Almost scary how relatable this video was. Especially when he started talking about mental sanity. You become numb to stress but that takes a toll on positive emotions as well. You'll be sitting in a social environment unable to truely relax and enjoy yourself because you feel like you should be working and that you haven't gotten to where you want to be yet. You'll go to bed and struggle to have restful sleep because your brain is constantly thinking about what else you can do in the business. To keep myself form losing my shit I like to remind myself that this is a fee, not a fine. A price you pay to play the game and not a fine to avoid. Stay strong everyone💪
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Aboslutely! Thank you for bravely sharing this! I really appreciate it. Just keep going bro! You got this!
@Tyrese.7C3 ай бұрын
@@Zazi_Ndebele Great Point their bro!!💯🙏🏽
@GLORIOUS_TAEKWONDOАй бұрын
Your words are beautifully chosen! I see you have no videos but I will still subscribe you !
@tdonk17283 ай бұрын
This is the scary side of dropshipping what many guru's mostly don't tell us but happy you did, and this will not stop me to start i can do this
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Yes brother! Thank you, I appreciate it ❤
@vizik13682 ай бұрын
Bro this is so relatable he almost described my life to a tee and i haven't even started my business, it shows truly that your mindset is the Pinnacle of your outcome
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Thanks bro! I really appreciate it
@daninurbekov40183 ай бұрын
The untold true behind the success,I think that we should first know about it all and being aware,so when this period will come,be prepared for pressure.Thanks for priceless information
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Yes, you are right! Well said, brother! Thanks for this!
@kelvinxnation3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the video Nathan. Everyone just sees the highlights of someone’s life but never talk about the amount of pressure it creates. It’s a constant battle that not everyone is cut out for. It’s most definitely a journey.
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Absolutely! I'm glad you gained something in my video, and I really appreciate it
@nicholasmaina79323 ай бұрын
Love how real this was bro! Killed it bro !!
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Thanks bro! Glad you liked it ❤
@mannyman7422 ай бұрын
Thanks, I’ll rather have the financial, location and time freedom. Gotta keep pushing
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Go for it bro!!
@skatetg2 ай бұрын
That's exactly where I've been stuck, feeling like I lost my success, and it has been a road to regaining those good habbits I had.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Yes bro! Thanks for sharing this, I hope you keep going and just keep on learning
@haydn84183 ай бұрын
Thank you for this Nathan. I made a big beginner mistake on my current store, but i will learn from it.
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
That's the spirit! Just keep learning! Mistakes are meant for you to get better ❤
@benyarrington2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your humility and honesty, as someone who is trying to get started in the online business industry it's very comforting to hear.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
That's the goal bro! I'm glad my words could help.
@williamshephard87753 ай бұрын
Excellent video brother, eye opening indeed. I have chosen this path a little bit later in life and I admire your tenacity and determination, persistence over resistence is the mind set. I am experiencing the alone time and understand that it is the only way to move onward and upward. Being a fellow Canadian living here in Mexico, its all about what you want out of life and sitting in front of the computer hours on end can sometimes be intense and your creative thoughts just stop for no reason. I am grateful for all I have and will have and tomorrow I'll be back here sitting at my desktop grinding it out again. Thanks for keeping it real.
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Well said, brother! Thank you for sharing this. I appreciate you. Just go for it, take action, and keep going.
