ZIM VLOG || housewife & baby girl diaries, being open to reality vs the image || Zim Youtuber

Hi friends,
In today's vlog, I show you a little bit of what a day in my life as a housewife looks like sometimes...
Whether you go to work for 10 hours a day, or 5 hours...home life just leaves you with your own version of 'life as a housewife'
I hope you enjoy the VLOG.
Get in touch with me:
💕Instagram: Nyasha Thandi
💕Email: [e-mail]
FAQs
Q: What camera do you use?
A: Zony ZV E10
Q: Where do you get your music?
A: Epidemic Sound
Q: What software do you use to edit?
A: Final Cut Pro X. If you’re starting out and film from your phone, Videoleap might be more suitable since you can edit directly on your phone.
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[@nyashathandi]

I hope the slightly longer video makes up for not showing up last week 🥹❤️ Thank you so much for the birthday wishes! I hope last week went good for you 😘😘 We’re back!

[@michaelphonela3639]

Yay 😁 I’m happy welcome back..

[@michaelphonela3639]

Yes thank you very much .. really appreciate it ..

[@nyashathandi]

@michaelphonela3639 thank you!!!!!

[@marsandthemoment9797]

Hey Nyasha!!! Thanks for the vlog, we'd missed you (My sis & I bond over your vlogs🙈🙈)

[@dianamaruve7160]

Next Vlog has to be 4 hours , lol we have been counting the number of weekends we havent been getting content

[@zellemaleek]

Honestly speaking I do not think you can ever be fully ready for marriage, having a baby, etc but there is certain things that I feel like should at least be in place before you just jump into something as serious as marrying someone or having a baby because being the daughter of a lawyer I have witnessed so many divorces because people rushed things and overlooked certain things especially finances. That "ride or die" vibe is cute and all but bills need to be paid and that is something we cannot shy away from because it will only catch up in marriage and at some point people will blow so some level of stability must exist otherwise it will be a disaster. I do believe in building up together too but from a certain point because I have down from scratch before and it didn't end up well for me because I ended up having to pick up his slack and being some sort of "man in the relationship" so honestly it is not easy yes but looking back would be so lovely and also I feel if you can go through the hardships together then probably you will be able to overcome anything. Going in with someone who has it all figured out completely scares me at times but also going in with someone who is kinda struggling and isn't somewhat stable scares me too, both options have their pros and cons guess it is about picking your "battles" but definitely I would prefer getting in and being able to at least pay basic bills and necessities then more can come after because it would suck to get married then live less of what I can already do for myself or how far my parents have brought me so it has to be somewhat realistic like "the starting from zero" has to start "somewhere." That dating potential and trusting the process can also be tricky if things do not go how we think they will, speaking from experience.

[@berthatakunda4805]

It's not Nyasha's vlog without the the words "pretty much"😂 Thank you for the 56 minutes of enjoyment and smiling throughout the whole vlog ❤

[@nyashathandi]

Girrrrlllll!!!! 😂😂😂😂 I cant even believe I did not know this! I thought my most abused was 'we'll take it up from there' 😂😂😂😂 that phrase must release me from the shackles of bondage please!!!! PRETTY MUCH, YEA 😂😂😂 Thank you for tuning in and always engaging with my content ❤️ Not too sure if you get to see a little purple heart next to your name but I see it in my portal.... The purple heart 💟 is for top commenters! Thank you so much sis ❤️

[@berthatakunda4805]

@@nyashathandi that's your signature phrase😂😂

[@Cynthia_Makowa]

😂😂 yes for real

[@NickNackm]

Your consistency has motivated me to be consistent on my channel. Glad you're well rested now😊

[@nyashathandi]

This is so heartwarming 🥹🥹🥹 Also, lovely to hear from a fellow creator! I’m happy for you ❤️🙌🏾 and happy for us!

[@blessingshumi]

Honestly I miss you 😪

[@zellemaleek]

Yoh I also hate ironing. I hate doing laundry with my actual hands but now that I have a washing machine I'm happy I don't have to wash but I hate the folding aspect and having to take everything out and switch to the dryer it feels like such a chore but honestly I would rather do that than have to do it with my hands. Also I can cook but I hate cooking especially for one person. I would rather do dishes because I know its a quick quick and I am done manje cooking having to chop up stuff, having to check on the pots, draining water when I make rice or spaghetti haike that all feels like such a chore.

[@marsandthemoment9797]

I'm reading your comment and you sound just like me!!!!!!!! Cooking for one sucks (i generally don't like cooking) but i've started meal prepping. I only cook on Sundays and reheat my food as i go during the week. Laundry wise, i got a machine too and it has made the burden lighter. I hate ironing so most of my clothes (tops especially) are wash and wear🤣🤣🤣🤣Premium laziness over here.

