"you look ugly, I can fix that"

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zoeunlimited

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@zoeunlimited
@zoeunlimited 6 ай бұрын
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@scouts92
@scouts92 6 ай бұрын
wow thank you!!
@mossyay
@mossyay 6 ай бұрын
uhh hey i have dwarfism the m word is a slur to a lot of us
@Aye_pepitoo1789
@Aye_pepitoo1789 6 ай бұрын
Dudeee I love Bellesa ! Way better than Pornhub tbh
@Pico983
@Pico983 6 ай бұрын
​@@mossyaywhat's the m word?
@tahsinkhan4871
@tahsinkhan4871 5 ай бұрын
🙂🙂🙂
@shethegurl_shurl4964
@shethegurl_shurl4964 6 ай бұрын
Not the "you look ugly, i can fix that"😭😭😭
@Hispanictexaswoman
@Hispanictexaswoman 6 ай бұрын
​@JuicyUTTPBot?
@bawbawissane2
@bawbawissane2 6 ай бұрын
no because she's such a damn pick me and problamatic for saying ugly people are lucky because they dont get SA'ed
@jujuonthatbeat9546
@jujuonthatbeat9546 6 ай бұрын
777 likes 🤍
@Nilsoda
@Nilsoda 6 ай бұрын
​@JuicyUTTP huh😭
@Yuki_Official_777
@Yuki_Official_777 6 ай бұрын
@@polinafurmanova6855 AW THATS SO SWEET😭😭❤❤
@UncleMikeDrop
@UncleMikeDrop 6 ай бұрын
Comparison is the thief of joy.
@Mari_Say
@Mari_Say 2 ай бұрын
Couldn't say it better 👏👏👏
@appalachiabrauchfrau
@appalachiabrauchfrau 2 ай бұрын
yup. My dad always said "whether someone thinks your hot or not is their problem." And that's true! It's only your problem when you want it to be.
@UncleMikeDrop
@UncleMikeDrop 2 ай бұрын
@@appalachiabrauchfrau Mind over matter. If you don't mind, they don't matter.👍
@Beresunablle
@Beresunablle 2 ай бұрын
Or motivation for success
@stefhanysilva3823
@stefhanysilva3823 6 ай бұрын
This obsession with beauty is killing people, I'm a 19 afro latina girl and I've been so obsessed with looking pretty all the time that there was days that I didn't want to go out cuz I didn't look pretty enough, I even thought that I wasn't worthy living because of how I looked.
@kelddsrx
@kelddsrx 6 ай бұрын
Sameeee.. how did you move past that?
@stefhanysilva3823
@stefhanysilva3823 6 ай бұрын
​@kelddsrx I am still struggling with that ngl
@mirishikibacchus6862
@mirishikibacchus6862 6 ай бұрын
I'm struggling with that too, but from what I can see..I think your beautiful..and that's how I honestly think of you..with or without make up..but I understand exactly how you feel..you're definitely not alone..like I said..I'm struggling with my insecurities too..so afraid to go outside because I feel ugly on the outside..even with make up on..I then feel insecure about my weight..it doesn't help that I feel as though, I probably won't find love because of how I think I look😮‍💨 I usally try to fight it..telling myself that I'm beautiful..but other times I'm discouraged again..
@kelddsrx
@kelddsrx 6 ай бұрын
I always remind myself that life is short and that it's important to focus on friends, family, experiences.. all our bodies change eventually and we only have this one body that keeps us alive and gives us this one chance called life. Focus on why people love and wanna be with you.. probably not because of your looks but because of so many other things. These thoughts help but I always end up basing my self worth on my looks and then feeling really bad on those days I don't look that great.
@ElinePP
@ElinePP 6 ай бұрын
I've been struggling with that for 10 years. Wanting to hide forever , crying when I see a photo of me, wanting plastic surgery from the age of 12. When I explain this to my relatives they laugh and tell me it's not a real problem. To be honest, I know it probably won't change so I'm trying to find other things that make me a valuable person, and find happiness in my passions . Trying not to look in the mirror and ignore my disgusting reflexion ... But I'm alive 'cause I'm more than my body.
