You Can't Heal Yourself Out of a Desire!

[@D4NC3Rable]

Honestly my biggest question is where the hell you're getting all of these amazingly precise stock photos & videos, and who collects them 😂😂

[@ascendingneet2263]

Dude I’ve been wondering for the longest

[@FoXWoR]

the universe.

[@joybreegaming8781]

She asks and the universe awnsers

[@MyTerraincognita1]

Unsplash is one of those sites with royalty free pics, easy

[@hfortenberry]

@@MyTerraincognita1 Yeah, I recognize a lot of them from Unsplash.com.

[@camilla3874]

having an authentic desire is gonna scream inside you, when you fight it. When you embrace this desire with total acceptance and non-judging space holding for it , it begins to soften its voice and it doesn't matter truly if this desire will manifest the dream behind it , or not... I understand that by acknowledging this desire and purify it from false judgments about it and stop creating all kinds of worse case scenarios around it, space starts to open up to the benefit of the healing process. Not erasing the trauma on purpose, but as a side effect of adapting to a new mindset about original desires, post ( past ) traumatic stress will dissolve.

[@AuthenticSelfGrowth]

I believe certain desires can come from truth and others come from trauma and ego. As we transcend we can move towards authentic desires 🔥 Great topic!!

[@mykeybe3354]

@Sattva Ram ... The enemy of my enemy is Me, Myself, and I. Make no enemy, not even of the ego-mind; for it too serves the highest good...when held in its highest light. The "Compassion In Emptiness" is an acceptance of " all that is". Discernment not Judgement, admittedly this is a very fine line that is determined entirely from one's own perception, especially if that perception is an adopted dogma disguised as ones Dharma. The differences of spirituality, religion, and everything in between. The pursuit of absolute truth is to walk a path of perceived lies, and yet, the greatest of lies ever told could only ever be founded on the most profound of truths. Just as I must accept that one man's lie, is still his truth, even if I do not believe in his truth. No one ever comes to know anything buy knowing everything. Thank You for Being. Much Love, Michael. NAMASTE

[@Jasonjnicholson]

I agree. Some desires are innate. We simply know fulfilling them will further us on our paths. Unfortunately, it’s difficult distinguishing natural desires from their conditioned counterparts. The feeling to have, experience, accomplish is the same, natural and otherwise (at least in my experience). Furthermore, because a desire is of the ego doesn’t make it wrong. Some could argue shoes, in-home plumbing, the devices we’re currently connecting on are all of the ego. They certainly aren’t necessary to maintain our base homeostasis. Is it wrong to desire artificial soles to protect our feet? Should we shun purified water to clean our bodies and homes? Are we lesser beings for wanting millions of dollars so we can explore ourselves, others and the world we live in? The paragon of paradox if there ever was one. Great comment, Authentic. Amazing video, Teal!

[@sweetspleen795]

@Sattva Ram You came on this earth because you desired it. Why? Only you know it. If your not aware of your desired even sexual. You'll be hurting pepole around you.

[@AthenaOnyx]

@Authentic Self Guide I agree. I actually have experienced it first hand. A year and half ago when I started my journey with LOA I was trying to draw all of these material possessions into my life, but instead of the Universe giving me all these things it took me on a journey that demonstrated that I didn't even want them in the first place. It's funny because I went from wanting a mansion with a room dedicated to clothing of every color of the rainbow, to only owning two pairs of jeans and two shirts. The only thing I desire right now is a passionate, happy romantic relationship and good times with people that I love. It would probably be easier to get the mansion, LOL. But, I know it's possible I just have to learn how to heal and to flow. Looking back I think the reason I thought I desired material possessions was because my grandmother was stingy with her money and love, but she was much more likely to show her love through buying me things.

[@AnnafromHungarylvNW]

You will always have an ego, if you ever experience egolessness, it's going to be for a split second. So, really being egoless for me means being able to accept that, to sit with your ego, not trying to get rid of it, deny it's wants or needs, just as much as you're doing that with others.

[@johnmahon5525]

To desire not to desire is still a desire.

[@nothingnobody910]

YES!! That's the Truth! Slam all the passive, flowery, spiritual mamby-pamby, tryna be spiritual, hurry up with your ascension crap...you gotta live your life honestly. That's what leads you to a better you.

[@nimuyreemu3723]

I have been ignoring having some of the desires I have .. To write To change my eating and health lifestyle To own a beautiful pair of shoes.. I judge my desires so much. I have problems with deservedness..

[@Ashlee-hh6di]

Me too… me too.

[@rainbowsonmyeyeballs8771]

Yes! This makes so much sense to me. I've tried to be "above" my desires for so long because I unconsciously have believed that having desires is unspiritual or something. But that has only caused me more pain and fragmentation!

