10 Things That WILL Stop Divorce | Jimmy Evans

[@tarraholifield4998]

I would really like to hear someone teach on saving your marriage if only one of is willing to make changes & actively seek counsel & apply these things in your marriage. What's the protocol to help that situation? Definitely Holy Spirit, but if they are unwilling to participate in counseling, they won't humble themselves at all, they don't want to make any changes that need to be made that confronts anything.... Then what do you do? That's the teaching i need

[@RhythmAndRibs]

Spot on! I have the same questions.

[@tasheenasmith5616]

you cant, it takes two to work on a marriage just like it took two to marry and say vows to one another. You can pray read books etc but you will finally get frustrated when you see you are the only one working and the other is not. I know from experience. Its about actions, if the person doesnt want to do the work its simple they dont wanna be married.

[@anniecclarke9020]

Yes I want this as well

[@nunyabb]

I really hope hubby and I make it to see you Jimmy 2.14.25….🙏🏽

[@Ruth-vy1qj]

I love listening to Jimmy Evans and his wife. I also like listening to his guests. I'm single by choice. I'm still working on trust issues from past relationships, working on my goals, and having a more serious relationship with God. I also will tell people it nothing wrong to get educated in relationships. We go to college in our chosen field. Relationships are important. Many people were not taught about successful relationships or seen bad role models.

[@sonneversets3530]

Ask Jimmy how successful Doug Wei$$ 30 yr marriage to Lisa was. Another fellow marriage counselor.😂 And why he endorsed the divorce based on LIES & went ahead to marry Lisa’s husband to Joni Lamb...all very hushed & rushed. Hypocrisy is _nauseating!_ Ask jimmy if God destroys a marriage, just so He can ‘bless’ any widow w/someone else’s spouse? 🤔 Ask Karen if she can empathize at all w/Lisa & their kids (none of which showed for daddy’s 2nd big day). Since according to Doug & Jimmy, she turned from “Faithful & loving” to ‘abusive’, all along. Ask if either of them ever even attempted to talk to Lisa, to get her side...AND the truth! Let alone counseled Doug & Lisa to even try to save their 3 decades of marriage. You’d think between TWO marriage counselors of different types, that marriage could have been saved, if both were willing participants. 🤔 However, we realize that $230 Million $ JoniPot probably had just a tad bit of persuasion away from Lisa & all in for Day$tar. Their longtime friend Joni, just happened to go w/it. ;) With friends like that, Lisa sure doesn’t need any enemies. May God continue to expose the liars & deceivers of so many. And may fans like you have your eyes opened to them. These definitely are the days! *And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.* Matthew 19:9 Minor details to at least 2 ‘marriage counselors’. OH the irony...🤮

[@yuri_e83]

“you have to find your together purpose” 🔥🙌🏽

[@DriversFromHere]

1-Divorce is not an option 2-We will not go to bed while being angry 3-Never agree to disagree, solve it. 4-we will respect and celebrate each other in our différences. (Don’t tolerate or challenge. 5-Right to complain without being punished (not criticize) 6-We will be faithful. Unfaithful starts when your hearts goes away. 7-We will be accountable to our church and contribute… 8-We will make all our important decisions together and never bully each other. 9-prioritize our marriage 10-Expect disappointment, it’s happens!

[@sonneversets3530]

Except if you’re Jimmy’s good buddy, Dough Wei$$ 🤣

[@cynthiadelgado1317]

All you state is true, but being cheated on is a very serious matter that must be addressed immediately. There’s more to it than instantly forgiving. You will go to bed without acknowledging your spouse’s presence (ignoring). You’ve been hit by a freight train and shot with a machine gun all at once. “Get over it.” is not sound advice for the grieving spouse. Much Christian therapy is required in order to heal. Sometimes divorce is the only option. Marriage is like the saying, “It takes 2 to tango.” Yeshua was and is aware of what it takes to be married, tolerance being one of the most important factors in it. God must be first when 2 become one.

[@michellemybelle9591]

I thought the Bible said not to grumble or complain.

[@jaredshowers1]

@@michellemybelle9591 correct. That's why this makes not sense to me either

[@jaredshowers1]

@@sonneversets3530 go troll somewhere else.

[@edledezma4085]

I don't want a divorce until this day still trying to save our Marriage please Jesus tell my wife to help me Save our marriage

[@xelamom8]

Repentance. Repentance can stop a divorce.