@anju5124
@anju5124 6 ай бұрын
"Dystopian".. Somehow that's the word coming to my mind!
@aliairving
@aliairving 6 ай бұрын
True. And anytime I think about Palestine I remember we’re living in basically an active hunger games
@justwalkin1928
@justwalkin1928 5 ай бұрын
​@@aliairvingwait, you have a point... It's like we're the capitals and having unnecessary problems while they're people in the world who literally fights to live
@Fruitypebbles489
@Fruitypebbles489 6 ай бұрын
Honestly, this videos make me feel gorgeous for being normal and natural 😬 I’m proud to look human and not stupid and uncanny
@not_nicos_type
@not_nicos_type 6 ай бұрын
THIS
@sansshiber5060
@sansshiber5060 6 ай бұрын
Indeed!!
@MikaelaTufts
@MikaelaTufts 6 ай бұрын
For real… I’m happy I look human and not like an alien doll…
@crazynicesonya
@crazynicesonya 6 ай бұрын
It’s not gorgeous to call someone stupid, btw. This girls just mentally unstable due social media, insecurities, low self esteem and so on, the fact that it’s made you think that you somehow better then them speaks a lot about you
@whynutt4868
@whynutt4868 6 ай бұрын
That's what I also thought.
@victoria586
@victoria586 6 ай бұрын
This is why I like taking pictures with no filters and embrace my own beauty, showing my acne and acne scars. And also taking a break from social media as well.
@rosee_bae
@rosee_bae 6 ай бұрын
Me too!
@mist3995
@mist3995 5 ай бұрын
Me too, but I discovered lately that my phone has a built-in beauty filter installed in the (frontal) camera. I thought my skin looked very smooth but I checked "beautify" and it was set to zero, I finally found the other filter a week later and it's creepy how much it changed my perspective of my face even though I didn't want to edit it to begin with
@i_is_genius
@i_is_genius 4 ай бұрын
Haha you're not beautiful
@rydiavalentine
@rydiavalentine 3 ай бұрын
I look better IRL than in photos or videos, edited or not 😂Somehow cameras usually change my face to look worse.
@lalka_motanka
@lalka_motanka Ай бұрын
​@@rydiavalentine same, i always look so ugly when it comes to photos 🙈
@spectreg3
@spectreg3 6 ай бұрын
As an 18 year old Puerto Rican guy, I appreciate the commentary and editing.
@zoeunlimited
@zoeunlimited 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for tuning in!
@mylollipop100
@mylollipop100 6 ай бұрын
I’ve come back to China recently to visit family and this has shocked me so much. The use of beauty filters is so normalised now it’s actually crazy. Parents even use face tuning apps on their very young children, exposing them to these toxic beauty standards and showing them a “better” version of themselves at such a young age. When I took photos with family, I couldn’t even recognise my face in the camera, and they refused to take photos without the face tune, saying it was a NECESSITY. Girls in china wear such extreme makeup that only really looks good on camera with extreme nose and face contour, foundation ten shades lighter than their actual skin tones and eye makeup they enlarges their eyes to the point of creepiness. Everyone has the same face, and it made me feel disconnected and insecure. This is a real issue but none of the people here seem to realise it.
@bDwaekkichan
@bDwaekkichan 5 ай бұрын
It scares me honestly they don't even look normal or like human
@Youknowwho910
@Youknowwho910 4 ай бұрын
Asia itself is so toxic. From education to job market to beauty. Its no longer humane. Im saying this as an asian. Makes me admire the unfiltered westernness
@thecamillarose9806
@thecamillarose9806 Ай бұрын
Did they look at you weird for looking normal
@gradzia3453
@gradzia3453 6 ай бұрын
Feels intensely dystopic...
