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00:00 - The Danger of Bad Advice in the Industry
01:07 - Sensationalism and Ethics in KZbin
02:07 - The Fine Line Between Persuasion and Manipulation
03:04 - From Failure to Success: My Entrepreneurial Journey
04:02 - The Power of Thinking for Yourself
05:05 - Developing a Critical Mindset
06:06 - Expressing Gratitude for What You Have
07:04 - Understanding Different Perspectives
08:09 - The Importance of Respect in Relationships
09:06 - The Importance of Respect and Building Character
10:16 - Learning from the Dead
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[@RealMenRealStyle]

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[@datwistyman]

The best book ever for me was "How to win friends and influence people" The two best bit's of advice I've ever got are, #1 "Perfect practice makes perfect." Rather than practice makes perfect because you can practice the wrong thing and never get to your goal. #2 teach people to teach people to teach. I'll leave you to think about this one 🙂👍🇦🇺

[@louiebenjamin5243]

Thank you for the links!

[@cherryvapr6969]

I'd offer that as a more traditional person the value that's lacking is honest communication tate is convinced it was his vulnerability that lead to him getting hurt we all know the dudes origins well enough and can see the subsequent actions, brutal honesty is cheaters should be given to the streets they belong and people need to rediscover love for humanity fix a lot of the problems in that idealogic camp

[@k.p.bolden7329]

Love you, Devil Dawg!!!!!

[@teegees]

Andrew Tate is a prime example of a charlatan. Sad to see so many gullible young men and even older men think that he’s a role model. 😑

[@toxion_8]

I'm very sorry to hear you lost your sister and friends to suicide. I too nearly committed suicide a few months back. Only someone who has been to hell and back can realise what human suffering is like. And I have realised that suffering ultimately builds true compassion, empathy, and ultimately makes you a real man.

[@bertwagner2623]

Really glad to know that you are back and can serve as hope for others. Depression still has a bad stigma associated with it and, unfortunately, many people don’t seek treatment (sometimes with fatal consequences).

[@catalincata9043]

Only one who has been through hell and back knows what its like to suffer. You are 100% correct. Thats what Jesus Christ did and thats why hes the only God in the world worth worshiping and suffering for. The rest are false. The universe and manifestation doesnt care about you. Money and power doesnt care about you. Therapists and psychologists give zero damns about you. We must go through life carrying our heavy crosses for the glory of Jesus Christ our Lord and God.

[@user-ok1xq5qm9t]

The only suicide I can justify is when person deadly ill, there is no more hope for cure and he suffers badly. I can understand that. If you have any other reason to justify your suicide - your just weak. And yes, I want you know that if you will consider suicide with any other reason to do so than I wrote at start - than I want you know while dying that the only reason you died - is because your weak, not because ur parents bad, not because you have no friends, not because you no goal, but simple because one fact - your weak. But there is simple solution - be strong. and yeah, its easier to be weak, cuz you dont have to do anything with your problems. Being strong - is like in gym, you have to go there and struggle everyworkout to become stronger. Same goes to any aspect of your life.. family,friends,money,goals,careers,relationships. You either go there and be strong, do whatever it takes to solve problems or your just gonna cry , be lazy and continue to be weak. Be strong.

[@bertwagner2623]

⁠@@user-ok1xq5qm9t I think that this proves my point that depression is poorly understood. Depression is a very real disease and not a sign of weakness. Untreated or treatment-resistant depression can drive a person to a very dark place where suicide seems to be the only solution. Fortunately, there are treatments available even for those people. A call to a suicide hotline is a great first step. ❤

[@512idkidk]

How did you get rid of that gapping hole in your chest?

[@Pikawarps]

I don’t watch most of these redpill KZbinrs, but i do find value in them telling young men that you need to improve yourself

[@jonathonshanecrawford1840]

I've viewed one, he said that style and fashion are the same thing! As if!

[@matthewmosier8439]

I don't watch them, either, but you've got the other side calling working out "alt-right" or something, so I'm going to side with the red-pill guys over that

[@aurin_komak]

Yeah that's pretty much the only thing with value they have to say. Most of the time they steer men towards hatred and insecurity without providing any actually useful advice. Antonio is much more honest, helpful and masculine than the macho wannabes will ever be!

