"you will never be a 'real' man" // FtM Transgender | RyanJacobs

[@clairenicholson7865]

"You thinking I'm not a man is not going to stop me from being one" 👏🏻👏🏻

[@CLee-oo9yl]

Reality keeps her from being one!

[@Zippokris]

Hey Ryan! You don't know me and I don't know you. But I go to your old highschool. And when I told my friends about being FtM they all lit up because of you. Everyone I talk to is so proud of who you are and what you've become. Just wanted you to know that A.B. has your back!

[@RyanJacobsFlores]

This made me happy. Best of luck to you :)

[@Zippokris]

Ryan Jacobs Flores Totally! That was the intent. And thank you

[@faeoori]

I was born intersex. my genetics said I'm male, but I present as ... both kinda. So anyone who says there are only two are full of themselves.

[@NeuroArrow]

wait but intersex means that youre born with both male and female anatomy? If your sense of self is both male and female you might be bigender or androgyne or genderfliud but your anatomy is still "male"

[@alexnielsen997]

Alex Andrews hope its alright, im just curious. But how Can your genetics say youre male and youre still intersex? Doesnt being intersex mean that youre genetics cant be lable as either male or female?

[@faeoori]

Kaelan Richardson my anatomy is not male, hon. Mostly not anyhow. Despite my genetics being purely male.

[@faeoori]

Noah Christiansen Not always. I'm Xy, but was born with. .. effectively nonfunctional male bits. My testes are internal and I developed small breasts at puberty. I have a penis, but it doesn't work >.> I consider myself male. I'd have my chest surgery if I could afford that. so I guess I'm sort of trans. .. but because I'm intersex.

[@NeuroArrow]

Ohh okay sorry i think i read it wrong. Sounds pretty cool tho, and that your so open to it.

[@RyanJacobsFlores]

Friendly reminder that trans people are real people, they are not "fake" men and women, they're 100% true men and women and no amount of whining will change that. Much love to you all :)

[@adriannon-binary79]

I know this is unrelated to the video, but you have a wonderful voice. I think being an androphilic non-binary person might make my opinion sound biased, but from my perspective it's the truth ^^

[@lolwow1991]

thank you ♡ for educating the human race

[@elenazaharieva4578]

Ryan Jacobs Flores I've already knew all of this, I personally was born a female and I indemnify as one even though I am not the most girly girl! But I have FtM friend and before he came up I was talking to him as with a girl, but one day he came and told me: "know what? I am a boy" and I just said: "ok, if that is the way you feel I have no problem with that"

[@angelamariee1464]

Ryan Jacobs Flores love you ❤️❤️❤️

[@ShannonSpeaks]

We love you 😘💕

[@jazminjade2611]

"You know better now" YES YOU DROP THAT KNOWLEDGE TEACH THEM I'm so proud and inspired by you I'm struggling so much with gender and t makes me so happy that you teach people instead of just arguing it's perfect

[@jadenstanbro1872]

I've always been an LGBTQ supporter, but I've learned so much from this video. And what an amazing way to fight ignorance with not hate, but knowledge. The way he approached this was not only mature and knowledgeable, but loving. 💗

[@SAMPINJ]

Jaden Stanbro your a fool God made man and woman Don't twist facts this woman is a disgrace and your propping her up

[@red81511]

You're so intelligent, strong and brave. Also handsome as fuck

[@reneesme1223]

"You are no one to label a body that isn't yours" is the most profound thing to say to transphobic people. Honestly words to live by.

[@BulkBogan1920]

We can label anything we want

[@S.apphire]

He's so politely sassy... I love it!

[@BulkBogan1920]

She

[@jordanharris4513]

One simple thing to say, you are a beautiful human. An incredible man and so inspiring

[@taog4928]

I really appreciate the way that you approached this. So calmly, and not patronising or condescending at all (at least, it didn't come across like that to me). Thanks for making this!

[@marjoleinpaardekooper1093]

hey i randomly found your video in my recommended, i just gotta say, you have the most pleasent voice I've heard in a long time. Seriously, it's a pleasure just to hear you talk. So smooth.

