Yosef Refuses to Apologize to Clare Crawley or Anyone Else - The Bachelorette

Yosef, who left after a heated disagreement with Clare regarding a game of strip dodgeball in which he did not participate, is back on The Men Tell All episode to rehash his dramatic exit. For his part, Yosef declines to apologize to Clare or the guys for the things he said upon leaving, and the guys -- as well as host Chris Harrison -- appear shocked by his decision. From 'Week 10/The Men Tell All' of 'The Bachelorette' 2020. Watch MONDAY & TUESDAY 8|7c on ABC, streaming, on demand, and Hulu.

[@unknownbeats4490]

I saw 8 thirsty boys and 1 man in this video. Seems that people are forgetting something called standards and self respect smh

[@arthurmorgan4942]

Those days are long gone. Welcome to a world where yosef would be considered weird or conservative if he doesnt submit himself blindly to a women.

[@mrjjthor]

Facts!!

[@bubazzubaz3841]

@@arthurmorgan4942 actually more men are waking up nowdays, females soon will understand their value dont worry about it.

[@arthurmorgan4942]

@@bubazzubaz3841 highly doubt that. It's a downward spiral.

[@tinamoul]

He should have taken it one step further and not have been on the bachelor to begin with.

[@zaqwerty22]

They tried to bully him together and put pressure on him. But he didn't change his stand. He has the strongest character in studio.

[@macraeolinger]

They have no idea what self respect looks like. Totally brain washed

[@sonyvalencia]

@@macraeolinger If you can't take accountability for acting like an asshole you're a child my friend.

[@macraeolinger]

@@sonyvalencia he acted like a child because he spoke how he felt? How is that wrong? Women do it all the time and we are supposed to listen, accept and adjust our lives? Why can't Claire do that? Did you see she dissed all the OTHER guys that kissed her ass? Did you see her look back at Yosef and immediately know she made a huge mistake. Whose the real asshole. But, Simp on Bro. Simp on.

[@theforcedmemefilthypapist2892]

A group of men simping like that is sad

[@JadeyedGrey]

@@REB4444 I completely agree, he was just having a calm discussion about how he felt about the situation and she just got mad that she said jump and he didn’t ask how high. The fact he spoke his mind, giving his opinion and acted like an actual sentient being and is getting ridiculed and harassed into apologising is just bullshit. In conclusion; you dropped this. 👑

[@guapscotch9029]

They tried to gang up on him to apologize. He spoke honestly and sincerely and Clair responded with hostility and aggression. If he responds back in the same manner, immediately he is vilified. Huge respect to this guy, standing by what he said and he who is.

[@meeganwhite944]

As a woman, I agree with Yosef. Her behavior is something you’d expect from a young female. Not an almost 40 year old “woman” looking for her husband. He’s correct to call her classless.

[@dingdring6317]

Not only that but she diverts from "I'm a strong independent woman who doesn't need mam" to "this man is bullying me! Come save me!" Real quick.

[@eviebernal2913]

He could’ve got his point across and probably got more of a response emotionally from her if he didn’t use insults. Insults are powerful enough to create a debate and defeat the purpose of a message. It was not necessary. In fact I think it would’ve been better for his daughter to see a conversation going in the right direction instead of an insulting useless one.

[@BeardBat]

He didn’t even speak in any bad way until she couldn’t handle the truth lol. I guess he didn’t need to repeat the words classless etc… but he didn’t shout until the distance between them increased. A bunch of simps vs one man

[@dubzerolol]

All I see is a room full of simps and ONE man with integrity

[@cosmeticscameo8277]

i mean these guys can't take a clue. none of them are bad looking either they shouldn't even need to go on bachelorette or whatever to find someone.

[@akilbrazier1421]

@@cosmeticscameo8277 They just want fame and clout and to boost their social media followings. I’ve never actually watched an episode of the show but that’s what it seems to be about from what I can gather.

[@dubzerolol]

@nick m. no but he has moral principles unlike the rest of those guys who would do anything for a woman no matter how degrading it is ... she wasted all of their times and he was the only one man enough to speak up and leave the situation

[@zerofox2030]

@nick m. Those dudes have shit self esteem, if they didn't they very likely would have found it degrading, like a normal person would have. Not only that, the entire thing was a scam, she already had a dude before the show started. She shouldn't act like a child if she doesn't want her advanced age brought up and act in a manner that wouldn't make you a bad mother. Easy.

[@b3at2]

AMEN!!! and he stood on his square like a general!!!!!!!!!

[@thluuver]

I love how they're defending Clare, when she literally wasted all of their time, when she already "fell in love" with one of them before the show ended. None of these men can handle the truth that Yosef is speaking about. He saw Clare as something he would never want his daughter to turn into, and rightfully called her out on it. Unlike the rest of them, he didn't go on the show to find a woman for himself, he also had intentions of her being a role model and a mother to his child. When he saw that she was not, he left. Like any self respecting person would do.

[@thluuver]

@Infinite Revery exactly and they're all defending her like she didn't just manipulate y'all and wasted your time.

