The Scariest Moment of our Lives | Episode 2

One year ago, Zach had a health scare that rocked our world. ER visits, what seemed like a never-ending search for answers, and missed moments with our newborn… this is Raising Heights with Zach and Tori Roloff. This week we’re talking about an experience we all hope never happens again.
Listen in to hear about:
🚑 How Zach almost died last year
🚑 Coping with hospital stays, hard questions from the kids and exploratory brain surgery
🚑 The importance of being an advocate for those you love
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[@pattysommers3566]

I love how well you and Zach communicate. You can feel the love between you two. Amy is a superstar.

[@Myeverydaywifelife]

Love that you left in the part where the kids interrupted you! Real life!

[@kalyngibson2206]

Episode idea: An all things marriage episode! Conflict resolution, date nights, struggles, wins, communication, intimacy with kids, etc. Congrats on your podcast launch and enjoy the ride. Excited for you!

[@viccimauldin9786]

That will take a lot of episodes.

[@lorraine-bluebrit2242]

It is so nice to see a couple talk together and remember different scenarios and discuss them and talk them through. You are such a refreshing couple..

[@rebekkalc]

Looking forward to this podcast series and hearing stories from your perspectives with no tlc editting! Long time LPBW fan🙂

[@marielinejuillard9495]

❤

[@SuwanneeStation]

So true.

[@Spreadkindess]

❤

[@fatgrandmafinds]

I'm so, so, so grateful Zach didn't suffer any brain damage while the shunt wasn't working properly. My father had adult onset hydrocephalus that went undiagnosed for a few years and then after the first shunt surgery the doctor didn't stay on top of things so my father had even more fluid build-up and by the time we finally got another neuro surgeon to step in it was too late and too much damage had been done. My father was in hospice for nearly 2 years before he passed and couldn't communicate at all the final six months of his life. My biggest takeaway from all of it was make sure the doctors listen to you and your symptoms and if they don't, find another doctor. The doctors who act like they know everything are the ones who are the least capable. The doctors who are open to new ideas and new ways of treating things will look for solutions.

[@viccimauldin9786]

So glad Zack made it through. Amy would drop everything to help her kids. She is a one of a kind woman. Thank you for sharing your story and your true feelings. Of course it was a very scary incident in yours lives. Zack, ignore the internet. They do not live your life. And Tori, you are great at ignoring them. People, this could be your story some day. 💗

[@user-zw4sh6jl9j]

Yea, but he needs to tell it as well. She need to let him talk.

[@ocg-tax817]

It's gonna take time for them to work things out. I feel like they're both a little nervous. I think when Tory re-watches these, she'll realize that she keeps cutting Zach off when he's talking. It takes a lot of retraining in order to correct habits.

[@ninajustice9535]

When I seen Raising Heights Zach and Tori Roloff pop up in my youtube viewers to watch, I clicked so darn fast "SUBSCRIBE" 🤣🤣 I'm so glad this is only episode 2 so I didn't miss out and have to play catch up, I just love these two and the babies.

[@annethomer9569]

Your both great people and your support cute together and your a great dad and mom.

[@jennifertaylor2621]

You both are great parents. You challenge them but you also show them love. Your children are adorable!!

[@cynthiamantzouranis7134]

Loved the moment with the kiddos, real family moment. You are so relatable.

[@marjoriemclean7640]

Amen!

[@TheeMakennakaylaa]

I actually love getting to see you guys outside of the show and speak about things that brought you guys together ❤️

[@marymcdonald6167]

I love how your conversations flow so easily. Wish for everything to blossom for you both!

[@arrants6254]

My daughter is 5 and has hydrocephalus and a shunt. We've been through 3 revisions. I'm so sorry you went through this. Definitely keep up with your neurosurgeon. Think of your kiddos and don't risk it. Glad you're feeling better now ❤

[@karenedmonson421]

Please keep your follow up appointments with your neurologist. You have a wonderful family that love and need you daily. Love your new podcast and have been following the show since the beginning ❤

[@jaynelander3121]

You guys are such a beautiful couple, I could listen to you both all day. I love the way that you're not trying to shove things down our throat, we just get to meet the real Zach and Tori. love you guys 🙂

[@laurie7604]

My nephew has hydrocephalus since birth, 3 shunts and over 74 surgeries. He is in his 40's and is normal height. He has had many shunt revisions over the years and I've seen him in excruciating pain. Even from a young age, he knew what was a "hospital headache". His Mom, like Amy is his greatest advocate, God Bless your family, Tori and Zach ❤

[@marisagraham523]

I’m absolutely loving this more intimate series with you two! Been a fan since day one! Love the your dynamic and humor! Keep em coming:) “roloffs don’t show emotion” lol! Thank you for this gift .