@DiegoG7473 ай бұрын
Thank you for this, came in as blessing today. I'm 31 from Mexico and have been going hard at Day Trading for 3.5 years now and all the personal stuff that you mentioned apply to me now more than ever. The pressure, fomo and sense of loss of a lot of things is very present now and the grind just can't stop. Good one bro, saludos
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
I appreciate this bro! Thank you for sharing! Keep going
@syko35203 ай бұрын
Hey Nathen, I'm currently on month 6, I've made a few sales along the way, but invested far too much. Like you said its very overwhelming and I was expecting it from the very start. I've lost all my friends, but I'm not letting that get to me. like you said, LOCK IN, its hard at first, but I changed my health, screen time, meditate, reading books, running every 2 days at 6am.... already building that mindset when I work 6 days a week at 2 jobs + working on my business when I get back. So I just wanna say thank you very much for this video, gave me a reminder that every entrepreneur was in the same shoes as me right now. Many thanks :D
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
glad to hear it man, keep up the great work :)
@StephenieJohn3 ай бұрын
Thank you Nathan, your videos inspire me especially this one
@joshschindler13102 ай бұрын
Hey, I see you been working really hard and I would love to chat with you and get some insight as I’m just starting out and been working on a store. I’m working a job currently and going to college and wake up early for the gym every morning. People think I’m crazy. I know I’m not I just know the life I want to live and will do anything to get there.
@syko35202 ай бұрын
@@joshschindler1310 yeh bro of course :)
@DailyWorldWideNews9452 ай бұрын
dawg friends are worth more than any business in the world. also running every 2 days does not change anything about finance lol
@ethanwinters74492 ай бұрын
I just started an online business today and ngl this did kinda scare me. I know I will fail and lose a lot but instead of turning away from it use it as motivation to better next time. I am thankful for my parents and girlfriend to be supportive of choice to start an online business. This is the most motivated I’ve ever been! Working my 6-4:30 job for the rest of my life is so scary.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
You're doing great brother, thanks for sharing this. That's the spirit, never giving up! I'm rooting for you brother!
@RasilaTakodara3 ай бұрын
Thanks Nathan for making this video. It's so relatable that the amount of stress and self doubt you feel
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
No worries! It's my pleasure
@ConnectGrowThriveАй бұрын
This was if not the best video (the most sincere) I've seen concerning E-commerce and the reality behind starting out. Everyone should see this before starting out. Well done sir. Much appreciated.
@NathannazarethАй бұрын
Glad it helped, bro! It's all about staying real.
@EasyMerchMoney3 ай бұрын
This is real life. This is real content. We choose this path we will try our best. We will win or we will die trying.
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Absolutely , brother!!
@AliBulks3 ай бұрын
Reppin Vancouver baby!! I’m up in North Van, I’ll see you at the top brother 🫡
@jadonmarkbismark3 ай бұрын
everything you said was extremely spot on, thank you bro
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Thanks bro! I appreciate it
@G.I.V842 ай бұрын
The best and most inspiring video I’ve watched, thank you Nathan you really know how to help🙏🏼💵
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
My pleasure!! I'm glad you found value on this video!
@laerke.h.lund.3 ай бұрын
This is so true!
@Wattson_fps2 ай бұрын
It's crazy how accurate this is, I used to watch all these videos on how to make money online and people saying how easy it was but they never talked about the price that comes with it. I'm 3 weeks into my shop on Etsy and honestly have no clue how to market and I finally just got my first sale yesterday. It really goes to show who really means what they say and whos just doing it for views when I watch these videos now.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this bro! It's all about trusting the process, never stop learning, and do better. I'm so proud of you for getting your first sale! Keep pushing!
@WILLPOWERMOTIVATION7Ай бұрын
thank you nathan, i really needed this, i am in a mental pressure rn from my family and friends but guess what. i think ill keep moving up lol.
@TateGuncensored2 ай бұрын
Genuine useful content 👏
@therealmccoyk2 ай бұрын
I intend to make it this Q4 with my brand. I’ve been doing different online businesses for 2 years with no big luck and I’ve never been more lonely and on my own. But I love it and I guess sometimes you have to sacrifice yourself to become your true self again. I know I will create a beautiful life, I haven’t even made it yet but I know it’s going to be worth.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
That's the spirit bro! Keep grinding, you got this!! 💪
@malekbekka95973 ай бұрын
real shit bro. thank you for this video
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Always welcome bro!
