Jess Fix My Mess: "I'm In Love With My Boyfriend, But He's Married"

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[@briannaknox4782]

I will NEVER understand a woman who thinks a man who’s married will love you 😂 y’all we CANT be this damn slow omg

[@sirrmanning2769]

Throw both of them heauxs away smdh...

[@philb707]

Why he cant love her? 😅😅

[@beautyybeautyy9899]

It’s beyond slow.. pure desperation!

[@cr5cc]

You can be married but separated for years

[@JuCash]

I’m married but I’m in love with my side girl …. But I love my wife more it’s complicated 😞

[@iamjamesmeeks]

“You better not introduce three niggas to your children” 😂😂😂😂😂 I am weak

[@ebbyc1817]

It's the " three niggas " 😄🤣

[@nellie6854]

😂😂😂😂

[@DimeDoppler]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@MieyaOladipupo]

She actually gave really good advice and showed empathy while keeping it real. This is not easy. Give Jess the job y'all.

[@iamjamesmeeks]

I’ll never understand why people call into the radio for advice on these stupid situations that they already know what they should be doing to fix them 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@kingmichaeln1]

They need a extra push or reassurance

[@shauneenicole2535]

We need it for the entertainment 😅

[@iamjamesmeeks]

@@shauneenicole2535 😂😂😂

[@jgurdon]

Please give Jess the job, it’s so effortlessly clear how well she fits with you guys and doesn’t change herself on this platform

[@youngtelus917]

My god quit saying this shit. She’s not it

[@Rose.prickle]

​@Udokee I want BOTH!! Can we have both?!

[@keshawnsmith-ox2ve]

Yea we love you jess❤❤

[@kimmiet1980]

Kendra G

[@issavirgo4838]

Theyll probably pick jess because shes cheaper to keep than claudia

[@TrayTheProdigy]

10:38 “ Please Don’t Tell Me You’re Gonna Tell Me I Sound Depressed “ In The Most Depressing Voice Ever 😭😭

[@susi09]

He couldn’t have sounded any more depressed 😂😂

[@TrayTheProdigy]

@@susi09 I Swear Lmfaooo

[@Hephzibah_n_beulah]

He sounds freaking worse than Eeyore😞🥺

[@selfmaderish4690]

😂😂 apparently it’s a theme of his life

[@TrayTheProdigy]

@@Hephzibah_n_beulah 😭😭😭

[@gunsdown4497]

Women be like “I’m fighting demons” and the whole time it’s just accountability🤷

[@juicegawdzavo194]

Naw they ARE the Demons 😂

[@happigolucky2076]

Maybe y'all should go get some angles to to give you peace 😅 ♂️

[@kinggod3022]

🤣🤣🤣

[@WilliamEnwezor]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Caramel_Queen504]

Real talk!

[@gunsdown4497]

In our communities, dudes get out of jail and get more love than a dude who graduates college. That gotta change if we want to move forward in any kind of way

[@dec2567]

Just date outside of your race😂

[@krocket3064]

Who’s community ? Education is important in my community. And also raising our kids in a way that they don’t aspire to be in the streets.

[@vondongaming]

Stop acting like house N when u come out of college then u would get love. white man will never love u talk an act like them all u want an its cuz u think u better fyi Chinese Arabs don't do that they take the white man's money an say f u we say g our ppl then wonder why the jail nigga get more love

[@gunsdown4497]

​@K Rocket in the black community... black people always ray Charles blind when it comes to our community....just because you see a couple of people doing it don't mean its all...I wish the black community would push the kids to go to college or get a trade...instead of keeping the kids stuck in the hood....plus women don't like them good college men they rather have the bum

[@Coolcip123]

I think most of us American African people strive for our children to be great go to college or develop a trade but the majority of us are not equipped to express how to achieve what we do not have pol

[@mrsvr]

Jess Fix my mess is PERFECT for this show!!!