[@DeezNutzzzzzzzzzzz]

@@thluuver don’t forget the fact that she made some of these clowns do some degrading stuff

[@thluuver]

@@DeezNutzzzzzzzzzzz yup which Yosef called her out on and she got offended. Like sis....he spoke the truth, own your shit

[@stektirade]

They are simp white knights

[@thluuver]

@@darrylrevok9936 thats exactly right. She is a piece of work.

[@Kink_Shaman]

It’s crazy how they tried to gang up on him for having principles and goad him into an apology. This guy is a legend for talking the talk and walking the walk.

[@Simon-py2sc]

“I’m sorry you can’t express how you feel as a man” absolutely based I love this guy

[@bepatientIhaveautism]

That man has more self respect than all the others combined

[@ronnyzain5962]

Crazy world we live in.

[@matthewbarton1429]

Can't believe they attacked him after seeing the clip and the conversation he had with her, he called her classless pfft he said it nicely!!! Anyone else could have said alot more hurtful things then she is "classless"

[@zdelany6963]

well he might have self respect ....but he certainly did not have respect of anyone else. the guys made it clear ...they didn't need him to stand up for them . the man who speaks about "red flags " has the most. 1) i did it for the guys....guys :we did need your help, i dont care 2) it was disrespectfu: guys we did not find it disrespectful: i dont care 3) was voicing an opinion.....with facts ???: but we were there and disagree: i dont care.

[@michaelnjoku9810]

I concur.

[@dahiyahbk]

@@basicallyv9873 simp

[@lizaroberts9167]

Yosef wasn't yelling - he was stating his very valid concerns...Clare was the one that lost control...I truly feel that Yosef was there to find a wife and step-mother for his daughter.

[@blackgold2521]

I felt the same girl. I felt the same. I also felt she escalated the whole thing. I can see how Yosef actually watching her put men through a state of objectification irritated him. She was basically clowning those men & they didn't even see it.

[@soulwinner247]

Yosef was OUT of line. He started insulting her out of NOWHERE

[@THOMASCOLTON1]

He was, with values, instead got a drama queen & several simps

[@keyboardwarrior8905]

@@soulwinner247 ok simp

[@gammaraider]

​@@soulwinner247 Wasn't exactly out of nowhere though, was it? Men have a right to bite back if they're being fucked with.

[@julianheyward5467]

That man has my respect he did what he felt in his heart was right and stood by it.

[@eljefe6731]

I hope that Yosef sees the comment section and sees the support he has. The show needs to apologize to him.

[@KingRosso91]

Room full of soft men with no back bone and at the end she played y’all by getting with dude that’s wasn’t even on the show. Yosef saw through the smoke and mirrors.

[@ronnyzain5962]

True that. A lot of "men" are like that these days in America.

[@zdelany6963]

room full of men who knew they where n a tv show and where up for fun, ego, idiot who thinks he is better than everyone else get what he deserves

[@dahiyahbk]

@@zdelany6963 SPINELESS SIMP

[@brennendehexe7934]

True. Fun thing is that some of them actually look like male models. I thought simps were usually ugly or average guys. But there you go.

[@yzma6142]

She picked another guy from the show...

[@Chicagocubbiegirl]

Claire really was classless tho. He got that right.

[@youtubemanswagroy212]

Thats a good father

[@Juliecupcakex]

The word incel is quickly losing its meaning.

[@zdelany6963]

because class is "standing up for people who did not want or need or ask to be stood up for and when they tell him that ....i don't care. Class is throwing personal insults and mansplaning. if he missed his kid so much he could leave, he didn't he stayed three more days n order to insult and verbally abuse a woman to feel like the big man

[@youtubemanswagroy212]

@@zdelany6963 he was spiting facts regardless

[@dahiyahbk]

@@Smooth258 simp

[@2cboats]

Just him saying if his own daughter was out of line he would hope someone would call her out on it shows how legit this man is 👏

[@intmartpract]

When he said “if my daughter did something like that i would hope someone would call her out” is a sign to me that he most likely is a really great dad for his daughter. Hopes she listens to him and not the crazy world. Also that someone would be someone honest to and actually be caring about his daughter. A dad would hope for that.

[@ehzeek2169]

Chris Harrison such a simp, he could barley even look at Yosef😂😂he was disgusted

[@opal177]

:-) May be that he never before met a man with good manners and style.

[@mikejames2756]

Love how Chris is trying to tell him what is or isn't a good look.

[@brunomars204]

It’s the first time Chris has been in front of an Alpha Male. He got nervous.

[@MeoWooff_01]

One guy vs. A league of silos

[@ehzeek2169]

@Eitan Rabinovich😂😂

[@Boom_Bianca]

Yosef is speaking facts but their reactions are killing me😂😂😂😂

[@joblessboy7030]

Ugh too many beta males nowadays

[@kennethgarrett3115]

@@joblessboy7030 hold the line Yosef lol don't back down.

[@zdelany6963]

what facts. he says he was standing up for them, they tell him they didn't need standing up for and hes like ..... I don't care ??????/ he expressed an opinion , fine but the truth is if he was really upset and thought this isn't for me ......funny how he waited 3 days before leaving because he just had to make sure he got to abuse her to her face

[@joblessboy7030]

@@zdelany6963 He didn’t abuse her or anything. Her big fat ego played victim when the truth came out.

