Your BD And Boyfriend Get Into A Fight: Who Are You Helping?

[@Laylay904]

I love how Jess don’t ever be prepared with her segments. I be cracking up.

[@KeishaCharmaine]

Why am I helping any grown man in a 1 on 1? That’s nuts! I’m a whole size 2 feather weight. Ima just be holding y’all coats 🤣

[@deshawnthomas9023]

🤣😂

[@jonstardc7160]

Spoke like a real woman respect to you wifey

[@KeishaCherre-ic2gv]

😂😂😂

[@datsapaddlin6449]

The Boyfriend should just leave and go find someone with no kids. Step Daddy season 1 is canceled my boah!!!

[@meanguy111]

Facts

[@zakiya7694]

Facts idk why women love to have another be step dad

[@swatkins67]

Facts

[@datsapaddlin6255]

@miecheybenjyJVCKS Must have hit ya where it hurts 😂

[@dinkyboss]

As a child free woman I agree. I wouldn’t even look a dude with kids in the eye, I don’t need those problems 😂

[@VanessaElizabeta]

I love to see how happy Charlamagne is when Jess is there. 😆

[@dinkyboss]

The girl talking about swinging on everyone for getting me involved in this mess is the only one making sense 😭🤣

[@km55111]

this is so true lmao i hadnt considered this option but when she said it i was like factssssss

[@dance4life1208]

Exactly

[@ladybug4910]

Exactly

[@suminahmcfadden4350]

I'm not jumping in a fight with two strong grown men. But if I did, I agree with the young lady about swinging on everyone for involving me in such nonsense.

[@unclericky5850]

THIS is why don’t nobody want to deal with “baby mommas” and the bullshit that come with them!

[@datsapaddlin6449]

Amen

[@TheAMW]

Baby daddies also

[@dinkyboss]

Or baby dads. Y’all both too irresponsible and messy to deal with. Child free people should be with other child free people. It’s way more peaceful 🙃

[@DM-jn3zo]

you say that but I rarely see BM's struggling to find a new partner

[@datsapaddlin6449]

@@DM-jn3zo A sexual partner? Don’t they have enough of those already?

[@lane89]

I’m helping my husband, what’s a boyfriend. I wouldn’t help my BD carry water to the curb. 😂

[@c216ification]

If I’m dating a woman, and me and her BD get into a fight and she helps him, then they’ll have another milestone experience when they get washed together

[@KeeWebb]

😂😂

[@kayb6446]

😂😂

[@thomasparks4740]

😂😂😂😂

[@aceford6649]

😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@derrickjenkins2455]

😅😅😂!!

[@kensofuego5928]

That why I never get in a relationship with someone who got kids already

[@gajeel6]

If you help your baby daddy, whether I win or not, you're going home with him. No room in my bed for you if you choose your past over your future.

[@ShortandSassyLisa]

Jess always has me cracking up!😂😂

[@mjgotbeats]

Moral of the story… No baby momma/daddy drama

[@HOTRODSBLAZINGTOPICS]

My single folks, take this as a valuable lesson. Stay away from the drama my friends. 🍻

[@yagerr4279]

FR, this ain’t a light chat. It’s toxic

[@YehoshuaChicagoCubs]

Notice NOT HUSBAND BUT BABY DADDY & BOYFRIEND

[@freddied8479]

If I was dating a single mom, it would be the end of the relationship if she picked her BD over me. It exposes her true feelings

[@MultiMilTown]

I ain't fighting her ex. That's lame af

[@freddied8479]

@@MultiMilTown Might not be your choice. He could be some jealous psycho ex who just attacks you for no reason

[@god5846]

@@MultiMilTown yes. More lane for dudes to be involved with another guy kids for Brownie points. No not talking about deadbeats . But if I'm there and she giving me a hard time because she want him to be daddy and that sucks go for it. Then fck it pay my order and Im out. It no 3 person team here

[@t.j.gregory5928]

Yep!

[@SupaBlessedAries]

Absolutely

[@_livefearless]

Envy talking about “what if one of them have a warrant” had me like 👀 tell me what else you know about warrants Ra’Shawn 👀

[@SydneyKristine]

I’m helping my boyfriend. Because why do I even have a boyfriend after having a baby daddy 👌🏾😆. Exactly. Help your man

[@BIGBlazyn]

The chick that said she helping her bd because she gotta deal with him the rest of her life is stupid. Why have a boyfriend then? Yall dating just to date not building a life together. My gawd the confusion in some of yall 😩😔

[@mjjohnson377]

Exactly.. bc the truth is after the child turns 18 they are grown and the contact between bd and bm should be minimal to none at all there’s simply no reason .. people who see a bm or bd as someone they have to deal with forever need to grow up ..

[@noble78b]

I’m not squabbling with no baby daddies.. y’all can have each other. lol. This is insane.

