How I Met Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo and The First Rape - Busola Dakolo |Part 1

[@abimbolavera8027]

I believe her absolutely... Nobody should come here and say touch not my anointed, we are all anointed so we must touch each other!!

[@adedoyinajibade5062]

👌I second you

[@ojireshemary6171]

I believe her die!! Happening everyday here in Lagos! Even COZA members know that this is true. Sometimes they tell you that they have a level of grace, while you are feelong guilty, they say you dont understand their grace. God punish ndi touch not my annointed! One day na one day, this Fatoyibo will enter market and not come back.........ashawo fine boy pastor! Mstcheeeeeww

[@Victorygabz]

Abimbola Aigbogun 😂😂😂

[@hey_cisterna09]

👍👍👍👍👍👍👍😩👍

[@davidb1307]

Exactly

[@Tatianarain]

Notice how her instincts fought against the church initially. Always trust your instincts my darlings! They are usually right because God has set it up in you to be your personal red flag detector

[@nhaezer5121]

Word!

[@senayon85]

Exactly!👍🏿

[@seyiejikunle3122]

You are right. Instinct doesn’t lie

[@thelmankenda-bikoumou4474]

tatiana you are so right hmm

[@emersonsn3590]

That's it. Our discernment always warn us.

[@JosephShodunke]

I have a daughter and can't type here what I would do to such a man. Busola, on behalf of all the responsible men and your husband, we are sorry😢

[@stolives5639]

Thank you Joseph. God bless you for your response. You're a correct man!

[@folushofashola8655]

Wow you’re blessed

[@Torusvlog]

U are a good man

[@seyicrownolurin6711]

A response that almost make me cry... God bless you

[@monalisacode9921]

You are a sensible man,not all those fools saying she would have speak out long ago

[@tessadoghor]

I knew that it had to be personal. Timi does not seem like an angry man or someone who likes to look for trouble so I knew it had to be personal. God bless you, Busola. God bless your husband and your entire family. There will be recompense for you. Thank God you still have your faith in God, that is what really matters. In the OT or in the NT, God is against injustice. He that condems the innocent and he that justifies the guilty, both are the same, an abomination to the Lord. I pray total and complete emotional healing for you. On the business side of it, and for God's kingdom, you should teach emotional healing as a course/sozo.

[@odinakaodinaka6721]

Tessa Doghor yes

[@morenikejionemheghie7663]

Well said Tess.

[@Rain_Joe]

I went through same horrible scenario in the hands of someone my parents held on high esteem, even as a boy child. I've been dying in silence and pain each time I remember this,and it almost ruined my life. Thank God I held on to God,that experience would've turned me into a monster. I commend your courage and strength Busola and I feel your pain, I wish I could do same someday at least to help me heal. Let justice take it's full cause. But as usual, the law doesn't affect the rich. He's a monster 👿

[@dududinkie]

Sending you a million hugs. I hope you're able to speak about your ordeal and heal.

[@ayogupeace5292]

LA posha Nigeria yeah me too,,,with my next door neighbour and it took me years till date i can't fully let go

[@dududinkie]

@@ayogupeace5292 wow.... reaching out to you in my thoughts and prayers. May you find the strength to speak out and heal.

[@Rain_Joe]

@offonna emmanuel it's a horrible experience I bet you. Going through same torture repeatedly. And I know if I assumed much as cough, hmmmm. The internet would break into two from its very foundation. And then I'll be blamed for not speaking up earlier (Just as some keep blaming Busola for not speaking up at the instance).

[@Rain_Joe]

*As much as

[@eazyo8393]

I believe you100℅. I respect you 2000℅. You are a strong woman indeed. This is the beginning of your healing. You just took your power back knowing he can't hurt you anymore. You also just saved a lot of young women from being raped in the name of the lord. To all those still wondering whether she's lying, you can carry out the experiment by sending your daughters for private prayers and counselling.

[@georgealex6461]

Well said

[@willywhyte6681]

This is totally heart touching...heart breaking...and heart rendering.. I am glad she was able to meet and marry a man like Timi Dakolo for a husband who has been able to help her pull through this psychological trauma.. Indeed true love within the confines of a good marriage is a healer of old wounds...Love covers a multitude of sins and scars... God bless you man and keep your family....

[@olapadefaithayobami5064]

Look at her expression, listen to her explanations, consider the morbid details details... If you don't feel rage towards the accused pastor afterwards, you're one of the tragedies on this planet. I really feel bad for this woman, the other victims, and most importantly the members of the said church. It's really the end time.

[@uchtrue5835]

So true my dear Faith.

