Your Most DESIRABLE Trait To Men… But You Don’t Know It.

[@BernMendez]

[Take My Free Quiz]: What's the #1 Reason You're Single: bit.ly/youresinglequiz

[@graceguerzon8347]

1. Celebrate your Uniqueness 2. Self expressed- openness to life 3. High value- clarity of values 4. Boundaries- willing to say no 5. Radiance- light 🌟

[@BernMendez]

:)

[@jenniferlorence1950]

@@BernMendez I absolutely Love your content. But let's also consider Location, Location, Location, finding a mate/life partner/romantic interest sometimes is fated by the Location a person is in and the type of people at that location!!!.

[@juliafisher5844]

Haha location .. only local purleaze!!!

[@craftychick48]

❤ You always speak with such honesty. I like having a man's perspective. There's a rationale behind your message of how we should confidently embrace our essence and being. I've followed this philosophy in my own messy way. It's a beautiful truth.

[@BernMendez]

I love this! And I appreciate the “messy” part. That’s how life is and there’s no shame and so much courage in showing up to do a little bit better each day. 🙏😊 Many blessings.

[@jenniferlorence1950]

@BernMendez ; I am Glad that you made this video; I am SO SICK of so many "relationship gurus" making KZbin Videos telling Women/females to act like begging puppies in need of Attention and voluntarily submit to the abuse of emotional abusers, and women are falling these traps!. My goodness!

[@BernMendez]

Glad you found this useful, Jennifer : )

[@karronfisher4188]

Your insight is 100% correct.I highly value spiritual intelligent men. However, to really appreciate their values, I need to have similar! I have been working on them my whole life..I want to say it was easy for me to believe in the fairy tale because of no father.part of my spiritual growth was and is to become strong and believe in myself, unfortunately now in my 60 I'm understanding boundaries, self worth is not dependent on external .I'm becoming happier and fulfilled in my 60.not because of a man because I'm learning we are all unique ,and we are like the billion stars that give light so that we can see our way and help others.our sisters need to know they are bigger than their beauty,they are so much more as are wonderful brothers.I love too hear your advice always truthful and encouraging.

[@BernMendez]

Hi Karron, thank you so much for your share and for watching.

[@Lady.Luck.]

As a woman I understand why we think our looks are so important. Just check the differences between an influencer with a bikini pic and a woman showing some wholesome content. If being wholesome was so sought after.. wouldn't this show up in the likes and shares? I will say there are some times where someone with genuine effort rises up. Like Taylor Swift for example. She's not considered the most sexually alluring woman to many men. And for some reason this bothers men that she's as popular as she is because she doesn't have the look that they thought is needed.

[@BernMendez]

I think you will find in any field that flashy content tends to get more reach. HOWEVER, remember you're not seeking to attract thousands of men but rather ONE amazing one into your life.

[@Nono38-jj1tk]

😅 Come on now! Taylor Swift is gorgeous.

[@jenniferlorence1950]

@@Nono38-jj1tk She was referring to the body Type; Taylor Swift Cannot Compete with JENNIFER LOPEZ, SELENA GOMEZ, KIM KARDASHIAN, NIKKI MINAJ, CARDI B, that ALL SELL SEX. And yet Taylor Swift Sells good music and if Super FAMOUS & SUCCESSFUL.

[@jenniferlorence1950]

@Lady.Luck. You are right.

[@Lady.Luck.]

@@Nono38-jj1tk I love her.. it's more some discussion I've seen online from men

[@musebymelissa8583]

You give the best advice 😊 Thanks Bern. Happy holidays too! 🎄

[@BernMendez]

Same to you!

[@HelaineChersonsky]

Thank you, Bern This just clarifies and solidifies somev .of my intuition about me and prior relationships. You are blessed. Bern. Have a wonderful holiday season.

[@BernMendez]

Helaine you’re so welcome have an amazing holiday season too!

[@RegenaO]

Yay 🎉 love this material - I always learn and relearn. So grateful - thank you Bern

[@BernMendez]

You're so welcome Regena : )

[@renoaczhary1232]

Thank you❤

[@BernMendez]

You're welcome 😊

[@debbystage2409]

😊 I love your video and it's so true Bernando Thank you so very much for reminding me I'm not a Barbie doll❤

[@fluentinoverthinking]

100% true! There is a lack of authentic people nowadays (it also applies to man). I think wearing a mask only causes problems and leads to breakups even though it may work in the begging to allure someone into this trap. It’s way better to repel someone from the 1st date than to make them delusional about you.

[@BernMendez]

Thank you for sharing and watching. 🙏😊

[@SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858]

Or the first year 😞

[@jenniferlorence1950]

@@BernMendez; I am Glad that you made this video; I am SO SICK of so many "relationship gurus" making KZbin Videos telling Women/females to act like begging puppies in need of Attention and voluntarily submit to the abuse of emotional abusers, and women are falling these traps. My goodness.

[@jowhipp3628]

I love this one. Thank you. ❤

[@BernMendez]

You're so welcome 😊

[@joansandeen9443]

Excellent, valuable advice. Thank you!!

[@BernMendez]

You are so welcome, Joan.

[@jenniferlorence1950]

@@BernMendez; Let's not forget also, that High Value Women don't get any attention from men simply because men have a lot of insecurities and Cannot handle or deal with Confident and Successful Women; they want women that they can easily manipulate.

[@amyj.4992]

Oh believe, NO is my favorite word

[@amyj.4992]

Radiance 💓

[@sandradszendy3018]

In my life people put me in a box, Their opinion and energy is to make me feel I need to do unconscious decisions of underlining communications. Makes the real me dissociate of where I am because I am not that person. Probably other reasons why I feel this way, like money. Overall I look forward to my time off. doing what I want to do, being the real me 🙃

[@sallyogden9151]

❤️

[@sarahkennedy1481]

Depends if a man was just after sex

[@BernMendez]

Hope you found this useful : )

[@sarahkennedy1481]

I have found most men on dating sites are after women with money as skint or just a beautiful woman with money. Years back men were not shallow now most men with education or money or looks or oomph want a 10/10 woman or they want a woman to mother them. I have given up. Hard over 55 to look amazing always. If a man has children with a woman then he is not so concerned re looks