[@FLS.-]

Regarding the caller who lost his parents, I feel bad for him and hope he finds new great people. I know people will say you don't have the right to mistreat others even if you are going through it and while that's absolutely true, people need to realize it's not about you. Someone is grieving and sometimes that grief can be so heavy and debilitating. You might not know what you need from people or how you need them to be there for you. I think the friends who just dipped out aren't great friends to begin with. They are more like groupies. Groupies are there for the good times but once life happens they dip.

[@ers18619g]

Jess should get the full time co-host gig on the show ! They've created a whole segment for her, so hopefully they keep her !

[@thehoneydeev]

They didn’t create the segment. They’re borrowing it from her podcast… but I agree with you - let’s have her as the 3rd host

[@ariamason9324]

She will outshine Charlemagne , he will get jealous and sabotage her

[@WonderAries324]

@@ariamason9324 no he won’t 😂

[@gunsdown4497]

For a generation that can't "find a good man"..yall sure is pregnant alot

[@VirgilHawkinsIs]

Your name is “guns down” but you really out here shooting still. 😂😂😂😂😂 YO CHILL!!! NGL, you made quite a few good points though.

[@gunsdown4497]

​@@VirgilHawkinsIs 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Scoop412]

Please keep Jess she makes my day funny as hell!!

[@kyledavis313]

It’s looking more and more like Jess Hilarious will be the new co-host!! Her, CTG and Envy have Chemistry together.

[@lboogie83]

​@Udokee hatr

[@jumb0shr1mp6]

I agree! They are a whole Vibe together

[@IllusiveBunny]

Jess’s face expressions 😂😂😂

[@nickyb3084]

I must say, Jess has changed my mind and has my vote. She vibes with you all perfectly. Even Envy who don't really fool with nobody!😂

[@jumb0shr1mp6]

Yes she really is a great fit

[@shocktheworldTV]

Love Jess for her good advice and showing how BM should be. That's respect 💪🏾❤️

[@terrancewilson71]

They gonna give that job to Jess, she just fits!!! She already had Jess with the mess that had millions of views on its own. She stands up to Char and she defends Envy. Perfect fit!

[@richsanchez4527]

"You better not introduce 3 niggas to ya kids" 😂😂😂😂

[@kengy1991]

I have a hard time believing the first caller didn’t know her husband was into that stuff before she married him…

[@730F-Sport]

Most women have terrible judgment & poor decrement

[@jallia2000]

I don't I got married and my husband started slowly showing his true self because after awhile you can't hide the secrets efficiently anymore

[@Playboy61788]

@@jallia2000 Sounds like negligence on your part, if you dated him long enough there shouldn't have been any secrets at all.

[@jallia2000]

@Playboy 617 oh trust me I'm learning my lesson so I know what I did wrong

[@demond1818]

The one thing I'm hearing as a recurring theme when I talk to women about their previous relationships/marriages is, "Oh he changed once . . ." I find myself asking, did he change, or did you just overlook the red flags?

[@RigFit]

Dude dealing wit the loss of his parents… I felt that. My girl rode it out with me through my grief. If ya people stopped rocking wit ya then yea… they were never your people

[@blackluxury5585]

Come on Jess you got your own segment. Does this mean it’s official ?

[@shadthagod8033]

Not yet

[@gunsdown4497]

Women hide abusive boyfriends, But quick to expose broke boyfriends like us😔🥺

[@happigolucky2076]

Most broke dudes ARE abusive and manipulators!! Women know these things without being said .

[@GOABT]

Damn I’m stealing Thai

[@shadthagod8033]

Crazy right

[@Playboy61788]

If you can pay bills by yourself, you're not broke.

[@selfmaderish4690]

@@Playboy61788 agreed. Now if you want to start a family, do not if they will be broke 😂

[@gunsdown4497]

I've herd men say I don't want my daughter to be with a man like me, but I have never heard a woman say I don't want my son to be with a woman like me. Women hate accountability 💯

[@sonyap8253]

Not all but many, yea. That's how my friend group shrunk to 3. I cannot c*osign the drama and bullshit.