[@alyaaearth4755]

Me too i tried to forget it but its like being crushed by an airplane completely out if alignment 😂

[@dust17111]

Being a mother and a good one does not stop you from doing something else Grand and epic , but take responsibility for the life you created

[@MochaxMatcha]

I suppose a better question would be, if I know my real desire is to be loved, admired, and appreciated by people whom I hold in high esteem, then what would I do to figure out the best route? Its one thing to realize your going about it wrong, but its another to figure out how best to do it. My mind goes blank

[@GBriser]

10:20 Yes, precisely. My desire is mixed for both actually helping people And the selfish one of making the world a safer place for me to live in. I value safety, and ironically, it helps me heal.

[@melissaoconnell5648]

Hearing you deeply on this..... having a sense in being motivated somewhat from this place as well, yet to a greater extent truly wanting others authentic being, happiness, peace. Demonstrating I can have me and have you too, as a part of me. Also being aware of what makes one another compatible. I begin to see way more clearly where the subconscious messages caused me to be in inner conflict and a completion process is needed. Thank you for sharing.

[@karenninascott]

"Something about you is wrong and needs to be fixed. That's pretty much the opposite of 'I love you.'"

[@LearningTheLanguage]

Experience of something wanted is all thats needed to heal

[@nira3188]

Although I can't fulfill my simple basic desires, i don't feel much guilty about myself. Thank you Teal , you nailed it ❤

[@briannab4770]

I want to eventually find a man who I can be with all the time. I flourish when I have the safety net of being encapsulated by a man who loves me and I'm tired of feeling like I'm wrong for having this. I'm not lonely, nor am I codependent. I'm happy by myself and I love being single. I spend almost all my life alone and I am not lonely. I am not seeking a man to fill this desperately empty void in myself. I just feel happy and fulfilled when I have a loving man as my counterpart who is always there and never far. I'm weary of feeling like some sort of freak or people making me feel like I'm some hopeless clinger for this. My brother and his boyfriend are together 24 hours a day and it's just so natural and what they prefer. Sometimes I feel like I'll never find that because I've only ever found that desire in either homosexual men or very traumatized and needy men. I am able to find men who want to be with me all the time, but they are suffocating and it doesn't feel like they pursue me because they want me, but they pursue me because they NEED me. Does anyone else have a similar experience?

[@sontrajamfemininegaze145]

I've a man like that, and he's not needy or traumatized at all. In fact he is the least traumatized person I've ever been close to. However, I had to go through a big transformation to be with him because my own traumas were clashing with his state of health. Today we're a good match and I'm much healthier for it. Good luck to you!

[@universealchemy]

I call the proximity “coexistence”, I love coexisting with people

[@universealchemy]

I think the belief that you’ve only found it in certain kinds of people is blocking you. You haven’t met enough people to make that conclusion. Nobody has met enough people in realistic terms. There’s billions of people you’ll never meet because they’re going to be born in the future where you’re already dead, and there’s billions alive where you’ll never meet because that’s the normal outcome.

[@nira3188]

Hi I understand your feelings. However I feel you should dig down deeper to really find the core desire you are craving for 😊. The thing you explained above seems you are just barely touching the surface 😢

[@Batwing092]

As a bisexual man I can really relate to this. I think most bisexuals subconsciously try to suppress their attractions to the same sex so that they can enjoy a straight lifestyle where nobody questions them. I came out to everybody I know, but I still feel that I sometimes feed my attractions to women more and try to ignore my attractions to men. It doesn’t work. If I suppress one attraction they all go out the window and I end up feeling asexual. I have to embrace all of my desire

[@nwatson2773]

Kamran Yussef I know what you mean

[@benjaminmorris2312]

No you don’t bro! It’s called sexual discipline it’s part of being a good man, I’m attacked too a lot of women but I don’t chase them. At the end of the day you will never quench that sexual desire the more you chase it the bigger it gets. That’s the only sin the Bible says too run from sexual sin!All the other ones it says pray about. Hope the best for you brother!

[@nira3188]

I can understand your feelings bro. Because I am a non monogamous , kind hearted man who entered in to a monogamous commitment 14 years ago. Imagine the suffering I'm facing 😢.

[@marygracesmith296]

I'm going though this exact problem right now. I just ended a relationship and it's really just...…… killing me. But thank the universe for Teal and this video, don't know what I'd do without you!

[@LisaS1]

My sister thought she knew what was best for me, not understanding that I knew (know) what is best for me and healthiest for me.

[@macoeur1122]

Great, GREAT advice...to keep asking ourselves what we want and why we want it....all the way down the line until we've reached that core desire. I've been doing this for so long it's become automatic...and even enjoyable.... and I find it's the most useful tool, by far, for self-awareness....and for gaining true focus....and for identifying the "leaks" in our energy and time that can "drain" the stream of energy directed toward what we desire.

