaidbear]

I how you both feel. I am 49 my husbear to be is 61.

[@synful1969]

Lol husbear. That is so cute. I had never heard that before. I just love when people are in love and have sweet names for each other. I have a nice Husband I call him Seany bear and I also have a couple HasBeens lol I call them .....nevermind if you don't have something nice to say...😄

[@corrinemills]

@@synful1969 that is soo funny and cute

[@cookiekitty_omg4633]

You guys are so cute! Don't worry about this so far think about the good times

[@nadeemhamid3028]

Love u guys. In an 11 year relationship ourselves since I was 19. Where we don't have an age gap we can relate to you . Shows u age means nothing !

[@GH-lk5bo]

I had a partner Cpl years older, and he passed away. Your never prepared for this. He was my first soulmate, I found my partner now totally wasn't looking. God bless my life with him.

[@kljindiana5551]

Hey guys Great video, watching you has inspired me to discuss getting back together with my ex at some point in the future . We had a 21 year age gap, we split up eight years ago. We're still close, he was diagnosed with schizophrenia, which we now believe caused our breakup. I want to thank you guys for giving me the courage to talk to him about this, we still love each other and always have. I hope you guys have a long and happy life together, you deserve it. Love you guys

[@tieiatalks]

I wanted to share a story about my older sister who was four years to the day older than my birthday and she was diagnosed with type one diabetes when she was three years old and unfortunately my mother taught her that she can eat whatever she wants as long as she takes insulin to back up whatever sugary or crappy food she was eating. My sister lived her whole life that way and suffered for it. She had her first kidney transplant which thankfully her husband was a donor and they ended up getting divorced sadly. They were blessed with a Habitat for Humanity house before that divorce happened. My sister continue to abuse her body and not take care of herself and she was again on the transplant waiting list and passed away at the age of 45 up in Bozeman. I’m 45 now and on the anniversary of her date in this last October it really hit me. You can live a long and healthy life with type one diabetes. Look at Mary Tyler Moore she was well into her 80s or 90s when she passed away. Your sweet niece has a long healthy life ahead of her as long as she takes care of herself. Diabetes advances are coming along it seems like yearly there’s something new and better to help people live longer healthier lives with type one diabetes just teach her to be healthy exercise drink her water check her blood sugar take care of her self and know that she can live a long healthy life and have children and grandchildren and she’s going to be OK. Much love. ♥️

[@davidjuan4130]

I do have sleep apnea, I did stop breathing 72 times an hour in my test😳, I been using the machine for a month now and my numbers are like 2 to 3 times and hour, and I do sleep better I have more energy during the day.

[@damarisherrera6508]

I don’t know you guys but I watched your reaction to Logic’s video, and I am watching all the other ones, I barely know you but I love you guys 🥺 I can see the love, real love, I hope you guys live a long happy life full of joy, I really hope you do guys♥️

[@mikaylasworld9723]

OMG SAME

[@jamesyatman5361]

What Ifs and such worries are just so time consuming...My husband and I have a 14year age difference..we've been married. 28years..have our Healthcare Directives, Financial Directives, Wills & Mortuary Plans on file to appropriate parties..everyday is a gift and I don't spend time worrying...BTW..I sleep with C-Pap and Physician prescribed Gabapantin for Restless Leg Syndrome...all fixable..I still have the man I love snuggled next to me..love you Guys..Chris..get help

[@paulina8067]

I am also in an age gap relationship and I fear that my husband will pass before me so it’s important to talk about these things and prepare for the future. Make the most out of everyday because anything could happen to anyone at anytime so never take each other for granted. I love you two, I never miss a video you make my days brighter😊

[@johns7868]

I'm 56 he's 77 and been together 30+ yrs. We especially think about one surviving the other. His old man lived to be 95 mine at 61. You can't predict any of that stuff. Live your best life but do make provisions

[@tcgsasha1449]

I love you guys your channel is absolutely one of my favorite to watch you both brighten my day keep it up and let your subscriber count go up up up up

[@jerrybrull8325]

you guys are so true with one another and us, its great to see such concern and love

[@ukhairybear]

Guys, first just continue to enjoy each other, the difference in age has not stopped you so far don't let it become something now. I lost my husband 3 years ago December 16th he and I were together 43 years. When he retired we moved from the UK to Spain, I have basically no family left in the UK so I will end my days here in Spain so I end up where he is, scattered in our back garden, I will also be scattered there. The main thing that I am trying to say is you get all your ducks in a row ready then, live life enjoy the time together, time is fleeting and I would give anything for one last moment together. Ps. Thanks for the vids ..... Hugs from Spain

