Your Questions, Answered about Baby Elephant Orphan, Phabeni

With gratitude and understanding, we share with you today answers to some of the questions we have received regarding Phabeni's passing and the related events. Thank you for your patience. This has been a difficult time as we did not expect Phabeni's death. Death is certainly nothing you can ever be fully prepared for. And it is something that we all deal with in our own way. Our media team have done their best to reply to as many questions as possible, but we do receive a countless amount of comments, for which we are grateful, as we know the majority of our followers here care deeply about the elephants, and orphans like Phabeni. Like you, we want what is in the best interest of the elephants. Adine and Owen took time to talk to you here, to share their minds and hearts in depth, so that we might all learn, heal and grow together.

[@wisebarb1987]

I truly hope you are not being criticized for how Phabeni’s healthcare was handled. It was always clear to me that you were constantly seeking the best options from all available sources of expertise. What I learned from this sad experience is how fragile a young, motherless elephant actually is. They appear sturdy, yet are quite vulnerable. Thank you for your exceptional love and care of the little bull. Continued success in your work with HERD. This is a calling not many could handle. ❤

[@deborjhablackwell6162]

My thoughts exactly. It breaks my heart listening to them “explain” why they couldn’t save Phabeni. Adine is always far more diplomatic than I would be under these circumstances. Let’s discuss the obscenity of carved ivory elephants on necklaces and earrings. Everyone at HERD is obviously committed to providing safe, enriching, enjoyable spaces for these beings we have hunted to the point of extinction. They recognize that they are SENTIENT beings and treat them as such. The level of heartbreak I hear in their voices, when they speak of the elephant family members that they’ve lost, is almost unbearable. With Phabeni, a child was lost. We weren’t there when he took his last breath. They were. My god…😢😔

[@equus3333]

💯

[@susanfeneley]

​@@deborjhablackwell6162 You are absolutely correct.

[@Corrie-fd9ww]

Agreed! I’ve read the comments about Phabeni, as a way to help process the loss of him, and to see the outpouring of love and support. However, among those comments, were plenty of triggered people projecting their own issues and perceptions onto this organization. It’s never ever gonna be perfect, and some patience and willingness to understand that wild animal rescue is messy, complicated AND complex, is foundational to being *humble* in the face of human-caused destruction and suffering of our family-of-life. I have seen that everyone working here is full of Grace, patience, humility, and humanity- again, never perfect, as there is no such thing. Easy to criticize from the comfort of an armchair, easy to be a keyboard warrior, infinitely harder to actually do the work of a calling like this.

[@lam9129]

Concern and questions are not necessary negative criticism. I have a few friends who work for non profit organizations in different parts of the world. and they do have to explain to their supporters what is going on and give regular updates. It’s a way to be transparent when an organization is fully funded by its supporters. They provide updates in form of in-person meetings, financial updates etc. My friends said it’s important for maintenance of trust of the work they do for the supporters. Unfortunately besides being motherless his immune system was likely constantly working trying to heal the broken hip bone. So new challenges were adding to the stress in his body. They are doing the right thing by providing additional and follow-up information.

[@user-Arlandie]

You owe nobody an apology, people should feel privileged that you consider their questions at such a difficult time. We love you all!

[@avs6372]

YES THIS!

[@FoneTool]

100% ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

[@raider7829]

​@non.8994why? What upset you? What's the reason? Thank you

[@onnalexseeias]

I appreciate your efforts to try and save this life I can't image your pain. Sending prayers for all ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@ronascott4449]

For those of us who love and follow Herd, we KNOW everything was done to save Phabeni's life. The love and compassion shows in everything you do for the elephants 🐘 and other animals in your care. Thank you all for the wonderful work you do. For those who don't understand the choices you all made, you don't owe any apologies. Love and healing to all. ❤😊

[@amy8879]

@@ronascott4449 I absolutely agree with you 1000%. We win some, we definitely lose some.. but we love them all and are so thankful for all who dedicate their life and energy to their care. Peace be unto you.

[@janparish7895]

​@@amy8879So well said 🙏🏻

[@ruthbrewer466]

You are a mother mourning the loss of your child. Be as kind to yourself as you can.

[@deadiemeyers1661]

We grieve with you in the loss of your associate Kenneth, and in the loss of Baby Elephant Phabeni. This organization does important and difficult work. We thank you and respect your decisions. May you all, humans friends and elephant friends, find peace. ❤

[@manganese333]

Well said ❤

[@ladawn603]

Well said, If you don't mind, I'll add that they are in uncharted knowledge they are building a new existence in saving these majestic animals 😉 ❤. And doing their best! 😊😊😊.

[@mariehintz1788]

Please don't worry about crying, it is normal, and you're deeply grieving. You did your best. Hugs to you.

