喂！我单身关你什么事？

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5 ай бұрын

你知道吗？研究表明，25%的单身人士在佳节（新年、情人节等节日）期间还是会感受到“压力”。单身有什么问题吗？已婚人士又如何看待维持单身的想法？zb.sg/MrmJ
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@user-qt8se4xq9y 5 ай бұрын

我没选择之下被带来这个世界，虽然身处在安安稳稳的国家，可是我也没过得很轻松，赚得根本不多因为没学历，不是我不读而是我根本没读书的料，所以做的工作都是辛苦工还要每次看那些顾客跟老板的脸，自己都没什么钱还要每个月给母亲钱，她的脏乱习惯我都受不了如果遇到同样伴侣也是这种人，我不如自己一个人算了，我觉得我过得没很好，因为家里不富裕，所以我不想让我的下一代重复我走过的路，因为我绝对不可能有多余的钱留给他，我也不想他来到这个世界帮人做牛做马，所以我选择单身。

@12347873 5 ай бұрын

选择单身的好处是没有人吵架又可以自己做主。

@12347873 5 ай бұрын

还可以去芽笼玩洞洞! 这样就停止生死轮回了，没有再生小孩。

@stevencai3078 5 ай бұрын

说得好

@stevenlim9640 5 ай бұрын

新加坡现在没读大学也是幸。满街都是大学生在找工作。1，2年还失业，当起了小贩、卖杂菜饭，驾Grab，的士，啃老族。在新加坡，没人敢讲而已。我小学同学，一路考A读到国大电脑系，毕业后却不会作，从此失业。后来，父母出钱帮他买二房式，出钱帮他结婚（和1中四程度），出钱帮他养2小女儿。

@jieyingseh6007 5 ай бұрын

单身🎉🎉🎉🎉

@daviddexter4975 5 ай бұрын

那位大哥非常开明。时代不同因此不能把过去与当下做比较😂

@vivianchao3246 5 ай бұрын

我女兒說要單身，我也慢慢接受了，我自己瞭解到結婚不是最好的選澤。

@kummingchang5243 5 ай бұрын

自己吃自己饱，自己玩自己爽

@seng6683 5 ай бұрын

单身真的是很好，相信我吧，我非常后悔

@BobbyWang-rp1lm 4 ай бұрын

Many of my friends told me they regret getting married

@tancm4995 4 ай бұрын

墙外的人要进去，墙里的人要出来😅

@seng6683 4 ай бұрын

@@tancm4995 正解

@tomyling8152 3 ай бұрын

that's is your friend problem. Not everyone find a right partner and ready to share her life to live with someone@@BobbyWang-rp1lm

@jocelyncao9233 22 күн бұрын

说明现在的新加坡年轻人都非常没有家庭责任心。

@hongkong5769 5 ай бұрын

0:35 她说得很对！! 结婚是自己的事! 先別说LGBT及经济的考量。如果只是為了完了父母、同辈、亲朋戚友的压力去找一个混蛋或自己不喜欢的人去一同走人生將来未知的路，究竟是聪明还是智障？！

@user-sb1zu3lu9u Ай бұрын

單身的人生一樣是未知，不要以為人生可完全掌控。那些大齡女搞到想結婚沒人要而後悔或抱怨，在這之前她們如此自信時也沒想到是如此下場。單身或結婚本身沒有一定的好壞，而你們卻總篤定結婚生子者大多不幸福與後悔，單身必定更好，實則沒有一定。

@FuturesMalaysia 5 ай бұрын

我没问题，单身也挺好的。

@jilee6366 5 ай бұрын

主持人好可爱，喜欢😍

@Piggy-oz4sq 5 ай бұрын

一个人就好了，不想找多个人气你到吐血

@twinpok1 5 ай бұрын

Well done :) We should have more of such videos for females above 30s, above 40s and males above 30s and males above 40s singles and married asking them for their opinions :) Please have more of such videos and if possible please go to the different Singapore Buddhist and Taoist temples to interview the devotees during Chinese New Year what are some of their traditions and customs while praying at Buddhist and Taoist temples of Singapore :)

@tintintin534 5 ай бұрын

Single is great!

