Divorce: The Last Resort {Jumu'ah Khutbah} | Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi

[@hamzahussain9683]

We're not gonna talk about the sick rhymes Sh Yasir dropped at the beginning of the khutbah?? Straight fire masha'allah 🔥🔥🔥

[@21972012145525]

But I miss the Arabic that starts the khutba

[@21972012145525]

E. Postbode I wish he did it post Arabic. I love the way that Friday khutba starts in Arabic

[@Kamal_AL-Hinai]

Bro that was lit 🔥🔥🔥

[@mnizam84]

What a beautiful religion we have.. Thank Allah u made me Muslim

[@mosaad6646]

great lecture. I hope my wife will watch this video and will tranquille. I love her. Please make Dua...

[@madamedarlene]

What a beautiful lecture. So insightful and so well said. MashAllah💚🤲🏼

[@lauraandlisa381]

Masha Allah. As always, Sheikh Yasir Qadhi is my hero for guidance in our Era. So pragmatic. May Allah bless him and his family. Ameen.

[@idrissuleiman5269]

Masha Allahu. I enjoys listening to it from Nigeria. That is the greatest problem we are facing in Nigeria. Over 80% marriages has being collapsing in northern Nigeria

[@dahabka5900]

Is very hard to let it go the one you loved the most and see your kids not happy 😭😭😭 ya Allah

[@edisacerimic4044]

@Dahabka, this is what I am going through, I don't know what to do, I ask Allah swta to help, ameen. May Allah make it easy for you too, and all of us who is going through, or went...Ya Allah help, please.

[@simihoque802]

For me, the Highlight of the lecture was when he said, show Allah that you can stay apart from your wife in the same house without hugging and kissing her for 3 months and then proceed to the next step. Beautiful wisdoms in working with human psychology that Allah created, SubhanaAllah! Jazakallah khair!

[@novaheads]

What if they want 3 months living apart like my ex wife wanted? I told her that if she leaves the home it’s over. She left 10 days later. I can’t call someone my spouse when they live apart.

[@tanzilaleeya]

@@novaheads what if u get kickec out. I got kicked out with my two little girls and I'm iddah now

[@sahaamali6547]

I learned a lot our religion is so beautiful

[@unitarian571]

Mashallah sheikh u explained it concisely

[@farzanaparveen2299]

1. Communicate 2. Get help from others 3. Court room - one person from wife side and one person from husband side (officially binding) they should have to tell you wat to do 4. Salathul isthihara Fiq 1. Women is not in her monthly cycle 2. Doesn’t have intercourse with her in last month between the cycle 3. Divorce when you are patient 4. Dont give triple talaq at a time and it’s advisable to wait for 3 to 6 months between each talaq 5. Women should stay at his home not even touching are kissing or touching. If they kiss thats like remarried 6. When she is leaving give her gift whatever you can

[@sanaaakhtar]

Such a beautiful and insightful lecture. Thank you Sheikh Yasir Qahdi, may Allah swt grant us all with loving, caring, kind, righteous spouse and children that will be the coolness of our eyes, and us to them. Inshallah Ameen 🤲🏼❤️

[@khurshidparray8177]

How interesting and informative was this lecture of yours dear Dr. Yasir Q. Allah bless you with more knowledge protect you.

[@skywalker477]

Such a wonderful lecture, what a beautiful religion, how lucky we women are , and Alhamdulilah Alhamdulilah that we have such scholar Whoever wants to have a peaceful marriage MUST follow what shaykh said Jazakallaho khairan

[@sayedajabeen]

SubanAllah 😇dis speech is speechless,no words to praise it ,such a beautiful Islam is and how great is Allah for his grace to peoples he send in world ❤️SubanAllah,SubanAllah..........🌹

[@ruhidesadiku202]

Allahu të shperbleft me Xhennet. Amin

[@al-shadatbantala4988]

Get married with pure intentions and right motives. That is to complete the half of your Deen, not to find wealth out of pleasures from different spouses/men.