[@kellierebkowec625]

We miss that little one. You all couldn’t have done any more than what you did. Please don’t believe anyone is laying blame!

[@LadyRustedKnight]

You all gave a Herculean effort to save Phabeni. I watched. They are so fragile when they are young. Nothing to criticize what so ever. Without your efforts, they would have died much sooner in the wild alone.

[@vblackwell3347]

We all need to let The Herd know that it's understood that THEIR pain - THEIR grief & THEIR loss supercedes any that anyone else is feeling period Comon sense!

[@lauriebradley8295]

Yes!❤

[@bridgetsclama]

@@LadyRustedKnight not just alone but either starving or in pain or both. I believe that the most important thing is that they feel loved, even if they don't survive

[@LadyRustedKnight]

@@bridgetsclama I whole heartedly agree. Humans are still learning about ellies. Elephants are complex, these carers devote their lives to them. And the rule of nature is survival of the fittest even in the safest environment. This was not a failure, it was the best chance an orphaned baby had to survive. Given that Phabeni was not born into the herd, the decision to protect the herd and the carers from further stress was logical.

[@ccasey1904]

And for anyone thinking of criticizing, please note that when people take on animal rescue work , people are frequently trying to do things that there are no known answers for due to various reasons.

[@meo1047]

Anyone who has followed Phabeni’s journey knows how well he was loved and taken care of, by his human family and his elephant family. His life was too short, yes, but he brought so much joy to so many of us around the world. Perhaps his life and death will contribute some important lessons to help our next little one survive. My love to Adine and all the carers, and to Setombe and all the elephants.

[@DawnWood-w3e]

Well said..❤🐘

[@JillChristyGroup]

Agreed ❤ such a bright light in the world for a short time! Sending love to Adine and all (I’m sorry not to recall your names, but I do know your faces!) and loving rubs to all of his Mama and Dad elephants! I know it’s difficult to see them all grieving, too!

[@kp8381]

Without the intervention of HERD little Phaebini would not have lasted more than a day or two. Herd and the vet team did every thing possible for him. As in humans as well, sometimes nature takes its course and theres no recourse for it. We should be grateful to HERD for giving us months of joy with our little man. Thank you. P.S. Ignore the haters, they are everywhere. 🐘💙🐘💙

[@herdelephantorphanage]

Your words of encouragement are very profound, and we are so pleased that you are part of the HERD family.

[@kathrynjacobs934]

Adine, I can see your pain over the losses you've endured. No one should judge you for the loss of Phabeni. It was clear, at the time, that you, Dr Roger's and the carers were taking all steps possible to heal Phabeni. Your love for all you care for is clear and you are loved for this. ❤

[@englishlion2803]

Oh Adine it breaks my heart to hear the pain in your voice.I can only say I am in awe of everything you did for Phabeni and do everday for the ellies. In the end I think it is extremely difficult to replace the calf's mother and alot of survival is luck.You certainly do not have to justify any decisions you made!I wish you peace and healing, as indeed to all the carers and ellies. Love and prayers ❤ 🙏 🐘

[@susanfeneley]

@englishlion2803 Bravo!

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

@ english hi, giusto!

[@CatF.1]

I, (we!) are so proud of your work, HERD! Grieving with you, and blessing you all for your efforts.

[@JonahzVoice3-4]

​@non.8994That was a nasty reply. Maybe coming from a heart that was broken many times and never healed. Instead it just hardened.

[@carolclarke8163]

​@non.8994 TROLLS NOT WELCOME HERE

[@vblackwell3347]

​@non.8994 How dare you! Unnecessarily rude. That kind of behavior isn't well received here.

[@joekuder]

people need to understand no one feels the loss more than the rescuers it is as if losing a close family member love ya's

[@Legg802]

Phabeni will always walk with his loving herd, both elephant and human .

[@mortalclown3812]

This. Yes. 🇸🇿🌍🌿🐘🍼🐘🩵🖖

[@catsara9114]

What a beautiful image ❤

[@DeborahWalker-e6p]

@@Legg802 Bless his little heart. I miss him 😞 Rest in peace precious little boy 💖🙏

[@sam170tab]

He was so happy to be able to run with his herd!! I loved and appreciated the care you gave to him enabling him to have his experience with his herd. Blessings to all of you.

[@MountbattenMusicVideos]

...and ask, why was my food poisoned? Who would do such thing?

[@theresatheron3838]

Hi Adine and team, there should be no doubt in anyone's mind that you all did whatever is the best for these precious elephants. All our hearts are broken that Phabeni is gone, but we know that you and the team did whatever you could. Thank you.

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

@ Teresa, 👌👍

[@nidiaclark889]

Adine, you are amazing. I want you to know how much I appreciate you for doing what you do. You have been chosen by God to take care of these animals, and you are doing a wonderful job. We lose friends and family members all the time,but we don't stop making new friends. Same with animals, don't let Phabenis deasth stop you from making more elephant friends.