[@ptwon7136]

@@aurin_komak exactly

[@roshanranjan8701]

Anyone can tell anyone that they need to improve themselves. Even a serial killer can say that shit. Question is, are they doing it? Is thier mindset in the right place? Are thier intentions proper? Or are they simply jus saying shit for fun?

[@mylo2619]

Antonio, as a man in his early 50’s that’s trying to raise three young boys, this is so refreshing. I’ve found your channel this year and it’s benefitted me beyond measure. Self improvement is something that so many sadly lack, including me, so thank you for your insight, intelligence and grounding. YUTTTTT!!!!

[@ShatabdaRoy]

We are 3 bros me being the youngest

[@Andrew01813]

Hating on Andrew Tate is a big L

[@Callsignethiopia]

Personal development

[@albertorynda740]

You're in your 50s and have NO IDEA how much the world has changed due to social media, ESPECIALLY dating. Antonio does NOT know what modern women are like today. He only knows about women BEFORE social media. Y'all better stop listening to old men that ARE NOT currently in the dating market. Y'all have NO CLUE

[@cjstats1514]

​​@@Andrew01813Since when is having an opinion hating?

[@bryancampbell9622]

One thing I've learned is the public library has a lot more to offer than most people think. Help with your resume, business networking, free online classes, and access to licensed databases to give you researched information not available on the internet. Oh and Shackleton is an incredible story I highly recommend it.

[@amandastjohn4735]

Yes. Just don't let your kids in there unsupervised by people you know well and can trust. Which may or may not include otherwise helpful library staff. And make sure you read critical reviews of the titles they check out before letting them crack the book (watch the movie, etc.) open.

[@821lancevance]

The same libraries that have trans people read to 5 year olds with boners? And they ban right leaning books all while having leftist and Marxism books everywhere

[@nelsonzambrano5788]

Public libraries are the bomb!

[@JohnPaul-jn1fo]

What are libraries?

[@kevindouglas8166]

@@JohnPaul-jn1fo early version of file sharing like limewire

[@kmcd3968]

Had to be said. I am no longer a young man, in my mid 30s now but this type of honesty is what young men need to hear. These type of channels can be very influential and can also have a severe negative impact on young men seeking guidance. This was well done.

[@theworldisimmense]

I’m 30, I guess I’m not a young man anymore

[@pedalgep]

look up the blackpill if you want honesty. everything else is bs

[@MrGnorts]

both of you are young, don't be silly

[@zekenacho]

as a current 24 year old, thirty's is still young. hell i'd even say 60 is decent depending on your lifestyle and habits

[@MrGnorts]

@@zekenacho exactly

[@JPTuddao]

"Don't just teach your children how to read, teach them to question everything they read." - George Carlin This quote continues to remind me that in this age everything can be true and everything can be false, so you need to dissect the information you are dealing with to come up with a proper conclusion whether you'll dive deep or stay on the surface.

[@splifftheking3860]

George Carlin is in hell right now, so brave he was, so smart to guys like you, he must've seemed like a genius

[@DonGivani]

Facts, really love this guy , he was real !!!!! Rest in Peace

[@notfamousprepper7369]

Thank you, Antonio. Been following you for 10yrs now and you’ve always provided solid and sound advice. Blessings to you and your family!

[@acornsucks2111]

Tell us what it is bot.

[@marcuslipton148]

As a young man and a long-time follwer, I proudly tell you that you made me a person. I take from you many advice, both style and behaviour. Much of your advice is practical. And I never disappoint you. This video reiterates my opinion. Thank you for your advice❤

[@Bigchi3f]

I've been with you since early highschool you've helped me buy a suite for my first job thank you for continuing to give out this advice.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

This is really nice - I appreciate you!

[@stuartparr3811]

I would strongly recommend Victor Frankl’s “Man’s Search for Meaning”. An incredible story of how to give purpose and meaning even in the most horrific circumstances.