[@mar6167]

your voice is so soft that makes me feel really calm like for real

[@torrinashley6076]

Same

[@michellerutter9870]

This is so important. More people need to understand this.

[@elirem7224]

I feel so attracted to him.

[@elirem7224]

If he changed that means he wants to be referred as a He

[@Mely2.2]

me too I even imagine him kissing me hahaha

[@AliBanana1493]

same

[@buhagsigwasan2259]

that's one of the reasons why world can't have peace because of hatred and homophobes 😂

[@hughjaynus3723]

Isabela Mercado her*

[@saf.5214]

i support you with your journey ... i personally think that you and many other people who are trans.. are a good example of the saying "be who YOU wanna be." and yeah. just keep being you.

[@angiesalinas1546]

I like the way he talks, so calm and polite. You're such a cutie💕

[@JetAdvin]

Preach! I haven't started my transition, but I hope to soon. Watching your videos is really inspiring.

[@ichbinben.]

I really needed to hear that now. Thank you so much for your videos, they help me so much!

[@renettegrace778]

damn when he started talking all anatomy my heart melted like y u so perfect talk to me anatomy all day

[@jordanleighwheatley]

there was a House episode about a girl who had the SRY gene. she was a supermodel and got sick with testicular cancer. it's all very fascinating. I love science. I'm an ally. keep living your true self

[@TheBeggarMaster]

Jordan Leigh Wheatley ooh I remember that, i even remember House saying something about how ironic is she being the "perfect woman" only because she got the male gene

[@jordanleighwheatley]

***** yep, that's exactly it

[@cristinadelgado9069]

I like how you did a lot of research about the XX and XY Genes. I was surprised.

[@carmyifly]

Okay professor Flores! I see you educating the people. I think this is so important for everyone and the way you addressed the situation was outstanding. Much love from Berkeley!

[@katishere3457]

Your voice is really soothing. I really like it. -Lee

[@Loveisfun123]

Thank you for addressing this to people who don't have much knowledge on this sort of stuff.

[@ariesgirl6311]

Ryan, your voice is really soothing 🙂

[@MsWiccanpriestess]

Thethem Singsit he has that gay Lisp tho

[@beepbopbeep2873]

Aries Girl like woman. Hmm?

[@drlisabensinger9184]

Ryan, I have two doctorates and yet this is the best video I have seen discussing this enormous topic concisely. Very well done. I'm sharing it because I continue to try to help people understand my journey. Envious that I didn't make such a good one myself. Are you on Facebook? Appreciate the seriousness with which you explained the issues. We need more people who speak like you. Thank you very much.

[@jgonzalez2760]

You really are an amazing person, Ryan. Thanks to you and everything that you said has helped me become a better person. I'll be taking T soon and I'm excited. You're like a role model to me and I'm very proud of the man you became and will always be.

[@makobeltran2420]

This is awesome! I'm glad you did a video like this. Correctly informing people that love to speak on this subject that they have no knowledge on. Thank you for this. I'll definitely share it with others!

[@katherinepoop5779]

woah I just got educated way better than my science teacher could❤

[@aleace]

I just don't understand why people need to hate, seriously... If you don't agree why watch the damn video? Sorry for my little rant... Love you Ryan. I honestly don't understand how you are so attractive.. Haha.

[@michellenarvaez]

I 100% agree with you, nobody could've said it any better than this. much love ❤

[@JukeGore]

This deserves to be shared all over the community how inspiring and articulate Ryan is just drives all of these points home. Also what a great idea to bring your text book as back-up you thought of everything. Keep doing what you do man really enjoyed this video.

[@WhimsicalBlades]

First video of yours that I've seen. A little over a minute in. Dude, I am in love with your voice.

[@joannahaggblom2097]

Only thing that breaks my heart is your intelligence, courage, combined with that heartbreaking beauty

[@mysteriouschocolatechip4520]

Even for people in the trans community, like me, this video is really interesting. Thank you!

[@paigepoteet2836]

knowledge is power, and you have said some powerful things here today. You are an inspiring human being.

[@shaek2333]

Omg your voice 😍 I could listen to your voice for hours. Can you please make a hour vlog of you just talking. Also it was a very good explanation you are a very good teacher! Keep up the positivity.

