Your Social Skills Suck & You Can't Speak To Women - Here's Why

[@Gurshwakeup]

Bang on Kris. I actively improved my social skills by improving my speech and practising on my own an hour daily for 3 months. A lot of people aren't actually socially awkward they're just not accustomed to saying the sentences that would make for a good conversation. Certain words put together feel a little odd for them to say because they havent said it enough times before. So they avoid certain social interactions further perpetuating the problem. Speech is a muscle you have to train and I would advise people to practise in there own time by reading aloud or talking to themselves when driving. Sound's weird but it worked for me.

[@joeystarr4746]

How did you practice? What did you do?

[@Gurshwakeup]

@joeystarr4746 read fiction books out loud in a private area where you're not disturbing anyone. I practised in my car usually after work and before gym. You want to really engage with the different characters in the book when you say there lines and train yourself to speak at different volumes cadences and with different inflections in your voice. Be creative with how you speak and be mindful of how you sound. Try this for a week one hour daily and I promise you you'll start to hear changes in your voice in day to day interactions and you'll be motivated to continue practising until you become a high level speaker.

[@Gurshwakeup]

@RandomFactVolt my current endeavour is copywriting so I'm speaking to strangers quite often. I'm not a part of any online communities, they can be great but I don't have any issues with holding myself accountable. That sounds interesting bro wish you all the best with that and yeah it'll definitely help you become a better speaker. It all just comes down to volume, there's a reason why Hollywood actors speak more professionally and with more resonance than the average person, its because they're constantly rehearsing lines and playing with there voice. Anyone can get to that level.

[@ibrahimtarek7911]

This is pretty good but come on guys the real way to get good at this is just going outside and talking to people. It’s like jumping in a swimming pool and learning how to swim. You gotta do the hard thing if you wanna learn it.

[@AnmolCore]

Actually,it's just talking to yourself loudly.

[@mcallistermuseum2]

I think it’s kinda funny how the winter arc is becoming popular recently but it’s basically what you’ve been talking about for years about grinding in September

[@1STMAN]

😂😂😂🙏🏻 thank you, I’ve tried to tell people close to me and they thought I was full of it

[@pey10bogvkuehl29]

@@1STMANPeople do not want to believe how many trends and ideas are just rebrands of something you’ve already come up with and made public.🤣

[@HealthmaxxingGermany]

self improvement september

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Shifting focus from fear of rejection to simply enjoying the moment can make a world of difference. Building rapport is key, and this video nails the essentials!*

[@romainauberon9870]

Just be yourself around women, and keep your calm if things don't go as planned. First impression is really important, so you should check out 'First date playbook: A step by step guide to a great start'. It should help you to understand how women think, and you will have examples on how to behave in any given situation. But the most important thing is to be yourself, and be honest with your intentions.

[@NB7productions]

I agree, I think charisma is the most important skill for us. Good looking is not the end all be all cuz women are still passive af.

[@keeepinita1000]

As someone who used to be "introverted" in the past, I now cannot fathom how people like that isolated lifestyle. Being social is literally the key to happiness.

[@v2xerxes580]

😂 go try to be social in a migrant gettho like UK become... isolation is survival there

[@StevenCodeCraft]

People isolate themselves because they likely don’t have the money to live the life they want. So better to stay in, learn new skills, focus on an online business. Otherwise you’ll be stuck at a job you hate forever. Kris said to work on weekends. It paid off for him in his 30s

[@Ethyro]

Same facts it’s a made up term no one wants to be introverted

[@rockyblumble]

It‘s hard to cultivate quality friendships and relationships, it‘s a lot easier to stay in and tell yourself that you „enjoy being alone“. I‘m sure some people are actual introverts, but I think many people aren‘t and just tell themselves that to feel better about their crap social lives

[@keeepinita1000]

@rockyblumble Exactly, they'd rather make excuses than face the uncomfortable reality.

[@ColinBK]

I love chatting people up, I’m at college and have infinite opportunities to interact with students, dining hall staff, bus drivers… makes me laugh how half of us are AirPods in, head down. Hope some of my peers see this video, I sleep better at night after I’ve actually interacted with people that day. Keeps life fun.

[@MoAdan28]

Same

[@passionatechristianworker]

if you aren't attractive and autistic women would think ur creepy

[@fungusz_4292]

Real asf

[@leo_osbv]

One of your best Kris and the timing of the release was perfect for me. Thanks for this one!

