“Your partner is probably going to cheat on you”👀😩 - Uncomfortable truths about life | Episode 51

Deep breaths. This may be triggering but the truth is the truth.
It’s safer and far more hopeful to go through life ignoring some of these uncomfortable truths and we definitely suggest you do but they has to be said. Will your partner cheat on you? Probably. Will we all be ‘successful’? No. Are all our parents good? No. But si ni life 😩
Do you agree with these uncomfortable truths and what are some others we missed? Let’s chat in the comments.
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[@siptalkwithjanet]

One uncomfortable truth I learnt is that you shouldn't take advice from people just because they are older because EVEN FOOLS GROW OLD. You can make your own decision with your "small" age and it is the RIGHT ONE!

[@mamapsalm1980]

😅😅😅😅😅😅so true

[@tracytabitha]

woo child.... this one I learned the hard way

[@tmipodcastke]

How very true!!!

[@kazmorich]

waaah...okay

[@yonelagiqo8122]

I couldn't agree more

[@charitymacharia7049]

I work 9 to 5 and I love it. I honestly do not believe all of us are cut out for entrepreneurship. My work has helped me travel the world, meet a lot of beautiful people and I cannot imagine my life any other way.

[@Habibtay]

And most people who don't like their 9-5 don't get to travel and meet new people like you. They're always stuck in the same cubicle with the same people all year. That's the difference between you who enjoys your 9g5 and them.

[@Flourish_today]

@@Habibtay We are all cut out to choose different when it comes to work. Also to take courses at Uni that will take us to those jobs that give us lots of opportunities.

[@nancyawino8651]

I love my 9 to 5 since I’m doing what I love. I have managed to invest a lot too, I’m an introvert who just enjoys alone time that my job allows

[@alphamaxwell6753]

Absolutely 💯 true.

[@maurineakinyi2962]

One uncomfortable truth is, there is always a younger person who is way smarter than you, and we are going to meet them at some point in life. This hit me recently and it really tore me down. I have learnt to accept and move.

[@Flourish_today]

That message in the church that glorifies suffering is what is keeping our economy on the struggle line. People are packed in church Monday to Sunday from morning to evening. Those same people would be out there selling tomatoes or planting crops on their land but nope, they are in church praying to cancel the spirit of poverty. I'm speaking for Ugandans who spend 24hours in church.

[@shalomkawira8746]

one uncomfortable truth I learned... no one knows shit or what they are doing on earth... everyone is winging it until they find something that suits them... including surgeons and pilots

[@kazmorich]

This absolutely swept me off my feet.

[@carol76798]

Sheesh!

[@didiash]

Yup my se thought process....no one knows anything. You dothe best with the exposure and information you have.

[@everythingeverything6196]

Here is mine, everyone's life does not revolve around you, so sometimes when you think someone made a particular decision to hurt you or annoy you it's not always the case. Sometimes people are only thinking about themselves and what's best for them and you did not factor in their decision making (especially if you are not close). Knowing this will save you from a lot of heartaches

[@violachirchir6731]

You spoke my mind💯

[@rebeccaniwagaba2610]

Even when you're close

[@charitynjuguna8417]

I am a Lawyer, in a 9-5 job and I love it! So i totally agree people ought to stop projecting their idea of life, success and happiness on others

[@nellythuranira6732]

Another uncomfortable truth I have learnt is that just because you are good hearted world will not treat you good that not the case ,,,,I like how real you are babes💯

[@sheilahmusotsi425]

Uncomfortable truth I have learned;the world only celebrates heroes. Until you do something with your life, that's when the world will recognize your efforts.

[@cg.5502]

Super duper uncomfortable truth: Be considerate and open to giving second chances (with caution) coz one day you'll be the one who really needs it, you'll be the toxic one, the one who messes up

[@jewel6476]

This is a very uncomfortable truth 💯💯

[@vanessajorgembanze8089]

I love how Murugui literally shifts from her seat from how uncomfortable these truths are! This a very important episode ladies, I loved it.

[@JamillahA]

Uncomfortable truth😉 Some people will always come back and watch but never like or subscribe.......do we have to accept this😂😂

[@Asalix2]

Your spouse/lover is not necessarily going to love you the way you love them or the way you want them to! Your idea of love may not be the same as your significant other's idea of love!

[@MsChefsue]

Love that you talked about the 9 to 5 thing. I keep being pushed into entrepreneurship and it isn’t for me. I love my 9 to 5. It aligns with my purpose, it’s within my mountain of influence, impactful and fulfilling. I earn well, get paid to travel, paid to think, lots of perks, great medical insurance, interest free loans etc So when someone tells me I should start my own thing (and they are many) I know they aren’t in alignment with my purpose and they get scaled down in my mind.