[@RozviQueen_Amoyo]

Loving the long video you have made my day. I had low key missed you 😅😊. Me and my partner dived into it, we realized we loved each other and they were my person. And we will build together. I agree there are days its hectic but its a beautiful experience ❤ Being able to serve your partner is a top tier feeling how little things go a long way 🤗🤗 well said. Selfless partners deserve to be treated 😊 My worst chore would be doing the dishes and washing the laundry. Enjoyed every bit of the vlog🎉❤

[@zellemaleek]

I'm happy about the road revamps, we needed so much of that in Zim

[@s.m.mapako5992]

Mmmmm Nyasha we miss you veduwe 😢

[@Melz_Melisa]

Hie Thandi, l am just rewatching your old videos. I hope you are doing well!!!

[@nobuntumnkandla]

its been four weeks lol .... missing your vlogs😍

[@blessingshumi]

It's been 2months 😢😢😢Honestly, missing you,it's been 8 Sundays without you😢.

[@gamuchiraialicetungamira8971]

To us who like before watching🤗

[@nyashathandi]

the super supportive MVP gang!!!! Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ The likes go a really long way in ranking the videos, so I genuinely appreciate it.

[@kudzaibeverlynyamuremba8177]

I think it's good to have something in your bank account its a plus in your lives if you get to have But funny thing is God only do His things his way lol and his time so you might wish to have 1/2/3 things ay a certain time but kana Mwari vati now apa bank account iri zero it is what it is So i guess it's Gods plan and timing you in it I don't know if it makes sense

[@nyashathandi]

Definitely makes sense! And I agree 🙌🏾… it’s always good to have something you’re doing for yourself, whatever the gender. I was coming more from the point of putting things off for later, even when the opportunity presents itself because you want certain things in a certain way. At times, what If God doesn’t want it for you right now, but later? I can list a couple of things I wanted before settling down, that God only blessed me with after I settled down. Wasn’t my plan, but it worked out in the end. I feel at times some decisions comes from a place of fear, and that’s not a great place. Like, let’s Let the decisions be based on self-actualisation instead of fear. Goals and visions are great!! We just also look at what God is doing and see how He leads us 🙌🏾

[@kudzaibeverlynyamuremba8177]

@@nyashathandi true true Thank you. Fyi you inspire me 🙈🙈 Keep on being amazing 😻

[@nyashathandi]

@kudzaibeverlynyamuremba8177 what a badge of honour to be an inspiration to someone in my own little way 🥹 thank you!

[@blessingshumi]

Lately you havent been consisten, I really hope you are truly okay.I really enjoy your content and Vibe. Also you are really changing my perspective towards Zim. Making me really see what the Lord has for me

[@natashasiziba1284]

Your husband is hilarious hanzi ukuzvitsvagiraa ma customer 😂😂😂 thank you for 56 mins of enjoyment and entertainment ❤❤❤🎉🎉

[@wholesomekuku5861]

Aww Yh , i think she is blocking comments on that but she really does look great 😍

[@Auxilliatanaka]

I love nuts and raisins!!!! Top tier combination😋

[@carolmashindi]

me too i hate ironing i rarely iron my clothes 😭😂but now im married someone needs his clothes ironed😂

[@zellemaleek]

Ouuu I also have an electric blanket and that thing is a game changer. Used it since 2021 and I will never go back. That's deffs a hill I am willing to die on.

[@Auxilliatanaka]

I’m here!!! Work has nothing on me, up through midnight to catch up with my fav❤️😂

[@zellemaleek]

"iwe iwe ko what is this guy doing?' SO SO HILARIOUS

[@Auxilliatanaka]

That chat on living now and not focus on the unknown future!! Also Fari coming in with those NUGGETS! Mind blowing stuff!

[@zellemaleek]

I was about to say you should give us cooking content then BOOM, food content.

[@Auxilliatanaka]

I’m very open to the idea of change and having things a little different when significant other and I advance to marriage! This was very eye opening

[@AnnaChingaMurinyu]

As long as you get on don't worry about bank balance grow together 💓!

[@samuelbanda2620]

I'm new here but already love your content ❤

[@Auxilliatanaka]

The hair!!! The glowww!!! Looking good sis😍😍

[@kiwigirl359]

Had missed you guys...i always look foward to your videos ❤❤

[@laurentiamawire218]

You are definitely missed, ❤

[@lolly3596]

What we have been waiting for !!!!🤩😍

[@nyashathandi]

Finally up!!!!!! 🥹🥹🥹 slightly longer since I didn’t show up last week

[@Auxilliatanaka]

I hope hamuna kuzoputika nemabanana🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@londiwegwabeni]

So excited for the growth of your channel friend. 🥰🤗🤗 I'm always looking forward to Sundays.