@stevenlim9640 5 ай бұрын

在新加坡，看到周围的人，没钱还要学别人结婚，生子。结果两人又要工作，又要照顾小孩，又要连累父母出钱资助买房子，又要连累父母照顾小孩。累！听说一个老人邻居说：他30岁结婚的儿子的HDB五房要卖...，原因是儿子的妻子工作压力，得癌症死...,所以现在那间五房留着没用。

@liweiquek7382 5 ай бұрын

原来今天是情人节

@knw3538 5 ай бұрын

与生俱来不明白为什么要恋爱结婚

@forevergraceful6160 5 ай бұрын

2:15 sad story of many, getting married for the sake of getting a place to live, so wrong.

@tan00002 2 күн бұрын

以我72年人生經驗，女朋友或男朋友都不好。丈夫或太太就很重要。換句話說，家庭很重要。但是要選對對象，包括價值觀，性格還有教育孩子的方法需要相同。那就會有幸福。

@alvinmichael4970 5 ай бұрын

So busy…not enough time for myself…how to give time to another person…?

@fongtan 5 ай бұрын

我覺得婚姻沒有意義。沒有人有義務永遠遷就誰。大家合得來就解決各自的需求就好。生一堆韭菜來養新移民好像也沒有意義。我傢的小孩若不想結婚，我會支持。不必去伺候公主或太子。開開心心一輩子。同性戀，我也可以接受，至少沒有性別衝突。

@hacksbsb 2 ай бұрын

你就是个傻逼，政府先把你这种人清除

@zhaomingzhang3651 5 ай бұрын

可以在这里征友吗😂

@ongteelian8300 5 ай бұрын

单身没有问题 ✍ 因缘各异 ✍ 命中是说因缘的 ( 男女 ) 譬如来的对方都是已经有婚姻或者是离过婚姻的或者是❓❓❓🤣🤣🤣

@jeejack3319 5 ай бұрын

婚姻不是买卖，不要为了结婚而结婚。

@tomyling8152 3 ай бұрын

不管什么时代，每一个人也会压力。而不是单身的借口。只是说这个年代的人很会享受，乱乱花钱，对未来没有计划，不能承受生活压力。

@12347873 5 ай бұрын

单身有罪吗？只能买二手组屋。

@heantan 5 ай бұрын

35 岁后你也可买新组屋。

@beggarbond8311 5 ай бұрын

单身没有罪，只是让政府头痛而已；那么政府也会让你头痛咯。你努力赚钱买一手condo不就好了。新加坡政府不会给你占便宜的😂

@stefgoh6160 5 ай бұрын

新婚夫妇要生儿育女，需要自己的房子住，政府当然把有限的组屋先分配给有家庭的人因为出生率一直向下。不过还好35岁就可以买了。😅

@kellylee498 5 ай бұрын

最美好的婚姻是在对的时间遇到对的人。

@wave9303 4 ай бұрын

marry because for BTO is so damn sad

@janechua403 5 ай бұрын

单身很好现在的婚姻不一定保障单身为什么就不可以买新屋三房吗？不公平单身也要有自己基本的三房式

@thee_others 4 ай бұрын

现代的价值观交自我，但普遍的婚姻是需要付出的，所以就会常遇到问题导致婚变。这些婚变成常事就会让单身人对婚姻没信心。别想太多，喜欢就在一起，时机对了自然会到结婚的阶段。

@aaronlim13 4 ай бұрын

有哪個不想被愛呢？單身好處多，有了婚姻愛情就變複雜了，如果愛情是真愛那為何，疫情時那麼多人離婚，這證明很多人的愛都是自我為主而不，都在不了解狀況下結婚，太了解也就離婚，new world 關係越來越複雜，以前的人腦簡單所以開心😅

@johnzhenli8998 5 ай бұрын

婚姻不容易，确实（极有可能）是钱钟书的“围城”: 在现代社会尤其又额外有各种艰难，无论从物质层面还是精神层面。物质层面好理解，精神层面呢？现代人失去传统婚姻的忠贞，男女又都个性太强，容易冲突失和与离异。地球生态环境污染破坏日益严重，加上无数现代人（特别是年轻人）被电子产品捆绑而生活习惯不健康而病态等，导致对健康地生养儿女都有大担忧、麻烦与困惑。单身是恩赐。基督徒单身有单身的大福分。爱情与婚姻原本神圣不可随意，且行且珍惜。创造主的心意是要人认罪悔改成为圣洁。