[@sreelakshmi_viswam]

What if you come across a desire you don't know how to fulfill? Like wanting acceptance or validation or belonging? Many of my desires boil down to it but I don't know how to meet it authentically in my current environment of being surrounded by people are not so self aware....and as of now i cannot move out if this city

[@arcaneschool6350]

I healed the emotions first with EMDR and then started working on the inferiority complex caused by the trauma. Oh and the so called shadow. I'm embracing some of my shadow now that I wouldn't accept before because they are stronger qualities than the qualities that came from the lense of emotional perceptions. Awesome topic Teal.

[@noran2096]

My #1 desire was to be successful in my career however i couldn’t manifest the job i want after my graduation which was shocking to people cause i am known for being hardworking blabla, after doing some shadow work i discovered that subconsciously i don’t to work hard or to make money by myself, deep down i wanted to provided for and get money from people, therefore I can find money on the floor, manifest men providing for me, free gifts, getting money from bizarre ways, all this except A JOB lol The moral of the story is if you couldn’t manifest something for years is because subconsciously you don’t want it

[@noran2096]

I love the cv analogy haha, i see the shadow as the opposite of what we identify with, in my case i identified with this girl that works hard to achieve things, but i created this image to protect my weak self cause i was born with health issues and my family didn’t take care of me as they should, i suppressed/denied my desire to be protected, side note we fall in love with people who represent our shadow, us before fragmentation thats why we feel complete with those people “i feel i knew you before type of feeling” I suggest for @flowered sentiments to watch teal swan video called “shadow work”,

[@mylifejen6372]

Manifestation Godess girl yes! This is my life! I just discovered after 20 years of marriage (to an amazing man) that one of the key reasons I haven’t been as “successful” as i thought i would be at this season in my life because of all of the reasons you stated above. It’s because deep down, i wanted to be provided for, cared for, GIVEN the things i wanted instead of having to work for them. Lol- wow.. I literally manifested EXACTLY what i wanted. Now, i am in a place of healing from past childhood traumas, and new desires are springing up! Ahhh..

[@sweetspleen795]

@Sattva Ram Shadow are even in what you want too.

[@Kristyana]

Could you possibly explain how you went about releasing this? Or where you are now in life? Cuz I'm here and stuck cuz I've manifested being financially dependent on my boyfriend, which is embarrassing to admit out loud because like you said I've always I identified with being the go-getter. How do you live a successful life if this is your subconscious desire?

[@TheJeremyKentBGross]

@@mylifejen6372 Neither of you manifested anything. You are just describing the female reproductive strategy: make men do everything for you. It generally works because men's most common reproductive strategy is to be successful and then pay women with gifts and favors to try to get access to their reproductive abilities. Women are human beings, men are human doings. You don't need spirituality to figure this out, you just need a biology class not overburdened with politically correct lies and feminist propaganda.

[@coachbahman]

*No one or nothing is going to fill that void that's tormenting you...*

[@sathsah1593]

I guess so ..sometime a karmic relationship.

[@jazlanahn5027]

This really nails it! Wow! My desire to be something that was true is not what I could have been but now it's real. This makes so much sense now. Thank you!

[@taracorsi5224]

After all my spiritual awakenings depression and enlightenment. You nailed it on the head! Thank you!!

[@alyaaearth4755]

Happy for you

[@AnneTopp2506]

THIS BROUGHT SO MUCH RELIEF

[@danielleminceywhite3431]

I manifested this message! I asked and the Universe answered. Thank You!!

[@user-vx9yp7ch3e]

beautiful

[@LisaS1]

I've had a big desire for at least 11 years. That desire was to find my happy city and so 11 years ago I left the town I'd lived in for 30 yrs and set out to find my desire - my happy city. Bet 7 & 8 yrs ago my sister interrupts my desire by talking me into moving back closer to home. And so that's what I did - I traveled back to square 1 and nothing with family worked out as I'd hoped. So I started on my desire journey again but kept making relocation mistakes and although I know what kind of city I want, I still have managed, very unhappily not to get to my desired city. And my sister whom interrupted my desire, well, me and her are estranged now. And the rest of my siblings never mention seeing me.

[@jesus07575]

May the Swan be with you! By the way, if you read this comment you're beautiful.❤

[@TheLovelivepeace]

I love this!!!

[@BluePlanetTube]

Hi Teal. Loved your video and the content. Very powerful insights as always. There are aha moments spread all through. Usually I connect with one that is like rocket fuel for understanding at jet speed. Unravelling all the insights contained in their full depth is a blessing privilege you offer us all through your videos. I find it to be so precious in what I see as valuable for being the being we truly are to be. You have changed the world, your video's are changing the world. I'm glad I live in a world with you in it. You live by beautiful example. I see how resistance is holding me and I keep chipping away to free my fullness of being me. You have been the greatest help any stranger or perhaps any one person has ever offered me. Most people want things from you in return for their own personal benefit. It feels like you love us all as love really is. It feels like you want the best for each one of us. I want that too. I feel a profound love for you. Thanks your for sharing.