[@dahiyahbk]

@@zdelany6963 simp

[@PunkMartyr]

Yosef: it’s over betas I have the high ground *Host: You underestimate my simping* Yosef: (goes full Chad snd refuses to apologize) *Host: I HAAAATE YOU AAAAHH*

[@sengnanam6820]

The high ground always wins!

[@yomammasboo713]

And now the host has been canceled over some dumb shit because he stood for nothing and fell for everything. Thats why he apologized and then STILL got fired🤣

[@DmanDice]

As a black man, that black guys facial reactions was making my eye twitch in disappointment lol

[@sungods-fh1xu]

Yosef is the alpha of this group. The rest are trying to win the acceptance of the bachelorette by defending her flaws. Yosef should have his own talk show. Like in the movie Ted, when the grocery store manager interviewed Ted, he said, “Wow nobody has ever talked to me like that before, you have balls. You’re hired!”😆

[@Krohmel]

Naaaah. Our man Yosef is a Sigma - he wouldn't waste his time leading this group of weak simps.

[@stevewilson4718]

He has self respect, the rest of them were beta SIMPs

[@Slickrick59]

​@@stevewilson4718we need more people in the world like yosif

[@brandonwilliams5526]

​@@KrohmelHe's a man there boys there's a huge difference. 😂

[@brandonjohnson9084]

This aged so well for him when they found out later that she already picked before the show started and was just playing with the rest of them.

[@brandonjohnson9084]

@saxman I don’t either, heard about it from a reaction to this clip. It was proven and they had to reshoot the season.

[@Skydron]

Seriously? Damn... but to all of those guys in the video? Hope you enjoyed the taste of crow and shoe leather.

[@Collin2377]

she picked WHO before the show ?

[@jeffm1083]

He was right regardless of whether or not she picked her favorite before the show started.

[@catsrus-es9eu]

All of those dudes are there for clout. He's fake as shit to feign moral outrage. You are on a show where the person you are interested in is kissing one dude in the am and another in the pm and you're pretending to actually be interesting in this person you never met...

[@vturner]

'' If my daughter did someting like that I would hope someone calls her out '' 🔥

[@soulwinner247]

How disgusting

[@dillon10k20]

Facts

[@dizzitoast]

Love it!

[@bigmacdaddy1234]

@@soulwinner247 Nope. He is a real man.

[@vojislavdragic5090]

@@soulwinner247 why? he is a good traditional roll model.. a man, not a wimp or gamma..

[@lnzo5033]

Now I know why the cycle of simping continues. I respect this man for holding his ground

[@kylekampa6721]

Yosef is the only one who doesn’t get emotional lol it’s hilarious

[@soundseeker63]

Yosef is literally the only guy in the room with an ounce of integrity. Ok, so he gave Clare a pretty harsh reality check, but actually SHE was the one who escalated the situation into a confrontation, yet somehow he's made out the bad guy in all of this....? That's pretty messed up. Can you imagine the dodgeball scenario with the genders reversed...!? There wouldn't even be a discussion about whether it was degrading because it wouldn't be allowed to happen in the first place! The sexist double standard is is just epic!

[@soulwinner247]

He had ZERO integrity and ZERO respect

[@keyboardwarrior8905]

@@soulwinner247 Who asked?

[@kulic57]

i agree, for research purposes of course

[@amouthfullofsack5822]

Yea she insulted him first, but he would definately have been more boss if he just walked away without the age comments at the end and maybe dropping a jea you would be a bad example for my daughter anyway. Bc truth is if a girl hits you and you hit back, you always lose

[@ItsNod]

pure integrity 👏

[@samanthacarbine3151]

I love how they’re making him to be the bad guy. She had NO class, a victim status, and a 19 year old’s maturity level, and I am so glad he had enough self respect to say something like that.

[@zdelany6963]

oh please, he had the matuirty level of a 5 year old. He tried to enforce his standard of behaviour on a group of adults who 1) signed up for a tv show and 2) like the guy says could have said no if they wanted to. Class please, "I could be with my daughter" ....but I am going to hang around for another 3 days....cause my poor male ego is sooo butt hurt that I need to verbally abuse ths woman to her face ......thats how much time with my daughter means to me . His problem was he was not in control, and the most telling for this behaviour, did he go to the guys did he ask if they had a problem with it , no he waited until he was alone with a woman and proceed to talk down to her and insult her ....an good for her for not putting up with it

[@Rlotpir1972]

It's all about the money.

[@dr.phylisphical9294]

@@zdelany6963 nah yosef wasnt wrong he was a little petty the other guy where down right 5 yr old trying to fight over girl like a toy.

[@Qyshawn]

@@zdelany6963 Maturity of a 5 year expressing that something is demeaning as a man and her interrupting but not apologizing? Imagine if the bachelor had a similar group date, it would NOT be okay and it is NOT okay. He tried to calmly express herself but she felt nothing was wrong and did not apologize.