[@elizabethcammer3485]

One issue I wanted to bring up , as an OBYN nurse, I really felt your pain when you lost your baby. I have dealt with many patients during their loss, and during your episode regarding losing your baby, I believe that there are many women who can share their experiences with you. It is not bringing up a personal story, but, sharing the love, you and Zach have during a difficult period of grief, many women have experienced.

[@splchicago4636]

So glad Zach is good now! Also, I loved it when the kiddos interrupted 😊. It would be so great to see them for a little bit during the podcasts sometimes.❤

[@staceyroberts3468]

I agree. I love listening to their kids. They r so darn cute!!!!

[@bmarshall9118]

For insurance, always call on those denials, request appeals and to speak with an advocate. Tell them you are filing a complaint with insurance commissioner, etc. they will usually take another look and pay..

[@iseetheworldbywaywardsolez3146]

As a migraine sufferer myself, we sure do loose a lot of family time, it just seems to take over.

[@rachalmcintyre7413]

same here and it really annoys me when people say I am lazy or I should just push through it. With Tori's comment about a deadbeat Dad make me wonder if she has ever had migraines as she wouldn't even say ANYTHING like that. They are debilitating as when your head is involved it is hard. At least if you have a sore arm etc, you can concentrate. My husband rolls his eyes as have no compassion at all. I sometimes wish he would get one then he would understand. My record is 14 days w/o relief.

[@Annie-773]

I'm as bad as Zach. I have epilepsy & always refuse to go to the hospital. During covid I had my last huge seizure & broke my neck in my own house. Woke up with paramedics in my face, confused & told them no hospital I'm fine. The next day I woke up still in pain & walked into the er. The Dr.s scanned me, came back in the room & told me I broke the front & back of my neck. C1 vertebrae which connects your head to your body. I was speechless & just looked at them confused. The dr. told me it's a miracle I'm alive. They had to rush me to a hospital with a Neuro Surgeon & it was over an hour away. When they told me I'm lucky I said no, I'm blessed. God has a plan for me & I think it's to spread awareness about epilepsy. Invisible illnesses are the hardest to deal with. Many jobs I can't do because of my epilepsy but now it's worse with my neck. No one sees any of it. It's tough.

[@chessyharris6200]

Tori, you and Zack are such an inspiration. I love how you two can talk about such a serious situation but find a little humor in it. Sharing this will help and encourage others. ❤ Zack, I'm very happy you are feeling better.

[@maryajack]

I was very interested hearing of your experience. I had a shunt placement in 2021 at age 50. Many factors led to this but hearing what you went through really hit home with me. I'm fortunate to have a fantastic neurosurgeon here in Maine on my case. I do fear the time I may need a revision. Yes, it definitely is brain surgery, even my neurosurgeon said it's a common procedure but it's still brain surgery. Glad you are feeling better Zach.

[@pamswafford9994]

Really love your podcast. It’s nice to listen to another Christian believers family. You are a precious family❤❤❤

[@kerrybreezy701]

My father had a shunt that would stop working all the time. It was so upsetting. Glad your feeling better

[@amykolstee5212]

Praise God you made it through all of this! Your are truly a beautiful family, inside and out!

[@00clgordon]

Amy is a rockstar! You are both lucky to have her! ❤

[@kdizzle081]

What a beautiful couple ! So real and relatable

[@Ericaobviouslyx3]

You two remind me of the way my husband and I handle my kids when they interrupt. I explain more of why they can’t and choices they can do. And my husband is just like “okay go do this” 😂

[@rachelgale2417]

I remember seeing this on your socials.... That is so terrifying and I cant event imagine how Tori, you must have felt seeing your love go through that :( My fiancé is dealing with a few health issues right now and I find myself being an anxious mess....I would much rather myself be in his position.... ugh, SO hard. ~ I would love for you guys to share more about your day to day lives & maybe bring the kids on for interviews! Those videos are always hilarious because kids say the craziest things hahah Thanks for sharing this story and I look forward to next episode already!!!

[@darksarcasm4835]

Thank you for the video! I love to see and hear about y’all. Keep us updated on Lila’s soccer progress. I’d love to know what you do to have time together, and still care for three children. Maybe talk about any improvements that y’all have made on your property. It’s so good to see how well y’all are doing. ❤❤❤ I’ll see ya’ll next Thursday.

[@user-cq4vb5ee5b]

Tori allow Zack finish a sentence. Other then that love the podcast.