[@melissaoconnell5648]

Peace 🕊️ 🐝 Bee Thank you for showing up in ways I could never imagine. Palette, canvas and Fuller brush to color my whirld♾️🌈❇️🦋🌸🌻🌹🕊️🌼🌷🏵️💠🐝🎍💮✨📽️🌉🎦⛲💟💖🎶 🙏🌈💜♥️⛲🎨🖌️

[@1Kackow]

I have always desired to meet that special someone that you have a natural chemistry connection and not just another relationship of circumstance. And that both of you equally feel that connection and are on the same level so that you can experience each other in that beautiful limitless way like your minds eye is showing you but, no. Too many people are tools and do not even know themselves and who they are or they like to treat love as a game in where you open yourself up to them and show your vulnerability so only they can wield daggers and drive them deep into your heart. I see so many people get thrills out of toying with other peoples emotions, using things like love and friendship only as tools to manipulate and play with like little puppets. How is one not to feel wrong in a place where being fucked up and twisted is the norm? How is this not to make you prepare for the pain you always receive when you are merely being true to your desire and putting yourself out there only to be the object of ridicule In their wicked games? What you say sounds so beautiful in a perfect world, but in this world of sickness and corruption i fear to achieve what you say is only done by the luckiest few. Thanks for sharing.

[@JonnyChaos]

I don't genuinely know if I want my desires or if they're true. There's so many muddled parts of myself that don't make sense that I don't know if what I think is truly who I am, even actually is to try and accept it. There has never been scenarios in my life that have put the opportunity to me to find out either. It's just a giant ball of complete, ever changing confusion.

[@haideen5772]

This was the video of Teal that made the biggest change in my life

[@lanceroberthough1275]

Sending you prayers for comfort, healing, energy, vitality, focus and heaps of love.

[@aight33]

she seems exhausted and drained 😐

[@jistutz]

@@davincineptune Huh. I got so much from this video. I felt she was speaking directly to me at certain points.

[@stev838]

No woman don’t cry Every thing going to be alright. Teal. You have the power. My mom did both spoke nationally and raised good kids. It’s a matter of desire and backing. Your info is golden. This artist says I create because I must.

[@methoxyll]

thank you for your content teal. I love your authenticity and your vulnerability

[@mariakv86]

I really REALLY needed to hear this message today. Thank you Teal! So incredibly helpful

[@Arvyhernandez]

That is the truth, we can live in the reality that we prefer.

[@oh_kale_yeah1199]

Dude what you said about our shadow!!! Yes!! So much more of a clearer understanding!! Thank you!!!🤗✌🏼💚

[@candacekerwan8864]

Thank you Teal...this just what required to be answered...and did not realise this was the question.Much Gratitude.

[@RoosStokkel]

OMG, biggest insight ever: my bf and I are actually compatible (or I would've already left him out of sheer despair tbh, but I kept responding to him)! He wants autonomy, I want connection... Incompatible at first or so it seems. But why do I want connection? To feel seen, heard, felt. Why? To feel safe and supported. Why? So that I can create all the art that I want to express! In other words, I only have to align with the emotional, physical & financial support I need to be able to fulfill my desire to express myself. The box in which the flower blooms. Funny thing is, it's OK to get parts of my needs met from someone other than my bf, I actually want all those different people in my life. Thank you for nudging me over the edge to the enormous relief of this insight Teal Swan!

[@jnorfleet3292]

As cliche as it sounds, the only way to remove bad code implanted in the sub conscience mind by trauma, is true forgiveness for those that caused it - your desires will instantly change due to the change in mental context. It took me 30 years to figure it out, but completely changed my life when I finally did. I wish the same peace of mind on all those who are looking.

[@davidandrew6957]

I agree. But like Teal said, it often takes trauma and pain to heal trauma. Sometimes you're better off just living with trauma. It's like a broken leg that doesn't set right. You have to break it to fix it, and sometimes you end up worse off. Just a thought.

[@jasmineoates8823]

J Norfleet there are layers of healing, and you cannot forgive until you get angry. It’s far healthier to be authentically angry your whole life rather than faking forgiveness in an attempt to feel good

[@jnorfleet3292]

@@jasmineoates8823, and this is why I said *true forgiveness, which one will feel rather than think. Anger is a natural reflex, however, holding onto it forever is like drinking poison to hurt your enemy, it will only hurt you. I know forgiveness sounds corny, but until one can love their enemy as they love themselves, they haven't even started their spiritual journey.

[@alyaaearth4755]

Why can we use loa if we r not suppose to desier ? I my self used it and others it works

[@alyaaearth4755]

Peaceful doesn't mean happy or in alignment r u alignment with source ?

