You are not your parents

[@dakotam3815]

Sometimes nobody taught us to be strong and so we had to teach ourselves. Sometimes nobody saw our tears and so we tried so hard not to cry to avoid the question that we knew was coming, "why?" And sometimes we've just got to make the best of a situation that we cannot control. Sometimes life is going to be out of our hands. And that's okay.

[@juliamagnusson8670]

I've been mentally and emotionally abused by my narcissistic parent all my life. Struggling with all the trauma, trying to heal while I'm still stuck at home with her. Thank you for this. Really needed to hear it ❤️

[@dorathagod1979]

😔💔 I can relate

[@isma4507]

Hey juila I understand your words 😞 if you want a talk share something talk with me add me where do you ? Feel comfortable

[@toddramljak9196]

I never thought a parent could be narcissistic, but I’m living it. It hurts! Is it ok to leave that parent?

[@theservicerose5949]

I can relate. I didn’t realize my mom was a narcissist until about a year ago. I’m in college and currently stuck at at “home”with her.

[@mckaylalee4769]

This is the most truest thing I have ever heard in my entire life. Be who want to be and not what your parents want u to be 🥺♥️

[@JetpacksAudios]

Exactly :)

[@mckaylalee4769]

@@JetpacksAudios much appreciated for what u do on a daily thank u for helping me become the better in myself

[@mb5359]

@@JetpacksAudios You always make my day I suffer so much I cant name it but I hide my pain because it only gets worse and I dont want anyone to feel what I do

[@naia_in_pink5608]

I don't have understanding or loving parents and for awhile, I didn't want to be a parent because I was scared that I was going to continue that cycle of abuse that I went through. I changed my mind with time and decided that I'm going to adopt kids and show them how parents are really supposed to be. I'm going to give the love that I never got as a kid. I'm also hoping to heal my inner wounded child.

[@conniek1039]

you can do it! I'm hoping the same thing!

[@didi-dq9mh]

shit. thank u so much for this. i rlly rlly needed this. feels good to know im not the only one who has to go through this every single day.

[@JetpacksAudios]

we will be alright!

[@brittneypickett2135]

My parents taught me what not to do. You're right. Our healing is our own responsibility. And that's why I cut them out of my life for good. Too toxic. Your videos are so inspiring

[@JetpacksAudios]

I applaud you for choosing yourself!

[@isaythat2063]

When you feel unloved and lonely, remember, your family members feel the same. I cannot deny that this makes me cry like a baby. Thanks for reminding us that the best revenge is no revenge at all. ❤

[@eliskahalesova63]

Honestly... I can't stop crying. PS: i love your voice❤️

[@dorathagod1979]

You gon be fine❤️ Stay Strong

[@Geel6-t2q]

same on school holding back my tears

[@hendriettebouillon1086]

My ex best friend was almost like her parents but i am not like my parents I am myself the thing is you just need to listen to your parents ❤❤❤❤❤

[@AMBATAKUM-73isk]

This is really true. I am the opposite of my mom. My mom is not sensitive at all you can say anything too her and she won't cry. Me on the other hand I cry over one raise voice. I get yelled at to shut up, it's nothing. I love art, music, gaming, like staying outside. My mom loves, hunting, rough housing, going outside. Everyone expects me to be just like her. I am not like any of my family for keeps sake. I was raised to keep your problems to yourself and other people has more important ones yours don't matter. Hide everything never tell no matter what it is. I am 13 and still with my mom and nothing has changed. My plan is to move to the UK when I am older and go to a art school. Even how much my mom says my family fought in the war for freedom, I don't want to live here. The USA is the last place I wanna live when I am older. (I am in a military family) The USA has riots after riots. People are constantly fighting for there rights here. Why would I want to stay when I have a high chance of getting shot here?

[@ronaknawani1357]

hey your voice is so relaxing and your content is life changing keep it up 😊👍.

[@JetpacksAudios]

thank you so much, I appreciate it!

[@ronaknawani1357]

@@JetpacksAudios your welcome 🙏.

