I am in the US too. Upper middle class will usually help their kids with college tuition these days. Parents who can't help are mostly because they don't have the money. However, parents do not expect anything in return from their kids at old age. We save up for our own retirement. Adult children who move back to their parent's home usually pay rent and contribute towards family expenses. I am going to have my kid pay part of his college tuition, so he doesn't take things for granted.
要別人去愛自己才懂得去愛,結果還是會一樣,因為對方一定有他的創傷而不會表達愛。 好好愛自己,聽從自己內心。治癒父母帶給自己的當年的創傷。 他們真的不愛?還是做不到你想要的而已?他們都是第一次為人父母,錯也正常..而你也很好🫶🏻,只是別人不會表達,因為他們都有他們的舊傷疤。 成績,外貌,性格..都不能定義一個人,這只是世俗定下的框架,你不一樣,你不一定是錯..好好欣賞你自己,you are the best。每個人都是最好的人❤️