[@thelmankenda-bikoumou4474]

Some people will still defend him 😔

[@gabrielodeyemi2778]

it's a free world, everyone is entitled to there opinion but my question is why now did she deem it fit to speak up. I am not in support of rapists but she should have expressed her grief long ago

[@IceeTubes]

@@gabrielodeyemi2778 that is not the point, my father’s brother raped me age 7. I spoke up for the first time at age 33, the reason why people don’t speak up is because of people like you. Questioning the bravery of the victims who were silent with the pain for a long time.

[@malikmogekwu9781]

there is no iota of truth in.her statement she should shut up women always crying over nothing do you know how many men are sexually abused do we complain

[@yewandeolatimehin3844]

Having read through all the comments, for the first time I didn't see any defense for Pastor Biodun! This is amazing and sad to know. The likes of Pastor Biodun are everywhere making the girl-child seem like an "endangered specie". May God deliver the Body of Christ from woes like Pastor Biodun. Jesus Christ remains our perfect example, if a so called Man of God do this to you, please don't deny Christ because of it but be a voice to liberate other possible victims and a voice that will serve as a deterrent to other would be paedophiles.

[@ogechukwuikwelle5684]

She knew the risks and she also knew there will be criticism, but she went ahead with the interview; not for fame or anything but to be heard and for justice to prevail. It is now left for the authorities to do their job. This can’t keep going on...

[@blackjesusdieorbar3537]

I think if it wasn't for fame, this case should have been heard from the court first. I want to follow this case without biase, emotions or prejudice & it'll help if everyone would do likewise

[@MegaKach]

After how long?

[@nnanyelugoanekwe218]

There is nothing like authorities do their job. This lady coming out with allegations should herself follow up with filing a police report before any kind of investigation begins. For now it's all he said she said.

[@abigailadesuwa4526]

I believe her 💯 Ohhh God save us from this evil pastor's ... thank u madam for giving a voice to the voiceless you are BRAVE STRONG and FEARLESS....

[@victoriabassey6630]

Dear members of coza who only go to the church because of the nice service, are you still happy with doing this?

[@davefx_]

Victoria Bassey yes please

[@elizabethagoyi8935]

Have you all seen his statement and daddy freeze all over trying to defend him, with the wife "freez's" in the background while he was shooting his Instagram live video, reminding him of the difference between Nigerian age of consent and outside the Country as if even "if we assume" she consented, it is ok for a married pastor to sleep with a 16/17 year old. This are the same set of people that were critising 21 year old Regina Daniels last week for chosing to marry who she wanted... gosh🤦🤦🤦 it is just cringy and gross how annoyingly biased, tripple standard and unstable some Nigerians can be. I used to respect this freeze man...I thought he was different but 🤔 apparently he is what he criticize. Because he has had issues with Timi Dakolo in the past, he is acting the way he is SMH... A times I wonder if we are really humans...and to oga pastor @biodunfatoyinbo for someone to want to extort you, they must have had something on you, people don't just wake up and decide they want to extort you (hence that statement shows you have some skeleton in your cupboard). 2ndly the church must really have been small for you to have remembered the year and to know she was your member. 3rdly the way you denied completely having anything to do with her family "a family who have hosted you and your wife before...) goes further to prove how guilty you are, shows how stupid you think Nigerians are, shows how unaccountable you want to be or think you should be and shows how flimsy you think this whole issue is...(PS smart people will accept yes I know her family, yes I have visited them ones or twice but I never had any personal relationship with the accuser) but look at you denying any form of cordial relationship at all, that is a dumb move sir... PS I am not a fan of judging people but you just can't escape it when you see how cruel humans are a times, including so called men of God. To all those looking up to people to save them, I have said it severally, look within you, trust yourself, your saviour is in you "what you're looking for in sokoto is inside your shokoto". If you like learn, if you like don't learn. A word is enough for the wise. Plus oga pastor a lie can travel as far as it wants as long as it wants but the truth can never be completely burried. Whatever you do just know that #karmar is real #maythetruthprevail and the fact that someone is living all flashy and all, seemingly without problems does not mean that they will not reap what they sow... Sir, ma you will definitely harvest every damn crop you sowed #bestbelieve

[@akofabulous]

@@elizabethagoyi8935 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@okekecynthiagold8880]

Vicky is that you?

[@blessingonyeh5608]

I believe her, those of you asking why her story isn't adding up, listen to her story properly. she should idolized this man and took him as a spiritual father, So definitely she felt very comfortable with him. rapist most times profile their victims before they attack. And not all rape victims scream as some just go into complete shock and freeze. Mind you it took a lot of courage for her to do this now, Busola is not looking for fame but for healing. Two women can not lie about same pastor. They both saw him as spiritual father's and he took advantage of that. Many victims die in silence because of the feeling of society blaming them for being raped. God give you perfect healing busola.

[@lolameduteni]

You are a wise woman.