[@hey.darshan]

Would surely read this one*

[@Kassab96]

You won't find any meaning in any current life if you don't believe in the after life

[@Saber23]

@@Kassab96 exactly that’s why existentialism doesn’t work, for all of its popularity people are still more depressed then ever

[@champiggyfrm_pig5271]

@@Kassab96 if you have only one life wouldn't you want to make the most out of it ?

[@JoeAverage1469]

This right here, is Video of the Year! Blessings to you and yours Antonio and keep up the great work!!!

[@KarlWulff]

I avoid the YT comment section like the plague but I just had to leave you a note to say what an awesome video this is. I would show this to my own kids. Solid advice. Well done. Also, as a bankruptcy lawyer for the last 28 years and a business owner, thank you for your candor about your earlier business failure. I've helped so many smart, talented people pick themselves up and go on to great things in their lives and it is very rewarding. If you're not occasionally failing, you're not playing the game hard enough. So impressed with your channel. Best of luck to you. Semper Fi!

[@fedezzefelbudapestet6493]

Solid advice. We need more reasonable advice like this

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thank you!

[@SecretPersonComment]

True

[@israelvaldivia2686]

@RealMenRealStyle talk about advice. You didn't even mention what bad advice andrew tate or fresh & fit give. All you did was bring up self-improvement, which is basically masterbation, and then proceeded to try to sell your garbage. Talk about manipulation. Stay in your lane. You wouldn't last 2 minutes in a debate with these guys.

[@patrickwalker6698]

Favorite biographies: The Life and Narrative of Frederick Douglass and Dr. Viktor Frankl's Man's Search for Meaning. I wrote my World Literature research paper on both of them. I got into the red pill space but I'm SO glad I was wise enough to sort through the toxicity. I learned from being "red pilled" but I still chose to be a good person.

[@JVIT_TV]

Thank you, Antonio. This felt like a breath of fresh air on the internet. I’ve been praying a lot, and concerned for a lot of young men with the messages (of different extremes) being pushed out there. I am so grateful for the amazing woman in my life, and for her family. Character and integrity like you would not believe. Thank you for guiding young men (self included) the way we should go, and for encouraging us to challenge ideas (including our own). Hope you and your family are doing well. Would love to get caught up sometime.

[@iAmPeacecraft]

Learning from the dead, it's something I've frequently returned to my whole life but never put into words. Thank you, great video.

[@maneli3769]

I 100% agree with dealing with each person as an individual. Myron and Tate shed light on things I was negligent and naive about in my case and most of their content has value. With whatever content a person chooses to consume and apply, it's always best to 'eat the meat and leave the bones' (whatever that is to the individual).

[@spaceexploration-Don]

Exactly! I learn a lot from Myron and Tate and now I’m a married man with a beautiful wife! Improving myself betting thanks to them they gave a lot of helpful advice..

[@bodhi9464]

Zuby and Tate podcast 🥩 🦴. That was a good quote by Zuby. Agreed 💯

[@gdretired4385]

Your best video! As a man of 63, I know that improving yourself takes a lot of effort, work, and admitting when you made a mistake. There are no quick and easy answers.

[@abhijeetsantra4237]

This is certainly the best video I have seen in months. Thank you sir.

[@CDeeez94]

Thank you. There's a lot of people who need to hear this.

[@michaelrmcornejo]

The strength to talk about failure. I need to be more open about that, and I think the more at home I am with addressing where I am wrong and weak so that I can better attack them would be great for me. Thank you for this, Antonio! I appreciate such a post more than you’ll know. You, Aaron Marino, and Brock McGoff have been instrumental for my appreciation of style, colors, self-care physically and mentally.. God bless you all.

[@primedudetv]

Being vulnerable is an incredible strength. Being vulnerable in my personal and professional life took me a long time.

[@thesteven1318]

Hey Antonio I started watching your videos during the pandemic. You’ve taught me alot about style and what values are worth following. Know that I and many others appreciate the time and effort you put into your videos.