[@marciamills2900]

Wow 😯 thanks for sharing such a personal story. I have been going through something for years that I finally have answers to. I totally understand. So happy for you and your family that you now have relief❤

[@MomPita]

God bless you both and your sweet children!

[@cookingwithvicki9292]

so happy to see you both doing podcasts. very exciting. i just adore the 2 of you and love your family. the kids are beautiful and so sweet. i wish you all such joy. please do not listen to any rude comments. i really can’t figure out people’s motives . very disappointing. my advice is never take anything personally. people have their own issues. looking forward to keeping updated with your podcasts. 💜

[@kcotjo]

God bless you both that you are there for one another! And you are so right on about being an advocate for someone who is going through a difficult health challenge. Also, there has to be a solution for medical insurance. I don't have a solution either but someone out there who is smarter than I am, must have an answer. Thank God Zach you have been doing so well in the past year. I love that you left in the spot where your children were wanting to talk to you during your podcast. That is real life and that is what I love about your podcast....real, authentic and genuine! I'd like to hear you talk about stepping away from the family farm, the TLC show, what do you do for a living, how do you get income from what you do and do you follow a budget. What are your long term goals; will you homeschool. Keep up the great work on your podcast!! God bless!

[@thelmabrindley2369]

I love how honest and open you both are, must have been such a tough experience to have gone through, but thankfully you came out the other side and just look at you now. Knowledge and experience and able to share with others is key.

[@charleneheiland8803]

Nothing like your situation,but my son started having migraines at 10 years old.Too much to explain here. Most people have no idea of a true migraine and loosely throw that term around. So happy for your great recovery and family whole again.Kids are adorable. Wishing you the best always.🌹❤️ Grandma Great Grandma H age 83

[@chrissy24-7]

It's true. I had excruciating migraines for a period of three years. I worked at a place where the supervisor mentioned she got them and it never stopped her from doing to work, so anyone who said it did was just being dramatic and making excuses. I didn't say it to her face, but I wanted to say how wrong that was, and she best be grateful if hers weren't that bad!! Eventually a headache specialist out me on an injection that stopped the cycle of mine and I have only had one since. ❤

[@mrsj61111]

Love this. Real quick though and with the kindest intentions, Tori you consistently interrupt Zach...... love the show please let kiddos interrupt 😂

[@kimnash6653]

I'm so excited for Thursdays now! I'm so glad Zach is ok! I can't imagine how scary that was for you all. This is going to be my favorite podcast!! It's so nice hearing from Zach!❤ You two are so down to earth and relatable! You have such a beautiful family!! ❤❤❤

[@amoore0305]

I just gotta say I love that you guys didn’t ‘edit’ out the kids interrupting you. You guys being on LPBW is literally the only reason I’m still watching it. We love hearing those little voices, 😍

[@cathyferran7291]

never edit out the kids being cute and my kiddos are 24 and 21 and I laughed whille my hubby was asleep when Lyla said I have to poop and you said no you don't go back to sleep! Ya'll are such loving parents and to each other and its a great change of pace to watch!

[@kathysutter6968]

My cousin had water on the brain when she was born. She had to get her shunts changed as she grew. And your right about Healthcare in the US it's just terrible! And having an advocate is absolutely essential.

[@leadmetopeacejeanie]

I am enjoying your podcasts so very much. Watching the other show was a bit dramatic, so watching both of you in this podcast is wonderful. Very calming. I'm in my 70s, and reliving raising my children through you guys. I love it. I am so glad Zack is okay and we will continue to pray for you both. Thank you for doing this podcast. I'll be watching every week! My new "show" to watch!! My husband has had numerous heart surgeries, so I know what Tori has been going through, but we just have to trust God that we'll be okay and it isn't easy. I'd love to see how you manage your day to day schedules with the children, the family, the other show, lol, and just life in general! Thanks for being such an inspiration to young families everywhere! Hugs, Jeanie xxoo

[@ClearwaterKB]

I have had horrific migraines for nearly 2 decades. My last ER visit was yesterday. I am no closer today to knowing why than I was after the first one. I am so glad you have gotten relief.

[@leeann3778]

Thank you for acknowledging the frustration of not knowing what's going on. 2 brain surgeries here and at a loss. God bless you n your family

[@cherikagage3715]

Another great episode!! Thanks for sharing with us. Praise God for getting you guys through.

[@robynroberts3576]

Love the podcast. It’s nice to hear that you realize how lucky you are to have each other

[@JuliaXoXoSEAL]

I'm going to be here to support anything you do together. I feel like we've grown up together and it's the least I can do for what you gave us! I don't want to pry or be silly at all, but I would LOVE to hear how you and your bro are doing. Twins always intrigued me, and being that he hasn't been on the show in so long, I really miss you two together. It would be AWESOME to have them on, but if not-even an update on how you guys are navigating being married daddys and your relationship as such! Love you all. Thank you for sharing. I kind of love that the kids made an "appearance"...lol xoxo

[@viccimauldin9786]

This is about their lives, not the outside family.