[@Squall598]

@@zdelany6963 I don't think it matters if they agree with his opinion on it or not. At the end of the day this is an adult in a position above others that told them to strip down on live television, that action alone is problematic. It doesn't matter if the guys involved didn't care or did so consensually, the very act alone is wrong. If a guy did this to a group of women on live television I'd HOPE someone called that fucker out. The only petty thing Yosef did in the end was insult her on the way out, but even then I don't really blame him for getting pissed off. He was attempting to have a civil conversation with her about it and her response was "this is why you weren't on the date." She couldn't even understand that what she did was wrong and it was very clear to him then and there that she was just wasting his time with the WHOLE bachelorette. So he sets the scenario straight in a blunt manner, again nothing wrong with this but it was definitely going to hurt someone of Clare's level of maturity. This obviously hurt Clare's feelings so she lashed out angrily and said some nasty stuff. Clare then walks away, this angers Yosef but he clearly keeps himself in check until she walks away to the other guys so he lashes out in anger... Now if we look at where things went wrong we can obviously point to the fact that Clare gives no fucks about Yosef, his opinion or even considers that he might be right. When we look at the situation nearly everyone is going to stand by Yosef because he was in the right for the majority of the situation. The petty comment he threw out is understandable as ANYONE in his situation would be pissed off. Also he was very much in control for most of the situation which is very telling for his behaviour. You can actually see how angry he gets when he realises he's been made a fool of by this women simply by coming onto the tv show, he still calmy albeit bluntly explains why what she did is wrong.

[@SaiyanRace5]

Yosef, thank you for standing up and keeping your frame, you were the only MAN recorded in that room, since I don’t want to disrespect the camera crew.

[@Jobe-13]

I’m glad he stood his ground.

[@PrimeSuperboy]

Stand firm Yosef. All these other boys just thirsty as fuck. Especially the punk who said, "bro I'm so heated right now" when it happened.

[@cafelatte1124]

I hope all these dudes in that show look at the comments section right now. How people are all roasting them. The lack of testosterone in these simps are real.

[@dahiyahbk]

All those other dudes are SIMPS

[@miguelbermudez5426]

@@cafelatte1124 yep all of them are straight simps. I wouldn't let a woman emasculate me like that. The lame even said "I was on a date. I did it willingly." Straight sucker! I'll wait a year or so and get a girl 10 years her junior that's better looking.

[@prestigeworldwide2632]

They honestly all seemed homosexual except for Yosef. Like the girls gay friends coming to the rescue.

[@Autobot_Megatron]

Mad respect and props to Yosef. He was basically in a lion's den with a bunch of simp pussies, and still maintained his composure and integrity. That's a man I can respect- someone who's true to himself.

[@noremac0575]

He was in the lions den, but was the only lion, the rest were just hyenasimps.

[@kamariz3153]

69 noice

[@sonyvalencia]

No, those were men and you're a just a child with a robot on your profile.

[@theworstcatholic7247]

@@sonyvalencia "Boys" those were boys. They defended a woman strictly because of what was between her legs. That's not man behavior. That's boy behavior. She started the confrontation, yet they defend her. That's boy behavior, not man behavior. The man stood up for himself, and held onto his own self respect and integrity. That is a man, or man behavior. He shot back when the woman struck first, he was just better at it. Once again, man behavior. Stop defending people strictly off their sex like that woman. It's sexist as all hell. Also attacking people for profile picture? That sounds like something a Karen in middle school would do. Seriously, grow up dude.

[@pseudophp]

@@sonyvalencia Boys in men's bodies. I know this because those guys can't fight. They've a giant stick up their ass!

[@theoldspiceguy7977]

"Stand up for what you think is right. Even if it means standing alone."

[@David-mb9ip]

I love it, Yosef stayed 10 toes down and didn't give in to the simps. 😂😂😂

[@peembot8613]

One more thing: the simps' eyes are so full of hate toward Yosef because they all know they are much lower than him and agreeing to go naked made they bottom low. And Yosef even didn't expose them, he simply reminded us the true moral standards.

[@Smooth258]

What moral standards? I doubt Yosef got upset when Juan did the same thing Clare did. You Incel idiots sound like the women who hate men. Stop being idiots

[@antislutful]

nah. I think the black dude was just acting. He scrunches up his face, but his eyes? His eyes are indifferent. He's just playing to the camera. I'm pretty sure it wasn't only Yosef that shares the same opinion as his, they just don't want to say or do anything that might demonize them on national TV like how the show demonized Yosef.

[@dr.phylisphical9294]

@@Smooth258 but that doesnt make him wrong in this situation no wdoes it how does a the past affect you now you have the same mentality of people who like to cancel people.

[@brunomars204]

@@Smooth258 - For you to call someone else an incel is very ironic lmao SIMP

[@maxb8749]

@@Smooth258 If you saw your mother happily stripping down with 5 other women for someone on TV you would be so ashamed and your perception of your mother would change forever. Although Yosuf wasn't one of the people stripping down, he didn't want his daughter to think that he condones that type of behavior. More importantly he doesn't want that type of person as a wife and especially not a stepmother to his daughter.