@Inqq_
@Inqq_ 6 ай бұрын
It's giving Hunger Games capital fashion
@Jazzyjihyo
@Jazzyjihyo Ай бұрын
it is but it's also just hillarious from my perspective
@AdirondackRuby
@AdirondackRuby 6 ай бұрын
Every now and then I find myself thinking "I'm glad I grew up without that!" or "I'm glad that wasn't around when I was a kid"...but stuff like this is so much worse because it effects and affects EVERYONE, regardless of age (or sex or race or any other factor). You can't ignore it, you can't be too old for it. It is there, it is unavoidable, and it is only getting worse. I took a selfie with my friends 8-month-old baby and it smoothed her face! My phone actually had the nerve to "improve" the skin of a baby! It was a built-in setting I didn't even know about!
@GirlwithCurls-z8e
@GirlwithCurls-z8e 6 ай бұрын
That's sick, I can't believe that exists
@coldsky1p
@coldsky1p 5 ай бұрын
Yes ! when i was seeing the new Phones I take a photo and it’s filtered by ai ! Imagine that without any apps or effects
@cheesecake4648
@cheesecake4648 Ай бұрын
if you are underage is not the same.
@thecamillarose9806
@thecamillarose9806 Ай бұрын
Yes usually they're on. Even tiktok shrinks my fave without having a filter on because I have strong cheekbones. I have to keep turning filters off
@jesuislechat__
@jesuislechat__ 6 ай бұрын
this scares me so much I think getting off of social media and touching grass is the only option now o7
@Tiny_Koi
@Tiny_Koi 6 ай бұрын
Truly Ive told many of my friends that struggle with body issues to get off of social media and to really look at real people in real life. Theres so much natural beauty in the world and in people.
@Jazzyjihyo
@Jazzyjihyo Ай бұрын
@@Tiny_Koi I wish it was like my parents in the 80s and 90s where you would just go to other peoples houses and hangout, and spend time off your phone or computer.
@mishterkhalid3117
@mishterkhalid3117 6 ай бұрын
correction: these type of beauty standards exists in East Asia, not all of Asia. if you visit Malaysia, Indonesia, India, Iran, Syria, you will not find these type of crazy standards. these are exclusive to China, Japan and specially Korea
@Mallikaaa_04
@Mallikaaa_04 6 ай бұрын
Exactly asia is a big and diverse continent. Asia does not mean just east Asia like korea, china, japan, etc.
@xiononi
@xiononi 6 ай бұрын
fr 💀
@selmacans
@selmacans 6 ай бұрын
Didn't she say east asia the whole video?
@aliairving
@aliairving 6 ай бұрын
She literally said east Asia constantly - just say you didn’t watch the video 🤪
@andromedamessier3176
@andromedamessier3176 6 ай бұрын
I would say Japan is less crazy in all these. They have different styles. Korea is plastic surgery China is filter and deceptive makeup
@WorstAngelEver
@WorstAngelEver 6 ай бұрын
The fact my ex is always saying they have such a nice body & faces when we all know is not real still blows my mind 😂
@AylinGharacheh
@AylinGharacheh Ай бұрын
Well I'm so glad that he's your ex and not your boyfriend
@X_stikto
@X_stikto 3 ай бұрын
As a Chinese I’ll say the standards there for the sake of everyone -small face -big eyes -slim -white as a paper -plump rosy lips -THIGH GAPS IS NEEDED -small calvis -small thighs -small waist -breasts has to be the size of a tennis ball or basketball Basically an anime character anatomy
@cheesecake4648
@cheesecake4648 Ай бұрын
i hate the gaps. i don't like the invisible pony riders.
@thecamillarose9806
@thecamillarose9806 Ай бұрын
Well I'm glad my boobs would be liked somewhere lol
@BotheredBoy
@BotheredBoy 6 ай бұрын
This was an insightful, horrifying, and harrowing watch. 10/10
@angelartamesia2
@angelartamesia2 6 ай бұрын
Not even joking guys… one day I was laughing while in my bathroom and saw my smile and I realized how pretty I was! I started wondering why I was so insecure about my face shape lol. Although I still don’t like my pimples… I take care of my skin RELIGIOUSLY and I still break out, but I feel pretty ☺️
@IloIRL
@IloIRL 3 ай бұрын
That's so Wholesome and you are 100% right. You are beautiful and you deserve to smile when you see your reflection,like the Queen you are !