[@JuliaXoXoSEAL]

@@viccimauldin9786 THanks!! My life includes my family, sorry for any confusion! I certainly will watch every episode, but when they asked for ideas, thought it meant I could share mine. xoxo

[@karendash3274]

You’re so right about being there to advocate…I tend to minimize and or forget to convey information to my Dr and were it not for my Husband weighing in, my Dr would not have an accurate history of me to work from!

[@ruwadzanomugwenhi5427]

My favourite family. It's with pleasure watching your vlogs. What a touching experience.❤

[@dionysiapalmer3945]

Its nice to see a couple from the start esp if we've never seen you on tv. Doing great!

[@jdaasa2011]

I completely understand about the insurance company deciding something is "not necessary" that the doctor ordered. It's infuriating. Love your new podcast! I'm a fan!

[@barb537]

Exactly, how date insurance companies say it is not necessary

[@cindycox57]

Omg 😱 😢

[@Sarah-ic2ce]

I love this episode. Thank you for sharing more in detail on what happened. That is so scary. Tori is so brave. You are such a sweet caring mom and wife. Blessings to you and your family. This is such an amazing episode.

[@Ogreletmama]

Thoroughly enjoying you two. I'm about 10 years older, but see a lot of similarities between y'all and myself and my husband. Please continue to advocate for yourselves and speaking YOUR truth! It's important for both yourselves and your kids. Set the example!

[@theelginconnection]

Hi, Zac and Tori, i have watched little people big world since you were all young whippersnappers lol. Loving the podcast, watched the first and congrats on the second podcast episode. You are definitely raising heights and raising an amazing family. Keep it up ❤❤❤❤❤ .

[@jeililajackson9169]

❤ Love you guys. You seem so relaxed and natural. Keep up the good work.❤

[@iluvphillip13]

I am SO GLAD you left the kids' brief interruption in! Anyone with kids (or grandkids lol) can totally relate to that! You guys are awesome. Okay going to unpause now and go back to watching....

[@odvr9592]

Zach you got to check your girl for those words of DEAD BEAT DAD even come out of her mouth, even if it was a joke because you deserve way more respect and an apology from her for being so ungrateful. She has it all

[@angelinababy5123]

What a great couple! Looking forward to listening to this podcast!

[@murray7379]

Would love to see a guest appearance of Amy and Chris sometime. Also would love to see some clips of Oregon and Washington nature

[@vancolo1972]

I hope you keep posting the podcasts here. I don't use any other social media. Thank you for sharing your lives! ❤

[@deannapurdey8040]

❤ I absolutely think you two as young parents are so amazing to watch ❤

[@protesta99]

I love your podcast! You have such great voices for it! :) very easy to listen to, and both the episodes have been really interesting. Thanks!

[@Mamawslife]

Happy you made it through. You both look great.

[@maryross4488]

Wow Zach and tori. What a podcast. I'm so glad younarenwell and pulled through like a champ. Torimyounare a super caring wife and so happy to hear the family are well. Look forward to the next one. Take care❤

[@janicehoward1769]

This was my first time watching your podcast. I’m looking forward to the next one. You are indeed very blessed to have one another and to have your sweet family.

[@theresa3697]

❤your channel. You guys are so real and opened to something's others would never talk about. Keep God close ❤

[@missy183]

Beautiful family. Thanks for sharing this wonderful video .God bless you all. 🙏❤❤❤

[@MargaretGehring-uh2is]

Im so happy that you guys are doing this. I just found it. Im really looking forward to more. All my love to your beautiful, precious family❤

[@nicholec9694]

I have not watched the tv series in yearrrrssss. But I am so happy to see this podcast! This is my 2nd episode, and I just love the conversation you both have. Can’t wait to continue listening to more from you!

[@rosemaryroutte7379]

Thanks for sharing this information with us. So glad everything is going smoothly now. God bless you both and your beautiful children.

[@amywilson3044]

So happy you were able to get the help you needed and that you both have each other for support. Thank you for sharing this experience and your insights with all of us. Sending much love and prayers to your entire family.

[@maureens100]

you two are precious........love your friendship and honesty with one another..your children are gorgeous...hugs

[@belindacaldera870]

2 episodes, and I'm ALL in. How about Q & A? Or a day and a life, cooking episode, I absolutely love your podcast. ❤

[@marilynhunwardsen1344]

Hi didn't know you had a channel, happy to see you here

[@jazzyl6582]

Thank you for sharing yourselves in such a "real" way!