[@nidiaclark889]

Phabenis elephant kind need you to push forward. Phabeni was an ambassador for elephants. Keep fighting for their happiness and answers.

[@leftinthedryer]

We miss him so much. Thank you for the info and loving the little guy! HERD took such good care of him!! ❤️❤️🐘❣️

[@MarySharp-p7f]

Little Phabeni's fight for life touched thousands of hearts across the world... Everything in life has a time. Sadly, it was never meant to be his. No one could have given him more care and love than the team at Herd. May you find strength, to heal, and continue the great work you do ❤ 💔

[@DeborahWalker-e6p]

Well said ❤

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

@ user hi, 👌👍

[@rolffigueiredo3786]

God knows how many comments I've read this morning . But there's a constant ! Everyone misses Phabeni. Everyone has seen how much love and attention Phabeni was given. Faultless. His passing has left all of us grieving .. There was nothing that anyone did wrong. Good luck, Nadine . God bless to you and your family. Our Family . Each and every person who watched him loved him . R

[@txnana5459]

Thank you all for caring for these magnificent creatures. You do your best for each of your HERD and I’m grateful that you share with me. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jolynnhill8502]

It is very difficult to keep any baby animals alive without the mother. All of the alternative supplements give them diarrhea and that is hard to deal with. You gave that baby your love and care and a family. Thank you for all you do❤

[@dowth3]

There is no substitute for nature's recipe in the mama's milk - agreed!

[@Patti1]

I agree! I believe Phabeni was sick before he came to HERD! That's why his family left him behind. He never got the antibodies from his Mama's milk! That's my own opinion!

[@JAM_2024]

Giving him goats milk was probably not the best idea.

[@MariahMunnis]

We feel the pain of all of the staff.

[@let_the_warties_eat]

My heart breaks for you on the loss of Phabeni please don't torture yourself with second guessing what you did to care for him. He was clearly loved and cared for in the best possible way. He is at peace now with his mum. He would not want you to feel bad about anything you did or didn't do for him ❤ Let the beautiful memories of him lighten and heal your broken hearts. ❤❤❤

[@judysomers2448]

Well said ❤

[@vivnoname]

Beautiful comment ❤️🥰🐘

[@janeg8274]

Oh my Lord!! At 65 I am totally convinced now that some people post Negative comments about even Kitten videos! It has gotten ridiculous. Obviously ALL of your team love these animals! Please Know Most People with A Brain Realize This❤️

[@susanfeneley]

@janeg8274 KUDOS!!

[@dowth3]

💯🎯

[@janeg8274]

Literally just yesterday 4 people left negative comments on a RESCUE horse channel! They said she obviously didn’t know what she was doing! Well she has 2 advanced degrees in veterinary science!! I realize this amazing organization just try’s to not let negative comments affect them BUT they are human of course it hurts them!😢

[@dowth3]

@@janeg8274 True ... and, it can't be stopped. People are always going to be arm-chair quarterbacks. It's just part of life. The trick is to not care what small-minded people say, and instead focus on the supporters 💕

[@geoffmaloney2717]

So many people sitting in front of a computer, thousands of kilometres away who have only maybe ever seen an elephant in a zoo, think they are experts and can critisise these wonderful carers, expert vets etc. The ignorance and total stupidity is what is wrong with social media. HERD, Sheldrick Trust, Wildlife SoS, Animals Asia and other conservation groups are what is RIGHT about SM.

[@kathypointer3938]

We love the elephants, but our love goes out to you caregivers too. You as caregivers gave phobene everything.

[@mrpmrp226]

Little Phabeni is gone, but not forgotten. By the same token, we remember how hard you worked to save him, and provide the best of care. We also know that caring for elephants is not easy -- as there's much more research that needs to be done to increase the survival rates of these loving, innocent creatures. We learn so much from them, and I know that with every loss, something is learned. Thank you for being available to these wonderful creatures, and leading the path as to what it means to be a good steward to these animals and the world they live in They're certainly worth it. You're doing a wonderful job. Please don't listen to anyone who might say otherwise.

[@mabeldemello4101]

I couldn't bring myself to watch the Hereafter Phabeni passed away Thanks for your explanations I find that I can watch the herd again now I hope the orchids will survive and bloom RIP Phabeni

[@welovebirds]

"selfish" is never a word to be used in reference to HERD!

[@loulou3786]

Dear Adine please allow yourself the proper time to grieve . You did absolutely everything you could for sweet Phabeni . We love you . Sending the biggest hug . ❤

[@psrosemary]

I am so sorry, Adine, Owen, and everybody who cared for Phebini. Thank you for your love and hard work.