[@blessingonyeh5608]

@@lolameduteni bless you

[@SB-lx8gf]

This woman needs all the support she can get right now.

[@moyosore598]

You are such a gentle soul. I am so so so sorry you were preyed upon by someone you had given your trust.

[@iyeyemisilvia1871]

Hmmmm.... the strength, the courage Thank you so much for sharing. I admire you more than ever now😍😍 You have done so well.

[@ishtiaqwise3418]

Sylvia hello

[@akuenwebe0182]

The most interesting thing here is that this was done in the Altar of God. Bisola I thank God for your life and courage to do this and also @Chude you did great job. Let the Law finds the guilt and do the needful. Akuenwebe Holland

[@coachielala]

Daddy Freeze should have gotten this interview......Chai!!!!!!! Anyway, thank you Busola and Timi for being strong, and speaking out.

[@purplerain5408]

Gucci church members, come and defend your pastor! Busola can't be lying on him, what does she stand to gain? I strongly believe..... open your eyes!

[@saatersamsonawuapila607]

hahahaahaha

[@nelsonjack7792]

You don't have the right to judge anybody beside you were not there to see for yourself Then why are you believing in just a word

[@nelsonjack7792]

Why is she saying it now You just after fame and popularity

[@purplerain5408]

Nelson Jack will you keep quiet, she doesn't owe you an explanation of why she is coming now. Just pray your daughters don't get wear her shoes

[@kaduruchidozie7818]

Stop this gucci church member of a thing and just give your opinion

[@gbebemary9599]

This is absolutely true! I believed her, cos I went through the same from a pastor too! And I feel devastated anytime I remember 😭😭😭

[@nirvanawellness3619]

This is utterly heart breaking to watch. Content is graphic, viewers beware. 😱 Can we trust the Nigerian justice system to bring this man to justice? Thank you Timi for standing up for this beautiful soul of a wife, and Busola, may God continue to heal your heart.

[@Raetalkss]

There will be a special kind of hell fire for men of God who abuse their position!!! God bless this woman for opening up!!! I pray she heals fully and that God blesses her.

[@knightoyin6500]

OMG! I am cringing so hard right now. What Fatoyinbo did to this innocent lady who just wanted to serve God is pure evil. This is first class predatory behavior. I would like to see him in jail, but Nigeria justice system is in tatters. This is incredibly sad and heartbreaking

[@ekemedoemmanuelemeka9665]

Because it is coming from busola we should believe it...

[@MegaKach]

But how are u sure about your conclusion?

[@iamhaapiismilehappy3209]

I absolutely believe her. Thank you for speaking out.

[@dadaoluwatobi6824]

I believe her 100%. I’ve been in her shoes before. The shock can be so much that it throws you into confusion that it ceases everything about you especially if it’s coming from someone you never expected such from. We victims don’t always speak out because of so many things (shame, fear, level or position of the violator, etc) Rape robs you of so many things as it did to me! And the most targeted are the quiet, vulnerable,soft in nature. The aftermath of not speaking up is it makes the victim a violent, angry and emotionally unstable being until you decide not to be eaten up by your “demons” by rising up above it! I’m ashamed a pastor did this to you. I’ve still not spoken up cos I decided to let it go and I have no proof except for those few people I told and who I made promise never to tell anyone of my shame. It’s a scar that can never be erased, you carry it to your grave but i made a promise NOONE will ever do this to anyone I know cos the pain never goes away!!!!!

[@iamalady]

Dada Oluwatobi but if evil people are allowed to walk away in secret then they will continue to prey in others. One reason to speak up, if one can find the strength, is at least to warn other people and help save others.

[@dadaoluwatobi6824]

Jay Ege very right sir but what prove do I have again? He’s convinced me he never raped me that it was consensual! Fortunately for me, on one of the occasions, a neighbor caught him and that’s the only witness I have! All these happened in early 2000 exactly on the day Pepsi started a program where they bring foreign artists ! Guess what! My younger brother was in the same room it happened but was fast asleep, reason why I believe her when she said her sister was at home when it happened! The psychological hold our violators have on us is so strong even for years to come.

[@TobesTiana]

And they said Ese Walters was lying. My goodness. .

[@oluchukwuakahara4034]

Tobi Dipo I never believed she lied . Not once !!

[@TobesTiana]

@@oluchukwuakahara4034 me too!!!

[@joannakolawole2378]

I believed her. I believe Busola too.

[@chimellaokwara2933]

I stand with you Busola. Thank you for telling your truth. God bless you and Timi for exposing this man for who he really is🙏

[@Nasbella279]

My heart is shattered! No =w I understand Timi's pain and passion for this cause. May God deal with this man accordingly

[@stolives5639]

Amen!!!!!!!!!!!

