[Take My Free Quiz]: What's the #1 Reason You're Single: bit.ly/youresinglequiz
@graceguerzon83478 ай бұрын
1. Celebrate your Uniqueness 2. Self expressed- openness to life 3. High value- clarity of values 4. Boundaries- willing to say no 5. Radiance- light 🌟
@BernMendez8 ай бұрын
:)
@jenniferlorence19508 ай бұрын
@@BernMendez I absolutely Love your content. But let's also consider Location, Location, Location, finding a mate/life partner/romantic interest sometimes is fated by the Location a person is in and the type of people at that location!!!.
@juliafisher58448 ай бұрын
Haha location .. only local purleaze!!!
@craftychick488 ай бұрын
❤ You always speak with such honesty. I like having a man's perspective. There's a rationale behind your message of how we should confidently embrace our essence and being. I've followed this philosophy in my own messy way. It's a beautiful truth.
@BernMendez8 ай бұрын
I love this! And I appreciate the “messy” part. That’s how life is and there’s no shame and so much courage in showing up to do a little bit better each day. 🙏😊 Many blessings.
@jenniferlorence19508 ай бұрын
@BernMendez ; I am Glad that you made this video; I am SO SICK of so many "relationship gurus" making KZbin Videos telling Women/females to act like begging puppies in need of Attention and voluntarily submit to the abuse of emotional abusers, and women are falling these traps!. My goodness!
@BernMendez8 ай бұрын
Glad you found this useful, Jennifer : )
@karronfisher41888 ай бұрын
Your insight is 100% correct.I highly value spiritual intelligent men. However, to really appreciate their values, I need to have similar! I have been working on them my whole life..I want to say it was easy for me to believe in the fairy tale because of no father.part of my spiritual growth was and is to become strong and believe in myself, unfortunately now in my 60 I'm understanding boundaries, self worth is not dependent on external .I'm becoming happier and fulfilled in my 60.not because of a man because I'm learning we are all unique ,and we are like the billion stars that give light so that we can see our way and help others.our sisters need to know they are bigger than their beauty,they are so much more as are wonderful brothers.I love too hear your advice always truthful and encouraging.
@BernMendez8 ай бұрын
Hi Karron, thank you so much for your share and for watching.
@Lady.Luck.8 ай бұрын
As a woman I understand why we think our looks are so important. Just check the differences between an influencer with a bikini pic and a woman showing some wholesome content. If being wholesome was so sought after.. wouldn't this show up in the likes and shares? I will say there are some times where someone with genuine effort rises up. Like Taylor Swift for example. She's not considered the most sexually alluring woman to many men. And for some reason this bothers men that she's as popular as she is because she doesn't have the look that they thought is needed.
@BernMendez8 ай бұрын
I think you will find in any field that flashy content tends to get more reach. HOWEVER, remember you're not seeking to attract thousands of men but rather ONE amazing one into your life.
@Nono38-jj1tk8 ай бұрын
😅 Come on now! Taylor Swift is gorgeous.
@jenniferlorence19508 ай бұрын
@@Nono38-jj1tk She was referring to the body Type; Taylor Swift Cannot Compete with JENNIFER LOPEZ, SELENA GOMEZ, KIM KARDASHIAN, NIKKI MINAJ, CARDI B, that ALL SELL SEX. And yet Taylor Swift Sells good music and if Super FAMOUS & SUCCESSFUL.
@jenniferlorence19508 ай бұрын
@Lady.Luck. You are right.
@Lady.Luck.8 ай бұрын
@@Nono38-jj1tk I love her.. it's more some discussion I've seen online from men
@musebymelissa85838 ай бұрын
You give the best advice 😊 Thanks Bern. Happy holidays too! 🎄
@BernMendez8 ай бұрын
Same to you!
@HelaineChersonsky8 ай бұрын
Thank you, Bern This just clarifies and solidifies somev .of my intuition about me and prior relationships. You are blessed. Bern. Have a wonderful holiday season.
@BernMendez8 ай бұрын
Helaine you’re so welcome have an amazing holiday season too!
@RegenaO6 ай бұрын
Yay 🎉 love this material - I always learn and relearn. So grateful - thank you Bern
@BernMendez6 ай бұрын
You're so welcome Regena : )
@renoaczhary12324 ай бұрын
Thank you❤
@BernMendez4 ай бұрын
You're welcome 😊
@debbystage24096 ай бұрын
😊 I love your video and it's so true Bernando Thank you so very much for reminding me I'm not a Barbie doll❤
@fluentinoverthinking8 ай бұрын
100% true! There is a lack of authentic people nowadays (it also applies to man). I think wearing a mask only causes problems and leads to breakups even though it may work in the begging to allure someone into this trap. It’s way better to repel someone from the 1st date than to make them delusional about you.
@BernMendez8 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing and watching. 🙏😊
@SVAsianPhilippinesGo68588 ай бұрын
Or the first year 😞
@jenniferlorence19508 ай бұрын
@@BernMendez; I am Glad that you made this video; I am SO SICK of so many "relationship gurus" making KZbin Videos telling Women/females to act like begging puppies in need of Attention and voluntarily submit to the abuse of emotional abusers, and women are falling these traps. My goodness.
@jowhipp36288 ай бұрын
I love this one. Thank you. ❤
@BernMendez7 ай бұрын
You're so welcome 😊
@joansandeen94438 ай бұрын
Excellent, valuable advice. Thank you!!
@BernMendez8 ай бұрын
You are so welcome, Joan.
@jenniferlorence19508 ай бұрын
@@BernMendez; Let's not forget also, that High Value Women don't get any attention from men simply because men have a lot of insecurities and Cannot handle or deal with Confident and Successful Women; they want women that they can easily manipulate.
@amyj.49928 ай бұрын
Oh believe, NO is my favorite word
@amyj.49928 ай бұрын
Radiance 💓
@sandradszendy30185 ай бұрын
In my life people put me in a box, Their opinion and energy is to make me feel I need to do unconscious decisions of underlining communications. Makes the real me dissociate of where I am because I am not that person. Probably other reasons why I feel this way, like money. Overall I look forward to my time off. doing what I want to do, being the real me 🙃
@sallyogden91518 ай бұрын
❤️
@sarahkennedy14818 ай бұрын
Depends if a man was just after sex
@BernMendez8 ай бұрын
Hope you found this useful : )
@sarahkennedy14818 ай бұрын
I have found most men on dating sites are after women with money as skint or just a beautiful woman with money. Years back men were not shallow now most men with education or money or looks or oomph want a 10/10 woman or they want a woman to mother them. I have given up. Hard over 55 to look amazing always. If a man has children with a woman then he is not so concerned re looks