@BehradNick2 ай бұрын
04:37 I'm 19 growing up in a third world county, Iran. Every single freaking day I encounter a new obstacle in my way stopping me from keep going. But I'mma make it so big that the country & the situation I was born in becomes irrelevant.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
That's the spirit bro! Go for it! I'm rooting for you!
@AbdullahiMaji-kl5df3 ай бұрын
Words of wisdom. You indeed grew through your pain and you became the best version of yourself. That’s the deal and imma get it done this way even if I’m from the third world country🇳🇬😂just a matter of time, hard work and consistency💯
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Absolutely bro! Thanks for sharing this
@Januszegg3 ай бұрын
Insane! Thank you for somethind different than lambos in dubai
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Thanks man!
@Chernuhooo3 ай бұрын
Спасибо тебе за то, что ты делаешь Nathan, многие не пишут комментарии но уверен согласятся со мной, ты поднимаешь новое поколение успешных и с правильными приоритетами людей
@BigBeerBellyBenАй бұрын
"You can have everything in life, But you just have to know that life is a process, it's a journey and wherever you currently are and what you currently have, you have to be grateful for it while still pushing for more. So I encourage all of you guys watching to not only make your decision now and take action if you want this to be your life, if you want to go down the online world but to also enjoy every waking moment of where you currently are. Because it's part of your unique journey and it's part of your process and you're never going to get that time back and time is genuinely the most valuable thing we have in the world." New to the channel here, powerful quote there at the end. Congrats on your success, hope to one day also get there. Thanks for showing the reality that not many people like to talk about.
@NathannazarethАй бұрын
Thanks so much for the kind words and for joining the channel! You're absolutely right-life is a process, and gratitude combined with action is key. I’m glad the message resonated with you. Keep pushing forward, stay consistent, and I know you’ll get there too
@BigBeerBellyBenАй бұрын
@@Nathannazareth I used to work a Door 2 Door sales job, and although I don't have a multi million dollar business yet, this video made me reflect on that job and how rewarding it was to keep pushing no matter how many rejections and to actually get that sale. Sales is definitely a path to financial freedom, and enjoying the process along the way is definitely an important step in the process! Thanks Nathan, for taking time out of your day to reply. Really does mean a lot. -Ben from Canada.
@action5422 ай бұрын
This really resonates with my current experience.
@Spartan-Mind2 ай бұрын
Thank you Nathan. I have been losing so much money on ads, nothing is working for me. Everybody thinks I am stupid for losing so much money. I m staying all night on my laptop just to get that one sale. I had so many thoughts roaming around my head but this video really helped me calm my self down. Thank you Nathan, I have been watching you since 2021, love you
@Yosoytauffe3 ай бұрын
Legend ! Amazing video ! Thanks mate ✨
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
No problem 👍 Glad you liked it!
@touseefhamdani3 ай бұрын
The most important thing alot of us lack is fath in God
@77ares7773 ай бұрын
Man your videos are amazing hopefull, Im youngboy teenager and im going to start dropshipping buisness or something like that to make big company in future but im afraid that i wont do that but i hope that knowledge in your videos will help me man appreciate
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Right bro! Thanks for sharing this ❤
@Surya-l9y2 ай бұрын
Hii I'm also Teenager can we work together I also have to start dropshipping.
@77ares7772 ай бұрын
@@Surya-l9y have you any ideas for a shop I mean type of product or something special
@wesleytrinkle51533 ай бұрын
Thanks mate love the video this has encouraged me more than anything
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
I'm so glad! Keep going brother!
@BibekDas-o5c3 ай бұрын
My futureself is Thanking You!
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
I'm so glad! Always welcome bro
@noobcrewman3 ай бұрын
this video was the definition of relatable for me and even though there are a lot of bads in this i still want to do it see iff i can make it.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
just follow what you think will work for you bro! trust the process and keep going 😊
@noobcrewman2 ай бұрын
@@Nathannazareth Thanks man, and you replying to a ton of comments really shows how much you care and how much work you put into your videos. so thanks for caring for your fans and thanks for all the motivation and inspiration!