[@Fiftynine414]

I miss that little guy. Sweet Phabeni. RIP little fellow.

[@cheryldodd-marko9787]

Phabeni was a delightful,fiesty beautiful baby.....he was so happy at herd. Bless you all🕊🇺🇲💕

[@rm9338]

Anyone that watch his time with us ,know you did a wonderful job taking care of him ❤

[@annieconway8998]

I watched all the time. You did so much! Nobody could have done more.

[@carolmichael1099]

I can’t believe that any follower would judge you or any of your staff of not doing enough! You did all that was humanly possible to save each and every elephant and any other animal you come across! You and your staff pour your hearts out for each and every animal! I’m so sorry for each and every loss! God bless you all!

[@lindakahega9553]

Ignorant unhappy people don’t deserve your attention! They complain about even the most beautiful things. It was very very obvious Phabeni was a sick little boy from the beginning and your group put unbelievable love and work into his short life. You gave him a a wonderful experience while he was here. Thank you for all you do.

[@freespeechforall1069]

Thanks! for all the love and attention that was given to Phabeni.

[@herdelephantorphanage]

We are very grateful to receive your kind donation, which will certainly help with caring for the herd, thank you.

[@lindacampbell5546]

Everyone at HERD has done their utmost to help Phabeni. Baby elephants are very fragile and there is no guarantee they will make it despite the best of care. I admire all of you and wish you the best in your healing.

[@laylajarrah1250]

We love all the Herd members… first humans .. second the lovely elephants… no matter what .. don’t worry about questions.. just go on with your dedicated work .. and we are backing you up no matter what … love ❤️

[@vivianaiacomelli3080]

@layla hi, sono molto d'accordo!

[@patcahill2929]

When you are feeling sadness about Phabeni, look at the Herd and remember, Timisia, Khanyisa, Kumbura among others are here because of all of you. Without mothers, baby elephants are at such a big disadvantage. You do the best you can. Thank you.

[@laylajarrah1250]

@@vivianaiacomelli3080 🙏🏻

[@laylajarrah1250]

@non.8994 Adine is recognised in the conservation industry for her work in rhino conservation at HESC; however, her most significant work has been in elephant conservation, which began in 1997, when HESC successfully hand-reared their first orphaned elephant…. Don’t know what you are talking about !

[@JonahzVoice3-4]

​@non.8994My My! Someone is carrying around a big bag of Anger. It's going to affect your health with a major heart attack. Get help.

[@marlinmore]

It is clear from the posted comments that you have unconditional support from your viewers. Adine, you are a saint.

[@tessdurberville711]

🤦🏼‍♀️

[@janetbowersox83]

It's ok to cry.....we all know how much you did for Phabeni. It was meant to be for you not to go on the cycling ride. You were where you needed to be. What a lovely tribute for Phabeni. It must be so hard having lost Kenneth and Phabeni so soon. Blessings to you and all of your hard work.

[@shaughnyventura6000]

Oh Adine, my heart aches for you. Rest assured there are many shedding tears with you as your loss is still too raw. Time does not heal but it finds a way for you to deal with the pain. God bless.

[@shirleymorris7760]

I'm shocked and saddened to think anyone would criticize you over your treatment of Phabeni! Your efforts were heroic! Beni knew he was loved and cared for and given the best. I tell people about your amazing efforts and the fabulous life this herd has because of you. You're right -- there is no right or wrong in some circumstances. You do what you think is best for all at the time. You have my love and respect and gratitude! 🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@margaretbutler9528]

Anyone who has followed elephant orphans through HERD or Sheldrick Trust knows that raising these babies knows that it is a daunting task. Every failure is devastating but lessons are learned leading to eventual success. We know your team has done everything possible to save Phabeni and we mourn with you in his loss and the loss of Kenneth. You know best and we salute your efforts.

[@margaretbutler9528]

@non.8994 I was not comparing the aims of the two organizations but rather the difficulties in raising the orphan babies. Dame Daphne Sheldrick was an amazing woman but if you have followed her story for years as I have you know there were many failures at raising orphans in the beginning and even today success is not assured. As I understand the elephants at HERD were moved there from Zimbabwe because their existence was threatened. Different situations, different goals but same challenges raising baby elephants.

[@carolclarke8163]

​@@margaretbutler9528Well said! 👍 💯 🎯

[@jk-bw8gf]

@non.8994if you are going to write something like that you should show evidence. Every person posting online is grieving the loss of Phabeni in their own way. I haven't read any criticisms but your comment goes close. At this sad time it would be better to be kind to each other. It's also ok to ask questions and give suggestions that can be followed up when the grief settles down. You can be sure HERD team will do that as it is clear they want the best for elephants in care as do Sheldrick and other elephant sanctuaries.