[@magalienia6958]

Oh!but these two ladies, how so very nice to have them on this platform spitting out truths. The one truth abt our parents not being heroes but human beings...when u finally crack that code & fully comprehend that...it opens up the floodgates of/for giving grace & healing in the complex dynamic that is for parent/child relationships. Seeing ya parent(s) who u've had on a pedestal for so long as flawed human beings, is a REBIRTH & a cathartic freedom u didn't know u needed.

[@justgracious3196]

The motherhood part I relate so much, when my son joined boarding school I couldn't sleep the first two weeks, so questions were running in my head like was he able to wake up on time? Is he being bullied, did he lose his locker key n so on, only for him to come for midterm n narrate how he enjoyed school😂😌

[@the.victorgeorge]

I'm reading this and realizing all those things actually happened to me when I went to boarding school😂. My mum was right to worry😂😂

[@justgracious3196]

@@the.victorgeorge it's just sad😌

[@MissEMMMM]

Thank you for that 9-5 job point. I really needed that because I work from 9-5 and its quite unfortunate that, most people don't value this like I doans always try to downplay the importance of a 9-5 . My dream is to rise through the ranks and I'm actually quite fulfilled. God bless.

[@lizmuringo9117]

I share the same sentiments.. People should stop projecting their journey on others.. Period🚫

[@Flourish_today]

I think a lot of people just don't know what words to use. So they end up using projecting words to describe people who are 9-5. It does not bother me at all because I love my job ans good at it. We all have differenr trajectories in this life. If there were no 9-5 people, how would entrepreneurs be getting the services they need eg registering their companies, lawyers, government etc etc.

[@aokookello5564]

There are people who are meant for a 9-5. And they are quite happy, and contented. Business is sometimes overrated

[@evelynefuraha2408]

This one is for me I'm usually ashamed to say I'm not into entrepreneurship, they all think I now don't have a life Let me grow careerwise, I love my profession

[@Nyokabi.K_]

I can honestly say that this channel has been a blessing to my life. I have learnt a lot and grown more wiser. God bless TMI

[@betsysareto212]

Same Sis Same

[@makenakiki946]

Enjoyed this thanks ladies! Another uncomfortable truth: you can totally love someone and not like every aspect of them. Was a Hard pill to take kept asking if that’s normal till I stopped gas lighting myself…

[@MsThe1girl]

I agree with that first point. I always choose revenge if i can get away with it. 🤣. Theres no day i felt better from being the bigger person.

[@evelynmwangi8624]

There is no glory in letting people walk away after treating your shit. Sometimes being the smaller person feels so good

[@fezzawuor1668]

Omg, that part about the identity of parents not revolving about their kids🤯🤯love love it!!

[@gwenlynne6853]

Lyd:"Your parents are not heroes!" Me in my head...Sasa aje??😂😂

[@marionmaina6260]

The point about our parents had me crying...It's heavy. I am going to carry this throughout my life! Thank you for that I am grateful!❤️

[@fbanoba]

Y'all are the drama with the whole "where's your man!?" questions. This line of questioning is too uncomfortable! 😂😂 Love from Uganda❤️

[@TheMajestiQFamily]

When Lydia said "Your parents are not heros " That got me thinking .. They are kind of John and Anna..

[@mikasa7718]

They say leave revenge to God ;but guess who is made in his image and likeness

[@candidwithtindi4329]

It's you baaaabe😅😅

[@ronitahaineamaani]

😂😂

[@kattyjoules8101]

This podcast just woke me up damn! I feel like I have been so entitled in some sense and I need to accept thatvthings will never be as you always want them. Uncomfortable but true.

[@cheptoofaith8083]

One uncomfortable truth is no one will be there to save you everytime sometimes you are all you got..

[@pearlkagezi8847]

The idea that we when you do what you love you never get tired is a lie unfortunately 😅

[@leah2702]

Ahhh the 9 to 5 thing hit home…and kwanza you mentioned that someone might enjoy finance. I’m in finance and I hear it all the time how the corporate world is not the one and how I should be in business (even though I know very well I’m not very entrepreneurial!!) Don’t get me wrong of course you should still be investing and making your money grow/go further but not everyone in business! And the parents are not heroes ahh this episode really hit home

[@slymwende_17]

I aspire to be self aware like Lydia❤️

[@TheNaisenya]

The lady having drama with her mum - I agree with Lydia that she should first save up at least 6 months of living expenses. I would also advice her to move to a house cheaper than what she can afford. So if she can afford 40K rent, then move to a house that is 25K. And then save, save, save. This is the advice I would also have given to my younger self

[@tinahndegwa]

I have been a silent follower but here I am today. I love you two for speaking our minds. I agree that some family can be toxic, especially extended weeeh. Also the fact that your "enemy" will not necessary suffer coz they wronged you or karma ;it doesnt always work like that.