[@bluedragon4]

I've always been split about the age is just a number thing. My last boyfriend was 24yrs old when I was 31years old. We fought for 5 years. We never really connected because of our age difference. We just weren't ever at the same place at the same time. He's not the first younger guy I dated. I tried older and that didn't work either. I was still young enough that I wanted to be doing things and he just didn't want to. I stayed single for 5 years and met my now husband a while back. We are both 46 years old. We are only 6 months apart. We are at the exact same place in life thinking about the exact same things. We grew up listening to the same music that was on the radio, we were in the same grade at the same time, and doing the same things because we are the same age. I have never been on such a equal level with someone. I applaud those of you that can make a huge age difference work. You are much better than I. I just know that growing old with my husband, reaching 50 together and other milestone birthdays, finding lines at the same age as we age, thinking about retirement at the same time, is exactly what I needed for myself because in the past, I felt I went through things alone even though I had a partner.

[@Dukesbeat]

HELMET ... YES! I hope you both live long, healthy lives, as well. You are beautiful, inspirational, good men. I admire you using this platform to share a small piece of your lives that we all relate to and learn from. Thank you. Chris, There is medication for RLS ... and it's very inexpensive. I'm 67 now and I was in a relationship with a man 16 years younger than I am. Sadly it did not last beyond 9 years. But while it was, we shared a strong bond, and common thread, and I learned for myself that age doesn't matter. Being honest, authentic ... being true to yourself ... these are things that matter. On my own and alone now, it's easy to feel myslef becoming invisable at this age and when there is not a face looking back at me. Still, I aim to "keep going" and maybe one day ...

[@robinchristensen4671]

There is a huge difference between moving your legs while you're asleep and moving them while you're awake. Restless leg syndrome is moving your legs while awake because of a horrible urge to move. It is like a physical anxiety attack in your legs and sometimes arms or other parts of your body. Usually antihistamines or many cold medications will make restless legs worse. Never take dopamine agonists for restless legs as they eventually worsen your condition.

[@maxclemens635]

I do feel the same with you guys. I am 21 and my husband is 51.

[@rickyn1135]

You,gentleman are the Bees Knees.! P. S. I’m really enjoying my Wyo/Chris Mugs form your Merch line!

[@StephenHartHartTalks]

I have had diabetes since I was 3 and in the past 43 years have had a lot of really close shaves but I love that Skylar is so honest about what she is scared of re Chris. Take care of each other guys. xoxo

[@frankgyori2740]

I hope you both have been trained in CPR and other first aid practices. Not only could having that knowledge help you in emergent situations but others as well. Incidentally, I do feel your age difference is a huge factor in any relationship. You prepare for the possibilities but do no dwell upon them... Best to you.

[@lee-tx7yj]

I was only thinking about you both this morning and the situation you raise here. Uncanny!

[@silvertopaz72]

Russ yes daily and I'm 63. Also on the age thing, my Husbear is 35 and I'm 63. We are in our 16th year. All I do think about this very thing. I have paid for burial stiff for both of us and the house is in him name and paid off. He knows where the crown jewels are buried. Love your videos and both of you. Big hugs and take care.

[@1Kent]

Heartbreak is a physical manifestation of the soul.

[@embott1]

My fiancé and I have a similar age gap: he’s 28 and I’m 58. I have thought about leaving him first, and he just says: “make sure you leave the car for me!” 😂

[@ronjacobs-young6886]

We have a thirteen year gap in our life now in its 35 year. We got married 5 years ago and that gave us security under federal law including spousal rights to our social security and no family member can take or protest our estate. Be smart and safe. This is important for all lovers.

[@robiyelton4964]

There was 14 yrs between my Partner and I, the best 8 yrs of my life. He passed May 2, 2014 the saddest day of my life. Restless leg syndrome iron helps i take one a day and no restless leg.

[@DMWolFGurL]

It's actually real that we have heartstrings that actually break, not just metaphorically, it's actually something that happens when you experience extreme heartache. You CAN actually die from a broken heart because the heartstrings really physically break.

[@Silhouette-Oregano]

Hello guys! I live in Salem MA with my bf.I am 35 year old and my bf is 67. we are in an age gap relationship. there's 32 years age difference between us but we are happy together since 2014 & we will stay together to the end of time. I love him very much.