[@ahmedsattar1359]

Often culture makes us take idiotic decisions wish more people understood the Sharia of Allah. Well said Shaikh mashallah.

[@ummibraheem2738]

How profound this lecture is! سبحان الله may be all the married couples should listen to it to educate themselves as it also touches the male and female differences as well as the divorce law.

[@Mansurblogznani]

☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️

[@onestar4077]

ماشاءاللہ

[@abubakr3290]

Salam cheikh umar yasir thanks to Allah that bring this uma our cheikh yasir always speak on point may Allah bless you and your family your speech is life saver. 👍

[@SG-nu7go]

Imam it’s all good when both parties try to keep the marriage going but lately it is usually one side trying and trying until they are nothing but a shell. I think 3 years is enough time to know if you need to leave.

[@Als1822]

good point. it should be an effort made by both the parties. usually women get told to have sabr and keep her home lool

[@ehtishamamin5601]

@@Als1822 thats an over generalised statement.

[@21972012145525]

Als it is not lol. It’s not funny at all

[@surayaabdul5216]

3 years is wayyy too short of a time.

[@majidkhan89]

It really depends on the seriousness of the issue. 3 years is a long time and can be difficult for the spouse who is actually trying to make it work. Personally I divorced my wife after a year. She wasn't trying to make it work or showed any interest from the beginning. I knew my rights and I divorced her. Not proud of that decision. But had to be done.

[@fidouhussain7801]

Masha Allah subhanallah powerful speech

[@fathimashanaz4412]

Jazakallah khair Sheikh

[@antoifiabdoulhalik9084]

BarakAllahu fikoum. Slip of the tongue to be corrected on the video using subtitle at 31:09: Zubayr ibn al Awam (instead of Abdullah ibn Zubayr). JazakAllahu khayran.

[@msfy-q4w]

Subhanallah, how beautiful our religion is ! And how unlucky are we not have learned it

[@gboltman9563]

SHUKRAN FROM MY HEART.... ALGAMDULLILLAH WELL EXPLAINED.... TRY YOUR BEST TO UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER ...ALLWAYS APPRECIATE THE GOOD POINTS....GIVE IT A 97% IT'S EASY TO OBTAIN THE REST ...BLAME YOU !! YOURSELF FOR THE REST... GYRUNESIA STRANDFONTEIN SOUTH AFRICA😊🙏

[@nazeefkhanhayat]

JAZAKALLAH KHAIRA

[@lightuponlight6024]

Salams! Your family’s involvement can increase your problems if you share it with the people who are involved and are part of the issue. Be careful.

[@basselmalek1]

If you live in a country where that emergency exit is coated with gold and every incentive for one side, the threat of divorce is even higher......

[@zafarkhan6074]

VERY WELL PRESENTED

[@e.k874]

its a first resort for individuals facing physical harm or mental

[@Als1822]

exactly

[@ehtishamamin5601]

Physical i get. What do you mean by mental?

[@e.k874]

@@ehtishamamin5601 like mentally abusing ur spouse black mailing them your family always putting them down.

[@ehtishamamin5601]

@@e.k874 you can always confront them about it and get someone involved from your family and i don't mean i am strictly against divorce but it shouldn't be the first resort in any situation.

[@AtharAfzal]

@@ehtishamamin5601 mental abuse are things like gaslighting, narcissistic, belittling, putting the lithe individual down, rudeness, looking with hatred, ignoring, etc. These are psychologically damaging to an individual. It's like a one way relationship.

[@karthala6676]

A husband is not behaving like one in the Islamic sense. He doesn’t want to divorce but happy to keep his wife in a cage. What to do?