[@dollreemappmmk14]

Who is to say what one "CAN " or "CANT"??? ANY thing, and I repeat that ANYTHING is POSSIBLE!!!! ✌️✌️✌️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😊😊😊😊

[@montelo555]

This woman is so deep in her approch. Especially with that Healer example.

[@Mistrzdan]

After 12 years of releasing my trauma I just came back around to my initial desire that I tried to never think about. But still releasing was needed to be aware of that

[@talkshh]

i never followed the desire to achieve my ideal body. i will do the exercise and ask myself why i want it.

[@emmagraceburfoot6188]

That makes so much sense. I always attract relationships that make me feel safe but on the downside they leave me with very little room to be myself and create something for myself. I grew up with parents always fighting and when I was 15 years old, my mum threw me out of the house. So naturally I wanted to create a safe environment for myself but the problem is in seeking the safety net I also lost my freedom. Even though in both relationships I was looking for safety at the end of each relationship I ended up both financially and emotionally empty.

[@benjaminmorris2312]

Papaw always said if you get thrown off a horse you get back up dust yourself off and get back on a lil wiser! Life’s gonna kick ya ass from time too time it’s no way around it. It’s on you if ya stay down or not good luck too ya!

[@johncox2912]

I've watched this video several times and I think now I am finally beginning to GET IT. You cannot heal a desire - any desire. All you can do is heal the trauma that blocked you from obtaining your desire.

[@MrMagikBananas]

THIS VIDEO IS TOOOO MUCH.. DROPPING TOO MANY GEMS AT ONCE. MIND BLOWN

[@msvegan8993]

Can't wait to watch and as always thank you x

[@tetyanakostiuchenko6706]

Thank you so much for everything you do and share with us ✨🤲🏼🧡🙏

[@shadown5757]

This is so true, but at the same time it could be so scary to fulfill a desire and specially when you don't know how that desire could evolve and what the outcome is going to be.

[@ericmauch3678]

I write about the same things, its nice to know someone else feels the same its refreshing 😌

[@jistutz]

Thank you for teaching me, Teal Swan.

[@life1012]

I'm so used to liking your videos that I liked this one before even playing it.

[@epiphanysoulguidanceb756]

Lol :)

[@tanieshapostsaboutthings]

I desire the feeling of being worthy of love and loved unconditionally. This has been manifesting in me pursuing an education to earn a social work degree to do meaningful work in the lives of others, but I feel exhausted focusing on others all the time. I think I may focus on painting more as thats where I feel I truly express myself and am happiest.

[@tanieshapostsaboutthings]

I am worthy of love regardless of what career I have

[@elizabeth-up3en]

this video relieves me in a way as i realized that i was/maybe still am resisting some of my desires from the past just because i knew that they came from a space of pain

[@FreeJulianAssange23]

My mom tried to convince me I didn’t desire my husband. I did not know subconsciously I was still seeking her validation and tried to get it. Three years of self isolating, pain, sorrow and suffering later. I cannot heal out of the desire. I have learnt my mom was wrong and right. What I want is the freedom to choose and to be loved no matter what I choose. My husband acted like a baby after he kicked me out twice in a week. He was callous and cruel but I don’t blame him. He was angry particularly because I used to run back to him over and over. Suddenly I stopped running back and ran to someone else. I understand his pain and frustration but he refused to understand mine. I can’t change him and don’t even want to. I just wish I never introjected every time he got angry then I could see if he would have even loved me if he knew I wouldn’t put up with his rage. I’ll never know because I chose to listen to my mom. I miss him everyday but he treats me horribly everyday. I now feel confused because I assume if someone truly loved you, they wouldn’t hurt you this badly. At the same time we hurt the ones we love. The verbal abuse from both had caused me to lose my sense of self and think they are both abusers.

[@Nativegirl1985]

You explained my life story as being a mom.. I gave up my desires of music finally, and I'm fairly content.

[@VULCAN1135]

This is a fantastic video that really came at a great time. More people need to hear this

[@rosahumphries6655]

Thank you so much!!! I needed to hear this today. My mind is continually breaking apart knowledge and reducing me to an empty shell, confused and at times, sad, but I understand the illusion, I embrace the pain and work thru the emotions. Trauma since birth, ran from the devils at home to then fall into a 20 year toxic relationship. Im almost 40, I'm 1.5 years free and now learning how to be me. Bless you sister!!! 😘💖🦋

[@karlamunoz8353]

Its like the story of the Genie in a bottle ...someone has all these wishes and never really truly gets what they want. Its hard to really get to the truth of my desire or to unfold everything and really know but this makes sense.

[@charliz369]

Did you make this video just for me today?! Tears, several things once subconscious now rising to awareness. Wow, thank u :)

[@sweetspleen795]

The first part make me understand more of my mother's and her need to have a family. Following by her own desire. And the separation of my parents/family. I can related to the healers ways😄. I was LMBO when i realized what i try to do. Merci beacoup! All what's you say in your video resonates so much with me.