@CreatingFinancialFreedom2 ай бұрын
Want the online dream? Brace yourself for the brutal reality. It's a rollercoaster of highs and lows, but the rewards can be worth the ride.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Absolutely brother! Great share you got here!
@Aquatrionn2 ай бұрын
If you can rise up a business successfully, and it eventually dies… NO PROBLEM - you already attained the skills of creating a successful business. The work you did worked on YOU before it worked on your profit. You can lose your profit, your business, but no one can take your skills away! If you have resilience, you will only rise up stronger than before!
@CXhrystian2 ай бұрын
I needed this one
@wavelt37443 ай бұрын
Much needed,thank u ❤
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
You're welcome!
@benjachaw1162 ай бұрын
All this is so true bro and I’m gonna keep fucking going till achieve my goal
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
YES! Go for it bro! I'm rooting for you!
@itsethanabrahams3 ай бұрын
Great video bro! Well said.
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it! Thank you! I appreciate it bro
@reecebeddome2 ай бұрын
Absolutely loved this type of video
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! Glad you liked it!
@GinaImbimbo2 күн бұрын
This is a video I needed before I started drop shipping. I'm gonna have to get back into it. 👍
@AlHashemi-o7m3 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for this video bro
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
It's my pleasure bro!
@tommyajerry3 ай бұрын
Wow, well done
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@NFC-e5k3 ай бұрын
I loved this video and every thing you said. 💪💯
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
thank you bro! really appreciate it 😊
@FranciscoLopezJr-dc7beАй бұрын
thank you brother, for real, thank you.
@joaquimmenezes73962 ай бұрын
Thanks Nathan...Great video 💪🏻❤
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Glad you liked it!
@FiodorNoack2 ай бұрын
great video, keep going
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much brother!
@_cake_music2 ай бұрын
Now im 20, and im broke, but im gonna do this❤
@RealOnePlayerOdyssey2 ай бұрын
Same I'm gonna do this.
@LifewithBeauford3 ай бұрын
very much needed
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
I'm glad!
@eliticluniar33543 ай бұрын
I'm 16.. I haven't started any business or anything but I'm starting to learn about how money works and how life works in general. My question is it worth it.. to sacrifice your life at a young age and didn't get to experience and have fun like what other people did in their live when they are young. I'm feeling a bit lost right now and don't know what my next step should be. I started learning on this topic since I realized that school was getting me no-where and not helping me with my future at all.
@Mxkignacioedits3 ай бұрын
This is a really important question to ask yourself. Why do you want to be successful? Going to college, and working for the rest of your life until you retire is hard. Going down the path of starting a business is also hard. You choose your hard. It’s all going to be difficult it’s whatever you truly want for yourself. It’s also important to teach yourself to balance family, and friends with a business because it’s not good to get caught up in all the money either. If it’s all worth it in the end depends on why you started in the first place. It’s all based on your mindset. Personally, I want to become successful because I want to prove myself wrong. I want to be able to live comfortably and not have to live paycheck to paycheck. When people start getting money they want to buy all these fancy cars, houses, watches, etc. That is not the smart move. Money blows fast. Like I said it’s all based on your mindset. If you really want it go for it! It will be worth it!
@VictoryElite_7M2 ай бұрын
This is what exactly thats happening to me rn
@samirr1x9323 ай бұрын
this where most of the dropshippers quit no guru talk about
@نورالحمکة2 ай бұрын
Thank you Nathan you’re my inspiration for always love from Afghanistan 🇦🇫
@SubBro223 ай бұрын
Thank you brother🤝
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
always welcome! 😊
@shark-estv.82562 ай бұрын
Point in life is to do whatever you enjoy all day not to stacks Cash in basment
@Dash_smiz992 ай бұрын
Thx grateful for the advices
@WayneDasva2 ай бұрын
Thanks man for your heads up
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Any time!