[@zaneledlamini6018]

Wow! Ladies, I like how you always flow in a conversation and the wisdom that exude from both of you. Life is still worth living Indeed regardless of uncomfortable truth about it.

[@fionawitaba8494]

The level of maturity in this conversation 👏👏👏👏

[@aokookello5564]

Lydia second point about not all making it🤣🤣Ebu let me wake up an remove myself from the list of those who won't make it that much🤣

[@beatriceamundi4000]

😂😂ooh sis bring me along with you coz wueh

[@rahabwanjiku6231]

Same bestie same 🤣

[@bettyminay4286]

I immediately jumped up from my bed, we have to be on list of the successful ones😂😂😂

[@jewel6476]

Okay okay 😂it's true but with success you can do something about it to some extent as Murugi said😂It not completely obvious that you'll not succeed 😂 Depends with how much work you put in the right way

[@adventuresofmarie]

The not having a good relationship with family members is definitely me. My only sister and I are not talking. We had our issues but it just got worse when our mum died and I just decided to protect my peace by staying away.

[@ahabwe5761]

This def changed my life right now.....just this minute....my whole perspective towards life....thank you guys

[@carolegachanja5372]

Hey Murugi and Lyd.. This was a Great Episode as Always! Also, Kindly have an Episode on Dealing With Toxic Family Members especially on the Level of Parents Coz I feel Like not enough people talk about it and Some of Us are Deep in it and Don't know how to Create those Boundaries.

[@melliea2930]

I totally agree!! 💯

[@lucymwai7540]

I second this

[@Ba.c]

@Carole, Btw a good book is "boundaries" by Dr Henry Cloud. It focuses on boundaries with yourself, friends, family, work, church and with God. It is really an eye opener and such a good read, I would highly recommend it.

[@kekiplus1andonly]

Wao wacheat tu,its all in your mind,if you let it eat you up ut will,otherwise just take it easy and enjoy yourself too coz even your boo got a boo

[@raisaproperties71]

Business is not everyone!!!This year has been the ghetto I tell you.Starting a business needs all your strength and life in general😭

[@graceguya1682]

Uncomfortable truth. You will not get along or like some of your family members. The vibes they give are just negative/ toxic. Word Lyd. Never force relationships. Some people are just not good for your mental health. Unfortunately, you may be related to them. Distance is key. An episode of dealing with toxic family or you two reacting to anonymous subscriber secrets would be cool.

[@wanjiruolive]

Start with relationship with parents like you might not have a healthy relationship with your parent and thats okay. Accept that and start your healing journey. Like for me i start accepting it and reading books for my healing and next probably i will go for therapy.

[@odilambinya1509]

This show has really helped me as youth in my early 20s...I really love it 💕

[@lynnnjerik]

For the Instagram question - Yes girl,trust me it's time to move out. The only thing that happens afterwards if you stay longer is you both begin to aggravate each other even over small small things which you wouldn't even give a second of thought under normal circumstances. Like for me, when it reached the point i had to inform them when I go out.... you know it's time honestly.

[@musinare]

I watched the messy beginning (the first episode) the day it dropped. I remember telling my then housemate that I knew TMI was going to be huge...one year down the road here we are😅 I'm not saying I'm a prophet, just that with Lyd and Jo it's always been obvious that you guys make magic together. To making even more magic, I'm here for it all❤️ 51 episodes and counting 💪🏾 You guys will have to beat me out of this comments section😂😂😂 Also I've met Murugi before episode 50 so I except to meet Lyd before the big 100 Much love across the border 🇺🇬

[@witty75]

I can't keep my eyes off the missing button on the couch

[@peanut_nomz]

Congratulations on the anniversary. Seems like yesterday when we were watching the 1st episode 🎊💐🎉. To more years 🍾🥂

[@patricianantongo3114]

I am already taking a break from work to watch this👐🏾👐🏾👐🏾....I love you guys...Much love from UG❤️❤️❤️

[@malkiawaalego2552]

1: Students who score grade A in exams won’t necessarily be the most successful in life. A combination of book smarts, street smarts, emotional intelligence and good old LUCK is what amounts to success. 2: the sunk cost fallacy- I have invested x years in this relationship/venture so I’ll stay in a toxic situation because of the amount of time, energy, money etc. Let it go. 3: people are in your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime

[@edithmbogoh4557]

Point 2 had me sitting upright. Wheew!