[@ogunwokayode9787]

Today, we join the voices that echoes from the past with fears but calls for justice. We will not exalt beast neither shall we continue to worship monsters. We won't Let God arise this time... No!!! Not this time... We will arise and we will speak. I stand with @busoladakola , @timidakolo and all the voices calling out.... We will not let this beast walk amongst men. Not this one!!! #theTruth #truth #unbroken #unchained @busoladakolo We admire your courage to speak and we hope this voice will be heard. #tamethebeast #touchnottheanointed but #torturetheRAPIST #coza #istandwithBusola

[@audushuaib5319]

Ogunwo Kayode I love this line.. we will not exalt beast neither shall we continue to worship monster.... God doesn't need to rise... we shall rise and and speak.... I know we shall get freedom in someday.... but heaven is still very far......so we need the freedom now..... justice is what we crave for.....

[@ivannaigbokwe7549]

This is sooo heartbreaking. His words were more heartbreaking damnnn!. Sad and painful experience. This is part of the reasons why truly, judgement will begin from the house of God 😢

[@efe3881]

I will say this once YOU CANNOT USE THE NAME OF GOD TO DO EVIL. FEAR GOD!!! Trust that God will not allow you to go free if you are doing evil under the cover of his name. Everyday for the thief one day for the owner! You don't want to feel the wrath of God. All I can say is what is done in the dark will definitely be brought to the light. I won't take sides but the truth will come out. God will bring the truth out!

[@ogechukwuikwelle5684]

How can someone watch this video listening to you and not see the pain and the trauma . I’m speechless, I admire your strength

[@SarauniyaBIB]

WTH?! This interviewer was the wrong choice for such a delicate interview, his reactions pissed me off! Busola, I’m so sorry, I believe you and pray for your healing.

[@Fredas_Lifestyle]

Sarauniya B. I. B Kai! Where did they get him from?

[@priscillaahmed3581]

I didn't believe until I listen to you. God will expose them all.

[@mz-neropray7646]

I feel her pain am literally crying right now..... Just praying and hoping for the day I'll be Emotionally strong enough to tell my story....

[@arianekamdoum7800]

I pray you get that strength...and know that it will always be the right time ❤

[@ukwuomaadaeze1256]

Jesus Christ! Nawa ooo. This is so so heartbreaking. Some Men will rot in hell fire. God bless you for speaking out. I can only imagine what it felt like. This will surely complete your healing. Remain blessed.

[@eshokhenamehogene6482]

Please.. -Encourage our ladies to speak up. -Listen to them WITHOUT judging. -Pay attention(mood, body language)to siblings and friends. -We as MEN and human beings can and SHOULD do better PLEASE 🙏🙏 To other victims of rape: Please know it is NEVER your fault. If you ever blamed yourself before, kindly try not to anymore. Please talk to someone about this as you need to HEAL and be FREE again. N.B; We need to educate ourselves so as to pick up unspoken signs rape victims demonstrate in order to help them.

[@TrackerOne7780]

As a rape victim, is it always very shocking for some to scream, cos you're still trying to process what is happening to you. Everyone react differently. That man was someone she trusted and looked up to as a father figure. At the time of the rape, it must have been very confusing to her. I believe this chick and I empathise with her.

[@eyitayojuliusajayi8315]

She looks really weak, innocent and vulnerable. Am really sorry about what happened.

[@deborabless5558]

God will judge this man this lady looks gentle, I believe her story .omg

[@ciarawilson8066]

What did you know

[@udochukwuokenwa4638]

I felt like crying at the tail end. I can relate with her story.

[@twistedscientist3288]

Most rapes and sexaul assault are carried out by people the victims know and trust. A relative, a confidant, a friend, a lover....

[@shinaadegoke2000]

Lets see how this man will wriggle out of this . On behalf of all men ,We apologize to you . Busola

[@TEKENAable]

Y naija TV logo right at the centre of the screen is distracting 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@laQuaver]

It's called "watermarking"...a method of intellectual property protection or copyright protection. Look it up, you might learn more about it.

[@TEKENAable]

@@laQuaver Yes I know about watermarking. It's just distracting that's all. Besides they already have their logo at the top left of the video. Thanks for your information tho. The content of the video is more important in the end 😊.

[@biggy3rd]

@@laQuaver Missing the point are we prof? Intellectually speaking, why do you need to watermark and make it unwatchable especially when the video is released on your youtube channel and have your logo right there on the top corner.

[@oyeniketijani9318]

Its really painful listening to her. My heart is with you and your family.

[@IreneUmeoke]

She isn’t lying i strongly believe 💪🏽 you are strong busola ❤️❤️

[@MegaKach]

You strongly believe? But why?

[@elijahmafosamson9909]

And some pple will come here and say it a blackmail. Busola i celebrate ur courage my sista

[@abigailoduro8821]

Not that you need me to believe you but I do! Thanks for speaking up Busola. Such people must be brought to book.