[@sonneversets3530]

On top of wise council & God’s help. But don’t tell Jimmy, Dougie, or Joni that. Adultery is the preferred method here. $o $ad $o many are falling. But we were told they would be now. Pray for the lost & wayward to repent.

[@jaylentz8096]

My wife tried for a year and half to earn me back after her affair, she found God afterwards and I didn’t go to church so I continued rejecting her, the enemy has had such a strong hold on our marriage that I was hell bent on getting revenge against her and what cost, God has now given my wife the peace and healing to divorce me and now I’m fighting and trying to find my way to God to bring us together for us and our daughters

[@sjg5994]

Wow....

[@ReenaBINA]

I’m sorry man

[@terranovaestates7047]

This made me emotional as I'm in exactly the same boat as your wife. I am about at the point of also moving on as i can't take the punishment and the non forgiveness anymore. I have tried to show grace, be humble and loving even when I just get reminded of what I have done. I pray everyday for my husband heart to change and to come to God as I know we would have a great marriage. My husband is not innocent either. He has also hurt me in so many ways, but God has helped me to forgive him and forget. How much more grace do I have to give. Only God knows

[@rrivera1120]

Thank you for sharing!

[@nata9832]

I have watched many videos about marriage or relationships but this one is the best one. I learned a lot about my self and about my husband and I believe that by praying and by making Godly decisions we will make it to our happiness. Thank you Pastor Jimmy.

[@Ed-vi8lj]

Point 5. Totally agree We become defensive and that stops any real o n communication

[@Sunshinelife122]

Thank you needed to hear the word I have been standing for 2 yrs and in zero contact due to his infidelity despite at times I am frustrated and sad I keep my faith and listening to the word of God and his promises amen amen 🙏

[@sjg5994]

May God pour out His Spirit on your situation! I'm 2.5 years separated. Almost no contact except email for a divorce. I'm actually ok now. The joy of God is with me truly but after a long journey of giving my emotions to God. But I am 100% looking to God to resolve this quickly whichever way He sees best. I do pray for my husband's deliverance and blessings to know the Living God, but the way the enemy has caused sooooo many of us to be in this situation is very spiritual. Therefore, I've been seeking the Spirit of God to come and manifest His Power so there is no more hook of the enemy on what I have.

[@Sunshinelife122]

@@sjg5994 amen 🙏

[@sonneversets3530]

@@sjg5994 & Vicky: Very sorry for your circumstances. Please Pray for Lisa Weiss to be able to accept the betrayal of her husband Doug, her friend, Joni Lamb & Jimmy Evans, who gave their divorce after 30 yrs of marriage his blessings, & married Doug & Joni! Doesn’t seem he or Karen even attempted to get both sides, so the truth would come out. All Doug’s deception & lies... Guess being a fellow marriage counselor has it’s ‘passes’ among the brotherhood. *And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.* Matthew 19:9 Minor details to at least 2 ‘marriage counselors’. OH the irony...🤮 Please don’t continue to be sucked into deceivers. These are the days when sooo many are. But God is Faithful to expose them. Then it’s up to us, to either stick w/the deceivers, or w/God’s Word. May His Holy Spirit be allowed to help you choose wisely.🕊He is the giver of Discernment...So desperately needed in these ends days we’re immersed in.

[@Musikisbellatastic]

May you and your spouse allow God to work on your hearts to bring healing, forgiveness, & restoration. May God place a new song in your hearts and bring joy into your marriage. In Jesus' Name Amen.

[@Sunshinelife122]

@@Musikisbellatastic thank you amen in Jesus name I believe he has his timing thank thank you

[@sabrinatoglia4729]

The best marriage pastor!❤

[@sonneversets3530]

He took my reply to you down. No surprise. This probably won’t stay either. ;) Look into Doug Weiss & Joni lambs recent nose thumb wedding to God & Doug’s wife of 30 yrs, Lisa. That this guy not only supported, but officiated. The irony...both guys are ‘marriage counselors’! 😂 You may want to find one who actually honors God’s Word. He’s certainly not fooling Him.

[@incognitoriaanonymousita]

This was wonderful....if only my husband would.listen to this.

[@MJYouAreNotAlone1]

🙏❤️. God bless you and thank you!🙏❤️

[@nunyabb]

THANK YOU❤

[@WilliamFinley-i8s]

Have been married 12 years my wife wants a divorce I ask for prayers God blessed me with the best wife I could have asked for and I take it for granted I haven't been in church the way I should be I want God In my family and in my life I just hope God forgives me for all I've done wrong in my marriage I want to make it right so bad but I praise God for every second I've had with her even if I lose her I knew things were going bad and I did nothing I really hate myself right now

[@YOUnique2023]

Praying for healing and restoration for you and your family

[@jamespasteur3397]

don't hate yourself...correct yourself with Jesus.