[@wharris123184]

8:19 CTG’s Baltimore accent is HILARIOUS 😂

[@septemberjai5216]

0:15 😂 Not them yelling at the producer like that 😭 3:41 lol 😅 3:50 10:24-10:30

[@deonhill15]

This is an exposure of true feelings.

[@mjgotbeats]

Jess ruining her relationship for no reason 😂😂

[@Nytellem]

You see how women be so quick to throw you under the bus?

[@zakiya7694]

We the only race that glorify the term bd bm. When the kids is a teen are yall still calling them a bd bm? Not child mom or dad

[@Yeahokaiight]

Or even just glorify that lifestyle… broken families & dysfunction 😩

[@dinkyboss]

It’s the same shit. Folks are just having kids with anyone. What does it matter what you call them?? 😂

[@jalillewis5505]

These callers' answers make you not want to have kids. Lol

[@Mastirpeace]

In THIS GENERATION,This isn’t even close. It’s definitely help who u have a kid with bcuz relationships don’t last AT ALL and can’t be trusted

[@jasmeenbbyy]

I love Jess being on here! She needs to be the permanent host! WE WANT JESSSS

[@Mimi_itsMee]

I just LOVE it when Jess is there!!

[@blackbeauty9825]

“Shawty said YEWW can’t fight” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@visionarywriter]

6:28 the chick called in and said she got a kid with the boyfriend😂 they both gotta get punched…she mad at both🤣

[@BIGBlazyn]

These game of throne chairs taking me out. Why am i just noticing those😂

[@sagiterrorist1211]

I’m a BD and I’m not fighting nobody BD.. unless he just tripping and put his hands on me. Other than that he can have her. 🤣

[@Sandalwood11]

Jess just join the bfast club already. The chemistry is unmatched.

[@neeciiw7840]

Facts ‼️😅

[@freddied8479]

Yeah agreed, she's great. She has the best chemistry with Charla and Envy, compared to all the other people they tried

[@bxi1547]

What an original comment. I’m sure this hasn’t been said 1000 times ALREADY.

[@lifestraight]

Agreed

[@jessannreece5672]

atp Jess gott move to New York lmao I love when she's on man

[@PhocusUntil]

Jess gurrrr ! Take the long way home 😂🤣😂

[@blacksunflower2958]

😂😂😂😂 the long one

[@PhocusUntil]

@@blacksunflower2958😅😂😅Chris gon meet her at the door with the “oh really? lol That’s what we doing?”

[@JigInsane]

Charlamagne impersonating the accent is wild. Lol.

[@dukz-gw1gg]

Just another reason to avoid single moms

[@murtown9828]

Moral of the story don’t date single mothers if u ain’t got kids

[@dinkg6378]

pls 🙏 🙏 🙏 let Jess with the mess get that job 🙏 excellent match for all of them and perfect chemistry on ur thang G 💯

[@OfficialMasremm]

First of all they shouldn't be in a position to be in a fight and if they are it's because of you...🤷‍♀️

[@donitabrown8100]

Ok, even though I miss Angela I LOVE Jess on the Breakfast Club she is a perfect fit!!

[@bxi1547]

Nobody cares

[@businessbuilder92]

It's crazy I just commented this! Hahaha she really is though I don't get the haters

[@businessbuilder92]

​​@@bxi1547and who asked or cared for your opinion? Since you brought it up

[@bxi1547]

@@businessbuilder92 You guys are just like little kids. You have to keep repeating the same thing over and over.

[@businessbuilder92]

@@bxi1547 nobody cares as never been said before you are so original

[@Freighttrain27]

😂😂😂 this whole segment is jokes!!

[@Craftmatik]

You’ll save a lot of time and stress if you find a woman with no kids. Jess prime example

[@dance4life1208]

Yea her relationship with her bd is too close for comfort and weird to me

[@ps4ap_ballin672]

She a walking contradiction, she fits the breakfast club tho

[@Theredeyedjedi]

Whenever Jess is around they have better topic discussions

[@kurraegous]

If my BF helped his BM fight me it would be over!

[@TheIcemanthomas]

Dang she say they running the bd pockets and everythang 😂😂

[@sheilawyatt898]

I'm not getting in between two men fighting. Period!

[@Seaney4eva]

thats what i said Picture me getting in the middle of grown Men in Combat

[@thetruthsayer8347]

Jess’s baby daddy will forever get the disrespect.

[@sincityquinn]

Most women with BD’s are still sleeping with them if they’re even close to being cordial. It’s too easy and as a man you can’t prevent them from speaking to each other because the kids are involved. The opportunity is always there. I know so many stories of drop offs that ended with 5 minutes in the back of the car or in the bathroom while the kids were eating. Even if the BD is in another relationship, too. But especially if he isn’t. The BD will never respect your relationship. So if she’s willing, he’s going to get it. They already know how to get away from the kids when they need to.