[@rosybella8638]

I believe her I believe her I believe her I believe her I believe her I believe her I believe her

[@MegaKach]

Just like that? Why?

[@StephanieIdah]

​@@MegaKach cause nobody will come out like this to say something about your self that you know will go viral, so many people did not speak up out of shame, fear, how people will see them, my friend went through rape issue too but because of shame she didn't want us to say it as at then

[@Tunjio]

Absolutely sickening...he should not get away with this

[@stolives5639]

Who will prosecute him? He's untouchable!

[@ClassicHorla]

and some people said this is not true, just look at her and you will hear her speaking the truth from her heart. God have mercy

[@ClassicHorla]

@Omg stuff yeah you are so right, no one knows why she is talking about it just now though, it might even be to help other victims out there, ave seen people it has happened to, I mean alot of them. Its not something one could be proud of, she talking about it has made a lot of women that has been raped voiced out including those that it has happened to for over 20yrs...look at Joyce meryer she could not talk about the fact that her biological father was raping her while she was still very young not until she got married.

[@ClassicHorla]

@Omg stuff I don't know her before neither do I know the pastor, but i heard she was still attending the church after, the reason she decided to stay back in the church even after she has been raped by her so called pastor remains a mystery to me, only the both of them and God knows the truth

[@adekunleadebayo5743]

My Heart Breaks For Busola... While We Are On The Subject, This Is Another Reason Why I Avoid Religious Centres Like A Plague.

[@LilianTony]

This is really heartbreaking💔😞 I can relate😢 this pastors are not what we think…. I was also a minor when a so called pastor sexually assaulted me and not just one pastor but two pastors from different churches and a catholic priest boy😢 I pray we all find peace and justice some day🙏 Bless you Bukola❤

[@XAVIERXANDER]

I like that Chude Recaps. But for his Recap, I'd not have realized that he had founded COZA and was married. Had his first Child!!! Monster!

[@motunrayookpaleke371]

Oh my God. I cried uncontrollably with mucus dripping down my nose listening to her talk about this horrible experience. Ahhh God you must punish Biodun Fatoyinbo but before you do we humans must punish him too.

[@boluwarin]

Why tf is mucus coming down your nose 😂😂

[@mildredsmith312]

Olutoyin Fabunmi my dear it is very very SAD... Damn, I have just ruined my mood for the day... Smh... Thank God She was able to find trusted love 💕... if not she would ve been permanently depressed and broken. May God JUDGE That pastor!!!☹️☹️☹️😔😔😔😏😏😡😡😡😡

[@olaniyiadu]

Now i understand Timi's pain better.

[@MegaKach]

How? What has Timi got to do with this? He didnt know the lady then.... lol...

[@adenikejohnson1567]

As God lives, God will arise and deliver judgement because no remorse has been shown and no acknowledgment of the sin has been made. God has been patient!

[@digitalitytechandhealth]

So graphic ..I hope he does not do all these for ritual purposes ..God has mercy on all of us .

[@deeakinlofa]

I thought as well. It might be for ritual

[@bisishittu9381]

It's for ritual. I believe he saw her glory

[@TrackerOne7780]

I won't lie, I thought so too

[@ebonybeautytv4285]

My thought exactly

[@blackjesusdieorbar3537]

😂 😂 😂 People can think rubbish sha! Kai!

[@celesterose6010]

I am so broken after listening to this.....I wish You Healing for today and everyday

[@fubarafuby7389]

From the start,i never loved the church COZA... I felt the pain....

[@naomiokwoche6181]

Kai smh😩😩😩

[@ucol2068]

Too materialistic

[@piselasjournal]

I shared a video about my experience... Rape is real...i pray she heals

[@ToluSeyiDaniel]

“You should be happy I did this to you??!!!”If this isn’t evil I don’t know what is. Omg!!! This is beyond heart-wrenching. You defiled a little girl at dawn and she has to be grateful it was what you who did that? And then you bring an already opened bottle of Krest? Was it a ritual for church boom?? Y’all this is too much I can’t watch to the end. What?!!!!

[@StephanieIdah]

Maybe it was, I'm sure he used jazz

[@oshorindestella4527]

This pastor should be prosecuted. This is beyond shocking.

[@adekunleadebayo5743]

If it were in a saner clime; that motherfucker would be facing a serious probe by now.. Nigeria is a jungle; but what do I know 🚶🏼🚶🚶

[@MegaKach]

You mean without investigations and proves..

[@nnanyelugoanekwe218]

She should lead the way by filing a police report so that the police can do their job.

[@gnjorteah]

This is really sad, pathetic and heart breaking.. I pray God grant you Busola complete healing Busola..