[@samisanar4284]

Do not lose your hope, and the Lord, dear brother I pray for you good Lord may open your wife’s and all the people in the problems to see his light and the truth and understand solution is and his word that’s why Jesus said ask it will be giving to you But anime makes us believe divorces solution. Anything we do against the world of God for sure we all be regretting that’s why we need to be connected to our Lord and Savior Romans 828 says Lord will turn every situation for good of those who loves him don’t give up on your hop, the Lord, for sure he will help you and he will answer your prayer brother you will change the situation to blessing. He is the only one can do this. If you pray continually, he will do miracles for you Lord bless you give you his wisdom and guiding my dear brother.

[@freddavidson286]

Yes Ive been married for 43 years and I ve been praying and trusting god my wife wants a devorice it has been very hard hanging on to Jesus

[@angelamurphy75]

Find out what she needs from you and love her!!!!

[@stephenieblankenship5069]

Currently seperated as of yesterday. No work done all blame toward me. Emotional abuse. I'm disabled and it's taking a massive tole on my health..

[@katsato3118]

It's not your fault. Being in a relationship with a disabled person can be a great thing for the right person, and a "burden" to the wrong person. As the less able bodied person in our marriage (even though I pull equal if not more weight) I will tell you it's my opinion that selfish people would rather blame, nit pick, create imagined flaws in you...essentially demonize you because they can't simply say "I'm a selfish jerk that doesn't want a disabled spouse so I have to make up another reason." You are perfect, don't let him convince you that you are the sole problem.

[@alg375]

I would give anything to have a Godly marriage, I’ve been married to my husband for almost 29 years, we were not believers when we dated, I got pregnant before marriage, we married, we both had toxic backgrounds, I got saved about 5 years into the marriage, he got saved about 8 years after me, we raised our boys Christian, I made sure I took them to church and made sure they knew Jesus, both are married to good Christian women. I feel now especially since they are raised and we’re empty nesters it’s been especially hard. I felt like when they were home I fought harder. I’m so tired… we go to church faithfully, I pray, I read my Bible, I study God’s Word but we don’t pray together, he sings on the praise team, people think we’re good but we’re struggling. We can’t talk about issues without arguments, it seems nothing gets resolved, I’ve asked over the years to go to counseling, he doesn’t want to. He’s been to counseling himself for depression, he’s talked to Pastors about our issues but I’m never involved. He’s on a rollercoaster of emotions most of the time, since becoming a Christian over 22 years ago I have healed a lot but it’s hard to completely heal in a toxic environment, trust me I have begged God to help me, to put love in my heart, I have forgiven, and I feel I’m always wandering what mood he’ll be in. I have contemplated separation for awhile to see if that would open his eyes to counseling and help. If I try to share my thoughts, feelings or opinions then everything gets turned on me and I’m the problem, as I’ve told him many times, I own my issues and there’s not a day that passes that I’m not trying hard to be better but when you’re constantly feeling like you’re on an emotional rollercoaster on a regular basis it’s hard. It takes 2 to make a marriage work and it takes 2 to break a marriage, it takes work from both people but I’m so tired from years of trying with no solutions. I’m looking into just getting some counseling myself. I wish our church had professional counseling, I would go in a heart beat, my problem is I have no idea who to go to for help.

[@sonneversets3530]