[@Falcon2609]

​@@sonyap8253💯

[@kymmieg6110]

5:10 😂😂😂😂😂 I cannot with Jess! That facial expression 😂😂😂

[@R3IgnSupreme]

I love JESS 😂 body language on loud 😂 I appreciate her amazing advice 💅🏽

[@YoencyPaulino]

I’ve seen Jess’ growth since her ig days and I am so happy and proud of this woman!! What a joy to see her on The Breakfast Club, she brings such a joy and light to this show!

[@MaxicTosculinity]

*Reads title* Wait what?

[@rudolphbeasley5652]

68% of men are single while only 30% of women are single. I’m pretty sure that statistic makes this the norm.

[@luwamalem9537]

I was like huh? Girl, he's not your boyfriend! 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

[@jboogie45213]

😂😂😂

[@ShalamarEntertainmentGroupLLC]

Exactly!!! Right before I click!!!😂

[@KingMK31]

She don't know she the side b*tch!😂😂

[@TheBasher-_-]

Charlene!! 😂 Lmaoo she already have CTG a new nickname 😂😂

[@terrancerussell6385]

Jess accent is the greatest

[@divaforhire4589]

Jess Fix My Mess is hilarious. She never says good bye to the callers instead Jess just pops up her finger alerting the staff to drop the caller hilarious

[@gunsdown4497]

Women friend zone good men to date a guy that's bad for them only to try & change him into the guy they friend zoned. Logic, please, ladies?

[@ShervierJ]

Bro calm down 😂

[@CoachBWiley]

It's illogical my guy smh. I try to help us but WE don't listen.

[@fkelly516]

Jess look better with no make up 😍

[@atyourbest5385]

This is what we men mean by, "women chose the wrong men"...then complain about ALL men being trash! YOUR CHOICES ARE TRASH this is why you in this mess!

[@kymmieg6110]

Same can be said about men too! People in general(both gender) do this.

[@atyourbest5385]

@@kymmieg6110 I hear you, but to be honest the only men I hear complain about ALL (in a general sense) women being trash are these red pill guys. Grown ass men know when they have made a wrong choice and don't blame anybody but themselves.

[@munax-pd9tu]

You’re a cheater too

[@kimson305]

​@@atyourbest5385because men have better choices. It's too many trash men out here. Instead of blaming women, how about the men get it together so we can have better choices?

[@genesealsiii]

That last dude need a hug

[@sahibs2212]

Finally Charlamagne getting his cup of tea served right back to him from Queen Jess

[@angeleyes2376]

Please keep Jess with the Mess on the Breakfast Club with you all, Love her & I love her & Charlene fussing back and forth too, it's hilarious 😅🤣🤣🤣

[@AfroMillennialMomma]

The guy that lost both his parents that snaped at his friends; I think it's one thing to understand what someone might be going through. It's another in my opinion to put up with someone treating you poorly and allow them to hurt you or put you down just because they're feeling bad. My husband Dad passed and I was there for him and still check in on him about it 10 years later. He never was rude to me or anything like that even though he did change and needed time. People still have to be responsible for their actions, apologetic at least otherwise everyone can have a bad moment and use their pain as an excuse to hurt others.

[@DeeDaKaang1]

There is an entire group of women who have classified themselves as sidechicks.... No she doesn't want to cook for you, clean for you, wash your clothes, or ask you how your day was......She just wants to show up, get it in & bounce after getting broke off for the shoes, bag, or bill she needs to pay.

[@show2ime]

Hoes is what you mean- lol

[@kymmieg6110]

Do you remember when it was a huge thing on social media years ago. It is truly a whole community that loves being second place. Men included. And they were so proud! There was a plenty of skits on it too.

[@moniwilderness1936]

I recently learned they call themselves Phoenix.

[@DeeDaKaang1]

@@moniwilderness1936 What does that mean???