[@queenesta1573]

Chei! This lady is strong i have a friend who is living with the same pain and cant even say cos she has a child from the act and the man is not even caring for the kids. He is married to someone else and my friend is looking after her kid. She was young same cuktist thing but not a pastor though and my friend never told anyone how she got pregnant till some years ago. You see thats why i believe this lady. A lot of young girls are going through this and im of the opinion that a kind of education should be introduced in secondary schools for girls. And parents who wont stay married should be jailed. My friends famiky also had issues that i guess is the root of some of this isues. Busola thank you for speaking out God has your back.

[@OmitogunAbolaji]

Super bold conversation; being able to open up publicly and most importantly discussing this sensitive matter with a male interviewer....

[@jenniferokah2507]

Wow!!! Looks like this was a spiritual thing, to get power or congregation that’s y he poured the opened soda in ur mouth. God have mercy

[@couplesissues5150]

jennifer okah so you are here too 😂😂😂

[@jenniferokah2507]

Lisa Asada baby I’m everywhere

[@twinkletwinkle4944]

Omg bless our children 😢😢😢 Am sorry Busola😢 😮

[@ceciliaakandu381]

Well, this issue is very serious. i listened to Busola and i really wept in my heart for the Pastor and Busola. It might not be a bad idea bringing up the issue after 20 years because according to report the pastor still kept on sleeping with different ladies in the church. Now my take is this, through their explanation, it shows that : The pastor knows how to catch this young girls and ladies as a fine man but its a shame and its demonic, if this is true he has a PROBLEM and should not continue to mount the pulpit until he sorts himself out maybe through deliverance/ medical attention.The law should also be brought in (i cannot say he did not do it because a lot of men and a lot of pastors do this and even more) so I pray that in the name of Jesus, more and more of them will be exposed. (amen) They are killing the church of JESUS CHRIST NOW, let me come to the ladies Busola! Busola!! Busola!!! you made a mistake and this story doesn't sound like rape anymore, you fell for him after a while. You are a virgin and your 'Pastor' came into your house in the morning after seeing through your naked body in your night gown got arouse and pushed you into a chair and you followed. no fighting back, no shout, no bite, no pinching his face, then this shows that MOST MEN would have RAPED you. You gave in easily, even at 16? or what age did you mention? in your fathers house in the morning without fear that your sister might come down that same morning? ki lo de naaaw, what is wrong with you? Sex is SACRED, babe!!! you ALLOWED HIM, forget this story, is it easy to break a woman's virginity just at a snap of the finger, MBA KWANU! You said you looked at the father figure, which means as bold as you were then YOUR father too could sleep with you without you shouting,pushing him and running off? You said you were afraid because of the pastor testimony of being a cultist before he became a pastor; NOW why were you comfortable attending his church and him coming to your house always, the morning he came, was he with a gun or knife, did he hit you. My dear, you already had this soft spot for him all the while you were getting close and talking. Another point is, Why did you agree to go to his house to be helping him to take care of his kid or whatever if you did not enjoy what he did the first time. My dear Busola Women should be strong and we are, we don't just let men take away our virginity just like that without a fight (especially someone who is married at the time) and you knew this, Why go to him again. We have heard all he did it was horrible even s he continuous without stopping like we hear in all the stories going on around, but its horrible to see how cheaply he gets down on you girls.. you see i fine pastor, soft and sweet and you fall and he uses your body to relieve himself and UNA NO THINK TWICE, SORRY!!! As a young and naive girl when growing up even as at 9-10 years, do you know how a pastor/ different men tried to push me to a corner, who touched my breast and was going to continue touching, for the very first time i reacted, i did not let them try it again, i never told anyone but i at 9-10 years rushed away from them. I never went to them again nor go closer to where they were, i stayed far. You enjoyed your silent and secret relationship with him. You were too weak to walk away for obvious reasons (please leave that father figure and former cultist out of the story) This is what is happening in different CHURCHES and HOMES and yet the girl tells you she was afraid to speak, giving all kinds of flimsy excuses. Human-beings, please fear God and let us all do right in our own different parts. I do not need to preach to MEN or PASTORS to have self control but i PRAY that they continue to destroy themselves like this so that others will learn. shabi them see wetin free cunt cause..... i laugh

[@hannahkolawole7013]

Cecilia Akandu well said

[@terryolay4613]

Why would you place a big, bold, obnoxious, vision obstructing "Y! TV" watermark, right smack in the center of the screen? Please get rid of the ill-advised watermark.

[@babatundeamzat3489]

For Context: Krest (the drink) was believed to prevent pregnancy.

[@nanaf8887]

Babatunde Amzat wow! Makes sense now

[@johnoluwabunmi9333]

ooh, I thought so too

[@socialnerd_]

This is so true

[@ladipojoseph2528]

those beliefs that deceive us to folly.