I’m sorry. Seems you need to do some homework & focus there, instead of on him, which is just going to upset you. Look up Christian counselors in your area. It’s a start. I would think a pastor your husband saw would have requested to have you go too. Even if just a few times. So don’t go to that guy. See if he will pray w/you at night. Even a short prayer. Just say, ‘honey, I would like to pray before we go to bed/sleep. Would you join me please?’ Then, you get to hold hands too. ;) If he says no, then pray aloud w/o him. Let him lay there & listen to you. Keep it short & full of gratitude. Thank Him for blessing you w/your Salvation, 29 yrs of marriage, His Grace & Mercy new each day, your sons, their wives & Salvation. Thank His Holy Spirit for His guidance daily & drawing you both nearer to Christ & each other. Ask Him to walk w/you both daily & bless your days w/love. OK, so that may not turn out too short, but it’s all positive & thankful. And that’s all good. You’re not dwelling on your marital problems, but thankful for the marriage & your boys & whatever blessings that have come from it during your time together... Your home, health, good friends, family.... Pray something thankful aloud each night whether he joins you or not. After a week or 2, if he hasn’t joined, you may want to ask him if he has anything he’s thankful for that he’d like to add. And just agree w/him on whatever he may say. And end it there. At the start of each day, put on your armor! If you don’t have it memorized, then Read Eph 6:10-20 *aloud* every single day, before you get it started. Once you have it memorized from saying it enough, you can say it aloud before you even hit the floor. And say it in the car driving, & whenever else you need to be reminded of all it encompasses. Speaking of car, do you have a Christian radio station? Put it on & listen every time you’re driving. You have ear buds? I don’t, but many do...Tune in to Christian worship music. Tune into it here on YT. There’s so many good praise/worship songs! *You’ll be uplifted* & God _Loves_ to be praised! There’s even beautiful instrumental praise music on YT. David Nevue, & Terry MacAlmon are just 2 you will probably love. They’re both on YT. Check out Chris Tomlin, Michael W. Smith, David & Nicole Binion, CeCe Wynans, & Natalie Grant... Just Worship Him! *Guaranteed lifting of your Spirit!* _Don’t_ focus on your marital problems. _Focus on Jesus._ Leave your husband & marriage in His capable hands. Tell Him that’s what you’re doing, b/c you trust Him to do right by it & both of you. And then just let His Spirit lead you. 🕊 Don’t nag your husband about anything, at all. Just be as positive & God like loving toward him as God helps you be. Show by example & ask God to lead & give you the strength to do so. *Join a woman’s study & prayer group.* Be it in your church, or another. There’s prayer & study groups in several churches. Find one of each & go. You will meet other women to connect with, who will lift you, pray w/you & a study will help you grow in Christ, too. You’ll have fellowship then with others...those who may not go to your church, so that may be a plus for you. Get together for lunches, movies. Don’t wait to be invited. Invite one or 2 you like/feel connected to on you own. Ask God to bring strong, Godly women to fellowship with, into your life. He will. But you have to put yourself out there in a study/prayer group, so He can. ...Speaking of movies...Please go see ‘Sound of Freedom’. Very important movie to see/support. Tell your church about it. Get ppl together & go! Church groups have gone to see it here. It’s a problem that needs exposure, prayer & ppl to reach out in their communities to help. If your husband doesn’t want to go w/you, go w/others who want to go. Don’t not do something, or go somewhere b/c he doesn’t want to. Go/do w/o him. When you enjoy yourself away from the stress/toxicity at home, you will be a different person. And he’ll notice that. But you want to do it for you, not him. That’s just going to be an added bonus. ;) Is he on meds for his depression? If not, maybe he should be. There’s so many new ones out now. No shame in needing some help getting through it. Read Psalm 46. Read a Psalm a day. Are you familiar w/David Jeremiah? He’s excellent! Have his sermons come to your inbox. Not sure if he’s on YT. Go for a walk each day. Take a friend you may meet, or one you already know. Add more to your walks if you want to. Walking is an all around beneficial thing to do. It will lift you, help you feel better physically, get yourself in better shape, lose a few extra pounds you may have...if you walk at a regular pace. Not a leisurely stroll. A good walk. Work your way up to longer as you get physically stronger, if you’re out of shape. If alone, another time to listen to worship music. Leave one bud out, so you can hear around you, too. I’d suggest a dog...even a smaller one, if you like them & would have the time for one. Doesn’t need to be a puppy. Plenty of adult dogs already housebroken & even basic trained, need homes, too. I only adopt/rescue adults now. A loving dog around could help your husband come around, too. They’re known to help w/moods & depression in people. They force ppl out to walk them. ;) Their Love is unconditional, 24/7/365. They’re God’s reminders to us on how we should all treat each other daily. Dog is God spelled backwards for a reason... Consider one. You’ll be amazed at the number of new ppl you’ll meet having one, too. Walking a dog has strangers talking to you all the time. Can be an opportunity to share Jesus w/someone who needs to know Him. Talk about a mood booster! You’ll never feel so good, as when you open that Salvation door for another person. God will use you plenty, if you ask Him to & then open yourself to it. Your husband will hopefully want to walk it too. That will get him out & moving more than he may otherwise, helping boost his mood. As things get better w/your prayers separately & together, you may walk the dog together. They should be walked twice daily. Or more, if you want to. Aside from playing w/them. Maybe you could ask him to please walk the dog, if you can’t b/c you’ll be at a study or prayer, or fellowship. Although I was able to bring my dog w/me to studies & some fellowships, depending on what we were doing. Everyone loved her. She was our little mascot. (No longer w/us) 😔 But if you’re out for a bit & he’s home, you can ask him to take the dog out. That will be the start of him doing it more & him benefiting from it as well. Then maybe as things are less tense, you may be able to start walking together w/the dog. Walk it alone for one of the walks & then together for the other. Just don’t discuss your problems. Keep your time together a more positive experience. A dog in tow will help keep things lighter between you. Men are different than women in the sense that they don’t want to open up like women do. They need to feel safe in doing so. Not interrupted w/rebuttals & defense. They need to be heard out. Then, not hear back...’but _you always...or you do_ such & such.’ That puts them on defense quick. And shut down mode. If/when he wants to talk about anything... _listen fully w/o interruption, & defensiveness._ He’ll be more apt to talk, if he feels ‘safe’ to do so. And a dog may help switch things & the mood in your home up enough to pull him out. Just remember, dogs are for life! Don’t get one if you won’t keep it forever. Well this sure went on longer than planned.😂 These are things that will help you move in a different direction. All positives. You seem like you’re dwelling a lot on your problems & marriage issues. You would benefit a lot from doing homework solo & bringing yourself up w/Jesus help. Focus on the 2 of you,(Jesus & you) instead of the 2 of you in a frustrating marriage. Give you & your husband a break from that. Leave it w/God. He hates divorce. We know this. He is the Great restorer. We know that, too. So leave it in His very capable hands. I will keep you in prayer as you work on turning yourself around & starting fresh w/you & Jesus.🙏 Keep me posted. 😁