[@MK-bi8wk]

I love how you articulate and the confidence of which you approach the audience here. Thanks for making this video. I'll be sure to use it in educating my friends wherever possible.

[@TheConfuzzledCat]

I need to send this to every ignoramus at my school. Thank you so much, Ryan.

[@marelynmedina9441]

Ryan, you definitely have my full respect ✊. Blessed Be )O(

[@thekittykatie]

"so if you choose to bypass this information... you're not being ignorant anymore, you're being arrogant and narrow-minded" my favorite line // thank you for being a wonderful human being //

[@samrobbins2248]

You are correct, there are people who are ignorant and there are people who just don't want to understand. Those people would be obtuse, you kept your cool under a lot of hate and that's really something.

[@torifischer5498]

Literally opened my eyes!! never seen so much truth in one video. I love your videos so much! thank you so much!! 💖💖💖💖

[@andreaeguigure3270]

You are gorgeous!! Showed one of my friends your videos and he has felt a lot better about his transition. You're awesome. 😊😊

[@cherrydevon]

i love how u used real facts & peacefully delivered ur point :)

[@anastasiaigonzales]

This was really educational and I think this was a video MUCH needed, even I myself learned some new things.

[@janw5488]

You really have the proper tools to teach! You are incredibly well spoken! I have watched 2 videos and am a sincere fan!

[@DomoL0ve]

that's why i love your videos!!! you're so informative and patient with people who don't understand!

[@alesillabuenaonda]

i loveeed this video, you explained it really well, funny how I just presented an article about this today at school. And I love how you respond to all the hate comments. You are an amazing human being, and I love your videos!💕👌 much love from Mexico! ps. Omg i looovvvvveeee your voice!

[@alesillabuenaonda]

PLUS. YOU ARE SOOOOOOO DAMN HANDSOME.

[@shantalizelizanizaaks728]

Alejandra Acevedo right?????? hotttttt.

[@sherrikendrickkendrick269]

we have six kids , 24 through 9 and as a moma I got to say I'm so proud of you !! the world needs more people like you my love

[@rylenddk547]

You're so positive omg ❤

[@charliebarth]

Thanks for being awesome man! Great video!

[@liannalacey]

👏👏👏👏 LOVE THIS VIDEO. You're an inspiration. Put this knowledge out there!! I love when you stated; " you're no longer ignorant, you're arrogant and narrow minded". 👌 you're fricken awesome Ryan

[@doodleartlover]

I think this video was a great idea to help people understand. When you explain simply without anger, it helps people who are ignorant about a situation to be more open-minded and be more accepting in any type of situation. I think you did a great job of explaining in that even-toned manner. As always, I wish you a wonderful and blessed day! ☺ ✌

[@RexMultiverse]

Brother you are a Real Man!! thanks for sharing your inspiring life with us! stay Strong and stick to your believes. kisses and hugs from Mexico!

[@FlamminChex_]

I love how calm you are and how well you explain things. Thank you for that information :)

[@wiggidel]

I needed this.. I've been on T a year now and I still struggle with this because I doubt myself and my "manlyness". I struggle to regularly make videos on my channel cause I'm still insecure. But your videos always open my eyes a little so thank you Ryan

[@TheNikki8905]

being happy in ur own skin is the most important thing. everything else is secondary. stay postive and don't let the negative people bring u down. u can change 1 life at time. may God bless u on ur journey.

[@nathanielgalvez1851]

Congrats on turning a year on T Ryan!

[@estherrenee55]

Love this video. I hope you don't mind that I shared. Truly educational for those that don't understand. Stay strong! Daisy and Miguel's grandma.

[@RyanJacobsFlores]

[@m3chan1cs]

You go, boy! Breaking out the textbook. I'm happy for you, man. Keep going?