[@sakshamsharma4759]

"That was really not a good look" for you it's all about looks, for him it's about principles

[@RiseUpToYourAbility]

just ask the internet. We are on Yosef's side

[@mikeruck2888]

He said that in a room with men who got BUCKnaked on national television for a woman who never had any interest in any of them 🤣😂

[@theultimate6542]

Yes he is a man of sheer confidence

[@AisSora]

But it was a good look that the other guys were butt naked on TV because that Claire said so, and they still defended her after that ... smfh the simp energy is too strong within them XD

[@harrislam]

@Saksham Sharma No that's actually a VERY good look. The host was just trying to say everything he could to bullshit Yosef into thinking he's in deep water.

[@violetmoon6233]

His pure class, calm and charisma.

[@ryanrichards8340]

This man is a priceless gem. Good for him for standing up for what he believes in which is character. No one should be bullied into doing something they don't feel is right for them. Yosef was very respectful and well spoken. He did nothing wrong. Good for Yosef.

[@andrewbush2133]

Yosef is the only man in the room. Claire does not deserve an apology.

[@akilbrazier1421]

She doesn’t deserve an apology, or him.

[@sonyvalencia]

Man-child in the room.

[@nickgrier7803]

Straight up facts

[@HyperianGobos]

What I respect about Yosef is that even despite being outnumbered, he still stands his ground and sticks by his truth, the rest of these moist little boys could learn a thing or two from him.

[@drunkenrampage1588]

There is no strength in numbers.

[@osti2006]

@@drunkenrampage1588 You've obviously never been attacked by a rabid pack of gerbils, have you. They nasty!

[@davidfetherston2083]

The rest of them are all Simps. That's why

[@youngLEOc]

Did any of them simps get her tho

[@wd4440]

Yup.

[@Joke1136]

Yosef: *logic* Other "Bachlors": "blah" "blah" "blah" "blah" "blah" Yosef: *more logic* Other "Bachlors": "blah" "blah" "Your the bad guy" "blah" "blah" "blah" Yosef: *logic* Saved you guys 4 minutes of your life but still watch for an example.

[@jessicaa1142]

I loved Yosef for this!! He told her hard, cold facts about her behavior. The other guys are talking about it being a date, that's not a date!! The group dates are about getting to know the guys and spending time with them to see who you'd like to continue on with. Clare had absolutely no respect for these men of their feelings. She put them in a degrading game, that she wasn't even part of, for her own amusement. You could tell when she told them about the game, a lot of them weren't comfortable but just went along with it because they wanted her attention. When Yosef talked to Clare about how he felt she kept interrupting and trying to make it about her point of view and excuse how she was acting. Bringing up her dying relative was inappropriate and she was just using that as a tool to try to win an argument that wasn't even happening!!! She was trying to hurt him by saying "that's why you weren't on the group date" but he really didn't care at that point. Clare saying she wouldn't want him to be the father of her children was stupid seeing as, even if she didn't, he already has a daughter that he puts as his main priority. Yosef saying "remember you're 40" was a way of giving her a reality check and saying that you're too old to be acting like this. Clare knew which man she wanted from the first episode so she chose to waste their time and give them false hope of a relationship with her. That fact makes the degrading game even worse. AND THEY"RE STILL DEFENDING HER!!! If I had a daughter and she acted like this I would hope someone would call her out too. They were speechless about that, like they thought that comment would silence Yosef.

[@AV-xm5ln]

preach queen!

[@kehinderufai7498]

I like that a lot of people applaud Yosef's testicular heft.

[@alandria]

this just made Yosef even more high value then he already was 🥵

[@chatty2164]

Exactly

[@langfordjeremy100]

You'd let him hit?

[@yomammasboo713]

@@langfordjeremy100 I would and I'm a straight male. I like people with common sense😂

[@langfordjeremy100]

@@yomammasboo713 fair

[@ina_ismeal608]

@Lèmon Lēe ?

[@doubleo2720]

These guys are still out here SIMPING for Clare, when she didn't even give them the time of day! 😂😂

[@vturner]

hi barb

[@doubleo2720]

@@vturner purrr 😛

[@Smooth258]

It's about right and wrong idiot. Stop talking like an insecure INCEL

[@DavidLee-lq5lz]

That's what makes them simps

[@doubleo2720]

@@Smooth258 Listen I say it how I see it 🤷 Yosef was the only guy with the balls to tell Clare how it is. Women always want equality until they don’t. 🙄

[@SuperstarFx]

Thank you for confirming that narcissism and respect don’t go togheter

[@misanthr0pic]

yosef is really good at making people upset. certain words “crazy, like a man, oldest bachelor” he knows what he’s doing

[@msspynoodle6505]

I don’t even know why he is wasting his breath answering these clowns. And he shouldn’t apologize. It’s good he doesn’t give in to peer pressure. It’s rare you see people with honor and character.

[@gavinjenkins899]

I mean he's probably contractually obligated to show up for the after show show thing

[@unidentifiedguy8253]

It made him look more like a boss by not backing down and clowning these simps even more.

[@speedude0164]

Immunity to peer pressure and manipulation is one of the best things you can learn.