[@SebastianFox1]

I started to do Marathon mindset that Kris teaches in his online skool community and it is soooo good for confidence and fulfilment, fun conversations with people

[@patrikmunzar]

Love your videos, Kris. The most valuable KZbin channel.

[@LorenzoBertotti]

Very interesting take, definitely gonna take action. As a 16yo this channel and Modern Wisdom are absolutely life changing

[@achilleus606]

real bro

[@alexgratzaTV]

I agree. Imagine working from home, eating Uber eats etc. you become a social cripple.

[@PhongĐoànCarmelia]

this video literally came in the perfect moment in my life, love you

[@glugger3479]

The disconnected goatee with the stubble is a very strong look for you imo!

[@IgorBuszta]

Looking fresh, Kris

[@1STMAN]

Thanks Igor

[@gwaber2856]

you getting better at thumbnails design.

[@1STMAN]

Thanks man. Doing it myself atm, I’ll get someone else to do them soon

[@NB7productions]

@@1STMAN Fr

[@Ethyro]

I noticed when you don’t talk your vocal muscles weaken and your voice doesn’t last. It also becomes softer with less resonance and profoundness.

[@Ethyro]

Especially if you haven’t screamed or shouted in a while

[@DDDD-m7r]

We need a male advantage journey on Roman Reigns. He's had one of the biggest glow-ups in recent memory in every way - physically, facially, personally and professionally: -from a cancer patient to a surviving hero -from a great looking guy to an absolute Chad -from in very good shape to Greek god -from a hated good guy to a loved bad guy

[@softsignals5787]

high chances its fake bcz its a character

[@mkt106]

I was thinking the same, dudes got hollow cheeks now and everything

[@Mikamichae]

Who watching male advantage videos are gonna relate to a guy who started off as "great looking", and "very good shape" Most people watching this are average men

[@cdismvz]

Kris really out here makin life look easy 🙌🏾

[@MOTHUG786]

Kris, I've ordered some of your supplements, but nothing has come through the post yet

[@ernest4520]

been very good looking kinda forces you to isolate as most people hate on you 24/7 so some of us do so by choice but i do understand the message and its totally true

[@ManDa-c9f]

i only realised this recently... when i was 32... ive been isolating my whole life, never talked to a girl, as boys just seemed to hate me so much! FFS.... what do i do man.... have i just missed out on everything... i know male advantage maybe, but

[@ChuHongLien]

good video yet again, thank you love ❤️

[@WillyWanka]

This is so funny. I work from home. While I have 20 employees I rarely speak to them let alone see them. I just do not talk that much. One place I have managed to practise talking is sending voice notes on dating apps. It is a very easy one to get your practise in.

[@LivingInSweden99]

Voice notes on dating apps? Sound weird

[@RoadToTheMaleAdvantage]

Disappointed to see an end to the car videos. There's a real sense of authenticity to them

[@1STMAN]

Mclaren car videos in London to follow!

[@tankthepitbull520]

Everyone should aim to become as competent as Trump at giving speeches.

[@wanderingdoc5075]

Speak for yourself, Kris. Never had any issues attracting and retaining the women I want.

[@ricardomilos10]

any good book that can help?

[@Koozwad]

what really fixed my social life is semen retention

[@Hipsey_Nussle]

How? Would you please explain it to me bro

[@Koozwad]

@@Hipsey_Nussle Have you tried it for 3+ weeks?

[@JK-nj3bt]

I wish SR was easier

[@Koozwad]

@@JK-nj3bt Indeed, sadly the 'powers' that shouldn't be know all too well that our ultimate primal goal/need in life is to procreate, and thus the pr0n industry was born. It's all about manipulating the men into becoming lesser versions(sometimes just a shell) of their real self. The mind and body get tricked into thinking they are passing on their seed. If I go into too much detail it will likely get censored again by YT like my last reply which is now gone.

[@Jimmybingoes]

@@Hipsey_Nussleu get less social anxiety and feel the need to socialize more and be around people . U feel better about yourself and your confidence radiates

[@Speed3mon.]

Can’t find that book anywhere Chris a link would be nice good to you vs good for you.

[@1STMAN]

Maybe amazon as an ebook. Not sure it exists anymore

[@deciduousdiscipline9592]

Awesome. Thanks

[@markopezic6085]

Kris you'd get a culture shock if you ever visit Japan

[@nbayern7000]

When is the cheapest time to go from America?

[@wanderingdoc5075]

I've been twelve times to Japan since 2012. It's changed. You need 3 months in Japan to truly explore it all.