[@claraabelha]

YOURE AMAZING!!!!!! Please make videos about your classes, university etc

[@karlag.4035]

This is very interesting and I'm glad you explained it and broke it down the way you did... Above all gender, where is the RESPECT to another human being? Being nice and respecting one another costs NOTHING people, BE NICE! 🤗❤️

[@luceroescareno4136]

I was never against what you're going for but I never new the facts. Thanks so much for the video, it was so insightful and I feel like I can back up my beliefs now in a whole new way. :)

[@sandrac893]

Simple yet brilliant response. I really like the fact that you took the time to make that video to teach us that little lesson with no hate, no anger at all after all the hateful things some people said. It shows how mature and strong you are. Keep going, can't wait to learn more from you. ♥

[@MapleSyrupJess]

wow im impressed of how your voice changed. I just discovered your channel and by curiosity i saw many of your videos. i must say that comparing your female voice and your voice now, now is very sweet, its relaxing hearing you now haha. I could watch all your videos just to hear your voice 😁😁. btw its nice that you take the time to explain everyone the process you've been through. im sure it helps lot of ppl !

[@SG-mo2xz]

Well this was very useful,I always try to support people in whatever they want to do and be in their life,even if I couldn't understand well but now I do a bit more technically.. thank you for this. X

[@marionhermannsen]

Really great video. I met a transgender guy last week (the first I'd ever met) and was hugely impressed by his story. He's amazing--strong and lovely. Your video filled in some knowledge gaps. Kudos to you! ❤️

[@julieteigen2503]

"You thinking I'm not a man is not going to stop me from being one". This is so inspirational, thank you for being a strong and positive voice for the lgbtq+ community, especially for the trans community.

[@alekya7560]

I don't even know you but I'm so fucking proud of you. I can't even believe it bc I've only been subscribed for a little while.

[@cynthiarabe5924]

Keep moving forward Ryan! You are an articulate, intelligent and very handsome young man!!!

[@Codiliabra]

Pffffft. I know what makes a *_real_* man. Be as swift as an coursing river. Have the strength of a great typhoon. Mysterious as the dark side of the moon.

[@LyricSky1]

That's right !!!! I appreciate you ,keep coming back stronger ,teach others "You are more of a man " then they all are 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

[@alexxxg5039]

Very informative video sir. You have material to backup your argument, and you're teaching people new things, not bashing people who can't handle anyone being remotely different from what society has constructed human beings: a label. I support your journey fully! Stay you, sir! ❤️

[@ronancarrillo2235]

BOOM!! I love this!! ha ha! nothing beats ignorance like enlightenment. thumbs up Ryan! 😀

[@michellesantos-anderson]

THANK U FOR EDUCATING THOSE WHO DIDN'T KNOW. I MYSELF DID NOT KNOW ALL OF WHAT U SPOKE ON TODAY AND THANK U FOR THAT INFORMATION ALTHOUGH I LOVE PEOPLE FIR WHOM THEY ARE N NOT WHAT THEY ARE. UR A BEAUTIFUL PERSON INSIDE N OUT AND I WISH U THE BEST IN LIFE MAN. U ARE MORE MAN THAN MANY I'VE COME ACROSS. MUCH RESPECT 4 THIS. GOD BLESS LIVE LOVE N LAUGH. LIFE IS SHORT N I SAY ENJOY IT WHILE U CAN LUV. BESOS😙😙😙

[@katarzynarozkosz8695]

Normally, I don't write comments under videos, but this time I really had to get it out there. It was a really, really mature way that you decided to address the problem. I like the fact that you being transgender and communicating it to the world doesn't mean putting out there rant videos, but actually educating people in a really well-mannered and patient way. It is true, not everyone needs to be familiar with being transgender and the concept of genders/sex, but you doing it in such a mature way really impressed me. Keep up the good work!

[@LaurenJewel]

all the love💝 I support you 100%. you're so strong and that's highly commendable. very inspiring. ily :))

[@prernachan270]

I just loved how you tried to convey your msg it's very enlightening and I love your voice too

[@05ckay23]

You are amazing Ryan. Keep doing you, regardless of what people who hate say. They have nothing better to do with their lives, than pass judgement on people they don't even know. Keep on, keeping on, they don't matter. 😊

[@andiehernandez1995]

Great video! The people that you were talking about having different chromosomes and genitalia are called "intersex" and people like you and me are called "dyadic". I didn't know about that gene and I've watched tons of videos about biological sex! You are 100% real and valid man (a very handsome one also). And I think tolerance is not good because we only tolerate things we dislike. The LGBTQIA+ community deserves respect and maybe acceptance and support, but respect is mandatory for every single human being. Btw I love your eyebrows

[@Brazz8]

What an amazing, kind and intelligent way to approach someone's hateful rhetoric ! Be you! and remember the staying,"What you think of me is none of my business".