[@marieaquilino]

There are 10s of thousands of us around the world who would like you to know Adine that you, your carers and your magnificent herd embody this beautiful text: "Love creates a communion with life. Love expands us, connects us, sweetens us, enables us. Love springs up in tender concern and blossoms into caring action. It makes beauty out of all we touch." Thank you all for championing in every way our beloved Phabeni.

[@suemaher5282]

Beautifully put

[@ruthbrewer466]

Adina…we know you are not just Googling. You are consulting elephant experts … probably all over the world. Every baby’s health issues adds to your knowledge base. Give Khanyisa a kiss for me.

[@rockdocandlittlebird]

I am so, so sorry that there are people out there who do not recognize that you are doing everything possible for these animals. Phabeni had his absolute best chance with you, and anybody who says otherwise is deeply confused. We love you very much.

[@trk8908]

I have always admired the dedication of everyone at HERD. It was very apparent with Phabeni - red apples, green apples, all the different formulas, vet visits, love and cuddles, etc. Some souls are not meant to be on the planet for long and it seems that was his fate.

[@ziggymarlowe5654]

I never had a doubt that everyone at HERD did everything humanly possible to bring Phabeni through his last travail. The love you all of you had for Phabeni was evident and you gave him the best possible chance that anyone could have. A loss such as Phabeni's sometimes have no clear answers, this happens with all animals and humans. My heart aches for Adine and all the carers at the losses you've endured in the past few months. Do not worry about questions from anyone not there to care for Phabeni, as you were 24/7, you are the experts on the care and wellbeing of elephants, reaching out to other experts in this endeavor. Phabeni had excellent care, that is tribute to HERD, You gave him a new home and ellie family. Many share your grief and shed tears with you. Bless you all.

[@susanfeneley]

@ziggymarlowe5654 💯 CORRECT!

[@silviacristinafalcone3406]

Good morning from Brazil. You've done such an amazing work with little Phabeni. Thanks for all your love ❤❤❤ I'm still crying 💔💔💔

[@fmtoll]

It has been very evident to us that Phabeni had love, excellent care, and so much more in his short life there at HERD. The love all of you give to these elephants is so wonderful to watch.

[@nannygranny9534]

Dear Adine and carers, Do not second guess yourselves. You made decisions based on the best information possible. I would trust you completely with my life or the lives if my precious animal friends. Please, be kind to yourselves. You work so hard. As I have learned, sometimes it just is not meant to be.❤

[@susanfeneley]

@nannygranny9534 Beautiful comments! And, so true.

[@voiciray]

So true, gran. The mission is what counts not the unqualified, discordant voices that add nothing of value.

[@susanfeneley]

@@voiciray Amen to that! Isn't that called "Monday morning quarterbacking?"

[@kendalltaylor7009]

We know how hard everyone at HERD works for the elephants and how deeply you all care about them. Take care of yourselves as you work through your grief and know that we are all here for you.

[@JOY-wx6fz]

Thank you for giving all your love to the elephants and us ❤️❤️❤️

[@sf9145]

No one does any better than you all at Herd. It is very clear that you all give the best of care. They come to you in deep trauma and whether they make it or not, they will not get any better care or more love from any other place. And that counts for everything. Please don't feel bad over the loss of Phabeni. Phabeni died surrounded in love and not out in the bush alone.

[@lucycarin]

Please know we here abroad pray for your well being, for your stamina and thank you for your hearts to care…..🌹

[@darcie_hwb8672]

The strength it took to make this video can be felt in every word and tear that fell during the telling. You have my greatest respect for the work you do, my deepest sympathy for our loss, and my continued support for growth, learning and future success stories. May we all be as humble, caring and dedicated as all of you at HERD. Thank you.

[@carolclarke8163]

darcie_hwb8672 KUDOS Very well said! 💯 👍💕 💞 ♥️

[@ShedaKhan-m8x]

Beautifully put.

[@dowth3]

Well said

[@Ronne-s8o]

To everyone at HERD, thank you for this video . I can see the toll it took on you, Adine, to make it. In fact I cried along with you as many of your followers probably did also. I still can't believe the little bull is gone. He brought so much joy and laughter to those of us who follow you regularly. There was not one second that I thought you didn't move heaven and earth to save his life. I can see how much you are still grieving for Phabeni and the carer you lost so suddenly. That was a one. two punch on the gut. I wanted to have a piece of Phabeni in my home do I ordered a picture for my wall in my bedroom of Phabeni and Khanysia together. I also ordered a mug with Setombe, Klaserie and Phabeni together. I also have items with Fenya on them as well. One last thing, after Phabeni passed away, I had a dream he came to play with me. I loved him dearly and miss him, but I will have momentoes of him and eventually I will be able to smile when I think of him.❤

[@rocioaguilera3555]

You're right. I cried too 😢

[@phoenixps]

Same, I was crying with Adine. We could all see the pain in her eyes. I could feel that intense pain in her voice too💔💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭 Even Pisa could feel💔😭

[@avs6372]

Yes.