[@Tuelz...]

I legit fake my friendship with my BM for the kids ngl. It looks like we hella close on the outside but I hate her deep down ngl. I would never hit that again. Been 10 years already

[@ALo-yv2pj]

@@Tuelz...And does she really know or feel you hate her at all and has she ever tried to advance on you again?

[@bxi1547]

Why does she have a bf and a baby daddy in the first place? Stop normalizing this crap.

[@ebonyyvonne23]

Man we need to keep Jess as a permanent host… Like what are we waiting forrrrrr

[@LiWilson-hl4lt]

I just wouldn’t allow that to happen. I would try my best to defuse the situation. We’re grown and there are kids involved. There should be an understanding already established . I’m not jumping in nothing.

[@melo15813]

Jess Hilarious has some extreme masculine energy. Like off the charts.

[@Travelbum3000]

I really thought it was just me! I really don’t see how a man can be attracted to her🤷🏿‍♂️

[@Cjax504]

If the new man has to fight the old man he should walk away! There is no way to have a healthy coparenting relationship if y’all are in your feelings.

[@QueXopa79]

I looooooove Charlas and Jess relationship ❤😂

[@skygselections3404]

That’s why good men & women don’t want to deal w/ women & men that have kids now.. to much drama.

[@Ty-ky9cs]

For all the men dating baby mama's just know she will always be his bitch and her heart belongs to him.

[@johnnyboycryptosteemman5000]

The moral of the story is don't have a baby daddy. wth lol

[@demetriburris4259]

Leave " intellectual conversation " out of this

[@TrendSettaRico]

Hire Jess like yesterday 😂😂😂

[@RDBATM]

So your willing to lose your current relationship over a relationship that already ended 😂 y’all math ain’t mathing.

[@brandithomas9301]

Envy tryna act coo like he ain’t under real fire lmao!

[@jamilladanae]

he’s not. that’s why he isn’t indicted

[@neenay.5734]

This would never happen but I'm helping my boyfriend 😂 every time.

[@reddogqb123]

What if you have three teenage kids who are boys are you going to start to throw hands on your kids too when they helping there dad

[@Mahkhumalo]

Yup😂 I’m helping my boyfriend too😂

[@CliffybTV]

If a situation like this was to occur , I feel like the women should let them fight , it’s two grown men fighting what can she do 🤷🏿‍♂️ , she should take the kids and go inside, or talk them out of it , and it also depends what there fighting about.

[@Kai_Mx]

The women saying baby daddy without batting an eye are the once you need to not date😂. That just means you have deep feelings for your ex for you to jump in and defend them regardless of whether they started the fight or not, that also says that you are the type not to set boundaries with your baby daddy. Personally if I got into a fight with my Boyfriend's baby mama; if I started the fight I'd expect him to side with his baby mama, but if she just attacked me there is no reason for him to side with her. Either way He should be breaking up the fight not jumping in help beat up the anyone.

[@Playboy61788]

The ones that would help the BD and not the boyfriend need therapy asap...

[@avijileclerc3938]

HAha Men, you guys see why you should never commit to a single mother.

[@tahiesha1]

Two grown men? Who I’m helping? 😂😂😂 Wish I would get in grown folks business

[@tobiasedwards2643]

For the ladies out there in this situation please do what the one girl said and record it.

[@mharp6166]

DO NOT BECOME A STEPDAD lol, you see you don't matter even if they broke up lol

[@BIGBlazyn]

Rome coming with all the smoke Jess 😂😂

[@adamantinerebelle7578]

I Ain't Helping Neither, & If My Boyfriend Lose, We Done! 🤣💯

[@AtlsCollegePark]

Back in 08 i was the BD who fought the BF and my BM and her sister helped the BF, my BM and her sister grabbed me by the neck and put me in a choke hold while i was beating buddy down, he gets up and pokes me in the eye and all of a sudden i heard my BM say BEAT HIS YOU KNOW WHAT and i turned into the Incredible Hulk threw my BM and her sister off of me and i ended up knocking buddys front grill out, he had no front teeth then he took off running screaming for help, i was 26 then, 3 years later that same dude tried to take my BM out of here on New Years Eve cause she broke up with him, she got stabbed 8 times and survived and buddy is doing 25 to life

[@slxdaTV]

Bruh … what ?

[@Nbaroddymaji]

Damn wtf

[@shokurt1]

Reason number 5000 not to date a baby mother 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@eloquentlymo]

Or a baby father.... it's my #1 rule

[@blackmancool9983]

Facts

[@deeseymour875]

Sound like a lot of they BDs is still pullin up at 1AM 🧐 just go work it out with him, leave the rest of us be 😂

[@isaidwhatIsaid86]

If your partner whom you had a child with is delegated and demoted to just being labeled the “baby daddy / momma” - that alone tells you who’s side you should be on.