[@sprinklesandtrumpettoots7151]

I catch myself doing this over and over for people I get romantically involved with. Trying to heal myself out of wanting to stay monogamous, trying to heal myself into wanting kids, trying to heal myself into being more sexual is a HUGE one, trying to heal myself out of my own dam femininity, and most recently, trying to heal myself out of my need for space and solitude.

[@alyaaearth4755]

Wow girl why

[@HeidiBeach]

This makes a lot of sense. Thank you 💖

[@kurrves]

Exactly

[@astonish_injurer5598]

Lately, I've been trying to make sense of my desire to have kids. I don't remember ever having the desire to have kids of my own as a kid myself (unlike every other woman that desires children), though I do remember my dad telling me that he couldn't wait until I grew up, got married and had kids. So it's not like I was discouraged from having kids. Come to think of it, I read a book about puberty and sex (my parents didn't want to actually educate me about sex themselves). And when I read about pregnancy, I was so repulsed that I swore I would never have kids, then the repulsion turned into tocophobia. But then, I eventually found myself intellectually fascinated, although simultaneously freaking terrified. Then, in recent years, I was no longer terrified of pregnancy and really desired having kids, though it wasn't until late last year that I finally came to terms with it. Not sure if this is making sense or not.

[@katherinemccarney9447]

Currently going through this. I’m still terrified, but very curious about the whole process & at least considering having a child now.

[@ToffeeHamsters]

It makes sense

[@melissaoconnell5648]

Appreciating your share. It brings up a lot for what each individual goes through when it comes to thoughts around our motivation or lack thereof to bringing babies into being. I always felt like a burden and subconsciously equated birth as burdensome, painful (especially when a gyn told me it most likely would even be bedridden for me) - not as something to embrace and look forward to and it was equally incompatible with having an adventurous lifestyle. In my 20's I had desires to have a big family, live on a farm and be able to enjoy urban life and travel, too. Yet a part of me was blocked toward resolving inner conflicts and I didn't feel real in safeguarding my desires and taking action on fulfillment. From watching Teal's videos I am discovering I needed more masculine containment, in order to heal my femininity. Plus femininity also became affiliated with trappings in a way that again was hard won, that could end up empty vs. having shared built-in value, meaning and appreciation. Everything came out sideways for years for not being able to safely access deeply inherent parts of myself - while also wanting personal strengths to be a factor that complements being in a relationship. I also met men who seemed monogamish, and this made me really question my own needs and desires - like the chicken and egg quandary. Since evolution answers - yes it's chicken first, then what's chicken? To heal sexuality with positive, non-possesive relationships or focus on family legacy 'eggs all in one basket' for long hauls to assure having kids? Or what if chicken is Chiquita and could somehow flourish with a bit of both? Well that third option still sits with me at 53 while managing loving my body into health and vibrance, yet how to 'grow younger' and hold onto pieces of a dream? How to launch the rockets of unhealed desires with balance, consideration for meeting personal values, living with compassion and passion, levels of child/family commitment and care holding space for real lifetime legacy and impact? I've considered foster care, being a step-mom, adoption, mentoring, and even what would/could it possibly take to regenerate my body to even determine if the barrier could be broken to try??? Or be a cross between Auntie Mame and Modern Day Millie??? So many ways to call having family into being. Right now the main theme is to feel safety, natural joy and shared welcome in consciously creating. To not abandon and reimagine what shapes and supports this womb-space. Thank you so much for your comment. I hope others are able to explore their values and meeting their needs in their youth and teens and how to be more self-aware to perhaps heal presently, yet also what's come down through lineage. 💟🙏💖🦋

[@nickidaisyreddwoodd5837]

Psychopathic desires are always coming from severe trauma which even leads back to past life times and the level of soul development. I highly recommend to people to meditate every day for at least one hour. You can't force yourself out of any desire. But you can sit with the desire and the rawness of the emotion that sits behind the desire. When you sit with it for an hour and just allow it to be then the trauma or the feelings that led to the desire might surface and speak to you and tell you very important things. Allow that to happen and don't act out any cruel desires anymore. Work through this with meditation and allow the emotions to be there and allow the tears to well up. It is Ok to do this whether you are female or male. Men cry, too. We are all living beings.

[@HeadOfBusiness]

Nicki Daisy Reddwoodd I needed to read this. Thank you. :)

[@you-vi2tm]

I love to see Teal grow aswell and get more genuine and easy going on the videos 🧡🧡

[@sofiageorge5549]

X Y... my story: For 3 years I believed X had deeply hurt me intentionally through a specific event that took place. Yesterday I experienced the exact same situation that happened 3 yrs ago, but from the exact OPPOSITE perspective, with a person called Y, Y was a reflection of me 3 years ago - and ultimately put me in X's position. I felt like a vail was removed before my eyes I understood how X felt and why they acted the way they did when that event took place 3 yrs ago I deeply forgave X for what happened emotionally and via email in written and I feel a lot better. Thank you Teal, thank you everyone for reading.