[@jewel6476]

@@edithmbogoh4557 ikrrrrr💯💯💯

[@jewel6476]

Totally agree with you💯💯💯💯❗🔥🔥

[@marykinyanjui4542]

@@edithmbogoh4557 same

[@sharonchelimo1677]

Thank you for being the big sisters some of us don’t have❤️

[@allthingswamuyu]

Hey, great episode by the way 😂, wuehh 😅 some statements hit hard. I haven't started working yet and I don't know if I should go with a 9-5 or entrepreneurship. Honestly, all this hype on freelancing has got me really confused 😅

[@eberelilian7790]

Exactly I’m still a student and Im still figuring out how my life is going to be when I’m done schooling

[@malkiawaalego2552]

You’re still young, and it doesn’t have to be either or. You can have a 9-5 and a side hustle and then if the side hustle takes off you freelance

[@allthingswamuyu]

@@eberelilian7790 I feel you 😂

[@ngareann]

Anna was just chilling.... We have left Jenny huh? Lydia😂.. Love this episode!

[@eshycmwangi]

👋Loved this Conversation🙋🏽‍♀️Uncomfortable, Sometimes Painful Truths…So Candid✅✅

[@agnesmuringi6402]

I like it when you start gossiping silently, that is me n my siz or mum when I want to prove a point 🤣😅😆

[@sheilarisper1922]

someone pass me a glass of wine 😅😥so much uncomfortable facts 😭 i wasn't ready 😅

[@mamapsalm1980]

omg the part of quit your 9-5 job. pple have over glamourised it. like us in 9-5 aren't winning 😅😅😅. but am doing both 9-5 & side business 😊

[@fkamonya]

Another uncomfortable truth, as an adult no one owes you anything!

[@Bilhagitonga]

Also, no one is coming to save you

[@lysher646]

There are people who would not like you because u are u. Very true 💯

[@brigidkashoi8847]

I am a 9-5 person and I really like it here.Trust me

[@agripinacarla8962]

The Uncomfortable truth i have come to learn and it has happened to me is we fall out of friendship.

[@edithnyambura1772]

This is a good episode 💪👏....I love the part that lyd said our parents ain't heroes....Thats deep!!!

[@livinglifeascharlene8365]

Best episode so far😊uncomfortable yet so deep

[@joycemwangi9290]

What happens after watching TMI on a Wednesday? What do we do till next Wednesday? Kindly advice

[@chumbaagladie]

Mon Over25 ,Thursday Man talk, Friday Joyride podcast ,Sunday Maggie Mwende, Suzy homestead, Tifine Wise

[@esthernyambura3406]

@@chumbaagladie 👌

[@carolmutua5266]

We apply what we have learnt here througjout the week until the next episode😅

[@tfa4782]

So many Uncomfortable Truths •You are the main character in your life and so is everyone else 😄🤔😅🤣 •You children will become independent of you and disagree or even challenge some of your views 🤔🤔

[@nicolabaker6653]

There are persons who don't like you because you are who you are (this hit hard)

[@muhozapromise9731]

Guys when it comes to sisters my heart just breaks and I dream about them always, I just don't want them to go through same things

[@damiarabello7766]

ah ah 🤣🤣🤣🤣 this title can cause heart attack and depression. 😂😂 I really love your channel sissys, hahaha If there's any word like that.

[@kazmorich]

wow, wow, wow, so much insight in one show. Where do you people get so much wisdom all at once from?

[@jennifernjeri7340]

Uncomfortable Truth: Not everyone can be helped. You infact cannot save anyone from their misery.

[@jewel6476]

Totally 💯💯💯💯

[@sumbucarol1478]

Very true

[@beloncekamz2821]

Wah! Sema kuwa busy, missed the premiere gang😍. Catching up 3 hrs later🤦🏿‍♀️Topic ya Leo, that's the reality💯. Murugi you were amazing👏🏾😘 on the #UGLadiesshow. Happy Birthday TMI🎉🎂🍾👏🏾.

