You Can't Force Your Heart To Love Her

[@hemi3364]

Just ended things with her today!! She loved me so much, was obsessed with me for 4 years, i never committed, i kept telling her that i am not ready or not feeling it! It hurts me to see that I couldn’t love her back!! Idk maybe god wants me to struggle more, she did everything for me!! I just hope this is right way to go about it because i am hurting letting her go but i know its only right to do so. No point in forcing my self to love. I am taking a chance on myself, wish me luck

[@anonguylurking]

same here bro. good luck to you.

[@nathanaelmccooeye3204]

How’s it going?

[@capricetony]

I broke up with a girl I had dated on and off for five years two weeks ago. Deep down I knew this all along but felt bad that she was a great girl and was really into me. I tried to find it in me to make it work but we were never on the same page. The last five minutes of the video made me feel great after feeling sh***y since breaking up. I have to admit at 38 years old it was the kick in the ass I needed that it was not my fault I was not on the same page as her. Thanks very much! Anthony

[@johnrafael2467]

How s life now?

[@clarissabrooks2502]

Thanks Anthony! I've been with this guy for a couple of months my biggest mistake was allowing him to move in with me. I had already told him we should wait but I gave in and said yes. Imma have to breakup with him. I do not love him and I am unhappy with him he is a great guy but I'd rather stay by myself I was happier spiritually and mentally by myself everything in life is a process I am finding out I'm still in the process of loving myself. Peace love and light. I needed this video

[@Christian-xw8ne]

If I'm just okay, don't come my way. If you can get better do it. I want the best for everybody.

[@PeteyP39]

Same thing with me; had a gorgeous ex, great sex, professional, made allot of money, great family; but she just didn't have all of the qualities I want in a woman. Just didn't have the spunk, personality, fun, positive attitude that I wanted to have in a potential future wife.

[@bum408]

14 Years into the relationship. We have a 13 year old son, who I love with all my heart but with my girlfriend, I just don't feel attraction nor emotionally attached to her. Doesn't help that she tries to take control of the house and minimizing my roll. She cries saying that we can fix it but I'm just not invested. I find it hard to deal with it. I care for her since she is my son's mother but I don't love her.

[@thewaxandgreaseremover6182]

She’s probably emotionally and mentally fucked and you gave up my bro.

[@nathanaelmccooeye3204]

If you were dating it would be different. You’re a home wrecker if you leave now imo. You gotta do some soul searching and figure it out man. Also I’ve watched a bunch of true crime so if it’s between this and killing your family then sure just leave. But if you’re a sane person, man up and show up for her bro, you got this

[@yasmaniaguiar8221]

What if she has all the qualities I wrote down but something feels missing/not feeling crazy in love?

[@creativeembargo]

Precisely this: I fought. I found the woman of my dreams. She has all the qualities I wrote down, but I’m not feeling it anymore. I need to reevaluate. Man, this sucks more than any breakup I had in the past.

[@sayian2k]

Wow, the last 6 mins really spoke to me. Thanks, Coach Corey Wayne

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Good job for not settling.

[@theliftexpert]

The girls childhood is such an important indicator of the problems you will have to face later in life with her ! Find a girl who had a healthy upbringing with a loving mother and father.

[@PedroDVC]

Well done... I got the courage to do it myself, today...

[@romesrepublic]

My last relationship was like this. My ex and i quickly hit it off. Though i was never really that into her romantically, i knew she was. So I asked her to be my girlfriend after knowing her for less than a month, because i was afraid of losing her as a friend. I quickly realized that she was not the girl i wanted to be with. So i tried to turn her into the girl i wanted to be with. As you can probably guess, i was never satisfied. She would tell me she loved me all the time, but i would always struggle to say it back. Didn't help that she wasn't very feminine, wasn't affectionate, overweight, messy, and the sex was underwhelming. Though i cared for her, i never loved her. After 3½ years of being miserable, and two failed breakup attempts on my part, our relationship ended in a trainwreck. I miss her, but I'm sure that's only because i haven't started dating other women. I won't know till then.

[@thetalkinggrowthchannel9262]

Heartbreaking story bro. 😥💔.. You'll be alright tho bro !

[@brettpitman3718]

Three years!? I’m one year in and still deciding today whether or not I’m going to end it

[@thewaxandgreaseremover6182]

I feel you my brotha, but you shouldn’t beat yourself up too much, what was the alternative? You spend the rest of your only life in a miserable relationship, or, you chase after what you really want and deserve? Also, don’t forget they a routine is sometimes more prevalent than love. And it sounds like you were used to the routine, but when you were in the relationship, you definitely weren’t in love. What you miss is the routine~

[@hemi3364]

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[@prestonthomas5399]

Needed this message. Thank you

[@johnnybk7436]

Thanks coach!! The last part really hits it home.

[@Flordiaman1]

I love the knowledge gap analogy thank you Cory

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Thanks :)

[@sdg954]

I have a question about marrying your best friend. I’ve been dating my gf for about 16 months. She is one of the sweetest people I’ve ever met or dated. We have done almost everything together since we’ve met. And we like a lot of the same things. I can say at this point she is my best friend. Only thing is, at this point our sex life has gotten extremely boring and I constantly crave sex with other women, though I do not act on it. What would you say to someone in that situation?

[@s.y.6932]

I would say you will end up cheating because somehow the person you are with is not fullfilling something

[@CubbyWalters]

I thought woman are more attracted to a man if their feelings are unclear? I'm confused...

[@pamsimonson5500]

Just cause I can't say it doesn't mean I don't care about her to the point of beating a cop for her

[@dricacorcoran3673]

This is true, I just found out the hardware. We split in Nov, she was being mean af, talking to me like an asshole. Well we got back in mid Jan. I felt nothing. I said I love you but felt guilty bc I didn't. Well we got a room a week ago, and for me to even calm down enough bc she had been so unrelenting, yelled at me at every store we went In that day, in front of people. She does this on purpose, I feel. Well it has caused me to lose attraction, avoid sex. Never has that happened. Esp bc shes fine af. Everyone tells me she's beautiful or hot. But I can't see it now. I had to think she was another girl. I made her pull up her hair , do makeup differently. I couldn't look at her. It turned out okay, got her 5 times, but I was rushing. Well the following week we went out or spent time. Friday after I leave shes.bitching. never fails. , I tell her you wait till I leave , then fi d some tiny reason to be upset. She says its time for her to stop talking to .e for a bit. Shes done this before. Next day I said I'm done, I can't deal w this. Don't come back, I don't want you in my life. Bc shes always saying she ll be in my life. I was calm. , not upset. Sh e s emailed but I haven't opened it. Thats how I know my feelings are dead. I packed up all the stuff she bought in last 2 months including Christmas gifts. 98 percent are still in package, or tags on them. She still has stuff coming. I told her stop bc I didn't feel right. I loathed having gifts from her, idk why, just hated it

[@thewaxandgreaseremover6182]

That’s what happens to us when we are with a woman who is mentally and emotionally fucked up. No matter how fine she is, we can’t fuck a demon.

[@DriftingFortniteVault]

Kudos to him not her, she wanted a baby daddy's child support.

[@proxyuser2809]

Coach Corey Wayne to the rescue. Dun dun dun.

[@chriswalls5831]

I'm not I'm love

[@sugarbear4063]

Let me know selling your book so I can buy one I love relationship