@RembrandtHa3 ай бұрын
thanks for the video man. weird question, whats the song at 14:45? it doesnt show up on the music finder extension...thanks
@KaderBellili2 ай бұрын
nice video. being free is an amazing thing but for some period of your life you're gonna have to sacrifice things like your peace of mind. it will pay off tho
@NathannazarethАй бұрын
absolutely!! thanks for this
@OliverFerreira-s9jАй бұрын
Hi! I am starting a dropshipping business within the next few weeks! I am still young so that leads me with two questions for you. Number 1: if you take an organic dropshipping approach, could it use up your money? I am thinking of starting with an organic approach then scaling to paid ads. Number 2: how many years or products did it take you to finally get your winning product and be successful? Since I’m still young I am not as focused on making a “supporting income” but more of a side hustle that will ultimately give me lots of business experience for when I’m 18+. Great video and keep it up!
@NathannazarethАй бұрын
You can definitely start with organic content. It's just that paid ads could work better. I tested several winning products until I found the one. It's not an overnight success, it just keep getting bigger that before.
@OliverFerreira-s9jАй бұрын
@ ok thank you so much!!!
@masterunique8043Ай бұрын
I am trying to start now and this will help with my journey
@NathannazarethАй бұрын
Great! I'm looking forward. Keep me posted bro
@TheMythicalBlob3 ай бұрын
I cant start yet due to school but from august next year i have 1 year free before i go to uni and i want to try and get drop shipping to work to prove my parents wrong, they only think grades matter and that if i go down this path that i will never become anything, so i have to make this work and hopefully i can show my parents some results within a year
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
go for it bro! take action! 💯 i'm rooting for you
@sosontrd2 ай бұрын
LETS DOOIOO ITTT
@Leo-xq8or2 ай бұрын
Hi Nathan! I live in BC, Canada and the only thing holding me back is the legal process for drop-shipping, i am really confused if i need a business license, business number? Do i register my drop-shipping business as a sole proprietorship?
@creedsofficial3 ай бұрын
Rn in the phase where I screw up with lots of expenses: got my youtube channels hacked, lost my job, back at square 1
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
These are all challenges brother! But it's all about trying again and not giving up.
@TresXTre2 ай бұрын
Thanks man 💪🏽🙏🏽
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Always welcome bro!
@JustRelaxmp43k3 ай бұрын
see you guys at the top
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
YES! 💯
@M4slah3 ай бұрын
sup Nathan.
@hadismalekie3 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Always welcome bro
@ericalmeida49172 ай бұрын
Amazing content
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@RasilaTakodara3 ай бұрын
Ver very relatable
@zachtheoldham3 ай бұрын
Let’s go babay
@AstralAdventureAi2 ай бұрын
Thanks Nathan the video is really Inspiring
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
I'm glad you think so. Thanks brother!
@dope201gaming2 ай бұрын
How do I learn to do dropshipping?
@AbdulSayyad-u8b3 ай бұрын
Great video brother 🤍, following you since long time. You have really helped me alot brother. Thank you so much man.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
I appreciate you bro! thank you 💯
@kitsunehistoryАй бұрын
Rich people complaining about having a mental issue, is like hearing a mechanic can't fix his own car, or dentist having his cavity, or pulmonary doctor is a heavy smoker, or hacker got his computer hacked. Would you believe that? I don't. Are you?
@Tyrese.7C3 ай бұрын
If Everything comes crashing on you The complete Fact is that you still got knowledge within you.
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Yes! Thanks bro
@domborrow2 ай бұрын
Holy shit this is so relieving.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Glad you think so
@YTHelloshorts2 ай бұрын
You Are Great.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Thank you bro! You are, too
@Dylan1202_3 ай бұрын
Nathan, did you have a video editing/creation background prior to dropshipping? How hard was it to develop good, effective ads in the beginning? That is the part I think I’d have the hardest time with
@AllIsTakenАй бұрын
Thank you
@NathannazarethАй бұрын
always welcome bro!