[@deedeew4040]

It is wonderful to see you both. I am so relieved to know Zach is better. Hugs to you both.

[@momof5948]

So excited to wake up to this video 😊

[@user-jp1bk9sh5q]

I love you guys! I’m so happy you started this podcast so we can keep up with your family. Zach, I’m so thankful you made it through surgery and recovery so well. And I TOTALLY understand what you’re saying about insurance… my brother was in the hospital for 9 months and 1 week (no exaggerating!) and we have over 33 million dollars in medical bills now. 7 months of that time was spent in ICU. He was in a coma for 136 days. We are so thankful and blessed that he’s still with us and making improvements everyday, but the financial burden that puts on a family is insane! Thanks again for sharing your story and letting us in a little more to know your beautiful family

[@ddenice963]

Scary times for you both. I’ve had double brain surgery myself and it’s a scary thing. So glad you are much better.. no more major headaches for me now either.

[@bettyfreeman9253]

I’m glad you are starting your own blog.

[@tiffeny1150]

Coming from a fan of LPBW since season #1! I can honestly say I feel like part of the family now!! I have everyone on Instagram. So i get to keep up on everyones lives. All the new babies in each of the families you all have had in this time. On the show you only get to see what they want you to view. I am so very proud of every single one of you. For the wonderful people you have become. Just wanted to say thank you guys for letting us be part of your lives. Its been a wild crazy sad happy fun adventures 25 seasons. Watching you grow to the people you have become. Thank to you Tori for making Zach the man and father he is today. You are a great mother, wife, teacher, and daughter!!

[@ninaishida8453]

I’m liking the podcast. Good job!!!

[@Lacey1027]

God bless Zach! 🙏❤ Thank God your migraines have subsided, I remember watching the show years back and you would be in so much pain with a headache it was so worrisome for you and your family. Love you all so happy to hear the good news and Tori is an amazing support!

[@acadkenz.9497]

Love listening to you two discuss and retell different events, I enjoy that you have different personalities but keep it real and show such respect for each other as a married couple. Thank you for sharing this story!

[@karentheriot76]

Y'alls kids are absolutely adorable. Such beautiful precious faces. You guys are such good parents and partners. Just an old grandma's opinion. GOD bless you all.

[@andidonnelly9772]

Awesome job! I’m glad to see y’all again!! will work out all the little things as time goes on and you get better with podcasts/ videos,but y’all did great!! Love your entire family!!

[@sjeanmitchell1]

I am following along, recalling every moment along with you guys. Yay! I'm so happy I found you. I'm always loving seeing the kids ❤❤❤❤❤

[@WhirlyPearly]

These are really wonderful to listen to, thank you for starting this up. I would love to hear more of what Zachary has to say in his own words. Tori’s great as well.

[@conniephillips8217]

Oh Zach and Tori, I just can't tell you how much I am enjoying your podcast! You two are just so much fun. I am so glad that you are really being proactive with your children and the show. Wow it's a great experience that only a few people ever get to enjoy, it does have its downside. I'm so glad that you have broken off by yourselves and living your best life! Kudos to you and thank you!!

[@mrs.p6128]

Another amazing podcast, can’t wait for more!!!

[@boymom2331]

Just found your new podcast. I’ve always loved following your story. I’m so happy to see you telling your story your way. Such a breath of fresh air. Can’t wait to see where life takes your family. You guys are awesome 😊

[@deniser3991]

I totally agree with you about health insurance. Something has got to be done in this country to do better. Even with social security I can't afford to go to the hospital when I need to 😢

[@angieludlam6419]

Thank you for sharing! Enjoy your genuine honesty... and such fun watching you two interact. Am impressed at how well you communicate! God Bless your family!

[@michelek5207]

Amy is awesome!! So glad that you are doing better Zach, I can only imagine how scary that was. God bless your beautiful family ❤️

[@cindycox57]

Love your mom Zack she is the best.

[@annebaker7232]

I also have a shunt like you. I agree headaches are horrible. When my shunt failed they found out that it came apart in my stomach. The tube went from my head and another tube coming up up from my stomach. I was also thirteen when i had a new shunt put in. I am 43 and praying everyday that i never have to go through the headaches ever again.

[@dianamahar483]

I’m lovin this. Keep them coming ❤️❤️

[@user-wy6wf3rk3t]

I look forward to seeing your podcasts each time😊

[@heatherchrisco9106]

I can't believe we get to listen to y'all every Thursday now! I'm so glad y'all started this podcast! I'm loving it so far! 😊❤