[@mariyamshifa2260]

👌👌👍👍

[@ingevandegehuchte]

A Gazelle shall Never be the lasting Muse nor Beloved one of the Cheetah , as the latter Only lust for the Flesh ... ! So Always Test the Spirit at first or as my Own regained Wisdom , ;-)

[@novaheads]

Wife divorced me because I am too “controlling”. I just didn’t like her drinking alcohol for her own good. She was mad about this. I knew deep down I don’t want a wife that does not recognize good intentions and instead takes it as controlling

[@abeershaikh5180]

😢

[@21972012145525]

Please make a Q&A video on how a Muslim woman can utilize a legal separation in the US? Instead of a divorce? With the Islamic ruling and permissibility around this?

[@Nafshadow]

Al hamde li Allah.

[@Als1822]

is divorce still last resort in case of physical and emotional abuse? this needs to be addressed too

[@Als1822]

@E. Postbode because its important

[@ehtishamamin5601]

yes if the abuser won't stop and does not agree on divorce than the Judge has the authority to break the marriage.

[@كهعيص-ظ5ص]

💚

[@simbamufasa4710]

Dear Sheikh, I have a huge problem. My wife and I are divorced, but we still live under the same roof ,separately just for the sake of the children. The problem is, that one of my chid is a special need and my X-wife doesn't have a place to live. And I'm not the type of coward men who throw their divorced wives & children from home. Her siblings live in a different State. A lot of men have evil behaviors. They get negative advantage of divorced women. Especially in 3rd world countries..even in western countries. I'm beyond confusion. I don't know what to do. Please help. Thank you.

[@Bhagatsinghamarrahe]

31:09 it's Zubair Ibn alawwam and not Abdullah Ibn Zubair. And asma is zubairs wife and Abdullah's mom May Allah bless Shaikh immensely ❤️ Aameen

[@natylino121]

What about for a revert sister or brother what can they bring?

[@hussain26049321]

What was the verse at the end.

[@michaelzinbar9626]

Please sheik Y.Q we need a khutba about Muslims living in the West as ALOT off females are cheating behind their Husbands back, and they think saying sorry will make things ok, and the khutba should be about a cheating spouse and what is the punishment on judgement day

[@sk-ec4co]

sorry what....Only women cheat??? I would argue that men are more prone to cheating on their spouses.

[@karthala6676]

How about a situation where the couple hasn’t had any marital relationships for years?

[@sk-ec4co]

if someone rights are not being fulfilled here...e.g being denied physical relationship then that can be ground for complaints.

[@arafakadir1611]

About divorce it really focus on the Man I would like to hear the female part how does she get divorced and how she remarry can a divorcee woman remarry her self?

[@cihanlifestyle]

@yasir qadhi and the idda period of a pregnant woman is until the child is born right? So idda can take several months as well right??

[@shelimakaafzal932]

Whichever comes first , if 3 cycles then that otherwise birth

[@cihanlifestyle]

@@shelimakaafzal932 what is with this: seekersguidance.org/answers/shafii-fiqh/etiquettes-going-divorce/ they say the husband should not stay at home during idda because it is as if she is divorced so all rulings apply: awrah, khalwa and so on... a bit confusing

[@21972012145525]

shelimakaafzal ???women don’t have their period when they’re pregnant

[@shelimakaafzal932]

@@21972012145525 yeah , you calculate 3 cycles , so in terms of timeframe so 3 cycles may take around 3 months more or less average , that or birth u compare

[@21972012145525]

shelimakaafzal no. I have heard if she’s pregnant, divorce doesn’t occur until after delivery. If she’s not pregnant, then you do the three cycles. But I’m not a sheikh or scholar. Need verification

[@quickrecipes8651]

👍🏻👍🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻

[@sameeraboobacker3599]

🤲

[@AmmarKhan-vs2ti]

What if a man said divorce to his wife many times out of anger What if he says Talaaq Talaaq many times during a period of 1 years They love each other So what shariah says And what should be done now Pls reply

[@paulamoon2588]

What do you mean as a gift ? In most counties , legally woman has de right to be given the half of everything ... soooo a gift ?

[@shahadaali2036]

Does apply to the second marriage same as the first marriage .