[@Edrodman]

Thanks, Antonio! Your advice is always straight from the heart! God bless 🙏

[@ro5omax]

Bravo, Antonio! Thank you for helping young men find their way.

[@cFeor]

This is so refreshing I'm glad you posted this Antonio. Perfect thanksgiving post.

[@EddieC460]

You’ve said everything that they’ve said… respect, setting boundaries, self development, etc…

[@iceman5247]

He said it in a more wholesome way for the vanilla MF's.

[@kalebpinkston3495]

They pull you in with that Wich is good advice but then they move it to the terrible mentalities. Like all their terrible assumptions about all women. Or the weird crap they say like fresh and fit saying a man needs to sleep with like 40 women before he settles down because it good for his mental health while simultaneously complaining about female promiscuity… Wich is hypocritical at the least and only a makes them part of the problem with promiscuity at the most Wich is also hypocritical.

[@kalebpinkston3495]

@@EddieC460 I did not say or imply that. All I was saying is there are terrible things the red pill teaches you. They put you in a very unhealthy mentality about the world and women. Like in the video their are good women their are bad women and their are good and bad men. Red pill warpes your mind to basically thinking their all bad and if they are “good” their a unicorn. They give you a false sense of reality. Now the promiscuity remark I made was just pointing out a flaw in red pill. How can you hope all women will remain “pure” or whatever if you, a man, is making many of them stray from that by being told to sleep with as many as you can? That’s creates more of said problem then fixes it. Btw I actually think both sexes shouldn’t sleep around alote because it can creat a sex addiction and warp your mind on sex. Yes both genders are different or different “leagues” as you put but that doesn’t excuse bad behavior and mindsets from both genders.

[@spaceexploration-Don]

@@kalebpinkston3495if you have a status you might do that too! Or you can be a loyal to your wife when she’s not around

[@messinger123]

Outstanding. This message needs to be spread. Fight the toxic lies.

[@anewberr]

Anthony, I been watching you for years from southwest Wisconsin. I’ve never subscribed until today. Great message, I hope the people that need to hear it, do.

[@EmperorHelix]

Andrew Tate inspired me to take up boxing and become a stronger man and not take shit from anyone. F&F taught me (and showed us) that *many* women are delusional and act like children and how they came to think and act that way, and teaches us how to navigate that minefield. Kevin Samuels taught me to never accept a woman's bad behavior and shut it down immediately or get rid of her; WE are the prize. You, Antonio, taught me how to dress better. Take the best parts of everyone and apply them to your life. You'll see a massive improvement.

[@krypticcoil9540]

I really dig this!

[@HomelessPrick1]

As it should be, just like Caleb Hammer's channel exploding on teaching/ helping people with serious debt. Taking Best parts of content creators, applying it and seeing results improving your life is the end result to look for.

[@821lancevance]

Amen

[@fishin4bogey]

Same here. I watch F&F, Rollo, Rich Cooper, Kevin Samuels and others. Learned how to dissect the info. A lot of Kevin's old stuff is about self improvement. The "wash your azz" video is funny and sad at the same time. They all have the same basic message. Be the very best version of yourself you can possibly be. If your 6'0" broke, and 300 lbs...guess what....the problem isn't the women, it's you.

[@sammyb1651]

Solid assessment.

[@GlennSupera]

As a young man aspiring to be successful and wise in the future, this video truly helped me in so many ways, i truly appreciate videos like this that you put out, it helps me get my mind straight. I'm currently 18 years old and the advice you give are some of the best ones and the ones i apply

[@mikesmith1181]

well done. Include the other youtubers he references and incorporate their wisdom into your world view. You'll be better for it.

[@mchurka7707]

Respect is the most important thing! Thank you for sharing this!

[@mikeg3357mg]

Well said, Devildog!! Continue doing what you do! Semper Fi!

[@ralphmarkasher]

Antonio, I've been following you since you had your suit business. You have done many great videos that went to the heart of many topics but this one I think hits the top of the list. I can only think that as a Marine Officer, you did well and as an Army Officer, I would have been honored to have worked with you.

[@Gunnl]

This is probably one of your best videos... thanks for making this!

