You're NOT COMPATIBLE With Him If You See THESE 5 Signs

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Jonathon Aslay

Jonathon Aslay

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@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
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@ShopgirlNY182
@ShopgirlNY182 5 ай бұрын
So true - without compatibility and common interests / lifestyles then it’s most likely going to be to a road to unhappiness and resentment. I’ve realized this from my past two relationships, you can love someone with all your being but if you’re not compatible love won’t even matter.
@Zodiacconnections
@Zodiacconnections 5 ай бұрын
This video provides a refreshing and insightful perspective on relationship compatibility. The emphasis on emotional connection and the importance of vetting a partner early on resonates deeply. It’s crucial to recognize that relationships should go beyond transactional dynamics and foster genuine emotional bonds. Thank you Jonathon for highlighting the significance of emotional IQ and the need for deeper connections, especially for those in midlife. Your advice is both practical and empowering!
@elainechatham5188
@elainechatham5188 5 ай бұрын
Yes, great verbal communication, mental and physical compatibility, spiritual connection, and loyalty and commitment may get you closer to your ideal mate. Great video
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@Kathy-qu8zj
@Kathy-qu8zj 5 ай бұрын
“Entertainment and Stress Relief..???” Sounds like Donald Trump!!!!! Poor Melania.. doubt he’s been worth it.. I’d rather live on the street!!!!
@Kathy-qu8zj
@Kathy-qu8zj 5 ай бұрын
And poor Ivana..🤨😵
@mariespi96
@mariespi96 5 ай бұрын
Speaking as a women with 4 children. It’s not that women don’t want to have sex. It’s that they work outside the home and still have to come home and cook dinner, help with homework, was dishes, do launder, get ready for the next day. By the time you’re done, who has the energy for sex?! For the husband to say, “Well, I’ll h go look for someone who does,” is a cop out! Help the poor, exhausted woman so she CAN have the energy to have sex! How about the man helping her out a little before he decides to go have sex with other women! Sheesh! 🤦🏽‍♀️
@heide-raquelfuss5580
@heide-raquelfuss5580 5 ай бұрын
Exactly.
@coetiaswearingen7207
@coetiaswearingen7207 5 ай бұрын
I thought I would let you know how your advice helped me. A man I was interested in asked me out with long intervals in between. He would always at the end of the date asked if I would like to do it again sometime, to which I always answered yes. After watching one of your talks I changed my answer to “I like you, and I like spending time with you. Well, he called me every night after that and now I’ve been living with him for three years. Thanks.
@tenzin0977
@tenzin0977 5 ай бұрын
Yes, thank you so much for this Video❤ I am 47 now, only willing to be in a healthy+ committed+ spiritual/emotional relationship thinking about my core values Very grateful for these 5 points to think deeply about compatibility 💫💜💫
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
You got this!
@tenzin0977
@tenzin0977 5 ай бұрын
@LR-dm8wp
@LR-dm8wp 5 ай бұрын
👏🏻 GREAT 2hr SHOW TONIGHT JONATHON ! AS A HEALTH CARE WORKER FOR MANY YEARS I TRULY ADMIRE MY MANY SENIORS ages 80-90 yrs old. Married for 60 plus years through many ups & downs and still they all have such strong ❤️ and loyalty towards each other. 👨🏻‍🦳👵🏼
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Yay!
@LR-dm8wp
@LR-dm8wp 5 ай бұрын
FOR SURE 😊
@Sherryyahoo
@Sherryyahoo 5 ай бұрын
Kudos…I have been in healthcare for 20 years of my life.
@Sherryyahoo
@Sherryyahoo 5 ай бұрын
I know exactly what she is talking about 💕🦋
@Sherryyahoo
@Sherryyahoo 5 ай бұрын
Have you ever had time to sit and have conversations with your people, residents and patients to know about their whole life and experiences. I have, and it’s a great privilege and gift xoxo💕🦋
@r.lynnsteinberg2775
@r.lynnsteinberg2775 5 ай бұрын
Your talks have very good information in them. You do need a level of compatibility with someone. Also, being with a person who willingly listens to you, really hears you, your feelings, and gives thembvalidation, even if their views are different, is very importsnt for a successful relationship. Both people need to be willing to hear the other one.❤
@bluelotus9654
@bluelotus9654 5 ай бұрын
Yes this is very true but if it involves a man this can be pretty rare. Exceptions being maybe in your teens, or in with some guys over 50. That 20 to 50 bracket they are almost all incapable
@r.lynnsteinberg2775
@r.lynnsteinberg2775 5 ай бұрын
I am lucky. I actually found one of those guys that really listens back. Never saw/felt this in my previous relationships.
