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@ShopgirlNY1825 ай бұрын
So true - without compatibility and common interests / lifestyles then it’s most likely going to be to a road to unhappiness and resentment. I’ve realized this from my past two relationships, you can love someone with all your being but if you’re not compatible love won’t even matter.
@Zodiacconnections5 ай бұрын
This video provides a refreshing and insightful perspective on relationship compatibility. The emphasis on emotional connection and the importance of vetting a partner early on resonates deeply. It’s crucial to recognize that relationships should go beyond transactional dynamics and foster genuine emotional bonds. Thank you Jonathon for highlighting the significance of emotional IQ and the need for deeper connections, especially for those in midlife. Your advice is both practical and empowering!
@elainechatham51885 ай бұрын
Yes, great verbal communication, mental and physical compatibility, spiritual connection, and loyalty and commitment may get you closer to your ideal mate. Great video
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Kathy-qu8zj5 ай бұрын
“Entertainment and Stress Relief..???” Sounds like Donald Trump!!!!! Poor Melania.. doubt he’s been worth it.. I’d rather live on the street!!!!
@Kathy-qu8zj5 ай бұрын
And poor Ivana..🤨😵
@mariespi965 ай бұрын
Speaking as a women with 4 children. It’s not that women don’t want to have sex. It’s that they work outside the home and still have to come home and cook dinner, help with homework, was dishes, do launder, get ready for the next day. By the time you’re done, who has the energy for sex?! For the husband to say, “Well, I’ll h go look for someone who does,” is a cop out! Help the poor, exhausted woman so she CAN have the energy to have sex! How about the man helping her out a little before he decides to go have sex with other women! Sheesh! 🤦🏽♀️
@heide-raquelfuss55805 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@coetiaswearingen72075 ай бұрын
I thought I would let you know how your advice helped me. A man I was interested in asked me out with long intervals in between. He would always at the end of the date asked if I would like to do it again sometime, to which I always answered yes. After watching one of your talks I changed my answer to “I like you, and I like spending time with you. Well, he called me every night after that and now I’ve been living with him for three years. Thanks.
@tenzin09775 ай бұрын
Yes, thank you so much for this Video❤ I am 47 now, only willing to be in a healthy+ committed+ spiritual/emotional relationship thinking about my core values Very grateful for these 5 points to think deeply about compatibility 💫💜💫
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
You got this!
@tenzin09775 ай бұрын
❤
@LR-dm8wp5 ай бұрын
👏🏻 GREAT 2hr SHOW TONIGHT JONATHON ! AS A HEALTH CARE WORKER FOR MANY YEARS I TRULY ADMIRE MY MANY SENIORS ages 80-90 yrs old. Married for 60 plus years through many ups & downs and still they all have such strong ❤️ and loyalty towards each other. 👨🏻🦳👵🏼
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Yay!
@LR-dm8wp5 ай бұрын
FOR SURE 😊
@Sherryyahoo5 ай бұрын
Kudos…I have been in healthcare for 20 years of my life.
@Sherryyahoo5 ай бұрын
I know exactly what she is talking about 💕🦋
@Sherryyahoo5 ай бұрын
Have you ever had time to sit and have conversations with your people, residents and patients to know about their whole life and experiences. I have, and it’s a great privilege and gift xoxo💕🦋
@r.lynnsteinberg27755 ай бұрын
Your talks have very good information in them. You do need a level of compatibility with someone. Also, being with a person who willingly listens to you, really hears you, your feelings, and gives thembvalidation, even if their views are different, is very importsnt for a successful relationship. Both people need to be willing to hear the other one.❤
@bluelotus96545 ай бұрын
Yes this is very true but if it involves a man this can be pretty rare. Exceptions being maybe in your teens, or in with some guys over 50. That 20 to 50 bracket they are almost all incapable
@r.lynnsteinberg27755 ай бұрын
I am lucky. I actually found one of those guys that really listens back. Never saw/felt this in my previous relationships.
@Sherryyahoo5 ай бұрын
I could tell you to trust your intuition and gut, seriously
@therocknrollcook5 ай бұрын
Omg dating today is about entertainment and stress relief . Absolute gold
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@SherriFlemming5 ай бұрын
Jonathon, you nail it with that truth bomb.
@jennywang24295 ай бұрын
Emotional and values are important
@JetLagRecords5 ай бұрын
Jonathon Aslay, FIRE VIDEO
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@ForeverTogether2195 ай бұрын
Johnathan.. Your lives n videos are very informative.. Spiritual connection Is important to make A relationship work.
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
So true!
@Sherryyahoo5 ай бұрын
Absolutely 🦋
@ginam.49905 ай бұрын
Omg funny tummy😅. Awesome awesome show!
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Thank you 🤗
@naddyn6855 ай бұрын
I will be 50 this year and do believe we should lead by example when our partners need encouragement to open up. Both men and women can be emotionally closed off. Personally I love a good heart to heart chat and how one topic can lead to another..moments of discovery!
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@cynthiahoz39485 ай бұрын
Hi Jonathon, Political polarization influences me to a much greater degree than in the past. I am not even sure if I can tolerate open-mindedness toward the opposite view at this point😩lol😂
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
I understand
@lizquinn35685 ай бұрын
Cheak this out, there was a guy who was all over me like a rash in the club where i play darts, he alway wanted to talk to me and tell his friends he liked me, he asked me for my number I give i to him, guess what he didnt ring me, my motto is if someone doesn't connect you dont give them your company again 😏
@carlasalas93745 ай бұрын
Yep!! That's c why I settled but I'm single again n doing just fine
@MHarmony5285 ай бұрын
👍🏼Real Men & Confident Men are comfortable wearing pink 😉
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!