[@JonnyGuns]

This is probably the best video out there right now for this topic. Very well done. Well spoken, great information, and awesome to learn your history. I love it. Keep being awesome for our fellow man!

[@matthewgraham2546]

I'm 71 years old, all you young men need to pay attention to this video, it will save you a lot of hard lessons. How you think at 71 an what you thought at 31 has a very good chance of being completely different. I was in business for decades and I feel guys my age need to know when to quit, you younger guys need to step up your game and take over. In my career I had over a 150 employees, be careful when being critical of others, instead figure out what makes them tick.

[@yourturn5059]

This is a great video! As a 35-year-old man, I see so many young men being inspired by the wrong role models in today's society, and there is only so much I can do to help these guys in my personal surroundings. So it's great to see someone who is a healthy role model use his platform for good.

[@daadadda]

book recommendations are always welcome, great input overall!

[@kevinsimon4716]

This is the BEST information I've seen on the web in a long time. Thank you for doing that.

[@panaroman8346]

Another book that shifted my mindset to a more positive outlook is "The Four Agreements." I recommend everyone read/listen to it.

[@theoneandonly676]

Man.. I appreciate this, I have some family members that I love came down hard for a situation that I cause. I jump out of the trucking industry and was out of work for 2 months. That got me and my family kick out of the apartment in a hotel atm. I know they mean good but geez. Don't kick me when i'm down especially when i'm crawling back up. But i forgive and move on.

[@isaacsello6097]

Glad you spoke on this, much appriciated.

[@mikebodner1812]

Excellent book suggestions. Endurance is my favorite of your list.

[@russwhaley]

Thank you (again) Antonio, and a blessed Thanksgiving to you and yours. You mentioned Starship Troopers - the author, Robert Heinlein, has had a profound effect on me over decades through the stories he's told and the characters that populate them. He had an amazing gift for getting a person to think (if open to it) and somehow seeing himself within the story. He's one of the few who has ever measured up to my father, the greatest man I've ever known: Heart of a warrior and soul of a poet.

[@SuperDibbya]

Congratulations Antonio on making a video in which the content is simple to digest and yet can have profound consequences on an individual's life. I felt I could relate/agree to so many of your points/advise. And a special thanks for mentioning Tagore as a person to study; most people outside of South Asia wouldn't know who he is, but i think they def should.

[@ReneVanhatalo]

Great video on a very important topic, especially for us young guys. You truly seem like a wholesome person just by the way you talk.

[@jiberider994]

Thank you Antonio! This had to be said, I’ve been a follower since 2014. Love your content!

[@briane1116]

Antonio coming in with an ethics-first philosophy. Much respect 🫡

[@tangbein]

I feel like the biggest problem about watching red pill videos is that they become an excuse for not acting. Instead of applying the tips you get on how to hook up with women in real life, you instead sit at home watching videos. People need to get out.

[@Brandon_Thomas]

Channels like yours, Aarons, and Jose's are what developing men as well as established men need. Youre doing higher power work good sir. 👍🏽👍🏽

[@shon7425]

Preach Antonio, These young guys are being led down a dangerous road

[@Anthropomorphic]

One thing to note about developing your rhetorical skills is that it also makes you a better liar, including (I believe) to yourself. It may give you the confidence to think more critically about what you're being told, but it'll also make you better at convincingly rationalizing your biases and misconceptions. It's still a good skill to work on, just one that comes with some potential pitfalls.

[@howdydutt1e]

Great video, I can’t agree more. The faster you realize you control your life and women aren’t the enemy the better. Take control gents and just try to be a good person.

[@MunitionsDudTester]

I've been following you ever since I was about to get out of the Marine Corps and it is videos like this that reinforce why.

[@StillAGreatNight]

Thank you for this. Lots of respect 🙏🏻

[@louiebenjamin5243]

First thank you for the book recommendations. I have read the Critical Thinking and I truly loved it. I can't wait to read the others. Thank you Antonio for this well opinionated segment.