[@matildasang1138]

You guys are amazing, the impact you're making is beyond what your minds even realize

[@jaber2theworld182]

Thank y'all for this talk ...can't stop forwarding ✔️💯 ...May God always give you things to tell🙏

[@joanitamuwanika5487]

Thank you for that nine to five thing. I loooove my nine to five. It's all I ever dreamed of doing..am happy in it...I thrive in it..thank u

[@gloriamikara6634]

Yaaay almost made it to number one here and thats going straight to my diary I love you ladies soo much....its definitely TMI❤❤

[@FRIDAHNGUKU]

Not everyone is going to be successful that's a hard truth

[@shereads2344]

I aspire to be this mature, open minded and self aware 🙌

[@Mylove_Mkm]

Lydia snapped in this episode

[@lavishlovergirl]

Fr...

[@Angeliquekimz]

As uncomfortable as it was..😁 LOVED this episode! Well put ladies 👏

[@jennysarnie2774]

Hey Murugi, Lyd and In-betweeners. One other uncomfortable truth is that we our parents are aging, and very fast actually. The older you get, the older they get too. And yes, death is in the picture too😭😭😭😭 Also, we will not all grow old. Some of us will die prematurely, and that's just life, ain't it? July 7 is also my birthday, so to all my twins, including TMI, HAPPY BIRTHDAY 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. You are important, and you are loved. Forever Queen-betweener❤️

[@jackline1429]

Happy birthday Queen May God grant your heart desires.

[@jennysarnie2774]

​@@jackline1429 thanks so much babe. Amen!!!!

[@reyoth]

'while you're here struggling for bundles'😂😂😂Vayolens

[@graciakinyanjui6937]

i decree and declare i will be successful... poverty sucks

[@joymutiga3219]

Murugi you are so right the day as women we realise there are burdens that are we as women will bear and men will not understand makes life so much easier.

[@angeleenjohnson3642]

Yeah the thing about parents,damn😌😌but don't you think parents somewhat have a role in that like they never let kids see their vulnerabilities. They mostly never accept when they're weak or worse, made mistakes so in return kids think they're perfect and their word is law 😶

[@leahnabukeera355]

I love the part you say that our parents are only human, cause they do male mistakes

[@vetflickske]

Lyd is soooooooooo Bright 😘😘..you aced this episode

[@beatriceamundi4000]

Is there any in betweener here planning to attend our live podcast on 30th and need a sis company coz they don't have one?...asking asking for mee😊

[@Celinenjabi45555]

Meee but pesa ya lunch sina😢

[@beatriceamundi4000]

@@Celinenjabi45555 we still have some time babe,just get the ticket then save up for lunch before then...

[@basemathchepkirui9997]

The parents part hit me🥺❤️

[@kemuntonyaenya1102]

Not me wishing I was Joan's ear to know who Lyd doesn't like for no reason😝😝

[@gracethuku4555]

😂me too

[@jackline1429]

Girl me too

[@shainejelagat6755]

My best beeeest episode eveeeeeer,,,TMI for life💖💖💖💖💖💖💝💗

[@harrietkorir5088]

It's my first time watching the show. Lovely & enjoyable! Murugi Munyi much love to you, I enjoyed how eloquent you are.

[@jubinalove9773]

I am a 9-5 (HR Practitioner and i love it.)

[@eunicenafula4587]

please consider me ,unmployed,but have diploma in business management.even if its costumer care work

[@wanjerimacharia5421]

New subscriber. Loved the vibe and the maturity in the conversation.

[@BandarEms]

An uncomfortable truth : Being a Christian doesn't mean you're perfect. Consequently, people in the church are a human as they come& therefore they sin just like any other person. Don't expect perfection from Christians/peoplein the church, cause they are just humans who follow Christ.

[@b.3845]

Then they should stop judging people who aren’t saved Christians then maybe we won’t hold them to high standards of perfection. They judge as though they’re perfect

[@joyanne-marie4827]

I love it! Def need to watch more than once! ❤️❤️

[@joycheruto7388]

Mi I love you guys soo much.... Aki thenks for enlightening us ..I learn alot soo much from you and am happy am becoming a better person ...

[@bellnyawira5493]

Aaah what an episode, me I just love these ladies🔥🔥😍...the billionaire part 💔😅

[@winniewangui9661]

Uncomfortable truth is somehow my children will get hurt that itself is stressful when I think of , today I felt so guilty of not doing something I had promised my son due to circumstances I couldn't avoid, I felt so bad imagining he's hurt.

[@jubinalove9773]

Oh my God, This is so true, the imbalances towards the woman

[@vivianndungi6020]

i love your giggles at the beginning