[@nyashathandi]

Thank you so much sisi ❤️❤️😘😘 I really appreciate you cheering me on and being so supportive!

[@blessingshumi]

I actually wanted to comment on the last video kuti whats wrong and i hope you are good, finally you are back. At least madzoka naA long vide. How are you Sis😃😄

[@nyashathandi]

Tadzoka nemaziEnergy 😄😄 and a long video to compensate 😂 I’m doing alright thank you sisi. How are you doing??

[@ngaatendwechikobvu]

The long vlog was great❤️Big up to you for sitting to have faux locs done.I just stay away but they look really good on you😘.The knives are very good they will last you a long while.Food looks yummy😋.See you soon and continue resting well❤❤

[@nyashathandi]

Thank youuuuu!!! Also, these locs took longer than the first set I got 😵‍💫😵‍💫 The first set I got was partly crotchet...These aren't and oh my 🤣🤣 I sat the whole afternoon 😂😂 my bum just hurt afterwards!!

[@THANIAH_KAYY]

We miss you ms ma’am 🥺❤️

[@zellemaleek]

I don't like peanuts but I can tolerate them hangu 🤣🤣

[@nyashathandi]

😂😂😂 I will see how I can fix this little problem!

[@tinevimboleannempani7757]

I love those peanuts. Keep the blogs coming. Watching your vlog make me home sick

[@nyashathandi]

But at least I’m keeping you in touch with what’s at home 🥹🥹🥹 surely that’s something to help you cope with the home sickness. I used to get terribly home sick during festive holidays 😭😭😵‍💫😵‍💫 they’d drive me crazy!

[@nicolelamiezy]

I love how long the vlog is ndakaitanga nezuro and continuing it now and will finish it off maskati ❤😩🥰

[@nyashathandi]

Kutoita ma episode nema seasons 😂😂😂 Thank you for tuning in, and engaging with my content! You truly have no idea how inspiring it is to hear this ❤️❤️

[@tinevimboleannempani7757]

I agree with you that there is no eight time. But the moment you decide to settle things will fall in place and it's good to start from scratch as a couple

[@nyashathandi]

It actually is a pretty good place to start off. I mean, the memories of how you grew together are beautiful 😍😂 only in hindsight though, because the process isn’t always as rosy…. But definitely worth it.

[@KudzayiNyambara-fk1fr]

I am becoming addicted to your content shame😂😂😂l don’t thinks its healthy 😂. I spent the whole of last week watching your previous videos. ❤❤❤❤

[@nyashathandi]

I highly highly recommend it and I think it’s very healthy 😂😂😂 I hope each video leaves you with a bit more knowledge of who I am, and also helps you with something small… basically, I hope the videos leave you with something small to take away ❤️❤️❤️

[@KudzayiNyambara-fk1fr]

@@nyashathandiI miss you girl its been two weeks. Hope your okay. Your like my favourite person and your videos leave me with a lot . If someone is to ask me how they make me feel 😂😂😂i think words wont be enough to define how they make me feel.

[@DelightChitingwiza-cyp]

It's so nice watching your content especially as someone who is trying to do this vlogging thing. Keep shining and inspiring me🎉❤

[@nyashathandi]

Girl, just start. Just do it 😀😀 because you will never find a perfect time 😛 pick that device up and just start...the rest will take care of itself 😛

[@fadzaimaunga4200]

Ironing is my worst chore as well and I also hate doing dishes😂😂😂😂 I love cleaning the house more than other chores

[@nyashathandi]

I think I’d rather cook 😂😂 but the dishes??? Laundry is just something else honestly 🤣🤣🤣 assign me anywhere else except the laundry department! So happy to know I’m not the only one who’d rather just clean the whole house than iron clothes 😭😂

[@tanakasadziwa3436]

It's nice to be here😅 sis your vlogs anonakidza keep moving

[@nyashathandi]

And its nice to have you around here! 😀😀😀 Thank you for cheering me on! I will try to keep at it ❤️❤️

[@nicolelamiezy]

Love your vlogs ❤❤looking from where you came from to where you are right now. Very Inspiring ❤

[@nyashathandi]

Thank you for tuning in and engaging with my content 🥰🥰🥰 I appreciate it!

