You're NOT a Rehabilitation Center for Broken Men

[@Soothingyou45]

As a great psychologist that I follow says, " one cannot change anyone. Not for the better because the person needs to be willing to change for that to happen. One, however, can change the other for the worse by causing them traumas for example." So keep that in mind. Use your generosity to others (animal shelters, pets, homeless shelters, help hunger somewhere, etc).

[@barbara6840]

My last situationship is my final one where I no longer going to be Barbara build a Bear. I just realized I was a fixer and my type were broken men. But let's face it, the dating pool is full of broken men and not self-aware and evolved ones.

[@whitetigerification]

I'm finding that the more that I personally grow in heal, the less attractive the men that need fixing are to me.

[@carrielegg5480]

I wonder what women are looking to fix in the man?

[@whitetigerification]

@@carrielegg5480 I wouldn't be surprised if mental issues are a major area that needs fixed. Like in women.

[@alenaadamkova5322]

@@carrielegg5480 They are addicted to "sugercoating" from him. or false confidence, like "I was brave enough to party whole month"

[@treasuredanielz]

I just shared this video because I know it’s one of the reasons why most good people have a failed relationship

[@simpleliving4205]

As a successful woman who's a widow , I absolutely will not even date a guy that drinks . 100 percent deal breaker .

[@VernaFerguson]

Yes indeed my best friend is so into doing this...I am not...I had such messed up childhood I want no part of someone that is messed. They don't have to be perfect but be aware and growing to improve for themselves. That's my kind of guy.

[@theologyofthesoul]

"Don't want to have the auto body shop of love with a bunch of men you've got to repair." AMEN!!! 👩‍🔧

[@DarkroomMedia007]

The core problem is codependency. It is way too common for people to deflect from their own deep-rooted issues, to pivot and obsess about a lover's childhood trauma add abandonment issues. I've seen it time and time again.

[@alenaadamkova7617]

Some coach (not in english) said he learned...men do a mistake that they talk to women like talking to a man, or they treat woman as she is a man. But women see world through different "optic" than men, because they are not men, women have different fears than men, different body, different hormones. Men say they didnt have a role model in family to find out how to treat woman, but as soon as they learn to experience true relationship they realize its wonderful and women can be very wonderful, because women also try to learn from their own mistakes how to talk to a good man, but it takes also respect to woman and build his own confidence etc.....because if woman changes for better and grows mentally emotionally, learns new things then she will not want ordinary guy who isnt working on his confidence and build himself up emotionally etc. He has to be strong emotionally and be confident guy....because she may have other problems in life, that she tries to solve by herself, her health, family values, children etc. and if he trows his emotional instability from his bad childhood at her.... she feels overhelmed unhappy, because she wants strong role model and his strength motivates her to work on herself more, his energy boosts her energy.. his charisma boosts her charisma... she wants someone who talks the talk, and walks the talk, so she may easily overcame her things, by herself, because she feel the energy comming from him, She feels his happiness, so its easier for her to solve her things. and also man who is learning and working on himself, how to treat woman, he will not want woman who is not working on her learning skills.

[@hadiza1]

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[@MarinaM-o6p]

“ MEN” are NOT “ BROKEN” ….they have NEVER BEEN BROKEN ….THEY ONLY DO WHATEVER THEY WANT……THE POWER AND CONTROL IS THEIR ULTIMATE “ STATUS” .