@kuolich287
@kuolich287 3 ай бұрын
hi what does it mean you take care of your skin religiously?
@angelartamesia2
@angelartamesia2 3 ай бұрын
@@kuolich287 To simply put, I make sure to do my skin care routine everyday even if I don't shower or brush my teeth
@escobarines
@escobarines 3 ай бұрын
It's just an expression! It means she is consistent, disciplined or methodical in taking care of her skin.
@ballistachicken
@ballistachicken 6 ай бұрын
I worry for the younger generation coming up in the world behind mine (I'm 30, for a reference point). Even though I don't always love my looks, I at least can appreciate that these things aren't attainable normally or even healthy in a lot of cases, but the younger group...they're just bombarded with this stuff constantly. I worry for them, and I hope we can help them navigate it as healthily as possible. Your body is your body. Does it have curves, some wrinkles, some cellulite? Excellent, you are certified as a human, congratulations! I hope we can help both my generation and the younger ones behind mine to understand that as long as you're human, you're beautiful as you are, there will always be someone who will find you desirable, and, most importantly, that being desirable is not solely based on your looks at all. It sounds cliche but it's a cliche for a reason: beauty doesn't stop at the surface, and self love isn't about what you look like.
@iqra8937
@iqra8937 6 ай бұрын
@JuicyUTTP bro what 😭
@marymurphy1877
@marymurphy1877 6 ай бұрын
the more im off social media the more i like myself. When i was in Japan I felt so self conscious and huge in comparison... :/
@gl0omblooms
@gl0omblooms 3 ай бұрын
0:04 caught me so off guard like im sorry?? how small is her waist wtf 😭
@MsHoneyBBQ
@MsHoneyBBQ 6 ай бұрын
I love ur content... i actually went thru this years ago with just makeup. i started to HATE the "raw" me without makeup so much that i would often feel depressed after taking my makeup off at the end of the day........ i would even cry sometimes. after awhile, i decided to lay off the makeup for awhile (which i didn't even really enjoy that much in the first place), so that i could re-learn to love my actual face again.... i think makeup is AMAZING when it's fun and you still like urself. but that wasn't what i had been using it for. and that made me really sad. i want to love ME. even if the rest of the world doesn't think i'm pretty. cuz ur ABSOLUTELY right when you say that none of this shit matters😆. but, in the best way. nowadays, i use mostly a tinted moisturizer, mascara and a little highlighter and if i'm feelin froggy, some eyeshadow. lol. and i don't hate my own face anymore. so i call that a win. but that's just me. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for making this video. THIS is the kinda stuff i wish we would talk about way more. Sending 💖
@catwithquill
@catwithquill 6 ай бұрын
​@@cleigh3796 Makeup is fun for artists. It's like paint. I personally love my own face, but if I want to look more intimidating, I put on eyeliner.
@thenamesilkmoon1366
@thenamesilkmoon1366 4 ай бұрын
I cry i don't look menacing at all with eyeliner 😭 ​@@catwithquill
@rydiavalentine
@rydiavalentine 3 ай бұрын
Those filters are freaking nightmares 😱Body and face dismorphia is an epidemic omg. The worst part is that all of these extreme filters make people look actually ugly and they can't see it.
@briza_md
@briza_md 6 ай бұрын
"using their beauty to bend metal and concrete" :D
@sophiapainter-ij9mx
@sophiapainter-ij9mx 6 ай бұрын
I always love your insights and you’ve been such an inspiration to me this past year, thank you so much ♡︎
@sophiapainter-ij9mx
@sophiapainter-ij9mx 6 ай бұрын
NO WAY SHE LIKED MY COMMENT IM CRYING😭
@bawbawissane2
@bawbawissane2 6 ай бұрын
...didnt she just say being ugly is a good thing cause you get SA'ED less?...
@bawbawissane2
@bawbawissane2 6 ай бұрын
wait lol she deleted my response or what?!?!?
@squirlis1189
@squirlis1189 5 ай бұрын
These guys need spongebob. In particular when he says "Im UGLY and Im PROUD"
@amayaperry
@amayaperry 6 ай бұрын
I was literally just thinking about a video i saw a few years ago about ppl in the states getting plastic surgery to look like beauty filters from Snapchat.