[@nyrvii3]

Ik

[@suwenlin3736]

these are the exact words that i needed to hear. i am turning 18 in a month and part o me is scared but part of me feels empowered because I’ve been struggling with childhood emotional neglect and have been trying all kinds of self development tactics to overcome it for the past 2 years and I guess turning 18 comforts me in a way. i will be responsible for healing that hurt inner child because i will be an independent adult. thank you so much for uploading this. i’m sorry you ever felt the same way and hearing this made me realize for the first time that i’m truly not alone, for i heard the authenticity in your voice... again thank you, if you’re reading this❤️

[@JetpacksAudios]

I'm sorry for the neglect you've experienced but proud of you for trying everything to heal yourself! You're on the right track. Much love to you ❤️

[@kanhaconsciousness704]

When you said you're not alone I cried my guts out

[@sakshiguria9122]

The way you express your feelings is just fabulous dear❤... It make me feel each and every line

[@JetpacksAudios]

Thank you so much ☺️

[@sarahhh888]

I just finished my workout and.. I saw the notification of this video and I clicked it to watch. And now I’m laying here on my sports mat, crying and I don’t even know why. I don’t have abusive parents. I love my parents and they love me. But only hearing your voice and then some sentences that just hit so hard.. made me cry, because I think it’s all my fault. I feel like it’s because of me. You don’t have to understand what’s because of me, because all I wanted to say is.. thank you.

[@arshidabinzi809]

Hey same as me ,I just finished my workout too:)

[@justastranger5129]

I needed this right now. Edit: *You just got a new subscriber.*

[@olyviavanity8750]

It's not that my parents lack of understanding and caring for me hurts, but it does hurt to look at how loved my siblings are.

[@talktome5210]

You were also loved dear!

[@AllDaGoodUsernamesWereTaken]

I had the same problem. In a way I still do. I still remember the way my siblings were spoken to, how my mother's tone of voice would change, her whole exterior, her words. How she would cook for my younger sister as a child and not me. How my own siblings not ever really treating me like a person back then didn't help either. How it just never made sense but it just was, and now they act like it all never happened. Like my mother didn't suddenly come fucking shit up in the middle of the night and only spoiled and coddled who she wanted to and would feed off of whoever the fuck she felt like making suffer for the day like a vulture, now I am still stuck with the same people. And it sucks because of how Isolating it feels, and how it's almost on purpose on their part, how they do what they do and they know becaus otherwise you wouldnt be the only one they treated this way while they go be good and kind to others. And it gets tiring and terrible and being stuck with such terrible disgusting things - it gets hard. I hope you are okay and if you arent I hope youll be okay soon

[@xxcoffee_addictxx3197]

I felt this...this helped let go of a lot of dead weight thank you

[@angeltownley4118]

Thank you. You might not know it. But you have saved my life many times. By that I mean you have made me want to some how keep fighting. And right now. You just made me stay even longer. Only for the little girl who never thought she could have a future. And I doubt you will even see this comment. But if you do, thank you so much.

[@jmcc323]

Dang this hit me. This is Amazing!

[@atticus5748]

Thank you for this, I needed it...

[@intuitionj9394]

this was so beautifully put

[@tanyahemraj6451]

Omg u keep me alive honestly

[@kavitasingh5604]

I feels understood through your content , and they way you give inspiration to change the things like going in that pain with us and making us understand that you actually understand what we feels and like trying to get rid of that shit is amazing. One day we all are going to get the freedom from all the fuking shit

[@kurootetsurou6463]

No dislikes says a lot about Jay’s content and its quality.

[@ziad_helmy]

I am from Egypt and I love you so much ❤️ Keep it up ❤️❤️

[@idkimgay]

your videos are the only videos that make me cry and for some reason i like that

[@rnee34411]

Thank you for this ❤️

[@rheanamm485]

This is coming at the right time, struggling with my relationship to my sister & mom.. thank you for your words 🙏🏾✨

[@blitzflosse4638]

Thank you. I thank you sooo much. For let me cry, for understanding me without knowing me. Bringing me to stay. I would have given up a long time ago...

[@suluetibose895]

Your voice is so soothing..Thank you so much for these !! You are an inspiration.. God Bless You

[@sonam8625]

U said those things that we feel scare of talking with people and think that can he or she will understand coz they didn't even go through it. It's blessing that I m not the one thinking this. THANK YOU SERIOUSLY. ❤

[@frankarchibald732]

I love your content. I think It was you who made the dear best friend..... that really helped me out of a very dark place after my best friend of 20 years died. Thank you for your poetry. It really helps people.