[@Tashah15]

We missed you last week 😒 but we’re happy with the long vlog 🎉

[@nyashathandi]

I missed you too! I was just too drained and took the week to rest and just celebrate my birthday. But I think I have recharged now 😅😅😅 and happy to be back! Happy that you are happy with the vlog!

[@misstakue]

where is black rose? i may have missed it when you said it

[@nyashathandi]

Hi 😊 2 branches: -Kensington shopping center -Corner enterprise and Kent (if you’re coming from town, it’s on your left, after highland park, but before Paddington Square) I think there’s a branch at Sam Levy’s too, but I haven’t shopped at that one yet (close to enbee I think) Hope this helps!

[@ValeriaMapfumo-ei7id]

How much was ur dish washer if u dont mind sharing price

[@nyashathandi]

😊 Hi, I don’t quite remember how much it was. It’s been well over a year now. Maybe you can check with them directly?

[@zuvarashe289]

Hi Nyasha, i did build with someone and when things were starting to look up the cheating began and he married someone else now when things are not looking great with his finances and he needs someone to talk to he calls me for that. it was not a nice experience and every time he calls it takes me back. Its been 2 years and i remember it like it was yesterday. don't build with anyone.. i seriously don't recommend.

[@nyashathandi]

I’m so so sorry for your experience ❤️🥺 I think it’s unfair that he keeps coming back to you. Perhaps for the sake of your peace, maybe you should close that door if it really hurts you every time he comes back to you? And about the building thing…😂😂 long read ahead but bear with me! I guess people are different, but honestly for me, I think love is a risky thing. It’s also risky for the men who invest in the women they are with, looking to settle with them or build with them… and then they are left. It’s risky for women who stick around with their marital partner when they’re starting out married life, in hopes that things will get better. Growing together is risky, but definitely worth it. I wouldn’t trade it for anything. Love is a risk, and as with all risks, sometimes whatever can go wrong really does go wrong. But to just close the door on choosing to love and risk things?? I wouldn’t! I’d rather live and let whatever happens, happen… because what if you choose to risk it and things work out fine. We’re all taking risks… Those who ‘have made it’ also want a finished product, because they don’t want to risk not making it because of the wrong partner. Those who have made it also come with their own set of problems. The mix is different and definitely something hard to handle. Those of us who haven’t made it yet don’t mind building together because we aren’t there yet. Essentially, both side have risks and it just comes down to what a person wouldn’t mind I guess.

[@zuvarashe289]

@@nyashathandi That was a very long read. Thank you for sharing your insights!

[@muts_lady]

Heeeeeey Nyashaaaa🤗 girl we missed you last week, thank you for giving us a long vlog to make up for it 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽 yal looking fabulous and these butterfly locks suit you so well 👌🏾

[@nyashathandi]

Heeeeey Mutsaaaa ❤️😘 Sis 😂😂😂 These locs had me sitting for hours!! So I am happy to hear they look good on me, because 😭😭 Haaaa the process was something else! A little purple heart 💟 appears next to your name, by the way! KZbin has you noted as a top Commenter, and also having received one of the highest number of hearts from this channel 🥹❤️ So glad KZbin gets that I appreciate you being here and supporting me. Thank you so much ❤️😘

[@muts_lady]

@@nyashathandi this makes my heart so happy 🥹 I will always be there cheering you on sis😘🤗🤗🤗

[@buhlebenkosiamanda5026]

We loveee long videos 😂❤Thank you Thandi you were missed❤

[@nyashathandi]

I missed you too!!! Long vlogs are so overwhelming to edit oh my dayyyys 😂😂😂😂 but if you are happy, it definitely makes it worth the while to be honest ❤️

[@meckmeckville5550]

I am a big fan of you guys and inspired with your content please continue to do that .God bless

[@nyashathandi]

Thank you so much!!!! May God continue to bless you too, always!

[@ModesterDani]

Finally another Nyasha Thandi keeps me going big up

[@nyashathandi]

Thank you for tuning in! Happy to hear that the vlog was well received!

[@brendaR05]

Notification gang 😊 liking and commenting before watching the whole video ❤

[@nyashathandi]

The super supportive MVP gang!! Thank you so much for liking and commenting! It goes a long way in ranking the video for KZbin algorithms.