[@MOGuy1968]

It is a hard thing to deal with. I lost my partner of 23 years last June. We had a 26 year gap. It was tough watching him decline from congestive heart failure.

[@MarkovianMan]

You guys are very realistic and have a healthy approach on this issue, and you're right, it's not necessarily the older person that passes first. None of us know when our time will come. What sucks is that whether it's by death or break-up, once you get past a certain age you have to plan for the reality of being single for the rest of your life. Unfortunately our society (and the gay community even intensely moreso) is ageist and frankly, once you're past 50, to most in the gay community you might as well be dead unless you're wealthy. I've gotten a sobering dose of this reality when I found myself single at age 53 after a 13+ year relationship ended. Guys my age (55) and older are generally only interested in younger guys (typically college-aged guys/guys in their 20s), and younger guys only seem to be interested in older guys if they have $ to support them. I'm in great shape, active and almost always guessed to be in my 40s based on my looks and energy, but once a guy finds out my real age I'm suddenly persona non grata. My libido was extremely strong (like a teenager's! a problem many guys my age would LOVE to have), but I'm not into hookups, so after seeing a counselor (who acknowledged the ageism epidemic in our community) my doctor prescribed Rx (hormones) that kill my libido so that I can be asexual and it's not driving me crazy. What you guys have is a very rare and wonderful thing, so it's fun to see your relationship! ;-)

[@Art_911]

LOL "On the Daily" Anyway, yes, people don't plan for the dark part of life very often or only when something happens that makes them aware that they might have to finally deal with it. Glad you two are moving forward and realizing these things. Good news Chris, hope you can pin point when and what, and make sure you get done what you need. HUGS from the desert!

[@philliprumans753]

I think no matter what the age Gap is, you tend to worry about either going first and leaving your partner behind or you being left alone after your partner dies. My husband and I are relatively close in age. I am 49 and he is 48 oh, we've been together for 18 years and married for just over four of that. As we get older we do tend to worry about the above. Last year we actually lost one of our good friends who was our age who was hit by a car and it really made us realize that no matter how old we are or how young we are, you never know and could go at any time. Definitely enjoy what you have now but also prepare for what happens to us all, just don't dwell on it and waste too much time on something you don't know when it will happen.

[@lorenzolong8529]

We all die in the end. Chris is right, don’t worry about it, just live your life to the fullest!

[@dogloverandmyfamily4025]

I just pray for both of you...i really wanna watch all your videos for a long time, it's very inspiring ☺️🙏

[@professorcubanmalone9954]

Watching you both brings me joy. Thank you for sharing with me/us

[@stormyalice]

My brother is 14 years older than me- in his 40s- and going strong. I, on the other hand, have health issues galore with heart and thyroid, as well as back injuries from accidents. I know there's a bigger chance I will be gone before him. Meanwhile, my parents are 2 years apart, in their 70s, but my mom and her female family all live to late 90s while my dad's whole side of the family struggle to make it to their 50s (both his father and grandfather died at 49 and 53). So, you never know. Age is genetics and how lucky you are in the life lottery. That's it. Hope some of that Ted Talk will comfort you guys. Y'all are always a joy to watch and I can only hope to find a partner to have the kind of relationship y'all do. ❤ ❤ ❤

[@cruzwon]

You two are amazing..... Let me say my very best friend was 65 and her husband was 80 when she had a heart attack and died.... he was always planning for his demise... He never thought she would go before he did.... we are still after one year still trying to figure out and navigate life without her.... my thoughts are live your life to the fullest everyday.... and then there will be no regrets..... love you both....😘😘😘😘😘😘😘 it’s refreshing to see two people whom love each other.... don’t sweat the bad stuff.... enjoy everything together......

[@gerardhernandez4367]

My partner and I have been together for 24 yrs. We are also in a May/Dec relationship I am 20 yrs younger than my partner. He has had a bunch of health issues through our relationship. We live life to the fullest and both of our funerals have been planned and paid for so you must have this done so that your partner isn't stuck with all the planning. Also take care of all your finances to.

[@lvx969]

My late partner and I never talked about this subject. We had a 27 year age gap and we had been together for 7 years (but were not married). A little over 3 years ago he suddenly passed away. One day he was there the next he was gone. I'm in a position now where I've had to completely reassess my life after essentially settling down, and it's pretty messy. We took zero precautions and never prepared for the possibility. It may be grim and depressing to think about the death of a loved one but it's extremely important to be prepared in case of disaster, especially for gay couples who are not married. I'm glad you two are broaching the topic.

