明白也知道有些情況是這樣。但同時也要防避有些"人"用這些來挑起紛爭,將那些原本就只是小的分別,小的行為,一些時間久了就會大家都能互相習慣的小事以social media 去放大大,那就將一些一時一事變作大矛盾,有智慧的香港人我相信是能分辨的。當然,有不好的地方,就要反省和改變,但怎樣去將一個"問題"恰好放在他該放的地方,不多,也不少,能自省卻不自卑,每個人都做好自己,慢慢就會得到別人尊重和喜歡。正如我很喜歡和尊重鬆仔一樣。慢慢,是重點中之重點。
Eye contact is essential in job interviews in hk too, which is not a cultural difference. For taking the initiative to say hi and smile, I spot the difference between a big city and a small town. When we moved to our house, we knocked on the doors of the neighbours nearby to introduce ourselves. We were invited to have a chat, so please ready for it. They are likely to ask you about your future plans, and why you come here. We can slightly touch on what has happened in hk, and see if the topic can continue. Totally agree with you that their bedtime is around 8-9pm. On my street, nearly all lights are off around 9pm. I agree with you about the noise level. We don’t speak loud and we are not nosier than the locals.