[@Fs99al]

Good to know. Forgiving is something not everyone can do; you're a better person *now :)

[@sofiageorge5549]

@@Fs99al Thank you! It would have been impossible for me to forgive that person had I not had that experience with Y yesterday because I was truly the other on the other side of the spectrum and I was in the other persons's shoes - Everything comes full circle and the truth comes out in the end, the truth will set you free :)

[@nicknackninja6111]

Meditation definitely helps, because by being aware of the self the positive mind gains power over the negative mind and you begin to gain the ability to notice inwardly where your focus is, and your focus fuels the desire. Focus on love...... simply. Pride, greed, lust, envy, gluttony, wrath and sloth are the vices of magnified desire, Instead by focusing on love your desires will be de-magnified and you will grow Virtues. Doctors address symptoms, examining symptoms is certainly one way but there are often deeper sub-levels to it.

[@melancholycollie1466]

Thank you Teal. This is exactly what I needed to learn right now and I am resonating with my heart on your words my eyes are watering up thank you thank you thank you. Kind of knew but too busy to listen to my own intuition.

[@kimberleydiann771]

I needed to stop several times to take a note- and also remember what I already knew!✨

[@abigailcutcliffe5378]

Thank you Teal from the bottom of my heart for being such a beautiful inspiration and a beautiful soul..🤟🏼 I'm not sure where to ask for potential videos but i guess I'll just throw it out here! I just watched your interview in Oslo from a couple years ago and you gave the example of shooting holes in the table legs of your beliefs, specifically for very analytical minds, which is 1000% me and I'm sure many many others, I've also been told several times how highly sensitive and empathic I am.... so I'm sure you can guess where I'm going with this... How can we differentiate our dominating constantly curious and analytical mind from intuition... For example, in my case, if I'm in the car, my music is up and I'm singing the whole time ( assuming I'm not listening to anything and everything that will expand my mind and perspective), belting out the music has always been my zone.. my HAPPY place.. And maybe I'm being too hard on myself, but I've currently come to the conclusion that one of 3 things is occurring when I'm in my "Zone": 1. The ideas and "thoughts" that come into my awareness are just my thoughts running wild into a not mindful spiral ( I often will find I have come up with an idea and dont know how I got there, like i went from A to B but dont remember anything but the 'B'.. just like how sometimes people will drive totally mindlessly and not actually recall the actual ride itself) 2. It's my Intuition that gave me the idea and once I "come too" my analytical mind distrusts my Intuition and runs wild with it, which then results in me in even needing to ask this question.. 3. And what I'm most worried could be the answer... is that my "zone" is just another means of escape like having a beer would be So if anyone can relate, or even understand my poorly worded and somewhat scattered question, any insight would be soso appreciated! 🤟🏼💛

[@macoeur1122]

It sounds like your mind is jumping in as a means of protecting you from making a mistake. Sometimes this can be a good thing... sometimes it can prevent us from moving in the direction of our desires. Sounds like a matter of really understanding the motivation of both "parts" and finding a way to meet both their needs/desires without one part bulldozing the other. I've certainly been there...and found this way of dealing with it very effective.

[@dzzzzzt]

Wow. This completely blew my mind. It also made me even more confused. 😅 So, a few notes. You can't get rid of a desire that comes out of trauma by healing the trauma. What if healing the trauma actually removes that desire? Maybe it even changes it but then it will not be the same desire, effectively healing yourself out of the intial desire? It sounds contradictory. So healing trauma is about experiencing the opposite. Then what if this is my desire also? The only certain and true conclusion I can draw from this is that I must work on healing my trauma. Additionally, Teal also suggests that you should also find the core desire and work on satisfying it. Finally, treat trauma and desire separately, don't look to fix one as a means of nfluencing other. Work with both individually. Is this the lesson here? Please help 😅 I'm in a pickle. I have both a trauma and a desire, and that desire stems directly from the trauma. Or maybe I haven't found the real desire?

[@evaalnaser1588]

Brilliant, thank you.

[@lilyawood]

spooky, i was doing, uh, shadow work an hour ago because i started questioning everything thats wrong with me and this video just put everything into words, i feel such a relief

[@alatour6403]

I feel there's a lot of parallels between Teal's and Nietzsche's ideas. I wonder if anyone has pointed this out before?

[@mahmoudharmel1569]

both Intj

[@niekboy67]

Yeah she’s incredibly based in the political sence. I would classify her as non-extremist authoritarian right.

[@Divinesacredwisdom]

OOOOOOH!!! Very insightful video! Thank you Teal! Also I am LOVING your premium membership thingy. I was putting it off for a long time.