[@rackwel6819]

As of now i know my family needs me. My husband is a little clueless without me and we have 2 small children. But if we make it to old age, i would like to be the one to go first. I couldnt live without my life partner by my side.

[@stevejtown]

All you can do islifd to the fullest and create memories every day. Prepare for the future to protect the one you love and hope the memories will comfort all who remain. May god bless and keep you both.

[@briancrouch4827]

That child has an old soul. She is wise to be so young.

[@Beefareeno]

I don’t have diabetes, but I have another autoimmune illness I got diagnosed as a young kid, and I love your niece. She’s so strong... if you can tell her, tell her to never ever let people tell her she’s anything less than perfect. The perfect friends and one day person will love her for medical issues and all 💞 All the medical stuff you have to wear (pumps, insulin, bandaids, scars) those all make her a strong goddess warrior, and it’ll help her take on life.

[@alreppine3517]

Wow. My his and and I were born 3 weeks apart, and we are aging together. The thought crosses my mind occasionally and it is expected that one of will outlive the other. We haven’t talked a lot about it. Listening to you guys makes me realize we should. Maybe it’s good to try it on, as what would it be like? What would either of us do? It is what it is, but death is inevitable and we should consider the impact it will have. Thanks for letting us in and sharing this very personal part of your journey.

[@ddog5858]

You guys are such a sweet couple, I hope you both have long and healthy lives

[@billgebauer2456]

I love watching you guys. It truly is A strange relationship-but thou shalt not judge and I'm not! I Love to see the love you have for each other and that's what's important! Keep up your VLOGs I love watching you :-) BIG HUGS from NW Iowa

[@davewells9942]

Hey guys, Dave and Kyle here. Married 11 years and 50 year difference in our ages. Difficult situation for both of us.

[@singlecatt]

I am glad I found your videos. I am in a similar situation. My boyfriend is 27 years younger than me. At first i was very resistant, because of the age astigmatism. But, he persisted. What persuaded me was him saying to me, " when did they put age limits on love?" I am so glad I let him in. We have had just shy of 2 happy wonderful years together. And today he proposed! I said yes about a hundred times to make sure he heard me. Lol

[@MARTINLOUISR]

awww shes so cute

[@kevinleonard007]

She is very wise and sweet and seems very grounded to be so young.

[@larryk970]

Good vlog. I’ve been going through this conversation with my partner. You both need a living will and power of attorney with each other. Sh:t happens at any age. Love you guys. Keep on keeping on.

[@surajkent7393]

Every time I saw your video.. I always remember my "ex boyfriend " he is not really my boyfriend because he like me but he doesn't love me, but I was in love with him and he is much older then me.. I was 28 yo that time and he was 48 yo perhaps ..we had 20 years age gape ( I am Indonesian and he is australian) and we just have that romance and about 3 years then finished.. I am back home in Celebes and I am 39 yo now and I have no news from him anymore.. When I was with him, he had a long australian partner that's why we never be lover.. I am just like friend with benefits for him and I can't stand so I gave up.. It's hard coz I lived in Bali and he lived in Australia.. LDR never work for me even with my French ex BF and my German Ex BF.. Never work out.. I am gave up.. Back to home town and live my life..

[@jasonsmith5295]

You sound Like a sweet guy, sorry for your heart aches I'm 48 and my guy is 38 We are friends with benefits but never married or lived together he moved away

[@surajkent7393]

@@jasonsmith5295 well.. Sometime life soo hard and not everything we want we can have it... Not every dream will come true and end up just a dream.. 😊..thank you and I wished you will find your real love of your heart and you will be a winner this time with out a benefits involved.. Just real love full of true and genuineness... Peace of love 😍

[@jasonsmith5295]

You sound Like you are a sweet man.....thank you

[@surajkent7393]

@@jasonsmith5295 Thank You very much.. So you... Have a good day

[@vintagehaynesflute]

My partner is 43 and I’m 60 and I worry about me dying and leaving him alone. It’s the only reason I almost broke it off with him after a month. He doesn’t worry but I do. I just love him so much and don’t want him to be alone

[@caveswater]

Make the time you guys have worth it. Don’t throw that away, it’s special and you’ll never get it back. Wish you guys all the best. 💜

[@vintagehaynesflute]

Thanks man! I appreciate your input!