[@DeeDaKaang1]

@@kymmieg6110 Yea, remember old boy doing the boyfriend #2 song & LL even had a song called hey lover when he played the infamous Jody character

[@itsyourgirlcarlie3230]

Yall be knowin the answers to your own questions before callin the radio station...😏

[@ThatsMyDawgFasho]

People just need to hear how dumb they sound out loud

[@SolarLove7]

That that last caller did not sound depressed he’s in disbelief and trying to figure out why that girl switched up on him after they just had a baby 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@gunsdown4497]

Accountability is modern women’s biggest kryptonite. It’s always how did others wrong them but it’s never their own fault😂👏🏾

[@SmokinJokin40]

*modern people.

[@sonyap8253]

​@nevaslippn thank you. Cause that man definitely will place blame on the gf when his home he is currently choosing not to leave, falls apart 👀

[@georgelowery9293]

You exactly right. They’re allergic to accountability. They blame defect, guilt trip & gaslight

[@shadyzbabii420]

If someone does you wrong...whos fault is it?

[@gunsdown4497]

​@@sonyap8253 because men fight for relationships...70 percent of divorce is cause by Women because of money....they file for divorce and leaves relationships

[@sirrmanning2769]

I am so thankful that I am happily married. Being single in this day and age is not the BIZZZ...

[@BigReddSouthernGal25]

Your husband might be somebody's boyfriend.

[@ariamason9324]

You can't trust nobody these days no matter how happy you are. If you don't know you don't know

[@naturalbornthreat1456]

The married ones BE the main ones lol

[@Ang417]

Damn this person just said they are happily married and here y'all go with negative shit.

[@ebbyc1817]

They didn't just say they're happily married, they said being single these days is not the bizzz. Meanwhile the calls are about people who are already in relationships or married, being with other people.

[@TA51SHA]

Love Jess she needs to have a permanent chair!! #jessbedabest

[@teestephens7199]

This goes out to the man who had lost both parents in a year. Hopefully the gentleman will see this. Those feeling and actions are normal. I myself lost both parents approximately 6 months apart. The pain is unbearable. Losing one parent was hard enough. Imagine not being able to grieve one parent and the other one dies. I felt like an orphan, not belonging to anyone and not understanding why God would allow both of my parents to go. I went thru isolation, depression, lost friends and relatives because ppl don't check on you and you are left to grieve alone. And people think you are supposed to snap out of it right away. It's a pain and feeling that I wouldn't wish on my enemy. The positive is I met the holy spirit personally on this journey. A journey I've been on for over a year now and the grief is still there off and on. Just know that God is with you surrender that pain and allow him to elevate you. My prayers are with you.

[@MsAKALady]

🙏🏽 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@surejan888]

Sending you all the love and support

[@ShaniceXO26]

That man don’t even love his wife so why tf do you think he’d love you 🤣🤣 bless her heart

[@selfmaderish4690]

Aye Jess ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ love your contribution to the show. Keep being exceptional like Ebony said.

[@bigfendii77]

Jess called that man Charlene I’m weak 😂

[@misstiklyrique]

I was looking for this comment! Jess Hilarious had me rotflmao when she called Charlemagne Charlene🤣💀

[@Jameslsmithii]

5:15 Bruh her face 😤😩🤣🤣🤣

[@kennnz]

I was advocating for Claudia but I must say Jess has a wonderful chemistry with Charlamagne and Envy.

[@jayporcelain913]

The conversation started at 5:10, but Jess’s face at 5:15 sent me overboard !

[@gunsdown4497]

Top Shaming Tactics by Women. 1. "Who Hurt you?" 2. " you're insecure" 3. "You're Controlling" 4. The list Goes on. Don't let women shame you. It's not a shaming tactic if you don't feel the shame. Women will always try to lower you.

[@sonyap8253]

You gotta start going after better women. I'm guessing you have a "type"? Try something new...