[@EstaMorenikeji]

My thought exactly.

[@ofoegbumary4120]

I appreciate your truth God bless you ma...Thank you ma...The lord is your strength...

[@oyinlolafakeye8490]

I'm sorry you went through this Busola and I BELIEVE YOU. I also want to commend the interviewer Chude Jideonwo for being empathetic and trying to put himself in her shoes and not rush her narration. For a guy and one handling such a touchy situation, I commend his effort. Mr. Biodun are you seeing your life? When Jesus told Peter to feed his sheep to show love for God, you have turned your own to the sheep feeding you and after they've fed you fat and bling-ed you with bags and fat bank accounts, you would turn around and sleep with the ones you can manipulate then even rape the children who can't agree to sleep with you? With people like you, the devil can take a vacation. It seems the devil wears Gucci.

[@tundunadewunmi6896]

Thank you ooo there is no right or worng way He empathised and wanted it to be clear... no need to add twist amend inteprete or take a thing from that narrative..Welldone ChudeJudeonwo

[@victordineromorenovidimo1350]

I'm so sorry to hear you speak about this sexually act you faced as a teenager Busola Dakolo by a Pastor and again i am not here to go against women that get abused by men when they were a kid or as an adult. Its very sad and bad thing. My question are these; is it only women that goes through this traumatic issue? Does men don't get abused by women sexually? Why don't men get defended when they get abuses too like the way women speak out. To my concern i have heard stories of men whom got raped and abused when they were kid by an headerly women that end to ruin thier live and make them to be womanizer but i haven't heard that women got arrested for abusing men like this Why is that,can't men also defend themselves as women ought to do?

[@escobar2x500]

This interviewer knows his job

[@princessdee9258]

1.Ese Walter 2.Busola Dakolo I see more ladies coming out to accuse the pastor of rape/infidelity.What a shame!!!

[@anytaophilie9820]

Rape not infidelity.

[@haileybieber6627]

Anyone that went to unilorin that period knows that this isn't news. There are a lot of victims. This man has done a lot of damage to so many ladies

[@Victorygabz]

Princess Dee guess we'll be seeing some more soon.

[@ayooladapo6502]

Princess Dee rape is different from infidelity please.

[@puems]

Princess Dee please don’t change the facts. It’s RAPE not infidelity.

[@blamafor]

for those of you saying it can not be true, why hasn't the Man of God come out to tell his own side of the story or to rebuke the lady for lying? What does this lady has to gain other than to protect other young girls from the same life of horror? God please restore Your Church! Make it the Body of Christ, where souls are won and not where souls get stolen from.

[@damionthomas1426]

Jesus answered and said unto him, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. Jesus answered, Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. John 3:3‭, ‬5

[@nalongpromisegulong5635]

Front row for this tea. I am so sorry Mrs Dakolo.

[@uzoamakavictorya4556]

Action movie ..... Your case is in GOD'S HANDS madam.....

[@terryolay4613]

She sounds credible but who knows if this story is true, partially accurate or totally fabricated. "The heart of man is deceitfuly wicked"... In any case, people need to be careful with pastors, preachers, etc, who claim to be serving God but who really are peddling the word of God for profit. Such people have the tendency to perpetrate the most debased atrocities imaginable. On the other hand, let's not condemn the whole of Christianity because of the wolves in sheep's skin.

[@afrobetty4847]

Only God knows.....

[@gantswood]

This is very disturbing indeed and I have worked for the police and been a prison officer. I have seen numerous victims and perpetrators. What I will say is those of all sexes who have suffered sexual abuse, please don't suffer in silence and tell someone regardless of how long ago it occurred. I cry for those who experienced such vile acts during their childhood. What has happened to this pastor since? Is he still alive? Does he still preach? Can someone enlighten me about this the man involved if known? May God heal her IJN. I know a friend who was sexually abused as a boy in Naija by a close family friend years ago. It is very sad.

[@Dalit_Ray]

I’m speechless !!!!!!!!!!!! Wowwwwww may God strengthen you 🙏🏽

[@followGreatness]

Wait im crying....this is not ok. Iv experienced aomething like this and I cant even stop crying.