[@amandameyer2206]

I'm sorry for the struggle you are going through. I can relate to some of the things you mentioned. God led me to Leslie Vernick. She has many extremely helpful resources online. Her resources will encourage, strengthen, support, and show you how to live well in a marriage that seems one-sided. Highly recommend ❤🙏

[@danieljones7225]

It starts with obedience to God's word on your part in marriage as husband and wife..

[@jaredshowers1]

@@alg375 but it only takes one to love.

[@jaredshowers1]

@@sonneversets3530 are you a professional counselor?

[@MrGoBlue3333]

To God be the glory! I love my wife Kori! We WILL WIN!

[@sonneversets3530]

Praise God! Too bad you weren’t the one ‘counseling’ Doug Weiss w/his divorce after 30 yrs from his “loving & Faithful” wife, Lisa. Instead, he was given Jimmy’s blessings & officiated the adulterous wedding of him to Joni Lamb. Never got both sides of things w/Lisa. And perpetuated Doug’s lies about her, leading millions to believe his “Faithful & loving wife”, suddenly turned ‘abusive’ for years, when Marcus died. Hush hush, Rush, rush to the alter. Marcus wasn’t even cold when ‘close friend Doug, for many years’ (as Joni called him) swooped in to capture Joni & more importantly, Day$tar, for his own. Imagine how Lisa feels. Her own friend, her own husband betraying her like that?! And then good ‘ole jimmy on top of it all. You’d think at least Joni would pause, doing that to ‘a friend’ from years back. I’m sure Marcus would approve, though. Being he was friends w/Doug as well. Let’s keep it all amongst friends, shall we? Wonder why Doug’s kids weren’t there to support their ‘abused’ dads 2nd biggest day at the alter? All the Lambs were. You’d think they’d be so happy for emotionally beat up dad, finally finding true love! Odd, I thought body builders egos were so huge, they easily brushed aside any emotional abuse attempts, via the women in their lives. Doug being an ex professional builder, who preened so well on stages. Looks like he whipped Joni in better shape before he married her. Wonder how he’ll react if, by chance, she ever ‘turns him down’. Since the couple times I heard him puking out advice on his ‘Heart to Heart’ Ministry, he liked making the woman ‘the heavy’ for sexual problems in marriages. I was immediately turned off by his arrogance. Sadly all his clients he made millions off of, are now shell shocked & feeling quite betrayed. As they should be. Being he also deceived them into believing he was still happily married after he was divorced, so he could marry Joni, ASAP. Failed to ever mention it. Or the fact that he filed for divorce as soon as his ‘friend’ Marcus, hit the dirt. All good by Jimmy. Who apparently believes we’re all too stupid to see the obvious. Including God, since he too, just dissed His Holy Word, for his ‘friends’ happiness. Can you say major hypocrite? SMH No more $upporting ppl who blatantly condone sin against God & His Word. No matter how he twists the narrative to suit, Jimmy’s massive failure here, has exposed him for the phony he is. God said He would be exposing much deception & deceivers in these End of End Days. And even the elect will be deceived, by it all, if possible. Don’t continue to be one of them. *And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.* Matthew 19:9 Minor details to at least 2 ‘marriage counselors’. OH the irony...🤮