[@belizeguy]

We are 9 years apart and before we married, we got wills to protecting each other so that there would be no surprise family swoop in and try to grab stuff, not that we feared this, but it reassured us that we had dealt with the issues ahead of time .. When we moved to Mexico to retire, We got new local wills that update yearly and cost a fraction of the USA Wills. Plan for the worst and be happy for the best!

[@theWIZireland]

The reality is a waining libido could be a bigger issue in an age gap relationship. But hey less of the negatives guys, just enjoy each other and be so grateful to have each other and cherish what you have, not what might be. Life is just too unpredictable and precious to waste it with worry or anxiety in these matters. LYBLT (b for both) 💖

[@andrewcardoso9058]

"Life Is Now" That's It!

[@pippy68p65]

Heartbreak is the Worst. I've had more than my fare share. But life is life. You can't change it.

[@cindiemoore2530]

I love you both, I am a 57yo straight woman and you are my favorite KZbin couple♡♡♡

[@theparrotrescuer3042]

Hi guys..I was in a ltr for 14 years and he was 30 years my junior and he passed away from a pulmonary embolism..you just never know.

[@KerisianoAiga]

I often think about outliving my older partner or vice versa.... and it makes me incredibly sad.

[@rebeccawhittle9160]

My mum is 18 years older than her partner and I know it scares her but they try to laugh and joke about it. You guys are a beautiful couple by the way x

[@lupinforever9334]

I am 34 and my partner is 65, is always my fear too if one day my partner would leave me first. That's why we have to enjoy the moment together.

[@smileandhope3381]

At least your with a good person and you are happy it’s so hard to even find that some people never do all relationships end in death eventually but it’s better to have something good for maybe a shorter time than something horrible for longer or never having it at all

[@twooldguysatlarge3969]

Don't worry about what you cant control, however, you can control how you are prepared for the future the good and the bad . We have the wills, the funeral paid for, and have meetings with the nephews who will have power of attorney so he is up to speed with what we want and especially when things change. Best wishes the 2 old guys

[@paranormalsoulcircle3176]

I am always thinking about death way more than I should. I started thinking about it around 3 or 4 years old 🤔. I go through Anxiety attacks nearly every day and then 3 month long depression and then when my mental health picks up and I am happy I feel so thankful to be alive. I have heart issues and low blood sugar and I have Agoraphobia and Autism. I just went through a whole month of Covid 19 and after getting it and losing my sense of smell and taste and feeling like I was breathing through a straw and that neumonia type feeling I am Greatful to be alive Maybe it was my wake up call that I truly needed. I need to start pushing my self more because my Partner is always scared of me dying . He wakes me up every night, he told me that I was shaking kind of like seizures in my sleep and I stopped breathing. If it is not regular health problems it is my mental health going back and forth. But he loves me a lot . He is always talking about the nice places I took him on dates and all of the beautiful memories we have made. Our baby passed away on Christmas day 💔 😔 But we Did get a Puppy 🐶 and we are doing the best we possibly can to make good memories such as backpacking into the woods set up a tent with our puppy inside and we lay there together listening to all the sounds at night like the crickets , Coyotes and cicadas . We can't afford a truck or car but we ride bikes all over the city ,park our bikes and get coffees sit by a nice greek fountain in Toronto Canada and feed the birds and people watch . We both love how multicultural our City is. There is so much to see and so many different walks of life 🇨🇦 Iam greatful 🙏 for those moments those beautiful memories😊 ❤

[@manystar]

you guys will be together for decades to come, you are lovely men, send u hugs guys

[@Cubbyboy56]

My late partner and I had a 16 year age difference. We met in 1991. I was 35 and he was 51. I lost him in 2012. I was 55 years old and he was 72. It was sad losing him but we had a wonderful life together and I would do it again if I had the choice. All I can say is enjoy every day together.

[@tompatchen6508]

If people love and care for one another... you will get a "Last Will & Testament" in place TODAY! I know several people who "intended" to do it and never did... and when their partner died, the survivor did not get anything and their memory of their deceased partner was very bitter.

[@ChristopherCircelli]

I know how you worry. I am 13 years older than my wife and it scares me to worry about her if I go before her. I just hope she is set up enough for it if I do. Hopefully a long way off though !!

[@marvincarlton2678]

Thanks for keeping it real. I'm newly in an age gap relationship and I worry about my partner if and when my time comes.