You Must Show Him Your Worth In Silence - The Grace Effect Decoded - Love Island Analysis

[@Alixir1228]

So basically after 2 yesrs of watching these channels, men just hate themselves so much that they resent us if we care about them. They want us if we treat them in a way that grooms their abandonment wounds. Meaning ignore them, detach, don't fall in love, don't show them you care. We are punished for caring for men, because they resent we are capable of love.

[@nyeguono]

Nah, only with a mentally unhealthy man. The goal is to know these tips so you can spot the BS, not get played & not waste ur time with such a man. Just like you’re watch these channels & learning human nature, improving yourself. Some men are also doing the same so they can create a health relationship with a healthy woman. Just look for those healthy men

[@Ms.pee12]

This. This is what it always feels like and I hate it. I’m just starting to give up.

[@autumnjanee]

Very well said

[@Onwardsandupwards2023]

Basically….. yes. Ridiculous isn’t it.

[@Gelicaa.2]

Crazy right smh, does this stem from them being rasied by a single mother? Because what does a man raised by both parents who were emotionally mature.... where that man at, we have questions

[@BreaktheKarmicWheel]

I’m alone and depressed and no support system but I walked away and pretend to be confident and happy but all I meet is people I have to walk away from.

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

My Lord. I was literally watching sida Khan and she was literally talking about how high value people are those who walk away despite it hurting

[@annaisis7510]

I'm proud of your existence in this world

[@martaleszkiewicz5115]

I'd say stop meeting people (to date) until you don't have to pretend confidence anymore.

[@IAMinfiniteandfree.]

Watch Princella the Queen maker, and never take advice of a man how to be a woman.. they hate woman, they want to reform you to their likings. You are the prize and the blessing You will never be happy with a masculine because they are all abusive or users of you, one way or the others, or want to sell you their mind control program. Stop dating, never advertise yourself online ever again, heal focus on your career and body mind and soul. And find Mother Goddess within. You've got this, bless your heart and I hopeyou feel better soon❤🙏✨️

[@PanAfrikanPrincess]

You can build your own support people. It will happen. Be there for enough people and enough will be there for you.

[@darritaking]

I find men are intimidated by a woman that speaks her mind , but I will always in a feminine but strait way

[@AmatureOnDaTube]

Love it when Father Alex says “Or else I’m closing the Channel” 😊❤

[@cathy3878]

Many Eastern European women of conservative families are taught at an early age to value themselves and bot take BS feom men. Queens of the RBF. On a lighter note, Alex 😂 your description had me laughing throughout the video. Never change! Some coaches make women feel like they are being lectured but with you its fun to learn.

[@Ssstellamellaaa]

Yesss im Russian, and this is so true. Eastern European women are the best . ❤❤❤

[@Marivi247]

Love the part of showing the negative emotions. So true… There is power and authenticity in it

[@katasandberg8110]

Personally, I can't stand it when guys try to piss me off on purpose just to see me act like their momma (but only in ways THEY want/ they can handle) & teach them (YET AGAIN!!) right from wrong. SOOO redundant!!! I'm pretty sure most women are sick of this. Don't cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet & then turn & tear you in pieces!

[@shawandadavis8030]

This is the the ultimate sign of immaturity to me. I think everyone tests the waters in the beginning but deliberately trying to pull ANGER out of me will get you cut off.

[@taraarrington2285]

Omg yes! So sick of toxic b.s. I leave people alone so quickly these days.

[@noanoa8991]

Just stay silent and leave without looking back!

[@LuvDet6564]

I just realized men doing this

[@jay.jay.]

This video is so important for me in my self-developement, not just for men, but in general in life, as I tend to be too nice and people try to abuse me, even those who are normally good. Thank you so much for this video

[@nedamalovic8981]

You’re breath of fresh air..O love the fact that you draw to explain. Great job Professor Alex❤

[@Brenda-ny1gw]

3:27 "When you're not willing to show negative emotions" Dude, I was trained from the cradle to never display a negative emotion and I assure you I'm NOT a fearful person

[@stmarquies4377]

This is definitely my energy, right up my alley!👏 thanks Professor Alex💕

[@CeciledeLuire]

"toxic Alex alert" 😅 in my experience, really EVERY guy finds it hot when a woman cuts the bs. the problem is, they are all coming back.