[@kennnz]

I mean it’s obvious at this point that Jess should have the job. The chemistry is there. Idk what they waiting on 😊

[@ItsMeTish2.0]

I'm helping my boyfriend.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@nategodwin9258]

Women are emotional. They are going to help whichever one is dicking them down at the moment.

[@MyNameIsCorey]

1:57 from one born and raised Bmore baby to another you really said that Jess? 😂

[@lavellecalhoun8576]

Dating A Woman With Kids Is A Wrap Now 😂😂😂

[@businessbuilder92]

Jess is just perfect for this stuff i never will get the few comments who say differently

[@TOROLL1]

Jess gotta get that job!!

[@sincityquinn]

I tried to tell one of my homies not to mess with a woman with kids if the dad is still involved. Especially if they’re young. But he didn’t listen. I told him she was still screwing him. He was like, “She wouldn’t do that. They’re hardly around each other anyway.” I was like, “Alright… When they do drop off does she go in his house?” He was like, “Yeah, so…” I told him to be careful. Some time later, ol girl got pregnant. She told him it was his. I told him to get a DNA test. He still said it wouldn’t happen. “She ain’t like that. She wouldn’t do that.” But while he was with her at a drop off one day he seen the BD kiss her on the cheek. So he went through her phone that night. Turns out all they needed were the 5 or 10 minutes it took to drop the kids off. And it was sad because what broke his heart is when the BD sent her a text about how big his “load” was when she swallowed it. The BD absolutely knew what he was doing sending her that text. But she didn’t deny it in the text. He had screen shot after screen shot. And I was like, “Bro, I told you.” Man was devastated. He ain’t been right ever since. Boy was a “gosh darn idgit.” Luckily it was early in her pregnancy and he broke up with her. She didn’t end up getting back with the BD last time I heard because he was engaged.

[@wildhaert]

Damn I felt that Story 😞. I was dealing with a single Mom for a year. I eventually saw a video of him raw doggin her a a couple days after I spent some time at her house. She was the one that videod it. She was telling him the same things she told me when we had sex. I've never been the same since. In a Healthy way tho. Meaning I didn't become a savage to women or anything, I just learnt me lessons and applied them going forward. Since then I stopped giving a woman all of me, I give them enough of what they need, ( it doesn't mean I cheat) So if they betray me it doesn't impact me that bad. I ALWAYS pour into me more 💯

[@lionelsancha9416]

Bro women with no baby daddies do that too

[@marlowstanfield6815]

@@lionelsancha9416 true but not as likely. A woman with young children has an excuse to deal with their ex so its easier to hide it if they are cheating. A woman with no kids doesn't have a valid excuse to be contacting or be around there ex so its easier to spot..

[@kayshabella2440]

Don’t date men or women with kids…simple. Let them continue to play break up to make up with their bm or bd

[@Mahkhumalo]

@@marlowstanfield6815 Not all women, remember some men are dead beats dads and they like starting trouble especially when they see that their BM has moved on.

[@sonyahathaway9753]

I’m so glad I don’t have a baby daddy!

[@coppertone79]

I agree with the comments from the reverse side. Dating dudes with babymamas sometimes still believe those women belong to them. They will defend them, always come to their need and occasionally will screw them. If they're friendly ....be aware!

[@Dipset415]

All you step dads out there feelings gettin hurt😭

[@highlyinfluencedart914]

Lmaooo okay so I’m not the only one who gonna jump in on both of they asses! Cause wtf y’all fighting for 🤣🤣😭😭 plus can’t neither one of them come to me later saying I was picking sides 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@OldHeadLoot]

Another reason to leave these baby mamas alone. Be with your baby daddy

[@bb_wadzi]

And my man. Thank you to my man

[@oneilmissick4873]

I would do my best to defuse the situation. It too would depend on the reason they're fighting.

[@neeshespieces]

Chris ears’ was ringing

[@DetroitsReaper]

Crazy to come on here and say you'd help your BD over your BF even if the BD started it

[@JustNel]

No one... Just walk away😂 losing battle

[@MikeWil3779]

Pause... Rome got mouf😂😂😂😂... Pause CTG... Get between both of them😂😂😂

[@theblackchefjustice]

Perfect reason not to date single moms

[@kelsblair5963]

So people kid shaming now? 😂😂 not all people with a child have these problems.

[@ceenichole6866]

Choosing your ex is wild to me. I’m on whoever is right side ultimately. I’m with the lady who said she’s coming for everyone involved because …. Grow up. I see why ppl with no kids don’t date ppl with kids!!🚩

[@DecaturQue]

The first caller said it. Baby Mama is family.

[@Kampamba]

Charlamagne always dodging the question 🤣🙄