@Sherryyahoo
@Sherryyahoo 5 ай бұрын
I could tell you to trust your intuition and gut, seriously
@therocknrollcook
@therocknrollcook 5 ай бұрын
Omg dating today is about entertainment and stress relief . Absolute gold
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@SherriFlemming
@SherriFlemming 5 ай бұрын
Jonathon, you nail it with that truth bomb.
@jennywang2429
@jennywang2429 5 ай бұрын
Emotional and values are important
@JetLagRecords
@JetLagRecords 5 ай бұрын
Jonathon Aslay, FIRE VIDEO
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@ForeverTogether219
@ForeverTogether219 5 ай бұрын
Johnathan.. Your lives n videos are very informative.. Spiritual connection Is important to make A relationship work.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
So true!
@Sherryyahoo
@Sherryyahoo 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely 🦋
@ginam.4990
@ginam.4990 5 ай бұрын
Omg funny tummy😅. Awesome awesome show!
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Thank you 🤗
@naddyn685
@naddyn685 5 ай бұрын
I will be 50 this year and do believe we should lead by example when our partners need encouragement to open up. Both men and women can be emotionally closed off. Personally I love a good heart to heart chat and how one topic can lead to another..moments of discovery!
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Exactly
@cynthiahoz3948
@cynthiahoz3948 5 ай бұрын
Hi Jonathon, Political polarization influences me to a much greater degree than in the past. I am not even sure if I can tolerate open-mindedness toward the opposite view at this point😩lol😂
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
I understand
@lizquinn3568
@lizquinn3568 5 ай бұрын
Cheak this out, there was a guy who was all over me like a rash in the club where i play darts, he alway wanted to talk to me and tell his friends he liked me, he asked me for my number I give i to him, guess what he didnt ring me, my motto is if someone doesn't connect you dont give them your company again 😏
@carlasalas9374
@carlasalas9374 5 ай бұрын
Yep!! That's c why I settled but I'm single again n doing just fine
@MHarmony528
@MHarmony528 5 ай бұрын
👍🏼Real Men & Confident Men are comfortable wearing pink 😉
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely!!
@She-Mc
@She-Mc 5 ай бұрын
Yes every word amen 💯
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
🙏
@janespitfire9884
@janespitfire9884 5 ай бұрын
Jonathan thank you...good advice!
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@Sherryyahoo
@Sherryyahoo 5 ай бұрын
So very true 💕
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Glad you think so!
@dianedorney5147
@dianedorney5147 4 ай бұрын
Holy shit, these woman you get in a hot seat are never really prepared to cut to the chase...they jump all over....I have to give you credit for unravelling this
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 4 ай бұрын
Most women communicate that way... 😬😁😉
@MHarmony528
@MHarmony528 5 ай бұрын
I think JA in white is a nice change. Great contrast with your dark hair & complexion. Anyhow this is about content not fashion sooo who's playing Fashion Police & Why? 🤔😮
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
That shirt is actually pink 😍
@dianedorney5147
@dianedorney5147 4 ай бұрын
Now that time has past what did you learn from your last relationship? Your talking about compatibility so I wondered which one didn't mesh?
@JetLagRecords
@JetLagRecords 5 ай бұрын
Jonathon Aslay, Can we be friends?
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Can you elaborate?
@robinemery
@robinemery 5 ай бұрын
​@@JonathonAslay🤣🤣🤗🫂🫂
@Sherryyahoo
@Sherryyahoo 5 ай бұрын
Jonathan…🤔
@mdeus7
@mdeus7 5 ай бұрын
Do you have a link to that chart anywhere?
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Nope
@ForeverTogether219
@ForeverTogether219 5 ай бұрын
Leasing a Car 😅😂 My My …..😮
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
🚗
@robinemery
@robinemery 5 ай бұрын
I agree, f**k it😊
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
👍🏼
@northshorelight35
@northshorelight35 5 ай бұрын
I’m feeling so distraught, Jonathan. I’m in a long distance relationship and I recently found out that he moved in with an ex-girlfriend while he studies for the bar exam. I didn’t know about this as we haven’t seen each other for awhile nor have we talked since he claims that he needs total concentration. Today I approached him about it over the phone and he of course denied it. Then made it seem like this was a big distraction for him and the exam. For months I feel like he’s been using the exam as an excuse to not talk about the shady stuff he’s done behind my back.