@Cash_flows999Ай бұрын
Thank you so much nathan you have always been my idol and helped me in sutiations and It's crazy how much I relate to this video. I recently started my high-end e-commerce brand, and ever since, people keep telling me I’m living in a fantasy world. They say my ideas won’t work or that I’m chasing something unrealistic. It’s frustrating, but I’m committed to proving them wrong. For anyone who's been in a similar situation, how do you stay focused and motivated when surrounded by doubt? I’d love some tips on overcoming this kind of negativity and pushing forward.
@NathannazarethАй бұрын
Thank you for the kind words, bro! 🙌 People who doubt you often don’t understand the journey or the grind it takes to succeed. Here’s a tip: stay focused on your own vision and goals, not what others think. Keep reminding yourself why you started and how much you believe in your brand. Surround yourself with positivity-whether it’s from content, mentors, or like-minded people. Don’t let anyone's doubts define your path. Stay consistent, trust the process, and prove them wrong by staying relentless. You’ve got this! 💯🔥
@Cash_flows999Ай бұрын
@@Nathannazareth Thank you so much bro! Enjoy your life maybe one day in the future I will meet you. Love you bro:)
@howardmathews55722 ай бұрын
One important question, please. Based on your experience, or your opinion: What are the minimum elements in a product page, to actually find a winner? I mean since we'll test a gazillion products anyway before finding one, what's the quickest, "selling" product page structure? I really hope stuff like FAQs, reviews, etc. aren't "sale or not sale" things at the testing phase... cause these elements take, literally, a shit ton of time. I'm sure there's a smarter way to approach it.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
You can definitely put FAQs, reviews in one page. You can also put discounts to appeal customers. Audience most likely buy products if they saw an actual video of that product, could be UGC or content where you demo the product
@howardmathews55722 ай бұрын
@@Nathannazareth That's not my question brother. In short, are things like "reviews" a must when testing a bunch of products to find a winner? I mean no reviees = no sales? I hope not.
@TheAGP.2 ай бұрын
You don’t have to live like this,everyone’s journeys different but this is a harsh truth and reality of the business mentality nd entrepreneurship lifestyle u can have fun just make a plan and reverse engineer that shiv
@joshschindler13102 ай бұрын
Hey Nathan, you are such an inspiration and I personally relate to this video. I’ve been working on getting started and watching some course videos and it’s so hard to find time for me to do it. I wake up early in the morning and go to the gym then work for a few hours and then I go right to college then by the time I come home it’s late and have to eat quick and do some work then go to bed. What do you recommend I do? I feel different than other people and my family already thinks I’m crazy with all this stuff.
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this brother!! You can start a side hustle to keep you busy while earning money bro
@chrisperalta76743 ай бұрын
Nathan what’s poppin jit
@MaaaaannnnnnnnАй бұрын
Day 1.
@hmindsetlife3 ай бұрын
One Day
@martaurbanska5573 ай бұрын
Please do a video of how 13 year olds can start dropshipping
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
I have short form videos about businesses for teenager. But will definitely keep this in mind.
@jeanno40213 ай бұрын
Nice vid! +1
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Thank you bro!
@HayleyJonasson2 ай бұрын
Im in my 30s and chose a major according to my interests and not what would get me a job. I can't even find a job because there is a recession. Is it too late to get into online business?
@Nathannazareth2 ай бұрын
No, you can definitely start an online business anytime!
@ayman-arab3 ай бұрын
nice vid
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
Thanks bro!
@regcatdog3 ай бұрын
Nice
@Nathannazareth3 ай бұрын
❤
@AhmedGamal-hc7lr3 ай бұрын
I want to be like you I don't have friends anymore at work now