[@Brenda-ny1gw]

They hate you for it

[@CeciledeLuire]

@@Brenda-ny1gw what the heck 😀 What kind of men do you meet

[@Brenda-ny1gw]

@@CeciledeLuire Most guys hate it when you call out their bullshit. Unless they really like you, then they stay.

[@CeciledeLuire]

@@Brenda-ny1gw that's not true. i've nearly always seen men respect me more when i called out their bs. what you describe might be the case only with some men: with men that are so full of bs that they can't take something that has to do with self-love. because they hate themselves too much and are unable to give anything else to others, so some self-love shown by a woman scares them to death and threatens them.

[@EarlyMorningPeace]

I definitely possess this aura 😅

[@Xiandoe]

This video made me chuckle, father Alex always dropping gems with a sense of humor 🤗

[@deedeebrecca8645]

She is stunning!

[@Sandragolden1]

Who is she?

[@annakane7243]

Grace Jackson from Manchester. She was on Love Island UK version

[@Alixir1228]

Those are all men and full of plastic surgery.

[@marte1376]

The guy there looks hot as well

[@nikokaliko9527]

Yes, she is. His loss.

[@Peaceonearth2024]

Such useful information and presented so entertainingly!

[@j.m.221]

The empathic face hahaha you almost let it slip out what Tyrone was too . Love your combination of straight up honest advice with some humour.

[@cherrylane79]

Interesting. She is actually making the guy nervous, his mouth and lips are moving and he his licking his lips.

[@buyop9441]

At what minute please?

[@mareecrook2162]

But if someone is mistreating you walk away anyway support or not

[@CeciledeLuire]

it is true that it is more beautiful to have support. but one can absolutely cut out the bs even when one is with little or no support. yes it is hard, but yes it is possible. correct though that you need a relatively high degree of self-esteem, values and inner peace in order to do it.

[@brianacrawford9273]

father alex got me all the way rollin' lol. I'm so glad I stumbled upon this. Sound wisdom with comic relief.

[@Brenda-ny1gw]

1:45 I believe that if someone changes his behavior according to the person in front of them (low or high tolerance) this person is two-faced and a hypocrite. An honest person would treat you well. A person who's trying to size you up first is someone not worth a penny. It's a very low thing to do

[@josephinefurman3905]

Best video ever and soooo validating love you 😘 🙏🏽

[@Andrea_k86]

I'm literally watching this show now, & Grace is definitely my favorite out of all the women on the show.💗

[@аленауманец-ж3л]

What show is that?

[@Andrea_k86]

@@аленауманец-ж3л Love Island UK Season 11

[@consciousbabecollective]

@@аленауманец-ж3л Love Island UK 2024

[@FlowerlyF.]

So sad that men got fed the idea of having a lot of women makes you „masculine“. It’s actually the opposite. There’s nothing more masculine to me than a man who knows his inferiority to his woman in some way..😅 like a lil retriever and his black majestic cat 🐈‍⬛ . That’s nature baby 🥰

[@lovepower1440]

I love you, your mind and your back ground/ your home, father Alex 🎉

[@missrose6989]

Adore your videos! So insightful & have me staying on the treadmill longer 😅

[@favoritemusic41]

I did this!!!!!!! last year, was amazing!

[@annaisis7510]

Keep it up

[@rosaliewatson8808]

Awesome example! More videos like this please 🙏

[@autumnbrooke1721]

She’s so gorgeous ❤

[@nataliamarciniak5596]

He just described 90% of Eastern European women 😂

[@PatriceLNet]

Thank you for making this video. ❤️‍🔥

[@lizetteweiss8941]

Thanks for all your help❤

[@hannahkevilynn8138]

Psychology and biblical truths 👌🏽

[@LifeIridescence]

You're brilliant! 😁👏🏼

[@Saz-li3ep]

Love this type of video ❤

[@user-rn5qo3pp7c]

Loved this ❤✨

[@misst3116]

I love your channel 😂😂😂 you make me laugh out loud 🤣🤣🤣

[@cafeconlechegrl]

She looks like Barbie she can have any man she wants without speaking a word..🙄👱🏻‍♀️😆What about us average looking people? We have to do cartwheels to get an ounce of love and validation 🤸🏻‍♀️ 😂