[@yashvashisht1805]

0:53- Hahaha.

[@connorunited8017]

Big up going to leon🤣🤣

[@1bbyte97]

The sigma inside me is coming

[@dankshiz69]

Just wait 9 months after and there you go.🎉

[@seantapia772]

*cumming

[@Ethyro]

3:28 😂😂

[@jaychqpr97]

How did your lawsuit against memulous go?

[@1STMAN]

He emailed me crying and never made a video again. So I won

[@jaychqpr97]

@@1STMAN cap

[@Ethyro]

You remind me so much of my dad

[@prashantdalal9887]

Love from India bro...❤❤

[@person1113]

My brain is solely focused on seeking valuable information. I have no issue chatting to people when I know I will obtain valuable information from them, man or women. However "chatting up" women, or flirting with women has always been a nuisance for me. I feel like I have to "dumb myself down" or speak about low-brow topics or speak "indirectly" with low-brow barbs, quips etc. Its like I have to put on a character and dance on a pinhead to "Entertain" them. This repulses me. I have never seen my father converse with my mother outside of commands, "prepare this meal, be ready by 5pm, etc". So chatting up women for the sake of chatting them up has never ever made sense to me. Women are child like, do you enjoy conversing with children for extended periods of time? I dont. I pat them on the head and keep it moving. When I go on dates I usually just be authentic and tell women "my story" which I know they like and I can see them tingling. But when it comes to "keeping it light" and talking about low-brow garbage of the day, I just dont care to participate and I think women categorize me as "boring" or "dull". Bring up science, technology, buisness, fitenss, politics and we can talk for HOURS. Low-brow garbage like the show a women is currently watchign on Netflix - gIve me a break. I would be glad to take any advice from the gentlemen who understand what I'm saying and possibly reframe my mindset.

[@pey10bogvkuehl29]

While it’s important you’re focused on sophisticated topics and you’re constantly wanting to gain useful information, it doesn’t hurt to be well versed in a variety of topics. Even the “low-brow” and “garbage” it just makes you a more sociable and versatile person. No need to reframe your entire mindset, it’s just going to take that much longer to find the people who you genuinely get on with. You know it’s worth the wait though.

[@underratedarafath8362]

Bro is litrally him

[@Hipsey_Nussle]

Why did you stop uploading on spotify bro?

[@ekactive1]

Kris, What can we expect to see from 1M in 2025?!

[@1STMAN]

Well… Podcast/show New house in London Mclaren potentially Vlogs Challenges High production videos with videographer Full clothing line 12 new 1M International locations I genuinely think we’re taking over the industry in 2025. I’ve hired a full team and we’re ready to go

[@animal79thecat]

More grifting

[@ekactive1]

@@animal79thecat how lol

[@1STMAN]

@@animal79thecat😢

[@cdismvz]

Male advantage paper back in stock??

[@manvendrarathore5396]

Thumbnail : ISOLOTION????

[@domelder984]

The jacket looks too small for you :/

[@1STMAN]

It might be now, bought it as a medium years ago. Might do a give away if you’re interested

[@domelder984]

@@1STMAN I mean it's a cool jacket :D Of course I'd be interested

[@Educationcenter28]

Skin care plz

[@1STMAN]

Did a full routine on Skool on a live call

[@alexmarques2398]

Moustache and that jacket will just look weirder as you age. Especially the jacket to me seems trying too hard, "I'am cool", or a rockstar from Mexico... Buy a watch. Then you can tell the time and the afluence more subtly and elegantly. 😎 Trolling apart, cool videos latelly. 👍

[@Cobra21245]

I honestly can't name one Mexican rockstar, weird comment tbh

[@defeatisfinal]

1stman still out here scamming Lol

[@NB7productions]

Don't have to follow his channel, how about keep it moving

[@SmajorX]

Why does bro look 23

[@1STMAN]

Haha healthy routine, skincare and low body fat

[@softsignals5787]

Am I the only one who thinks Kris would look better with just mustache or French cut look

[@alexgratzaTV]

I agree, just stubble everywhere and then a strong mustache.

[@interesting2491]

He needs to fake a French accent for years until it’s natural 🇫🇷 🥐

[@KimTấtBanh]

its hard to put into words, but the book Magnetic Aura from Talesio completely changed my life and it's not new age bs

[@nguyentrinhtOQ]

if you're seeing this comment, it might be a sign to read 'Magnetic Aura' from Talesio ❤️