[@BlackSwan-qj8qs]

I never doubted you were doing everything possible to save Phabeni.

[@heidimueller1039]

I loved watching Phabeni. I couldn’t believe how devastated I felt about his loss. I actually screamed out loud. I’m so sorry and so sad. My deepest condolences to you and your team.

[@kathyperl3618]

Adine thank you so much for this very difficult episode .Most of us know that you,the carers,the vet in fact the whole team did your best looking after Phabeni.We love you and mourn with you❤❤❤

[@elaine7474]

Awww, God bless you. You're doing what you are meant to do.

[@nitasnook519]

I love to watch how delicately Khanisya is rooting out those sweet roots!

[@Michelle-f5x]

You are a wonderfully compassionate care giver. You are loved and appreciated Adine! You did all you could to save Phabeni! Then losing Kenneth had to be very difficult also. I am crying with you and praying for your peace. God bless you and all your care givers and elephants. I love all of you!

[@kathleenjordan9404]

Don’t you question one effort of your love and care for these gentle giants Adine. You all did your BEST! Our pain in loss of those we love, human or animal, is heartwrenching and only time can heal. My heart and prayers AND tears are with you and all at HERD for the recent losses you have endured.🧡🙏🏻🐘🥹 Alaska 🇺🇸

[@r.k.2823]

The entire team did all they could to help and save Phabeni. You loved him as well as we all did. I know you all still hurt, but please know we all revere the work you did to help that baby get as far as he did.

[@Rosh-l7v]

Dear Adine. We trust your love and care for the elephants in your care. Please relax and take care. Cant see you crying..sorry. Sending lots of love to all of you from India. Phabeni ❤ love you always.

[@martydornbos643]

Hey, to hell with people saying hurtful things. We all know that you work tirelessly to save these babies. Adine and carers, no guilt ever. You can't fix stupid. You keep doing what your doing. We all love you around the world. Just can't fix stupid what some people say.❤

[@susanfeneley]

@martydornbos643 Amen...your comments are right on the money!!

[@Myn6211]

One thing I know above all else, Phabeni knew he was loved. He did not die alone, he was surrounded by both elephant and human love. No stone was left unturned to help him survive. Life is a precious gift and no one can predict how long that gift will last. Phabeni was a wonderful gift to all of us and although his life was short, he made a huge impact on all our hearts, especially Setombe's. He also has helped all who will come after because of the knowledge Adine and the other human members of HERD have accrued from this very difficult and heartbreaking situation.

[@EXTRIYAN]

I can't even hear his beautiful name without being moved to tears, from Ireland I can't believe that our beloved Phabeny is no longer on this plane 😢. Always grateful to him and to all of you for everything. LOVE ❤

[@dowth3]

Same

[@EXTRIYAN]

@@dowth3 He's stronger than me, I can't help it, that little guy made himself loved a lot. Just like little Khanisa 🤍

[@dowth3]

@@EXTRIYAN ... and they both deserve all that love!

[@jeanwalker8276]

Thinking of you all at HERD at this time,sending you lots of love hugs and many blessings.you all do an amazing job caring for these fabulous ellies,I love all of you. Take care.❤❤❤❤🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🐘🐘🐘🐘🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@jkkuytg7381]

Adine, I couldn't hold back my tears seeing your sharing your grief on little Phabeni's passing. Take comfort. Life is not ended but changed. God bless you for your unstinted love and care you extended to our little Phabeni. Admiration for all at the HERD in South Africa

[@jonimestas9692]

Yes Adine and HERD staff. I want to come back as baby Phabeni our precious tiny bull elephant. He wanted red apples he got red apples. He wanted green apples he got green apples. He waited for you to pull the leaves off the branches to feed to him. He is loved. He will always be with us. He brought so much calm peace and joy to his HERD and us mere humans. We are blessed to have you and HERD staff and the magnificent ellies in our daily lives. Thank you 🙏

[@stephanieleonard6651]

The pain in your voice, the tears in your eyes broke my heart once again. Phabeni brought joy to the world and we were privileged to be a part of it. Adine, you and the entire team at HERD do the work of angels. You did all you could to care for Phabeni and to give him love. To suggest otherwise is unthinkable. Be kind to yourself. I love the orchid you bought for Phabeni. May it grow and thrive to bring beauty and joy to your world. ❤

[@melissapeyton3084]

Sweet Adine, anyone who watches these videos can easily see the love you have for these elephants and the love they have for you. There is no way in your beautiful heart that you could have ever given up trying to save Phabeni. That goes for the orphans you have lost in the past as well. My heart goes out to you and the carers who are having to personally grieve losing him. If i cried the way i did from just following his videos then i cant imagine being in your place. I still have trouble watching his adorable little videos. We love you and the carers and all the elephants and animals at HERD.