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

We're not talking about being beautiful. We're talking about getting people to respect you. A lot of beautiful women don't get respected. Because they don't know how to gain respect. Beauty doesn't equally respect and that's what we're talking about here

[@perfumimi]

No Bronx Mode 😅😅😅

[@AichaNiang-oq8tv]

0:10 I’m DEAD 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@michelledavison2533]

😂😂😂

[@noanoa8991]

Jenezegwaaa

[@doraal2687]

Je ne ze crois 😂 i was like what he did he said 😂

[@DeserttoGarden]

“ the empathic ass face that women show when they go to Africa” 😂😂😂😂

[@peacefulzoodle]

LOL

[@CarmenPerez-kz6rw]

He wants to keep his options open for a reason. She’s not the one.

[@sazupupu]

Nah. He’s an immature player. He’s not the one.

[@CurlyVeil]

Thank you so much man

[@darritaking]

Hello from Ashland, Ky ❣️I’m a fan❣️🤗😉

[@elenavermeulen]

Amazing video

[@bossytruthy1573]

This was always been me bcz of some stupid pickme i thought i will get separated so i thought being nice always is very important bcz men usually say that " she has attitude" even jus looking at me without talking to me so i thought maybe im arrogant or i will be nice u know they confused me😐😐😤 so i tried to change 😐 even i intimidate normal people 😂 but i try to be nice super nice they take advantage of me by my kind behaviour now i know 💙 never going back😎💙 thankyou prof alex💙💙😊🥰💙

[@sherrita8582]

She's hot❤❤ his loss, Father Alex been teaching us how walk away for years😂

[@EloisaGene]

Sweet voice: Hey little chi-- (ken), hey little tyrone Serious voice: Hey little motha- -(*#%@), little tyrone. 😂😂

[@TheGauri24]

🤣🤣🤣

[@CindySen3000]

Lmfao empathic face 😆

[@Vibrationofeterna]

3:58 🥲🥲🥲🥲

[@kimberleytrudel5430]

Even if you're alone and grieving. You can turn to God, and you are never alone. That can be someone's strength 💪. For a God-fearing man, it has the same effect. No one is more powerful than God. If she has unwavering faith and strength to stand alone in her own while living a self-fulfilling life, happy and content, constantly improving and learning through regular activities and hobbies, while giving herself to her community this intimidates men. Weak men will try to stop your routines with negative comments like oh if you keep biking every day, it will mess you up down there."" That tells me 2 things....he cares about his own needs first and doesn't want anyone else to find me attractive and viable. Energy vampires are always jealous and try to throw you off. Secure men without weak propensity for opportunity 💯 will not put you in 3rd party or "triangle" situations. Actually, high value men will immediately make their intentions known in order to secure you in their lives once they confirm your value 😉 👌 👍

[@Jasmina-Marseille]

You are so sweet alex❤ so precious

[@scene123]

what if people are messing with you on purpose, I know people that provoke because they like seeing your negative emotions

[@thememo1608]

Interact with those people much less.

[@positivel5530]

Father Alex, you are in love with Gorgena 😂

[@queendombraids1829]

I laughed so much watching this 😂 no Bronx mode 😭😭😭

[@Sovereignty-j2u]

Confidence and alpha female ❤️♀️

[@GoodTalk]

Lmbo Georgina 😂😂I'm crying laughing 😅

[@LucianaCristinadeOliveira]

If only I could've stood up and walked away from the dinner I was recently. I dearly regret not doing so for my own mental health and emotion....men know how to be the worst.

[@vil4038]

Honestly having high tolerance in my opinion doesn’t necessarily equate to being angelic. An angelic person doesn’t emanate low vibrations of insecurity. Angelic people can be badasses. Just because they’re compassionate for the bullshitter it doesn’t mean that they don’t have the grace to step away when they are disrespected

[@Daraling1]

Not the Africans!😭😭😭

[@shea5542]

Get comfortable with other people being uncomfortable.