[@nn8322]

you are so calm, i love it!

[@starberrymoth]

I love this video my friend showed me this I’m so glad you took the time to explain to people what being trans is. I showed this to my friend who didn’t know how to take me being gender fluid. Your the best

[@alexaaronheart1677]

Oh my god you'd be so good at asmr your voice is so soothing

[@andreawillis-bell9048]

Fully agree with you. Your transition is beautiful to watch.

[@jeezerika]

Ryan, I just have to say that you are so strong for posting all of this but I want to thank you posting this video. I've been watching your channel for a while and you are amazing I love you ❤️💕😘

[@kaura2154]

This is a college lecture that I *can* bear ☺.. Love you Ryan! ( just wanted to complain about school )

[@spencerqwashington]

I like that you reference your textbook, great video Ryan! I bring up the same information in my Genetics class to my peers who asked about gender v. sex.

[@pianoconamore]

what would you do if there was no testosterone and surgery was not that developed?

[@magikarp4691]

what if the world was made of flan tho

[@pianoconamore]

MAGIKARP as far as I can see you have no answer

[@CallMeDaddieo]

pianoconamore you dnt need to have surgery or testosterone to still consider yourself a man, there are some transmen who dnt want or need either

[@pianoconamore]

Elijah Johnson how are you supposed to feel comfortable when you feel like a man but you're physically a female and can do nothing about that? and how are you supposed to persuade your future partner to treat you like a man if you look absolutely feminine?

[@CallMeDaddieo]

some ppl dgaf what you look like, its the inside that matters, if someone feels like a man on the inside & are comfortable with their skin then let them be, as long as its not affecting you then it honestly doesnt matter

[@sunshineonawinterday]

I'm going to be honest I used to be a "there are only 2 genders stop whining" person but you have explained everything so well I understand now!!! Thank you!😌😌🙏🙏 ps. you're very handsome 😌

[@arreikc3315]

Remember to always stay true to yourself and block out all the negative stuff people have to say to you regarding you being trans.

[@svarog8126]

Gender is so grey it needs to be scrapped. I use pronouns based on sex, if someone don't like it - I'll use their name.

[@edwardt2396]

But what if they picked their own name? I don't understand why you wouldn't use someone's preferred pronouns but you would use someone's preferred name.

[@svarog8126]

Because name and pronoun are two different things. By using a pronoun outside of He/she him/her I would subject myself to a worldview to which I don't adhere

[@cameronishere]

Demi Urgos but you still gotta respect the person, you know? despite your beliefs, I believe that anyone has the right to refer to themselves with any pronouns they prefer.

[@spacecowboy2285]

Imhullu I don't adhere to your world view, but that isn't stopping you from being an ass. I wouldn't talk to someone like you in public anyways, so there's no need for you to use anything to refer to me.

[@svarog8126]

Good for me.

[@YesWeMakeUp]

It requires so much bravery to do what you're doing... and even more to do it in public. Congrats for daring to be different, for doing whats necessary to be happy. Best wishes.

[@kierrahprather1736]

This is really inspirational to me. Because I'm a ftm trans boy. And I have not started my transition yet, but thank you for creating this video although I am late and I am new to your channel.

[@linetteramirezofficial631]

Hey Ryan :) its me gilma tbh its been a while but ur video really put a smile in my face, im glad you are well :)

[@RyanJacobsFlores]

Hoping you're well also :)

[@Jenn-wh5pd]

It's hard to find role models @ 18 years of age, but you are now one of mine ❤ And to think I would've never had the chance to know who you are if I didn't keep scrolling down on my KZbin feed..

[@jenniferfernandez3936]

I support you 100% don't mind the haters if you feel comfortable and you're happy that's all that matters, this is you and only you no one has the right to judge you goodluck