[@adhyakejriwal]

This doesn’t have a single dislike....

[@Hi_hello123]

I’ve had deep deep deep depression and anxiety I almost had given up until I seen your videos thank you so much Ily all your videos 🥺🥺🥺

[@tamaragenar2636]

I've been following you for 3 years..you are an inspiration and I find so much support i hope your doing well....I understand....love from Belgium 🇧🇪

[@fatemehmaroofi9684]

Thanks for giving us a good feeling There is no time that parents can understand us .

[@lilianchavez4253]

thank you so much you make the gratest videos

[@dixietorres9209]

This is what I needed to hear thank you so much

[@ncgkamikaze8812]

Love your videos so much they help me a lot!!

[@Whittttttier]

I love my parents, so much, but they did do some things that cant be taken back

[@abdullahalvi3522]

superb voice

[@melike9057]

Thank you

[@seyiselaton]

I'm so thankful for this i needed this

[@Haarttt]

Thankyou for this❤️

[@Sarah-ut4lf]

That made me feel good , thank you

[@nashleejones7431]

Feeling strong proud of being me thank you Jetpack

[@willowjade9087]

Thank you I really needed to hear this..❤

[@HanHanbird]

The best revenge, is no revenge at all

[@aiisarchive]

Thank you !

[@moved4567]

Thank you so much 🤍

[@PANZERBREAD]

My dad after he left when I was one every time I go to his house I come back home with doubts if I'm good enough for him good enough for the family and my older siblings blame me for my dad leaving when I want them to love me so now I feel like I don't belong

[@astriheruwati5685]

Make a podcast in spotify please ♡

[@A_dumbexistance]

i love your content, a lot of them hit me deep, make me smile. would i be allowed to use this audio in a video to lift other's spirits? i wont be claiming it as my own and will give credit. but i would like to ask before i do

[@maya_guzy9645]

I Love it

[@redboi3492]

Dang bro no dislike at all. Cool 👍🔥

[@urmommy6558]

My parents were not bad but they left me when I was little.. my dad left before I was born and my mum left me when I was 3 I was left with my grandparents and have to hide the pain

[@isabellacordova4833]

Thanks you I’m not gonna give up

[@alex-xt9sj]

Chills...

[@rebecca8535]

My friends keep on asking me why why are you so sad why but I have no idea how to respond to that question

[@happywattson7627]

Thank u.

[@chiaradanna4547]

wow

[@alanapreusse1335]

I'm having a really bad time with my parents and I don't know if I can do any of this anymore

[@jocivia]

This made me so sad ; from personal experience:Words hurt . But this Also made me think of Michael Jackson , he mentioned his dad was mentally , physically and verbally abusive and I thought of him through out this video .

[@qliu6935]

True

[@espada2905]

I feel like that every day 😔😞😒

[@manfromgallifrey5547]

We all carry prisons within ourselves. But here's the secret, we also carry the keys.

[@lonewolve4108]

The past is past i just hope it dosent last @_@

[@girlwithaterriblevoice5674]

Relate to this 100% I'm not on it I'm not important I'm not any of those things I'm just a piece of garbage

[@idontknow467]

i had to leave home for my safety and cps is trying to bring me back because my Aunty can't look after me my friends mum wants to take me in but we need approval

[@2kisogod237]

Jay I need ur help what should I do I'm good at basketball and video games I want to KZbinr and a basketball player I don't know which path to pick help me

[@bean3701]

Dude, you can be more than one thing in life.

[@midnightgunner680]

Jay, if something is not going well in your life please look on your instagram msg and talk to me. You reached and helped so many people, this is me reaching out to you. If everything is truly going good then great job on another amazing video, keep it up :).

[@siinnisou1985]

Please can some one write lycris !!

[@JetpacksAudios]

they're in the description

[@siinnisou1985]

@@JetpacksAudios thanks my frind ❤ from algeria ❤you are the best at all💚💙💪

[@nikolinakontic2435]

19 sec

[@prepppy6767]

This title reminds me of progressive 🤣🤣