[@ShaeJ_Shae]

You forgot calling a man, “sassy.” 😆

[@gunsdown4497]

​@@sonyap8253 all women used those even good women....especially when they wrong

[@Falcon2609]

​@@gunsdown4497Exactly

[@Playboy61788]

You forgot #1 contender... Narcissist

[@Jadee393]

Why Jess got her ear to the microphone tryna hear better?😂😂

[@LatinaStarling]

🤣

[@cyoohoos]

Loving Jess as a co-host.

[@onetimelife1]

Jess has the best segments 😂

[@binladenschoppa5863]

Yo if I ever meet Jess Rome gone definitely have to fall back lol 💙

[@AprilT72]

Didn't like Jess much or thought she was funny before the bc but she fits in so well.

[@CocoNubia]

Please Keep Jess on the breakfast club! She actually has personality & she is funny. She meshes well with CTG & Envy. She’s the perfect fit for this show!

[@frankspencer3440]

Y’all gotta put Jess on. I love her spirit and she would be an asset to the show!

[@gunsdown4497]

Real women don't ask a man for money, your attitude towards him puts you in his budget.🚶🚶🚶

[@synclaire292]

Jess should be permanent on the breakfast club

[@KeishannaMichele]

This position should go to Jess. Love her chemistry

[@SupaBlessedAries]

😂😂😂 I love Jess but I really love her on this show We need to start a campaign

[@jermelpurse3018]

We tell these people all the time stop having children before you’re married. You can’t tell this man who’s no longer with you who he can and he can’t have sex with. He’s entitled to see his children. He’s entitled for them to visit him and when they visit he can have over whoever he wants. Now, if you had just waited until you were married before you popped out those babies, we might not have this problem. The thing is we have too many men and women out here who can’t wait to get it on but don’t bother protecting themselves. Now it’s not her feelings that are being exposed to this, it’s the children who are asking questions the children who are confused the same children she says I love my babies. How could he do this to them? How could he bring this confusion in their life. I asked the question if you love your babies why didn’t you plan out their future better? Instead, you were having fun back in the day and you made those babies now there are consequences for the way you went about conducting your business and those consequences don’t just fall on your shoulders the fall on your children shoulders. So to all those young women out there who love these young men out there you better make them strap up when they go in or you better make them put a ring on it before they get some because it’s not you who might suffer in the future, because of your lack of willingness to wait before you get married, it’s your children. Birth control is easy to obtain now condoms don’t cost very much at all, but for some reason our community we see this high rate of pregnancy and this high rate of single mothers. This is if we’re not doing what we should be doing to prevent pregnancy in relationships I don’t fully committed.

[@kimson305]

Why do yall always think marriage makes a difference lol you can't control people when your married either.

[@eduardobarros1389]

Please Breakfast club, please keep Jess !! She is a gem to the show !!😂

[@addiecapri]

Jess face had me crying laughing when she said 🤣🤣🤣 “Your boyfriend is married but you love him.”🥴🥴🥴 I’m dead

[@klintb1989]

nothing but birds call into the breakfast club. STREETS!

[@blackluxury5585]

You just done ..all you said was “STREETS!” 😂😂

[@LawrenceAdams13]

Jess is easily in the lead for the new co host she be killing it also she look right in that chair. 🙌🏽

[@moxictasculinity]

If women made dictionaries, they would erase the word "accountability"

[@loislane860]

😂

[@eugenaarnold3965]

I will hit subscribe when yall make Jess permanent. I swear she's perfect with the guys. And I wasnt a fan of Char but i love him and Jess together. I cant even lie

[@ayeshalong5511]

Jess is hilarious!! I love this segment!!

[@happiness5665]

All these hosts have been great! Jess has real talent for this!!!

[@jinthehouse3210]

Charlamagne said Legend, too funny! 😆😆😆😆😆

[@tonib9452]

Is Jess hired permanently yet! ❤

[@brandonbrown6918]

Love how Charla cant stop laughing with Jess😅, even if it's not official ,she's the best contender for that 3rd seat.