[@jaredshowers1]

@@sonneversets3530 you have to much time on your hands for all this. 😂😂 Omg.

[@RS-ov2st]

You have to have a willing partner. If your teammate is against you, you get nowhere. If their determined against you your over.

[@timlucasentertainment]

Incredible!

[@sonneversets3530]

Especially since he recently wed Doug Weiss & Joni Lamb!🤮 *And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.* Matthew 19:9 Backed up Doug’s lies about Lisa, being abusive & said, ‘go for it!’ And Doug did! Ole Marcus was barely cold. All were friends... Doesn’t get much sicker... Maybe they all forgot... *God will not be mocked!* Prayers for poor Lisa...3x betrayed! Can’t imagine.

[@WorldTNZ]

Jimmy, did you counsel Lisa Weiss about her divorce with Doug?

[@hollikrebs]

Most of these elements are missing in a marriage in crisis and a lot of people aren’t willing to submit to these very godly principles. Sad but true

[@TripleGAutoDetailing]

EPIC 👏

[@incognitoriaanonymousita]

Thank you Jesus for Bible based Christian marriage principles and for Pastor Evans and his wife.

[@incognitoriaanonymousita]

I.need these things on a poster in my house.

[@bf6048]

Excellent message.

[@margotaylor6157]

Always!! Love him

[@sonneversets3530]

@@margotaylor6157 Lost all respect w/his hypocrisy in supporting a lying, deceiving adulterer, remarrying for d$tar. Total abomination. More suffering the Great Falling Away under the thickening clouds of deception, daily. Scary stuff to witness. Don’t keep getting suck in by false teachers in these End of End Days. God warned us all. Heed His Word. Not this fake.

[@lesliem5617]

Great if you have a spouse that is a believer and can admit they're wrong.

[@femmesaufront9005]

I believe God has sincere compassion. He understands you...more than you know. May He comfort you and raise you above the clouds and into His loving arms.

[@parvinacouture]

Exactly my thought, when you have 2 people who are willing to work it out.

[@joannawofford]

Amen yes Sir

[@cynthiawlaughlin5435]

So if they shut down emotionally and physically and financially then start looking at other women or comparing me to other women how do I handle that?

[@RS-ov2st]

Coulda, woulda , shoulda. Your speaking of a couple working together. What about when your spouse won’t anything? Doesn’t acknowledge fault, rejects you. Won’t stop, don’t care, is a narcissist? Someone who just isn’t and will never be? It cannot always be worked out.

[@smartcookie3500]

Who picked 'em???

[@JeannieMaxwell-jj3wi]

Jimmy, can you help me understand what happened to Doug weiss the marriage counselor, how is that ok?

[@sonneversets3530]

Don’t ask him. He’s removing posts that call him out. Same is happening on Joni’s end. All rainbows & roses narratives. Nothing else allowed. *”And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.”* Matthew 19:9 Minor details... Stop supporting liars & phonies. I stopped my support of both.

[@jaredshowers1]

@@sonneversets3530 stop all these comments too. Omg.

[@Sukii2u]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@danielledanielle4220]

Amen 🙏🏿

[@goodnesschidimma326]

May Almighty God forbid divorce in my marriage, it will never be once mentioned in my marriage no matter what by the grace of God

[@sonneversets3530]

Don’t worry, jimmy will condone it & even remarry you, if the price is right. Look what he did for Doug Wei$$ & Joni! Word of God be darned! Pray for Doug’$ poor wife of 30 yrs, Lisa. She was faithful. He wa$ greedy. Jimmy was willingly deceived. They will reap what they’ve sown.

[@hm144]

I would rather pray - no to divorce and please do not do things to encourage divorce. Unrepentant adultery & violence - I come from an African background - where these things are almost normalised and after giving one STDs ( sexually transmitted diseases) people will still quote - God hates divorce

[@jaredshowers1]

What are you even talking about?? ​@@sonneversets3530

[@milliewilliams4788]

In Jesus Christ Name🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@all_mine1233]

Not an abusive marriage to someone that doesn’t wanna change.