@shadowj3311 4 ай бұрын

感情问题很复杂很难一概而论。

@tory5566 5 ай бұрын

当传统被抹黑成迷信，崇洋崇科技只因为太闷了，很多人都不在乎结婚了，因为太多阻碍和黑暗面。。。平常心就好❤🎉

@RadioandRadio 5 ай бұрын

结婚很困难。但是不结婚，就是100%给银行打工❤你死了，银行卡上的钱捐了？我没有办法独立设计生产制造精密游标卡尺，半导体芯片。我永远不会把赚钱作为目标。

@aptly357 5 ай бұрын

人家单身有空就去酒吧沟羊肠😅

@hacksbsb 2 ай бұрын

羊肠？

@user-cz2ug8dm4r 4 ай бұрын

单身只怕碰到一厢情愿的人，需要高智商来摆脱。

@jessielaw3462 5 ай бұрын

你说有没有人说服读音错了

@geknoieng5237 5 ай бұрын

现在有工作，C，P，F有多可買二手房子，身体健康。孩子不好才多。生活不易，怕培养费一

@xingfujie3659 5 ай бұрын

李显龙单身不

@shulanlin7808 5 ай бұрын

2:48

@Jo-lz4ie 5 ай бұрын

无聊

@ahmengng4396 5 ай бұрын

Single is so great....can meet different various Oysters n bananas. Freedom....money in hand not fragnant meh??? Spend on ourselves.

@gongboshao9917 5 ай бұрын

对都不结婚不生小孩。我的孩子踢足球，球场上已经找不到华族伙伴了😢

@winwinwin282828 5 ай бұрын

Many people don't know that you can still have freedom when you are in a relationship or when you are married. Dunt let this misconception stop you from marriage or going into a relationship

@Acekiller22 4 ай бұрын

最喜欢看到这种道德绑架的观念, 你越想鼓励怂恿人家结婚生子, 越多人就跳出来不吃你这一套, 继续利用传统价值观来忽悠人越令人反感

@tankman20064 4 ай бұрын

天犯孤星

@seantan4702 4 ай бұрын

😅结了婚，幸福一族不会看的视频。

@pokmerb444 5 ай бұрын

Aiyo, this girl so not manner. Not wonder not boyfriend leh. Said the host I not boyfriend non of your's business. Actually is very rude. For this sentence

@Buttercookies0 5 ай бұрын

If you have been asked numerous times on the same question, that's the only reply. It is rude to ask such question in the first place.

@pokmerb444 5 ай бұрын

@@Buttercookies0understand but this reply is quite rude although is very tiring in reply

@Buttercookies0 5 ай бұрын

@@pokmerb444 That's probably a good way to shut ppl off in case they think of asking that question.

@choy2l 5 ай бұрын

The best way to keep him from asking more questions

@fryingpan510 5 ай бұрын

hello! haha I was the one interviewed, and that line was edited pretty much out of context! Before the camera started rolling, the interviewer suggested that I say that line "it's none of your business", so I suspect they wanted it in the video from the beginning for laughs (and seeing how its their title, it's a sort of reverse engineering). Also, I think I said it not in response to his question on whether I have a boyfriend or not, but after he persisted on asking whether I had relationship troubles. Then he suggested that some of these questions make people uncomfortable, so I took it as my cue to use the line they wanted. You can see how they cropped the video so we weren't clear on what he asked. I also agree with @Buttercookies0 and @choy2l that it's a way to set clear boundaries in intrusive conversations. Hope that clarifies and clears any bad vibes, cheers!

@hippgal 5 ай бұрын

single there best

@user-angfong1985 5 ай бұрын

问题是打手枪而已嘛！kkkkkkk 没事

@12347873 5 ай бұрын

单身打飞机在Christian上有罪,結婚乱搞无罪。

@12347873 5 ай бұрын

单身的好处是能停止可怕的轮回，不会面对再有，生老病死，喜怒哀乐，种种苦海。😊

@pokmerb444 5 ай бұрын

Media corporation must have a matching show. Like China got one Chinese matching show. The girl girl guest or boy boy guest parents or grandparents or siblings coming to the show to helping their precious son / daughter finding their Mrs right and Mr right 👍❤

@pokmerb444 5 ай бұрын

So interesting 😂❤❤❤

@Buttercookies0 5 ай бұрын

@@pokmerb444 It is not suitable in Sg. No one will want to participate.