[@DToschi415]

Adine and Carers YOU ALL DID THE BEST YOU COULD DO!!! We know Phabeni is/was loved!

[@everettharris967]

Adine and HERD staff - people with a heart know you gave everything to Phabeni's care. The people criticizing and second guessing you are simply ghouls and I hope you pay them no mind. I hope you all find peace during this difficult time.

[@HazelHammond1505]

You and all the workers there at HERD did every thing to help him. You did nothing wrong!! do NOT let anyone Tell you different!! I remember the next day you told us why you didn't give Phabeni to the herd . Due to not wanting the Herd to think you and others hurt him. It never crossed my mind that you and all the people weren't trying everything to help/save him.

[@avs6372]

Yes, they explained most of this within 24hrs.

[@audreybunyan1493]

I think we all know that anything that could have been done was done for little Phabeni . You all went above and beyond for him. It just shows us how precarious the lives of these babies can be and no two are ever the same. It must be very difficult to work out the exact needs of each individual baby. They are all so precious. ❤❤❤❤

[@deeT02]

I don't know who questioned or criticized you, but they should be ashamed!! No need to apologize. Everyone loved Phabeni, especially Herd. You did everything you could. Sometimes just like with human babies,we dont get an answer. Much love to all of you, and the herd.❤

[@silviacristinafalcone3406]

Now he's a little angel and he's looking for all his family,

[@mortalclown3812]

They found him as soon as he crossed over. ❤

[@dalestoner2928]

Greatest thing you done was give Phabeni a new Family.

[@HEWholoves-w1d]

Agreed ❤❤❤

[@susanfeneley]

@dalestoner2928 ABSOLUTELY 💯% 🐘👍🕊💞🇺🇸

[@dowth3]

I totally love HERD's motto: Every elephant needs a herd! Brilliant because it's TRUE. We saw it everytime that darling wee bull ran to Setombe with his ears flapping and his joyful trunk swinging!

[@susanfeneley]

@@dowth3 Couldn't have said it better!! Brilliant!

[@dowth3]

@@susanfeneley Isn't that such a joyful image to remember him by? It warms my heart for the beauty that is RELATIONSHIP.

[@lisag4755]

I know you all tried everything with phabeni. I can’t imagine how you and our lovely carers feel. I remember when khanyisa wasn’t doing well in the beginning. Look at her now. My heart is with you all. Thank you for everything you do.

[@anettetruter8863]

Yes, Khanyisa is a success and a source of comfort. Look how quickly that future to be Matriach grew up! The day she offered her nipple to Phabeni, the first time, is still so vivid in my memory!

[@bridgetsclama]

Some people don't realize that ALL babies, all species, are fragile. Sometimes they just die and nobody but nature is responsible. I have no doubt that you all did everything you could to save him.

[@pickletoes6755]

I’m sad to hear that persons have doubted your commitment to your herd. I know you all work tirelessly and with the greatest commitment to them! I have so much gratitude for the care of these precious beings you all are so committed to giving all you can! Thank you❣️

[@loraineriddell7157]

To anyone out there who voiced their "professional" opinions on how to raise an orphaned baby elephant, SHAME ON YOU!!! I'd like to see you try. To everyone at Herd, you certainly have my trust and respect ❤.

[@Clodi19]

sorry I have been a scientific in French CNRS and INSERM ! really sorry it was my profession !! but as said Platon : no one is more hated than the one who tells the truth !! I am living with the truth ! only the truth !

[@loraineriddell7157]

@@Clodi19 Are you sure your nom de plume shouldn't be "Clot" instead of Clod?

[@mopsolina]

Blessings to every human and elephant member of the HERD.

[@grannyvee5789]

You should never doubt that you did everything you could for your precious baby. If someone is criticizing you, they should be ashamed. They’re not there taking care of the elephants every day. Bless you for everything you do and ignore people who are criticizing you.

[@AnaMaria4098]

Thank you....really feeling the deep grief of your loss from afar and appreciate how difficult it is to talk about Phabeni at this time. Your care for these elephants is a tremendous labor of love that shows us what dedication and sacrifice looks like. Much love to you Adine and everyone at HERD.❤❤❤

[@seycas118]

No questions, just a heartfelt comment: THANK YOU TO ALL 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤ Thank you to all at HERD for the patient and loving care darling boy Phabeni received ... from Adine, to all the Carers, Lammie, Spotty and the other companion animals - to the wonderful ellies who embraced him in all his sweet feistiness 🐘❤❤ Phabeni left a strong mark on everyone, his endearing nature and spirit will live on at HERD and inspire us all ... thank you and God bless you all for all you do 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤

[@susanfeneley]

@seycas118 AMEN to that...a hundred times over.