[@epiphanysoulguidanceb756]

Yep! I am in a situation now that is the opposite of what my trauma was & I am aware of my healing process taking place! Thank GOD!!! :)

[@Athanasiospaschos2963]

Thank you Teal, insightfull❤

[@lastkind1193]

Getting complicated , however you lay out the Blueprint!

[@AsheetBull]

Thank you. I am in the process of reading the completion process... I keep starting and stopping because I have A TON of resistance. I’m on step 2 but I keep finding myself walking away after each paragraph or so... I am just gonna stay with it. Thanks.

[@JonnyChaos]

Why am I empty inside. I only got into spirituality because I had an eyes closed, visual experience when I was suffering heavily with alcohol withdrawals that got me into spirituality in the first place. I also stopped drinking on the spot that day and have'nt since. I bought your book and read it. When I meditate, granted I can quiet my mind to an extent it's practically inactive, but I never see or experience anything other than blackness and emptyness. Not a dark, evil blackness, just a 'lights out' darkness and pure quiet peace. There's no feeling of love or oneness. And when I try the completion process I just find myself in my imagination of memories but while i'm in them, they don't change. I just feel like it's me remembering the past and although I act out like what i'm supposed to be doing as instructed by the book, I just feel like it's just my imagination and while I imagine i'm making changes and progress, when I open my eyes again, nothing has changed. I just feel like i'm kidding myself.

[@Anonymous-gq7kj]

Most of our battles are always going on within.

[@divine.healing]

Oh my this video triggered the crap outta me.....which means I've been trying to do exactly what you're talking about.....dun dun dun....🙏

[@AGAMEMNONtheSAGE]

I'm not saying I couldn't use help, maybe later, but a mysterious quote is no replacement for a hint of assurance, but you run a gauntlet

[@MarkTrujilloDesignsandMedia]

Love, from Santa Fe, NM. Thanks for your wisdom

[@Allyson6C]

Oh my goodness! Did Teal make a top out of one of her frequency paintings?? I WANT ONE!!! I would definitely purchase this over a shower curtain or pillow - although those are cool too but they don’t match my decor lol

[@cierarose7637]

yes, i believe she has frequency clothing, accessories, and home decor stuff on her website!!

[@Chimalmita1]

All right, I get it. It was worth watching 3 times.

[@geniaallen2792]

Thank You

[@dattagrace]

Wow! This is so perfectly timed!

[@shikhardahal1568]

Real legends watch this in 2.0x speed 😂

[@lena-aline]

always

[@blackjohn193]

😂😂😂

[@FreeJulianAssange23]

😂😂😂

[@screamengine]

Dude! Shhhhhh! Too many grade 5s already that should be in grade 3. Don't fast track the grade 3s. The grade 4s will be insulted!:)

[@narimafanficfan]

why? is it to gain time, or to ridicule her? lol anyway, it was funny lol

[@celinaann6206]

I appreciate you so so much Teal. You are absolutely amazing.

[@susiswusch]

This is the Video i needed for my life

[@jistutz]

Interesting to apply this to really extreme psychological issues, for example, child molesters and serial killers. For me, I'm applying this to my desire to have fame from writing. I feel the desire to have people connect with the beauty I have in my soul, to be enlightened by it, to think of what I wrote while they are walking around, have it be a part of their own life story, the story they have about themselves, to take it, and possibly, me, as their own. I can think of no better way of doing this than through my writing. A trojan love-horse to the soul of the reader. My mother disowned me emotionally and judged me as not beautiful- not beautiful, no, not beautiful- despite that I could see her squinting to see and not see simultaneously- so confused she was by her desires.

[@kimberleydiann771]

Thank you Teal! This message is Perfect.✨

[@NatureSpirit369]

Thank you....another wonderful message. Love you!! ❤️🌈❤️

[@Anonymous-gq7kj]

Desire perpetuates life.

[@guyanasun4361]

Most people don't know what to do with depression or desire because they don't understand metaphysical properties. Depression comes from deep concentration or pulling thoughts into formulated thinking sometimes and mostly because of desire (passion) like pebble/fire in (conscious) water.. It's an echo pattern that leads to enlightenment if we can learn to focus that energy into sound mind (direction)... Depression comes "from press-ion(👁️on)" that reflections passion. This is like taking water and using it to divide, separate (magnify) itself into El (electric & elements) or two eye becoming one much every whirlpool/whirlwind storm. To better evaluate our social atmosphere the natural elements created Accountability 💦 Competence 💨 Integrity 🔥 Understand 🌴 Authority ⚡ In what is:us SZ We use these elemental elements in mine values to build tools such as moral compass that help us navigate through life so we can handle the inevitable echoed occurrence cycle of depression and passion. Why synthesis & ionization process set example

[@nicholasblakiston6297]

Thank you for sharing your understanding with the world.

[@hfortenberry]

I'm totally on board with changing the vernacular of "shadow" to "misalignment". I agree that is more accurate.