@She-Mc5 ай бұрын
Yes every word amen 💯
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
🙏
@janespitfire98845 ай бұрын
Jonathan thank you...good advice!
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@Sherryyahoo5 ай бұрын
So very true 💕
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@dianedorney51474 ай бұрын
Holy shit, these woman you get in a hot seat are never really prepared to cut to the chase...they jump all over....I have to give you credit for unravelling this
@JonathonAslay4 ай бұрын
Most women communicate that way... 😬😁😉
@MHarmony5285 ай бұрын
I think JA in white is a nice change. Great contrast with your dark hair & complexion. Anyhow this is about content not fashion sooo who's playing Fashion Police & Why? 🤔😮
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
That shirt is actually pink 😍
@dianedorney51474 ай бұрын
Now that time has past what did you learn from your last relationship? Your talking about compatibility so I wondered which one didn't mesh?
@JetLagRecords5 ай бұрын
Jonathon Aslay, Can we be friends?
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Can you elaborate?
@robinemery5 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay🤣🤣🤗🫂🫂
@Sherryyahoo5 ай бұрын
Jonathan…🤔
@mdeus75 ай бұрын
Do you have a link to that chart anywhere?
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Nope
@ForeverTogether2195 ай бұрын
Leasing a Car 😅😂 My My …..😮
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
🚗
@robinemery5 ай бұрын
I agree, f**k it😊
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
👍🏼
@northshorelight355 ай бұрын
I’m feeling so distraught, Jonathan. I’m in a long distance relationship and I recently found out that he moved in with an ex-girlfriend while he studies for the bar exam. I didn’t know about this as we haven’t seen each other for awhile nor have we talked since he claims that he needs total concentration. Today I approached him about it over the phone and he of course denied it. Then made it seem like this was a big distraction for him and the exam. For months I feel like he’s been using the exam as an excuse to not talk about the shady stuff he’s done behind my back.
@Sherryyahoo5 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear this…
@Sherryyahoo5 ай бұрын
That’s a problem with long distance relationships, sorry
@ak-47intelligence755 ай бұрын
Move on.
@heide-raquelfuss55805 ай бұрын
Run.
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
One of the problems with LDRs is a lack of contact. It sounds like he's moved on but afraid to tell you.
@missimartin19895 ай бұрын
Just my thoughts. Wear Color Johnathan!!❤
@MHarmony5285 ай бұрын
I think JA in white is a nice change. Great contrast with your dark hair & complexion. Anyhow this is about content not fashion sooo who's playing Fashion Police & Why? 🤔
@monikaleszko53435 ай бұрын
What’s a healthy time line for moving in together? considering we see text other 2-3 times a week now. It’s been 3 months!
@Sunlightsam245 ай бұрын
Have both of you agreed to be a committed couple?
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
When trust has been built
@Sherryyahoo5 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@monikaleszko53435 ай бұрын
@@Sunlightsam24 yes we have. After date 2
@monikaleszko53435 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay and that’s the most difficult part lol 🙏 thank you
@billjryantheunanonymousact355618 күн бұрын
Opposite may attract but it's not worth it! 38 years and the majority of them with no intimacy. I mean none. I believe he is or has narcissistic traits, that I only realized a few years ago. I'm 75 now , and I'm tired of being Alone even with hi. There,
@billjryantheunanonymousact355618 күн бұрын
Remember this is coming from me Elissa and NOT William m although I'm using his tablet. Within the last year I have been able to open up😂a n d express myself better. I started using pot in my tea and bought Gummies... I find it to be for me a great aprodisiac! For him,not so much .I remember in the past telling him Im starvingm He offered to. Make me some Eggs
@michellem82845 ай бұрын
La-Dee-Da is exhausting .....
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
That's harsh
@nadijones6605 ай бұрын
Can someone please pinpoint where he mentions the 5 signs? No time today to watch the whole thing 😢 thank you! ❤
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Around the 10 minute mark
@nadijones6605 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay thank you so much! You're awesome 😇🙏🥰
@robinemery5 ай бұрын
What is funny tummy??
@JonathonAslay5 ай бұрын
Butterflies
@robinemery5 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay that's what I thought, just wanted to make sure BIG BIG HUGGS 🫂🫂❤️
@carlasalas93745 ай бұрын
The sex thing is true, when I started dating this guy we talked about sex n it sounded like we were on the same page, a yr later I realized that wasn't true but I'd already fallen for him so I stayed in the relationship trying to get him to give me more in that dept..but he avoided it....I was crazy about him so I tried to ignore it, ...it's a long story...just know aft 10nyrs wer not toght any more
@susanharrie33265 ай бұрын
❤
@cherylfitzsimmons37033 ай бұрын
😊
@danutamaj211513 күн бұрын
Hmm! She seems to be very presentable lady however all her talk seems to sound or look like salad of words !Got her ADD !!! But It’s kind of hard to fish 2 concrete sentences out!!Plus not sure what’s her concern ,about taking additional education????!!Does she need his written approval ??!! Don’t get this concept of thinking!! Fear of loosing the guy she’s just met?? Watched at least 3 girls who volunteered to share theirs dating stories publicly !! All I can say !! It’s a cry for attention or desperation to survive??