[@fatimabenny1619]

I don't get why they are trying to force an apology out of him when she disrespected him as well and noone held her accountable for her actions. I can't stand these double standards

[@xyPERSON]

Men like Yosef pay a heavy price in society for being strong, independent, and uncompromising with their morals.

[@tinysebeso4673]

Standing ovation for Yousef

[@maniac50ae14]

It says something about our society that a man with this much self respect and integrity is not married

[@madelainepetrin1430]

I have a feeling he'll get a lot of proposals after this. He's hot as he'll too!

[@lorievans3718]

Because women today don’t typically see a mans real personality as he verbally abuses another woman and say “yea, that’s the man I want to beat my ass for the rest of my life”. Any female with an iq over 60 would’ve seen his behavior and run like hell.

[@Santanapain]

@@lorievans3718 no that’s not it, there was no verbal abuse and if so she initiated it. Just because he had said something that was factual that hurt her ego dosent mean he is going to beat her it was humiliating to do what she did and I also wouldn’t want her being the mother of my son or daughter either and at the end of the day she is close to being 40 which did not need to be mentioned but it is TRUE she needs to start acting her age if she wants to argue with this man who clearly has his shit together why do you think he has custody of his daughter and his ex wife doesn’t. You know how hard it is for a man to gain custody of his child when people file for divorce the court always favors the mother. So He’s obviously doing something right This man did nothing except expressed how he felt. And that’s why men don’t speak on how they feel because it’s not socially acceptable. Don’t let your bias opinion on men convince you that every man that puts a women in her place is going to beat her just because of your experience. You obviously don’t know which men to run from.

[@warriyu4878]

@@Santanapain shit...that was so well written i had to read that twice. if i could like it twice i would.

[@gehtdichnichtsan2418]

@@lorievans3718 Imagine having a 40 year old dude asking girls in their twenties to strip down in dodgeball on fucking TV.

[@antislutful]

3:01 RESPECT! Yosef is gonna raise a wonderful, classy daughter who will grow up in honesty and care for other people.

[@sages101]

"I tried to help" Yosef isn't the one that needs help. He's got more balls than everyone in that room combined.

[@hazmoses1324]

The guy at 1:40 had so much frustration lol. Over a chick that played him like nothing 😂

[@zLxtoa]

I swear to god the looks they gave him when he said “if my daughter did something like that i hope she gets called out on it” was funny af, they solidified in my mind that they’re simps lol

[@searchingsoul1728]

What's a simp?

[@PrestonGarveyofthesettlements]

@@searchingsoul1728 A personwho pedestalizes women/men to the point that they can no longer see any flaws or may see themselves as inferior. Often simps lack confidence to be honest with whom they may be attracted to.

[@searchingsoul1728]

@@PrestonGarveyofthesettlements So a simp would raise questions regarding their sexuality? Also, would simp be equivalent to the previous terms for coward, wuss, weak, weakling, spineless?

[@KatelynDawn]

Is simp a word for someone who respects other peoples feelings and would rather communicate with kindness? I’ll take that thanks.

[@NukeCaulfield]

@@KatelynDawn No. Its a word for people who don't hold others accountable because they're attracted to them.

[@christianarce801]

“I’m going to help you help yourself” - Another Simp in the room .

[@Smooth258]

Incel spotted. Why do you hate women so much? Why can't you judge women fairly?

[@TheDan2017]

Love how he is now getting canceled xD

[@yesman8074]

Lol exactly

[@christianarce801]

@@Smooth258What are you talking about? I didn't even mention the girl.

[@noremac0575]

@@Smooth258 You're so insecure. I'm so sorry you're like this. Ino it prolly came from your mother insulting you after wetting the bed. I just hope you get better.

[@TooGumbica]

Did any of them respond after? Or hid in shame? I feel like he deserves at least one "mb sorry, u were right".

[@summerrose8110]

I'm so glad Yosef didn't back down. These dudes are so blind they tried to coerce him into thinking he was in the wrong and not hold her accountable for what she did. And how she already chose the winner beforehand, so all the men were humiliated for nothing. Simpletons.

[@kajuta240]

The simping is real. Only one man in this room.

[@Mozoleum27]

There can be only one, lol.

[@partyofnineM]

Couldn’t agree more! I actually put your “he’s the only man in the room” in my comment as well because you literally nailed it!

[@hijaovercomer5500]

Totally!

[@supreme1096]

Except for Yusef, All those dudes were licking the muddy shoes of Clare's feet. The rest of the males need to move to S.I.M.P city, S.I.M.P mountain,

[@soundseeker63]

Sad bunch of virtue signalling manginas. Crazy thing is I bet they all think they came across as really good guys too! I have literally zero respect for any of them. They will end up being doormatted and manipulated in their future relationships with woman, and deservedly so.

[@andso7719]

Guy is clearly extremely intelligent. I love watching actual intelligent men arguing with people that try to get by on "Bro" credits. Good stuff.

[@b3at2]

@R B Sweeting Nope...he is a true man.

[@sonyvalencia]

@R B Sweeting Narc is the same thing he seems like he has an arrested development.