[@hollikrebs]

This is so beautifully true biblically and I wish I had this kind of marriage. But why did you ok Doug Weiss divorcing his wife. It’s just wrong.

[@Brittany-c7h]

My husband said he is leaving me because I don't want to have intercourse anymore. I love him more than that. I thought he loved me the same. Guess 13 years means nothing. He said he would always be there for me. He told me today the day before Thanksgiving. How sad is that?

[@LsbLsb-w8v]

If you and Karen worked out your marriage for the good to Honor God Almighty, how come Doug and Lisa didn't work out their marriage conflict? Or did Doug want something better where he can get more public attention to hear himself talk and watch the monitor while he's hearing himself to make sure he's looking good to everyone watching online? How is divorce justified to marry another when there is no adultry?

[@sonneversets3530]

Don’t ask Jimmy. Quite the hypocrite. Rules for thee...supporter. So sad to be watching the Great Falling Away among so many supposed ‘leaders’ of others. But God warned us there would be, didn’t He? Lost all respect for this guy, adulterer Joni, D$tar. Can’t watch for 2 min now. Abomination keeps SCREAMING at me. Withdrawn all $upport. Not that they needed it, w/their $230 Million Doug married. Never had any respect for Doug Wei$$. They will all reap what they’ve sown. Prayers for Lisa. 🙏Triply betrayed.

[@mommacita2069]

Awww 😍😍😍

[@williewhite169]

We will never go to bed angry, instead we will just argue all night. A counselor is never to solve any problem. This is unethical, even if the person is “Godly.” A counselor is to provide constructive tools to assist the individuals in resolving conflict. Being in a community of church folks does not save anything. The marriage of 50% of so-called Christians believers end in divorce.

[@rebekkahpennington5679]

Jimmy tell us what happened to Lisa Weiss? Was she guilty of fornification? How did you bless Doug leaving his wife for Joni ? Need to know- all of us that have followed you. My heart breaks for Lisa.

[@danilaroche1156]

I have a bad feeling about Doug and Joni marrying.

[@sonneversets3530]

The truth is out there on YT...warts & all. Doug lied about Lisa...called her abusive...Jimmy backed it on TT. Next you know, he marries them. So much for him vetting the liar, before blessing him. SMH He files for divorce right after Marcus death? All of a sudden, his “Faithful, loving wife” has actually been ‘abusive’ for years? NONE of Doug’s clients getting marriage counseling are aware of any trouble at all, & he LIES further, telling them he’s still happily married, when he was *divorced!* HELLO Jimmy??? No red flags for you dear? Or, I guess just no ‘red flags’ among friends. 🤔 Joni openly admitted their ‘close’ friendship for years & he was on the scene to ‘comfort’ them almost immediately. Probably beat out Jimmy! 😂 Did Jimmy even try to talk to Lisa at all? He knows there’s ALWAYS 2 sides! _Shameful!_ Or, shameless...however you want to see it. _Absolutely Godless._ No getting around that. Not even w/rose colored glasses. Not enough lipstick for that pig they’re parading around w/wings, hoping it will fly. You’d think Joni wouldn’t do that to someone else’s wife, she referred to as ‘friend’. Especially since she was hurt by Marcus years ago. Guess she wanted to have a taste of that side for herself. No way does God take another woman’s husband of 30yrs & give him to any widow. No matter how you try to dress it. Jimmy just lost my total respect. As has Joni. *Withdrew my $upport from both.* No way will I endorse blatant $in from any ‘Christians’ hiding from & _twisting_ Gods Word to suit. Keep exposing them Father! *You’re **_always_** faithful.* Even when we’re not. And *You will **_NOT_** be mocked!* *And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.* Matthew 19:9 Minor details to at least 2 ‘marriage counselors’. OH the irony...🤮

[@sonneversets3530]

@@danilaroche1156 You, & many others who are voicing themselves. Just not here, or on anything to do w/D$tar or Joni. All being removed. Only the supporters of adulterers are acceptable. SMH *God will not be mocked!*

[@JeannieMaxwell-jj3wi]

So glad I'm not the only one seeing this hypocrisy. Removed my support from daystar also.