[@MrBarney03]

Adine & Owen….this video was heart-wrenching and must have been so difficult to make. Anyone in the world who has followed your journey, even for one day, sees the love and dedication that you all at herd have for these magnificent elephants. There will be always questions as to why certain things happen and, yes, it’s human nature to try to learn and prevent it from happening again. Knowledge is a wonderful and useful thing. However, Nature, sometimes, has a harsh way of reminding us that we’re not always the one in charge. Little Phabeni taught us all, that very lesson. He was probably here for much longer than maybe he was supposed to be, thanks to all of your knowledge and nurturing. But in his short time here ,he was happy and surrounded by not only his own kind but by so many others, who loved and cared for him until nature told him his work here was done. And oh, what a wonderful job he did!

[@dianeaytac]

Today we heard, we felt, and we witnessed your pain. Thank you HERD for caring. Your dedication is appreciated. Little Hero Phabeni, forever in our hearts 💕

[@danielleshay1972]

Adine, it breaks my heart to see you cry. You did the best you can with our Phabeni. It's not your fault at all. I do wish the herd saw him before he was buried but I understand why. I bought a beautiful little tote bag with an elephant on it and I wrote Phabenis name inside and his birth years and death. I'll never forget him. Sending you all much love and thank you for letting us participate in their lives.

[@vblackwell3347]

Adine is working through HER tremendous grief! Hopefully, though heartbreaking to see, may give her a degree of relief. As heartbroken as we are, it's not comparable to what all if them are going through. 🤥

[@danielleshay1972]

@@vblackwell3347 I feel so sad for them. They must be wondering where he is and what happened to him. Do you think they know? Poor babies. I love them all so much. Again, thank you for all you did for Phabeni. He was a happy baby and the last months of his life were so happy. Thank you all.

[@vblackwell3347]

@danielleshay1972 HI, D. Yes, I think, sincerely, that they know. Ellies are very intuitive. They sensed that he wasn't well. Then they didn't see him. They know the entire stack is grieving about something & the ellies were themselves mourning a couple wks ago. They know. I'm going to try to avoid getting vested in another baby rescue. It's too hard! Remember poor lil Fenya?

[@kathleenwood7713]

I just would like to give thanks for trying to save this baby, you gave him a chance that when he was alone he never would have gotten. ❤❤

[@happycamper5846]

I can't imagine how painful it is to raise and lose baby elephants. You mentioned Sheldrick Trust and even they, with all their experience lost babies. But the fact that you and they and other rescue groups still forage ahead and do everything you can to give these beautiful orphans a second chance is simply amazing and awesome. It must be heartbreaking when you lose one, but then you look at Khanyisa and all the damage that poor baby had and most might have given up on her, and yet there she is, living with her new family and looking happy and healthy. It takes a special kind of person to keep going through this and you have no need to feel like you need to explain to anyone what happened. Yes we are concerned and miss Phabeni and the others, but I"m sure we all know you did the very best you could and no one could ask for more. Bless you and I wish you strength to carry on with your goal.

[@susanfeneley]

@happycamper5846 BEAUTIFUL!!

[@annjacobs1963]

I think you and Owen and all the carers are wonderful people.My heart goes out to you. Bless you all.

[@eddybarker5072]

All of us that followed Phabeni miss him so much! We learned so much about this beautiful animal and how caring they are of one another! Thank you all for caring so much for Phabeni in trying to nurse him back to health. In his short life he was able to change many lives!

[@ladyjustice1474]

You gave Phabeni the best life and did everything you could to give Phabeni a fighting chance. We are all blessed to have known him through your videos. Thank you for sharing him and the herd with us.

[@Nietzsky]

What can I say? I still love you all. I believe in you all.

[@Courtney409]

Adine, you guys did what you could for Pabeni and continue to dedicate yourself to the Herd. Such outstanding work. God Bless you all.

[@patranney1561]

The whole staff and yourself worked tirelessly and showed great love for Phabeni. Don’t let people who can’t understand that reality of life is not a Disney movie.

[@lunalupus63]

Thank you, Adine and Owen, for taking the time to make this video. It's clear to see it wasn't easy for you to do. It still hurts my heart when I think of precious little Phabeni; how much harder it must be for you. Honestly, there's no need for you to apologise about anything, it is so very obvious how much care and careful attention you put into looking after every member of this dear Herd. Please take care of yourselves as you grieve, and know you did everything you could and then some for the little sweetheart 🙏❤🐘❤

[@Oswaldfiveo]

You are healing all of us. Your care and love for dear Phabeni touches everyone. Bless you all at HERD! 🩵🪷✌️🐘🐘🐘🐘