[@peedubs1623]

When I grow up, I want to be a honored, principled, stoic man like this! Dude you ROCK for holding your opinions and delivering them in this ultimate manly way! 🔥🔥🔥🔥✊🏿👍🏿💯

[@stewmeat92]

What I don't understand is how is it that these guys don't realize they embarrassed themselves.

[@thecapone45]

That woman humiliated those men, Yosef calls it out, and the other men instead try and defend their foolishness. She didn’t choose any of you. Yosef had more maturity by calling out the foolishness and those men just showed why men can be so easily manipulated by women. Cause men let egos get in the way of admitting when you were stupid. Yosef is right and has more sense of respect than those other men in the room.

[@bahamutr4270]

Me and my wife were watching the new Bachelorette, and they did a few half naked events with the guys, I paused and told my wife if this was a man making women do this, he is a pervert and tasteless. Idk i have kids, I definitely would not have done the events

[@PlanetXeddex]

This is like chad standing up for himself in a room full of betas.

[@tonytoni1150]

Exactly.

[@Statupalmambarbacot3345]

I think this is rather a strong man standing up to simps...

[@status8477]

EVERY man felt threatened!

[@jordanamritt7748]

Exactly 💯

[@mdr3mredeye870]

Soooo true

[@itdoesmatteryep8822]

I have so much respect for him not being a punk like the other biological males in the room. He won't be bullied and that is honorable.

[@annoyingcat5328]

The simps were all like "How DARE he not care what we think about him!"

[@dragonblazzer9698]

Clare: Misrepresents her values, objectifies people, hides her feelings, abandons these guys halfway through the season and wastes everyone's time... Neutered dudes: Omg such a queen, so much elegance! Please may we simp for you, highness? Yosef: You're 40, Clare. Act like it. Neutered dudes: HOW DARE YOU? CAN'T BELIEVE YOU HAVE NO RESPECT FOR PEOPLE. APOLOGIZE NOWWWW

[@evanmarzan3127]

society right tf now

[@eyeam7183]

🤣

[@TheGodfather101]

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[@davidfetherston2083]

It just goes to show if you Simp, you go all in. Like bible thumpers.

[@neutralnovelist]

@@davidfetherston2083 dang 👌

[@femdivinemind7777]

These men are embarrassing themselves and they don't even realise it. I hope they realise that women watching with an ounce of sense won't fault him lol.

[@dickgrayson4325]

There not men.

[@bluelit4830]

What men?

[@codeblueduceduce]

There are too many "women" and white knights attacking dude.

[@Kassie6600]

Ew

[@camikaye6795]

nope i definitely fault him

[@StanOwden]

They’re bitter because they devalued themself to impress an old woman and he call them out on that. Well done Yosef!!!

[@naqshsharma6686]

Respect for this man , has increased so much

[@gloriaabalo6500]

I totally agree with Yosef. He shouldn't apologize for anything.

[@kehinderufai7498]

I admire his testicular heft.

[@jesuschick7872]

Yosef had integrity. I wish all men would follow in his footsteps. And I’m glad he called Clare out, if I did something along those lines. I would want someone to call me out. I still don’t see how he disrespected her. This honestly reminds me of the Luke P situation.

[@neerajkamra]

I cant believe how the host was trying him to admit wrong. Unbelievable! If people are wondering where some of these entitled women get their ideas from -- this video is Exhibit A

[@bigboibundy7566]

They're defending a woman that embarrassed them, and already picked the man she wanted before the show.

[@Nobodycares100]

I respect my boy yosef a 100% these guys are the worst kind of simps ever

[@themysteryofgodliness6574]

The simp mob is a very cringy thing.

[@RyanGBanister]

Seriously, it hurts my eyes looking at all the simpetry.

[@marksmith-jp5gy]

@@themysteryofgodliness6574 you guys are awesome... thank god real men are defending Yosef in the comment section.. classic

[@THOMASCOLTON1]

Awesome job Yosef, much respect, fuck these simps

[@Smooth258]

Calm down Incel

[@blazebear777]

Being a man in 2021 who stands up for himself and speaks his opinion in a calm manner is the wrong way to go... apparently... What a sad bunch of idiots. It’s good that he stood his ground.

[@b3at2]

No...dont equate this to everyday reality. This is the Hollywood reality. Where they pressure you to do all sorts of inappropriate things for the sake of the "show"... in real life, stripping naked if you feel uncomfortable with it would be seen as wrong.. It seems a lot of you have agendas to promote here, but I see through all the BS.. from both Hollywood and red pill blue pill and alt-righters or whoever.

[@Tojoj22]

Or your not getting laid

[@sonyvalencia]

In a calm matter, you must not pick up on tone, body language, and micro-expressions very well.

[@blmtrashjimmyisgay5507]

Sounds just like the Democrats

[@Papadidas]

He has my respect. Anyone who is a parent understands why he has that stance. Or anyone with any honor.

[@yasbish1304]

Total respect to Yousef

[@pumpkinspicelatte6461]

I’m glad Yosef didn’t apologize, he’s a real man with standards. These other boys are simps trying to play ball with a sexy man.