@Sherryyahoo
@Sherryyahoo 5 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear this…
@Sherryyahoo
@Sherryyahoo 5 ай бұрын
That’s a problem with long distance relationships, sorry
@ak-47intelligence75
@ak-47intelligence75 5 ай бұрын
Move on.
@heide-raquelfuss5580
@heide-raquelfuss5580 5 ай бұрын
Run.
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
One of the problems with LDRs is a lack of contact. It sounds like he's moved on but afraid to tell you.
@missimartin1989
@missimartin1989 5 ай бұрын
Just my thoughts. Wear Color Johnathan!!❤
@MHarmony528
@MHarmony528 5 ай бұрын
I think JA in white is a nice change. Great contrast with your dark hair & complexion. Anyhow this is about content not fashion sooo who's playing Fashion Police & Why? 🤔
@monikaleszko5343
@monikaleszko5343 5 ай бұрын
What’s a healthy time line for moving in together? considering we see text other 2-3 times a week now. It’s been 3 months!
@Sunlightsam24
@Sunlightsam24 5 ай бұрын
Have both of you agreed to be a committed couple?
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
When trust has been built
@Sherryyahoo
@Sherryyahoo 5 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@monikaleszko5343
@monikaleszko5343 5 ай бұрын
@@Sunlightsam24 yes we have. After date 2
@monikaleszko5343
@monikaleszko5343 5 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay and that’s the most difficult part lol 🙏 thank you
@billjryantheunanonymousact3556
@billjryantheunanonymousact3556 18 күн бұрын
Opposite may attract but it's not worth it! 38 years and the majority of them with no intimacy. I mean none. I believe he is or has narcissistic traits, that I only realized a few years ago. I'm 75 now , and I'm tired of being Alone even with hi. There,
@billjryantheunanonymousact3556
@billjryantheunanonymousact3556 18 күн бұрын
Remember this is coming from me Elissa and NOT William m although I'm using his tablet. Within the last year I have been able to open up😂a n d express myself better. I started using pot in my tea and bought Gummies... I find it to be for me a great aprodisiac! For him,not so much .I remember in the past telling him Im starvingm He offered to. Make me some Eggs
@michellem8284
@michellem8284 5 ай бұрын
La-Dee-Da is exhausting .....
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
That's harsh
@nadijones660
@nadijones660 5 ай бұрын
Can someone please pinpoint where he mentions the 5 signs? No time today to watch the whole thing 😢 thank you! ❤
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Around the 10 minute mark
@nadijones660
@nadijones660 5 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay thank you so much! You're awesome 😇🙏🥰
@robinemery
@robinemery 5 ай бұрын
What is funny tummy??
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 5 ай бұрын
Butterflies
@robinemery
@robinemery 5 ай бұрын
@@JonathonAslay that's what I thought, just wanted to make sure BIG BIG HUGGS 🫂🫂❤️
@carlasalas9374
@carlasalas9374 5 ай бұрын
The sex thing is true, when I started dating this guy we talked about sex n it sounded like we were on the same page, a yr later I realized that wasn't true but I'd already fallen for him so I stayed in the relationship trying to get him to give me more in that dept..but he avoided it....I was crazy about him so I tried to ignore it, ...it's a long story...just know aft 10nyrs wer not toght any more
@susanharrie3326
@susanharrie3326 5 ай бұрын
@cherylfitzsimmons3703
@cherylfitzsimmons3703 3 ай бұрын
😊
@danutamaj2115
@danutamaj2115 13 күн бұрын
Hmm! She seems to be very presentable lady however all her talk seems to sound or look like salad of words !Got her ADD !!! But It’s kind of hard to fish 2 concrete sentences out!!Plus not sure what’s her concern ,about taking additional education????!!Does she need his written approval ??!! Don’t get this concept of thinking!! Fear of loosing the guy she’s just met?? Watched at least 3 girls who volunteered to share theirs dating stories publicly !! All I can say !! It’s a cry for attention or desperation to survive??
@JonathonAslay
@JonathonAslay 12 күн бұрын
Yes
@stacieivey7104
@stacieivey7104 5 ай бұрын
❤😂😮😊
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