[@rebekkahpennington5679]

@@JeannieMaxwell-jj3wi hello - it’s so obvious in your face wrong- I can’t figure out why men and women of God are not confronting this? Prayers for Lisa W. Doug’s wife.

[@g-balll]

These people honor Me with their lips, but their hearts are far from Me. Mathew 15:8 For there is nothing hidden that will not be disclosed, and nothing concealed that will not be made known and brought to light. Luke 8:17 The time is coming when everything that is covered up will be revealed, and all that is secret will be made known to all. Whatever you have said in the dark will be heard in the light, and what you have whispered behind closed doors will be shouted from the housetops for all to hear! Luke 12:2-3 The Lord is exposing all of Daystar’s corruption and wickedness and all their spiritual abuse.

[@shelleydawn-l3n]

Your hilarious 😅😂😂

[@worldtraveler303]

🙏🏿

[@pamelasurratt9479]

So good

[@sonneversets3530]

Doug Weiss & Joni Lamb...wed by Jimmy recently. Sooo bad... *And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.* Matthew 19:9 *God will not be mocked!* Nor does He take a husband from his 30 marriage away from his faithful wife, & bless any widow w/him, before her own husband is barely cold in his grave. 🤮 Did I mention they were all friends? Listen to someone who’s not a phony.

[@slv8581]

It’s too late for me. Hopefully God can save other people’s marriages.

[@sonneversets3530]

Too late for Lisa Weiss, too. Jimmy thought it was just fine to condone her husband Doug tossing her after 30 yrs, for Joni Lamb he married recently. Yup, no adulterers there. Only in Gods eyes...and Word. Why would jimmy care about such minor details when it comes to friends, though? This probably won’t stay, since he’s removing anyone calling him out. Like they’re doing for Joni at D$tar, too. ;)

[@davidclawson6527]

Sorry

[@davidclawson6527]

Sorry

[@annanthalouw4403]

Why didnt you gave this advice ti your friend Dough Weis

[@myneighborhood3466]

We are doing all of it wrong. So if you read my comment and you are doing it right tell me so I may believe he is not just telling me theories 😢

[@charlesbell5500]

Great sermon, Jimmy! But you need to use more examples of women being the assholes when you're telling counselling stories. You're too biased towards women.

[@cyndisalinas1648]

The Body of Christ needs to wake up to the true meaning of what God truly says in the HEBREW regarding divorce. The TRANSLATION of the Bible. Not an interpretation. At least 75% of the Body of Christ the true Church is being misled. An abusive marriage does not bring glory to God and there is an out. STUDY THE SCRIPTURE AND BE SET FREE.

[@maryhelen7734]

Jimmy, I'm not sure what you are really teaching. Hope you listen to the Holy Spirit & change your double minded ways of teaching. I am wondering why you did not use this advice to help Doug & Lisa Weiss save their marriage? This would have stopped the adulterous affair your sister Joni & Doug were having, which led to their marriage that has no biblical backing. Please stop with leading so many people astray.

[@bribricruise3256]

Unless you know for certian Doug & Joni were having an affair, it is not right to slander them. As christians we will give an account for the words we speaks. Also, God calls us not to slander Proverbs 20:19 - “He who goes about as a slanderer reveals secrets, therefore do not associate with a gossip.”

[@glendabenefield1078]

I have the same question.

[@cindymckenzie3002]

You too much with your double standards

[@StevenRay64]

Pay Jimmy some money and he'll save your marriage!

[@sonneversets3530]

Or, condone adultery & marry ppl that shouldn’t be. Doug Weiss & Joni Lamb.🤮 We’ll just ignore what God says...It’s all good!

[@joannawofford]

Amen yes Sir

[@sonneversets3530]

Sad it wasn’t a ‘yes’ for Doug Wei$$ his Faithful wife of 30 yrs, Lisa. Never bothered to see if Doug’$ marriage was really in the toilet, before he jumped in to counsel Doug & Joni to get them moving on fast fwd to their ungodly, adulterous union.🤔 Maybe since ‘Dr wei$$’ had at least $230 Million $ reason$ to chuck Lisa, that was good enough for Doug. Total abomination, all around. Ask God to lead you to a real man, who follows His Word, you can actually rely on, not to falter, when ‘friends’ come calling for favors & approval. It’s GOS’s Word & approval that matter. Not secular men & women who step away & try to justify it, to suit themselves. All on dangerous ground. These truly are the End of End Days. The Great Falling Away is infecting those you’d never think. Don’t follow any fallen man. Stick w/Christ.✝