[@teok8855]

I respect this. You are not selling something unreal, you are grounded to earth instead of fantasy and you are well balanced in your approach. This however on the internet doesn’t sell, its not edgy enough, unfortunately that’s the world we are living in.

[@CheekyPoo22]

👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 Antonio.... I haven't commented on your page in years, but I have ALWAYS liked you. You are a REAL MAN with REAL MORALS, and you continue to have a deep respect for what LOVE & RESPECT FOR MEN AND WOMEN TRULY IS.

[@MrTPF1]

Fantastic video man! I'm in my 60's and my kids are all grown up. I told my boys and girls the same kind of stuff. Keep doing what you're doing!

[@tw1sted1nc]

An absolute tonic. In a media landscape full of grifters and bad actors this sort of honest and actionable advice is sorely needed. Thank you.

[@gastondeveaux3783]

Thanks for keeping it real Antonio. And I love those book recommendations. I'll probably pick up a few. 55 yrs old but I guess it's never too late. Biographies I have loved : Captain James Cook (Richard Hough) Leonardo da Vinci (Charles Nicholl)

[@williamofrichter3202]

Great advice and applicable for all stages of life. Thanks.

[@jrose710]

Great episode. Your philosophy definitely comes out in your usual style-based content. It’s informative to see the context underlying your advice. Thanks.

[@m.p.2534]

Great video !!! Critical thinking is always important. I was lucky that, at my canadian university (in the province of Québec), my teachers cared so much about us students and our personnal future. They didn't expected parrots, they didn't try to endoctrinate us to anything and they always listened to our different ideas, as long as we were polite, respectful and methological. Also, as a scientist, my favourite biography is one of Marie Skłodowska Curie (1867 - 1934). No matter the obstacles, this pioneer in the field of physics and chemistry really struggled hard and had to break a lot of barriers to accomplish her dreams. All while raising a good family, then having to keep advancing even after tragically loosing her husband too early.

[@dlg5485]

Bravo! This is such an important message for young men today because there are so many opportunistic con artists on the internet and too many guys take it too heart. The most important skill in life is independent critical thinking and too few people have it. In my opinion, the only way to obtain this skill is by becoming a sponge for well sourced information and keeping an open mind for the rest of your life. The moment your mind is made up about any issue, you have stopped thinking critically. Always be open to new information!

[@PremiumToyCollect]

So glad you got em

[@luckygreenforest508]

Great Video, Young men really needed this kind of information. Thank you

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Glad it was helpful!

[@jonrandellsmith]

This is such a great video. As it turns out, the best advice in life is timeless yet boring - be respectful and kind, work hard, take care of yourself, learn more, etc. Doesn’t sell many books tho! I particularly appreciate you addressing some of the content out there for young men. I’m 43, I’ve been around the block re: dating, marriage, etc. - but if I were 17, I could totally see how I would get caught up in that content, and it can lead people to some pretty dark places (as well as rip them off). Thanks for making this, and for the book recommendations.

[@canadianpatriot1387]

General Chuck Yeager….an incredible biography, from humble beginnings to breaking the sound barrier.

[@nathanaelcatrow4861]

Thank you for making this video

[@GoldenCobraDJ]

Thank you for this video!

[@WorldofRone]

Dude, I wanted to say this was such an extremely empowering video! It's amazing to know where you came from and how you got here. It's equally impressive that you got here, given all that's happened to you! I thoroughly enjoy your videos, and you're really beginning to inspire me to be a better version of myself. Both with this video, and all your top-tier fashion advice. Being a 33yr old man with a daughter and wife (also being the only guy in the house), I really put a strong emphasis on the example I display to them. Thanks for all your knowledge, guidance and insight man! You gained a fan!

[@joevial]

OMG, I love this video. I have a 17yo grandson that needs to hear this. Maybe you can do more of this type of content to try and combat those lunatics content creators. I first stumbled across your channel when my husband had his stroke. Your content was such a tremendous help in building his wardrobe. He gets so many wonderful compliments on his appearance. Thanks for all you do. And FYI, digging the shades…😂

[@bryangarza5585]

I agree he could use his platform to help young men. Especially teens and young adults. We need hard working individuals that treat others with respect and kindness not whatever nonsense this KZbinrs spill about ladies or what have you. Men need to be men but not something they're not.