[@elijahparis-salmon9943]

But your words have a huge impact on people. And what Yosef did was so messed up. He hurt Clair and he was disrespectful. Could you imagine if someone spoke to his daughter like that. He’s a bad father then

[@pumpkinspicelatte6461]

@@elijahparis-salmon9943 if words have a huge impact then “Clair should choose hers wisely as well, what goes around comes around and she played all these guys. If any daughters was shady like Clair then they should face the consequences and they get what they deserve, not all woman are right just because they are a woman. Plenty of woman out there are liars and same goes with men.

[@elijahparis-salmon9943]

@@pumpkinspicelatte6461 I understand where you’re coming from. I think Clair is just kinda toxic and it got silent because everyone was afraid that they weren’t gonna get enough time with her and they had to laugh it off and talk with each other and make the night about her be amazing. And then she feels like they weren’t their for her so she had the nerve to attack them and bash at them for no reason. She was leading them on the whole time and I think next time she needs to learn how to be more respectful

[@codeblueduceduce]

@@elijahparis-salmon9943 him calling out her age is not disrespectful. She literally yelled at him and cut him off multiple times before he got to that point. Even her body language was aggressive.

[@elijahparis-salmon9943]

@@codeblueduceduce i understand. And she was not respectful to any of the guys at all

[@wingaminga]

Yosef was the real winner. He realize she wasn't worth it and checked himself out. Simps jealous cause they didn't get any in the end

[@JohnnyScumbagg]

“You’re almost 40” Flawless victory

[@goforit321]

In a world full of tools be a Yosef!

[@HAPPYPANDA53]

Yosef standing his ground, refusing to buckle under pressure. Mass respect.👊

[@maubraymzoma6616]

There was no reason for him to apologize, I love the fact that he stood and did not bend the knee.

[@jaymsantiago]

Yosef doesn’t care one bit & I love it.

[@genuinehuman1]

I want to subscribe to his KZbin channel. Can someone suggest me where it is?

[@helensullivan5618]

I thought when this whole strip dodge ball happened it was a bridge too far. I think Clare went too far and stripped away their dignity.

[@tylertang2110]

that dude conviction is like titanium steel, uncompromising. Under relentless assaults from his peers but he stand tall. Much respect to that, such a rare commodity these days among simps!

[@gehtdichnichtsan2418]

Even seeing him say, that he would want someone to call out the BS of his daughter, then seeing these frickin chisel chins not approving, just shows what kind of shitty entitled brats they gonna put into the world.

[@brittanystewart723]

mad respect for yosef. he has healthy standards, and isnt backing down from that.

[@kordizzle101]

Wow. I am so attracted to him. WHAT A MAN. Good for him for standing his ground. I’m a woman in the dating scene and I appreciate men who stay true to their morals and stand up for themselves.

[@DmanDice]

Say it lounder for the simps in the back miss lol

[@ericdravennevermore2566]

Yosef represents the true 1% The rest were sheeple, mAsses.

[@lovedeborah]

AGREE 1000%

[@techienate]

Yosef is an absolute legend, what a boss. This is what happens when a guy who isn't a simp somehow ends up in a simp situation like this show.

[@blanelltallur1]

The dodgeball date was quite distasteful. If this was "The Bachelor" and the male lead of the show had asked all of the women to strip down after losing the dodgeball date there would have been a lot of outrage. there is a double standard.

[@luxvella1598]

Yosef's confidence level: 50000 The others: screaming lil babies 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@enochmontufar2485]

This guy deserves a bow for standing up and not backing down on what he sees is wrong. Hats off dude!

[@allenchristopher8095]

this guy is the MAN !

[@Kallenxo]

Out of all of these “men” I think he’s the only man any respectable woman would date in that room. Truly.

[@brianhernandez9750]

Well said my dude. Stay true

[@kcc-karenschroniccorner9432]

The guys saying they could have said “no” to the volleyball date are full of it. They would have gotten pressure from producers and a bad edit. Yosef didn’t escalate anything, Clare did. He stayed calm and just wanted to be heard. The way the guys and Chris H tried to shame him here is pathetic.

[@stephaniewong3539]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/mZy4nIpubt-Bl6c maybe that'll help you understand. Also she listens to him for 20 mins w/out interruption and he can't even listen for 2 seconds w/out interrupting..

[@marchuta326]

@@stephaniewong3539 She interrupted him. It is him trying to keep talking. That is a very feminist way of seeing the reality. Like Hilary when she said women were the biggest victims of war.

[@nickgrier7803]

Thank u KCC. You’re one of the few

[@arianb.c.2997]

@@stephaniewong3539 I actually saw the video you linked. The psychologist is a simp and feminine he doesn’t understand Honor

[@thestardustgamer296]

@@stephaniewong3539 Since you're Asian and is ok with dudes simping for a 40 year old used up girl i wonder if you're ok simping for a dude just like Clare?

[@AllyMeg]

That is a man with integrity. The rest of those men are embarrassing as hell.

[@rickyderby]

“I… tried to help” as if he needed your help🤣.

[@secullenable]

This guy is such a legend. 99% of men in this country can learn a lot from this video.