[@KikieBlessed]

Mufaro wacho wekuva pano🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉. Sisters musarova muchidaro. Motiuraya nebp❤❤❤❤❤

[@nyashathandi]

Zvakanaka kuva pano!!! 😂😂😂 1 week chete chete here askana

[@fadzaimaunga4200]

Hey Nyasha ❤ I also love French tips overlay they are my go to everytime

[@nyashathandi]

They’re pretty addictive too! Like, ok, so what else can I get 😂😂

[@gugudube3455]

Good day my dear, great my sbali for me love you guys ❤❤

[@nyashathandi]

uRight sis wam? I will ❤️😘❤️😘

[@nyashakatsa4203]

Your laugh Nyasha ndopedzisira ndasekawo 😂😂😂good to see you healthy again ❤❤❤

[@nyashathandi]

😂😂😂😂 as should be!!! A sign that ndirikugona basa!!! Life is too short iyi… we should laugh a little!

[@b.t.9736]

@nyashathandi what's the name of that song you love adding on your videos? If you don't mind me asking...

[@nyashathandi]

I am not too sure which one that is 😂😂😂 because I pretty much reuse these songs almost always. Maybe you can shazam the track when it comes up?? or give me the time-stamp of when it begins playing...??

[@b.t.9736]

The one that plays at the 42mins mark

[@nyashathandi]

@b.t.9736 the song title is SOLO by Mimmi Bangoura

[@THANIAH_KAYY]

My favourite KZbinr❤️

[@nyashathandi]

What a badge of honour! ❤️🥹 thank you for making me feel so special!

[@nyashakatsa4203]

For the kettle you can also use vinegar or lemon to clean inside inoshanda 😊

[@nyashathandi]

Thank you for this pro-tip! I tried lemon and ah, it just didn’t work the way I wanted it to… or maybe I was just impatient?? Will definitely try the vinegar next ❤️😘

[@nyashakatsa4203]

@@nyashathandi yaah lemon zvoda patient asi vinegar iri fast

[@RuvimboDadi]

The hydroboost range is so dope 😍

[@nyashathandi]

It is fire!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@preciousemakonese]

Lots of love from us to you

[@nyashathandi]

And lots of love from us to you! ❤️😘

[@michaelphonela3639]

I’m allergic to peanuts 🥺

[@nyashathandi]

Oh my, I am so sorry to hear that. But silly question, if I may ask...besides the allergy, do you like them though?? 😂😂

[@michaelphonela3639]

@@nyashathandi .. Yes ..but I’m scared of getting sick 🤒

[@michaelphonela3639]

😂😂😂😂

[@leanoragareth2986]

you were missed!!

[@nyashathandi]

🥹🥹 making me feel so special! Thank you 💕 I was just gone for 1 week 😂😂 on the brighter side

[@hazelmasuku4952]

Bestie we love long vlogs ❤

[@nyashathandi]

Besty!!! If only you knew just how overwhelming the editing is 😂😂😂 they are fun to watch, but the process 😵‍💫😭😵‍💫😭😵‍💫 But hearing the positive feedback definitely makes it worth the while ❤️❤️

[@claire-moniquechigangaidze1664]

I’m back ❤ been MIA

[@nyashathandi]

So good to have you around! ❤️

[@sandramutambanengwe619]

You two make me smile..❤.

[@nyashathandi]

And words like yours really make my little heart smile! ❤️🥹 thank you for cheering us on!

[@Ru5672]

Rocking a French mani toooo

[@nyashathandi]

Yeeeeees please!!!! 😂 if not a French, then what honestly 😂

[@Smallmealswithcarol87]

❤❤. I love it here

[@nyashathandi]

So happy to have you here ❤️😘

[@b.t.9736]

Birthday blessings

[@nyashathandi]

Thank you!

[@michaelphonela3639]

Happy birthday to you 😇🎊🎂🎊

[@nicolelamiezy]

I hate peanuts omg 😢😭😭

[@nyashathandi]

I was waiting patiently 😅😅😅 because I genuinely want to understand what there is to hate about peanuts 😹😹 as in, I really do not get it. What do you hate the most? The smell or taste?

[@nicolelamiezy]

@@nyashathandi I have nothing against the smell its the taste 😭

[@nyashathandi]

@nicolelamiezy 😂😂😂 if it were the smell, I’d say wear a mask! But since it’s the taste 😂 this is above my pay grade now!

[@b.t.9736]

We happy 🎉

[@nyashathandi]

Then I’m happy 😃

[@RufaroFaith24]

🙋🏽‍♀️

[@nyashathandi]

💕💕

[@lindamachingura8302]

❤❤❤ enjoyed everything keep up the good work you are touching lives out here🥹 i look forward to Sundays❤ 😅 ❤❤❤❤❤

[@nyashathandi]

❤️❤️❤️ thank you so much for such kind words! They go a long way and definitely make all this worth the while! Thank you for cheering me on ❤️❤️❤️