[@lucad6022]

We need more videos like this. Great one, thank you Antonio

[@PENGUINIAN1995]

been following you since i was 16 and im 28 now. been to the top of the world as an extremely successful musician and the bottom of the trenches since then and this video is an absolute banger many folks need

[@nandologia]

Antonio, greetings from Texas (East Texas). I'm 36 y/o, married to a wonderful woman for 13 years now, and I agree with your view on women. Spot on brother. I've been watching your videos for several months now and I've been working on taking responsibility for myself with the way I dress ever since my father passed away in March 2023. He always dressed up even for a simple appointment. I never understood the message he was trying to send until he passed away, and then I saw your videos. He wanted to show respect to those around him. You're one of the mentors at a distance that The Lord has put in my path to help me grow as a man. Thank you for caring enough to leave a legacy of what masculinity is supposed to be. (I noticed you wearing what looks like an Oura ring! I'm wearing one right now. Interesting little thing)

[@User127m]

Critical thinking part was on point. I was blindly persuing personalities like these earlier but now i carefully anal yze each and every thing they say instead of hoping staright to conclusion missing the thinking part. Great video sir 👏 Edit: Also I would recommend people not to watch these people. Even I stopped watching them last year. I wasted a lot of my time on them but gladly I learned the truth about them in time. Also thanks Antonio. I actually watched your hair care videos and corrected many of my mistakes. And now my hair are much better .

[@BaBaCheOnYT]

Thank you Sir. ❤

[@user-dv4mo6ee3o]

Thinking fast and slow is a masterpiece! Great recommendation!

[@eddiereece5050]

Thank you, Antonio. Especially for the book and biography recommendations. I feel like part of this personal development community through the brotherhood of your channel. I want everyone to know that if you're on the fence about "Team of Rivals", it's about Lincoln's cabinet and how even though they were pretty much ALL out to be President themselves, they were the best men and he needed them to save the country. How he LED these men and the country is such leadership wisdom. It's a MASTER. CLASS. The monumental task of his presidency literally Saved Our Country as we know it. It's THE best book of leadership, and it's by EXAMPLE. Massive Respect to Antonio and these videos that bring so much value to my life.

[@Christian-ed5uc]

Absolutely amazing video Antonio! As a man in my mid 20s, I wholeheartedly agree with you on all these points. Don't fall for the snake oil salesman like Tate guys, you can have everything you want by following the true great men in history not someone who is good in front of an audience.

[@ecomdrako]

Tate being a salesman doesn't make his message wrong. He also has far more experience with hot females than the dude in this video.

[@aaronaustrie]

Great video man. Much appreciated 🙏🏾

[@theinvestigativemillennial9381]

Good work! Amazing, it's great that men of influence have a balanced critique of these guys. Point 1 is on spot. If I could promote this video 100 times I'd do it.

[@GA_350]

I've listened to almost every guru out there, from andrew tate to izman to petterson, and I gotta say as a 21 year old tjis was one of the best advices I'vee listened to

[@ecomdrako]

How is this one of the best advices? All he said that was valuable was "use critical thinking." Other than that, you think reading books will make you rich or get you girls 😂? Also there are good girls out there, but they usually look like land whales. Attractive girls have Instagram with 100s of $imps in their dm's. This guy has never experienced this dating market 😂

[@victorashul]

Antonio, why not have a talk with Myron and Fresh on a podcast? I bet they would love to have you on..

[@aracelymoran2504]

+ @victorashul Agreed.

[@dragonfirefunctionalfitnes7925]

This really has to be one of my favorite RMRS videos. GREAT ONE!🎯

[@piousone]

This is great advice for men of all ages. I have 50-years and the first thing I learned in life is that there is no "life hack" which can grant you great success literally overnight. You have to work both harder and smarter to achieve. One is nothing without the other.