[@raziahzaman996]

Good video

[@Londonismology]

Sometimes yall say don’t be nice…I don’t think in nice at all….so u telling me to be mean is like not good advice for me…I’m always letting someone know I’m bored…especially if idk yo ass it’s even easier…and I want money spent on me if u want me to call or answer your calls which are prolly useless frfr…I mean frfr I get so mad cuz as a woman tryna learn to date and be better than also just being a woman…and don’t be attractive…we coming with a full package maybe not perfected yet, but we still once again coming with more than most men, especially men of today…they weren’t then and aren’t now tryna date us the right way…once again we’re more qualified for the job they’re supposed to be going after and capable and eligible for….i don’t wanna be eligible to date just to be…that’s why most women are just home with cats smiling making vids and popping popcorn

[@Brenda-ny1gw]

2:05 "The nicest person will pounce on you" Then they weren't nice to begin with duh

[@jaydeal4079]

Finally you mention love island lol

[@MorelKeil]

If you communicate to each in the a similar situation without using words but more action such as body language , face expression and dress code.what you called that???

[@Heywhatsup357]

5:54 LMAOOOOOO

[@kristenk708]

I don't understand this showing your negative emotions thing. Sure I will speak my mind if I dislike something etc. but if I continuously see a behaviour that I don't like and approve, I'll just walk away. And walk away with a smile and nice words even! No need to be negative, angry or show any negative emotions.

[@yuy-3456]

Who is this girl? What's her name? What show is this?

[@RoxyVanessa]

No stabbing got it 😂😂😂😂😂

[@biaotoch]

2:51 gumball creepy face 😭

[@ChirryAerd]

It was too much

[@wintoby]

That guy in the video is Joey Essex, he's not too bright!

[@niqiiiguma5009]

Father Alex’s threat of not closing the channel is starting to sound like the boy crying wolf, you can’t leave your children running these street like that lol.

[@golden_flame28]

Good expressions 😂

[@DiamondJuscurveem]

So you saying my personal trainer Tyrone got me pregnant tooo

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Wrong channel lol

[@DiamondJuscurveem]

@@MindfulAttraction2.0 🤣🤣🤣 you said lil Tyrone

[@lislis9134]

When the women in Mexico talk with the sweet low voice it’s a sign of hypocrisy

[@gracielara750]

❤

[@mattanderson6672]

thx

[@autumnjanee]

6:39 squeak up 😂😂😂😂

[@keziahdarvill1086]

Bronx mode lol 😂

[@RoxyVanessa]

😂😂😂

[@STAR-LIGHT.1111]

But is not going to stab us 😂😂😂

[@sekinatabdulsalam3554]

What season of love island is this ?

[@yenkimthingoc4842]

I was keeping silent with my bf in 5 months

[@sweethallewis]

Ok I get that but don't you think sometimes you have to stoop to people's level so they'll really 'understand' what you're saying

[@Sandra_xxii]

@14:37 which season of love island is his?

[@luxuryqueen42]

Father Alex

[@giagia3733]

Lmfao at suka😂😂😂😂

[@Amyglowsup]

What tv show is she from?

[@summerbanx3147]

👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@empress9348]

💗💗

[@Soy_kuritmon_56]

I though You were interviweing her

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

You got her number?

[@elperropapo1668]

Alex, you are too much into your feminine in this video. Sorry to tell you...stop competing with women. You are asking for us to be in our masculine. I'm not doint it☠️

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Are you openly rebelling against Father Alex?

[@tranquilxnotienequeserperfecto]

how is that? i watched the hole video and i think he is may be talking about being in your dark femenine energy, which is fine if the guy behaving as a dck.

[@MorelKeil]

But father Alex if I contact you for assistance that's mean I don't understand what you saying here right now because I won't decode the grace effect .😅😊

[@lolelyn1]

You couldn't analyze this any better!

[@KeyaReneeMonroe]

Nah bro the Closed Captions you typed are disrespectful 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Londonismology]

But what about acting bad out of fear tho…like doing stuff that you’re saying but outta fear? I find that lots of the stuff you guys say on here are like for one or two people …not the whole audience….yet the talking points are like stating it’s for all…like we’re all whether this or that and it’s never or rarely true for me…I think I show I’m bored or w.e and I’m in actual fear…like letting someone how I really feel brings anxiety…the anxiety raises my levels next thing u know I’m mad black woman 🤷🏿‍♀️

[@Hereishill]

Its crazy how you think showing negative emotions is high worth. Compartmentalize… and learn to read the room.

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Being willing to show negative emotions

[@chandragiriganesh7821]

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[@sirajuddin3106]

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[@anjudevi-l3s]

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