[@queenbeyonce1538]

Obviously

[@asiyahlovesyou3394]

Bismi Allah any funds

[@leylawarsame2444]

Brothers please advice me my house never pay bills never buy me any thing not even in his mind never paid to mudrassa (Quran) never work better jobs but do some few hrs cup driving for his needs only I work part time, look after children, the house work you imaging anything else I have been trying to sort out things for years but never worked He also never agreed to third party to intervene what so ever Now iam so tired and don't communicate with him just we like stranger to each other because he is not changing anything

[@21972012145525]

May Allah swt help you and guide you to whatever is best for you and your family

[@Als1822]

leave

[@21972012145525]

Leyla Warsame can you speak to any of his family members? Someone who will be sympathetic to your position?

[@leylawarsame2444]

@@21972012145525 he doesn't listen to any one the relatives he had in the country are not his father mother or brothers and sisters but they are aunt and ankle and others but they said he may some how not completely ok so if I leave him a what about the children they said

[@Als1822]

@@leylawarsame2444 leave his ass

[@zahrayasin3281]

Will marriage break by wife pronouncing talaq or thought it in mind?

[@WaseemMuhammedIlyas]

Gift other than mahr?

[@unitarian571]

Yes, mahr is the property of wife from the very first day, Its mentioned in Quran to give some money according to ur status

[@vinnyperez3648]

33.19

[@syedahossain8336]

AssalamuAlaikum wrwb. How can I contact with Dr. Qadhi. Or any email address of Dr Qadhi. Jajak Allah Khairan Kathira!

[@jameelahamed3044]

Beginning Nasheed??

[@nawaazy]

Where in the Quran is the verse which states if both spouses want the marriage to work Allah will bring about a mechanism to make the marriage work? 32:55 Nevermind. I found it

[@August14th1947]

Salaam, would you mind sharing these verse/s?

[@nawaazy]

@@August14th1947 An-Nisaa 4:35

[@August14th1947]

@@nawaazy Jazak Allah

[@nawaazy]

BarakAllah feeki

[@shaibazibnkhalil6438]

Plz someone send me the intro nasheed

[@monta3239]

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[@asiyahlovesyou3394]

Bis MI Allah the Qur'an Mention if a women is found to have committed zina confined her and women have rights as husband in case of men with more strength and they use blackmail to abandon women and children knowing women can't defend themselves how is this address

[@TarekMidani]

"The Last Resort" is a song 😭

[@TheMOETORIOUS]

Intro Nasheed name?

[@TheMOETORIOUS]

s21972012145525 it’s not fully there if u click on it

[@21972012145525]

TheMOETORIOUS I apologize!

[@monta3239]

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[@asiyahlovesyou3394]

Who takes care of women and children if Muslim men father children not wives or two sisters at same time where do they turn and if someone took care of a Muslim child that was a Christian is he to be paid for any money that was spent

[@asiyahlovesyou3394]

Bismi Allah Aides Muslim women and Children who become sick who is to care for them the Christian? After excepting Islam and none Muslim women make claims of having relationships do she come to the Muslim for help can they sue a wife or mother or a sister to be held or abused because they hold you responsible for what they say is being done to them with no help from us

[@katiej9767]

Hmmm

[@odoshlbrahim5007]

she need Talaq, khula.when am at a broad. working l was.non Muslim and l convert to Islamic?

[@afreenmyrah]

This man is such a mean person when talking about mother he says don't treat your husband as your children he always has a mother, such a male dominated man and pretend to be a pious

[@TheMrsansari]

My x acted childish because he was entitled to zina without me questioning him. Silent treatments from the start...it was a form of control. He didn't do any steps apart from having me removed and arrested. Then he gave an email divorce during bail period. Problem is these scholars don't want to deal with the real issue. Which is men having extra relationships because he can easily shop online 😂. Glad he just ended it. He is welcome to his zina.

[@novaheads]

What

[@leymong5182]

Be quite mama🙄

[@mosaad6646]

great lecture. I hope my wife will watch this video and will tranquille. I love her. Please make Dua...