[@sammyb1651]

A worthwhile video. I will however say-the Tate's of the world have emerged for a reason. While I agree a lot of their content is self-serving, sensationalist and scammy, that can only really be said of the product (ie the "solution") they sell. The material issue itself isn't fallacious. We definitely have reached the point now where the narrative surrounding relationships is that all women are right and all men are (essentially) defective in some way. Sadly, as you might expect, women have been the biggest adopters of this self-serving narrative. Men (young and old) do need to be on their guard about this, lest they get completely walked over. I'd say the vast majority of heterosexual relationships involve the female placing herself at the centre of a relationship and feeling completely justified in making her needs paramount. You see that position bolstered by literally every form of mainstream media.

[@dlg5485]

Everything happens for a reason, but that doesn't mean it's a good or rational reason. What he said about focusing on self awareness and improvement is the key. If all you do is blame others for your situation, you are missing the point. You will never be able to control other people, ever, and you're wasting time and energy obsessing over perceived grievances. So focus on what you can control... your own mind and body.

[@sammyb1651]

@@dlg5485 Fair comment. No wish to control anyone. The only thing most reasonable men ask for is fairness in the way they're treated. The sexes will never be treated the same, that's understood, but it's become very apparent they're not treated equally under the law. That's not a sustainable situation. Self improvement is a great message and everyone would do well to follow it. Sadly here again you see another chasm. Men are told to improve. Women are told they're perfect the way they are. It's become deeply embedded in the culture and it's reaping terrible consequences.

[@uumlau]

Love the Starship Troopers reference! Damn, this is deep. Good job!

[@Martini_Mcfly]

It saddens me you had to make this video, but I'm really glad you did. Thank you!

[@bertwagner2623]

Good advice Antonio. Guys, good reads on how to deal with others are “The Book of Proverbs” in the Bible and Dale Carnegie’s “How to Win Friends & Influence People”.

[@DavidKFZ]

The pre-80's version of "How to Win Friends and Influence People" is apparently the REAL one, the revised edition is watered down as it was rewritten by family

[@Firesword534]

"The Rise of Theodore Roosevelt," "Theodore Rex," and "Colonel Roosevelt," all by Edmund Morris is a phenomenal trilogy of the life of Theodore Roosevelt. I'd highly recommend all three.

[@priyabratasaha3895]

You're a good man Antonio. I've been following you for years , never seen you so candid. The fact that you felt a need to make this video is praiseworthy. Great video.

[@jdu2580]

The first 2 min 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Bravo, fr, fr right on 💯

[@cFeor]

Man I'm so glad you made this, ended a couple of friendships because they were trying to turn me into a Tate fan. I remember specifically addressing critical thinking and holes in his own logic.

[@myronbourne6937]

Such as?

[@thetapheonix]

Hilarious considering Antonio married an eastern European and not a westerner. I look at his actions not his words.

[@NWBwana]

​@@thetapheonixya. Antonio married an Eastern European woman. Tate got arrested in Eastern Europe for what he does to women. Actions.

[@vg1024]

@@NWBwana the point is Antonio married a traditional woman NOT a modern western woman. F&F and Tate could lose all relevance tomorrow and western reality would still be western reality.

[@thetapheonix]

@@NWBwana Tate was arrested for ideological reasons by a corrupt gov and hasnt been convicted but you left that part out conveniently.

[@tracyclements1467]

THIS IS FAAAAAX!!! I'm so glad this popped up into my recommendation because I was thinking this for this whole year. I dont know who needs to hear this but... life works differently for different people, you must focus on what works for you and eliminate what doesn't. These red pillers don't care about your dating life, they're just influencers. Theres so much more to life than just dating and women, if you focus too must on that you'll stress. Its not the end all be all. Remember if everyone is rich and at the top 10%, who's gonna work for your business for it to succeed.

[@tvblue3010]

I am grateful that I became a subscriber to your channel, Mr. Centino. Thank you so much.

[@chewie94116]

Your channel is very good informative and great advice to be a gentleman. Many of the other youtubers are just about getting results without a moral compass. Most of these youtube gurus are just in it to scam people. I agree with you completely.

[@TonyMezaXD]

This needs to be said. Thank you.