[@mercya5680]

To my dear sister and several others, this write up by my favorite poet has been of great help to me and I hope it will help... You may write me down in history With your bitter, twisted lies, You may tread me in the very dirt But still, like dust, I'll rise. Does my sassiness upset you? Why are you beset with gloom? 'Cause I walk like I've got oil wells Pumping in my living room. Just like moons and like suns, With the certainty of tides, Just like hopes springing high, Still I'll rise. Did you want to see me broken? Bowed head and lowered eyes? Shoulders falling down like teardrops. Weakened by my soulful cries. Does my haughtiness offend you? Don't you take it awful hard 'Cause I laugh like I've got gold mines Diggin' in my own back yard. You may shoot me with your words, You may cut me with your eyes, You may kill me with your hatefulness, But still, like air, I'll rise. Does my sexiness upset you? Does it come as a surprise That I dance like I've got diamonds At the meeting of my thighs? Out of the huts of history's shame I rise Up from a past that's rooted in pain I rise I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide, Welling and swelling I bear in the tide. Leaving behind nights of terror and fear I rise Into a daybreak that's wondrously clear I rise Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave, I am the dream and the hope of the slave. I rise I rise I rise. by Maya Angelou

[@call_me_olusam6588]

i believed her 100%. not easy to say this in front of man and alta of God

[@ceciliaakandu381]

na today..... what is wrong with you.... have you not heard people swearing for themselves just to cover a lie?

[@Twinkle_simi]

Stay strong Mrs Dakolo

[@Lerian_V]

I hardly believe any of these #MeToo stories, but this one. I can only imagine the trauma this experience has put her through. I'm also glad she's married to a great guy and have beautiful kids. But, my gosh, if #MeToo comes down heavy in Nigeria, only a very few men will be innocent. As a guy, I know how sexual abuses happen with impunity in many homes, streets and just about every campus.

[@Lerian_V]

@Sara Bee It really is egregious. Like an advanced stage cancer, it's going to cost us arms and legs to purge it from our society.

[@boluwarin]

This is about to go viral

[@lovethndukuba997]

Boluwarin Boluwarin it has already

[@Victorygabz]

Trust Nigerians,myself included! 😂

[@arnynahjela891]

Why is it that wen young girls entrust themselves to elderly men be their mentors they always take advantage . Why..... ! It's so hurting .. Even though she's married she may never get over the trauma .

[@damionthomas1426]

Whatever your storm know that GOD is right there with you. They mount up to the heaven, they go down again to the depths: their soul is melted because of trouble. They reel to and fro, and stagger like a drunken man, and are at their wits' end. Then they cry unto the Lord in their trouble, and he bringeth them out of their distresses. He maketh the storm a calm, so that the waves thereof are still. Psalms 107:26‭-‬29 Let's be glad to go to our fathers house. To tell the story to offer praises I was glad when they said unto me, Let us go into the house of the Lord . Psalms 122:1

[@kaysidney]

I think he should be prosecuted for this. How i wish current victims can come out to testify without fear or favour.

[@ememokon9820]

What's the recap for Mr interviewer

[@wierdwabbitt]

I wonder o

[@ayeeshagrey]

This interviewer though... terrible. Not asking the right questions, just recounting all she said and we heard. Do better!

[@bidemiodesanya7123]

She's there to tell her story. He doesn't need to push for more or ask her too many questions. He's there to just nod and let her carry on with it.

[@ayeeshagrey]

Bidemi Odesanya she could have as well just taken her video in her house. It’s an called an interview for a reason. He should have asked questions where he felt she held back or wasn’t explicitly clear ... not recount all we all heard .

[@ceciliaakandu381]

Yaeh

[@kenny-et2dc]

He's a good interviewer. The topic here is kinda different to others where one can press for more. He's more sensitive, knowing it's painful revealing all this. When it's your turn, Bolu, we will get you Amanpour. You happy now? Goodnight

[@adebisiadeyemi8950]

This is so hard to make up....When my pastor was single...we used to go to his house as well as students in the University...we thought we were helping him...we take food there and run errands for him...but Thank God he was a good man...bet he could have preyed on us as well...Foolish children we were as we only thought we were helping the kingdom of God by taking care of His Prophet...🤣🤣🤣....It is well....Am so sorry Busola for all you went through....Kisses...

[@followGreatness]

You had a good guy who happened to be a pastor! Thank God !

[@anuoluwapoomotayo7433]

JESUS CHRIST IS LORD FOREVER PLEASE LET US ALL REPENT AND SURRENDER OUR LIFES TO JESUS CHRIST. GOD ALMIGHTY BLESS US ALL IN JESUS PRECIOUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN

[@bluebeestudios6613]

Chose God Always

[@daisyfunkea4291]

Why did the host have to retell the story again. Everybody heard the story the first time. It is traumatic, to tell it over and over.

[@ishayabulus1993]

I pray God will save us. I pray you get healed, and may Justice ⚖️ prevail in Jesus' Name. Honestly i fear for our generation of Christians- some men go to Church in the name of the Name only to prey on innocent sisters , while some ladies go to Church to seduce others. Let's remember that there is God who will judge!

[@sbabzy]

im so sorry this had to happen to you. This MONSTER is still walking free

[@peacheskong2245]

Where is the part where she makes a report?