[@SamathaRobertson]

@Udokee WTH is wrong with you? You are under every post hating on Jess, Claudia girl you need to stop, its so obvious! No 'listener' is this invested

[@CollectionsGuru]

Watch your next stock…make sure they are not like the zero that you just left , and do not give him the goods !!!

[@thethompsonproject2623]

I Love Jess On The Breakfast Club She Is So Funny 😂🤣

[@kenb2908]

i laugh everytime jess on here.

[@patrickmiller1834]

Caller number three. Those are not your friends your parents gave you a gift showing you who needs to be out of your life

[@gunsdown4497]

Most women love holding a man accountable but will deflect, dodge, and reverse it when she commits the same offense. Justify even.

[@gunsdown4497]

Dear Black People, Holding another Black person accountable isn't a form of hate, jealousy, putting on blast, wrongdoing, etc. It's actually a form of love to help one self correct and mature. We can't get better, as a people, if we can never hold each other accountable. Thanks, A black person

[@cecetn3383]

The first girl that called, my heart breaks for her. Men are truly LOW DOWN!!

[@gunsdown4497]

Most women love holding a man accountable, but will deflect, dodge and reverse it when she commits same offense. Justify even. And this is... #WhyHeWontMarryYou

[@yvngsandwich8693]

PLEASE KEEP JESS SHES THE BEST‼️‼️

[@gunsdown4497]

3 THINGS WOMEN HATE..DA TRUTH, ACCOUNTABILITY, AND BEING TOLD STFU..ILL WAIT IF IM WRONG

[@purcellchannel1316]

💯💯💯 facts. Its wild how all of us men keep saying the same thing but women don't want to understand

[@jhezzy]

Love Jess! Happy she joined the crew.

[@gunsdown4497]

When a Man posts about holding women accountable, things we like and don’t like about them…it’s called “Bashing”…when Women post about holding Men accountable, things they like and don’t like…it’s called “Educating”…double standard…

[@jermainscott9518]

Jess I been watching you on the breakfast club...I see you helping this brand continue to grow and develop Jess you bring balance, a woman perspective, mother perspective, Jess you bring flavor I really appreciate seeing you on the show I look forward to seeing the new and approve all 🌳🌳🌳🌳 of yall

[@veronicadaeh2336]

Please Give Jess the job. She's hilarious, Emphathic,, Assertive , Intelligent

[@selfmaderish4690]

🎻🎻🎻 on the dude with baby mama issues 😂 I know Jess is over fixing y’all bad choices in life

[@DJLITRAVE]

they say she not a funny comedian but she funny in this space of giving advice and the back and forth

[@happigolucky2076]

Married boyfriend girl ... She's crazzzy af !!

[@gunsdown4497]

The first caller got 3 different men and she talking about the man having one women make it make sense

[@toyita4431]

The way Jess was looking around during the second phone call....I was dying 😂😂😂

[@gunsdown4497]

Toxic women destroy good men too but we barely talk about that..

[@alexplum8736]

Who the hell would listen to Jess on relationships hell you might as well keep listening to steve Harvey 😂

[@urbancitygirl3696]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@gunsdown4497]

Women are applauded when they set their high standards for men , but as soon as men state their preferences , these same women come with their shaming tactics.

[@happigolucky2076]

OOOHHHH Girlllll😅 DONT DO YOURSELF DIRTY LIKE THAT.. just get his money😂

[@nibbles187]

Is Envy off cleaning Ross's pool?

[@iamjamesmeeks]

Lmaoooo 😂😂😂😂😂

[@rodjulius2745]

Stop it lol

[@moniquearmstrong9164]

Juss is a sweet person she make everybody laugh. And DJ envy and charlamagne tha God. I love y'all show I watch y'all every morning on bet.

[@gunsdown4497]

Many women complain there isn't enough good men around. But when they finally meet one, they either friendzone him or try to change him because he's too nice.. destroying his individuality in the process.