@giorgiovespucci7589
@giorgiovespucci7589 6 ай бұрын
My ex girlfriend would always use these types of filters on snap chat and I always tried to remind her she didn't need them yet she always talked about how she liked the filters. 🤷 I dont think she ever believed me when I said she was beautiful, idk
@grace5116
@grace5116 6 ай бұрын
I'm living for these videos- and I think it's interesting how people denounce both filters and a natural photo online. At the end of the day I personally think it's about making sure you're happy with yourself & practicing self-care but not self-indulgence. Love the critical perspective you take on beautification tools & thank you for sharing!🎉❤
@karenfuentes5810
@karenfuentes5810 6 ай бұрын
I loved the ending.. the confidence that will give you the inner peace you don’t need anyone else to see ❤
@MinYoongi_0903
@MinYoongi_0903 6 ай бұрын
I am 18 years old Indian girl .165 cm and 50 kg so basically my bmi is around 18.3 My mom calls me fat because my thighs are fat saying they look like baby elephants Honestly its not just social media but society in general that influence your insecurities your average/healthy bmi for an Indian ranges from 18.5-22.9 I am already an underweight right now,my friend same height weighs around 43 kg and she's proud of that (she's heavily influenced by east asian beauty standards ,I was too but then I realized I am beautiful they way I am and that instead of getting influenced by ppl who I have 0 matching traits with except same human genes I should focus more on the ppl around me who compliment my natural beauty. I am a lot happier now but yeah I will exercise a bit to lose all this belly fat😂)
@EmmelineFanning
@EmmelineFanning 5 ай бұрын
Does your friend even have her period, this can't be healthy for teenager becoming young adult
@amethyst1062
@amethyst1062 4 ай бұрын
The only thing I will do is coffee grounds to improve my eyebags, my skincare(basic) and losing bellyfat(Anti-Ana/Anti-Mia)but I do not shame ppl with these conditions already having them it’s just not a good way to lose weight it’s the most disturbing way
@escobarines
@escobarines 3 ай бұрын
Hi! Do not by any means listen to your mother - you're coming of age and you'll slowly realize that you don't really need to act on other people's opinion of your life and health because you're the only one inhabiting your body, and you will hopefully do that for very very long. Gaining fat naturally in your thighs is great, health-wise, it means your fat is getting stored in a rather ideal and typical place for a woman. Fat in women plays a pretty important role in our metabolism and hormonal regulation. I'm talking energy, stress, hunger, and obviously female hormones. Google it if you want to know more! Your mom's generation listened to a lot of fat-shaming propaganda that science has since debunked! There was an agenda behind that, to sell certain kinds of foods... I'm frankly sorry for her. Of course excess fat can be an issue, but you're literally underweight, that has nothing to do with you. Take care and think of these things for the long run! You're seriously not looking at the final you when you're a teenager.
@maetherabbit9999
@maetherabbit9999 6 ай бұрын
It's fascinating that this is a thing considering how completely inhuman the filters make people look. It's the easiest aspiration because it can be achieved by an app
@snackchomp7235
@snackchomp7235 6 ай бұрын
@JuicyUTTPWHAT
@lecochono-o1906
@lecochono-o1906 6 ай бұрын
I feel so bad, now I know I need to go outside more and tell everyone there gorgeous. Ain’t no one need a filter even if you got acne or eyebags that just means your human and beautiful!!
@Bamgeutcutiepie
@Bamgeutcutiepie 6 ай бұрын
yeah it's all fun and dandy while you are inside the app... but you can't fool people irl 😄 😭 it's so cringe with those asian filter trends. it's SO funny, the filter that gives you incredible long skinny legs😄 ..... excuse me are you a cartoon? lol
@zoeunlimited
@zoeunlimited 6 ай бұрын
it's crazy how it's becoming more and more real though 😭
@ellieartzz
@ellieartzz 6 ай бұрын
fr, it's giving one piece body type lol
@S3verance
@S3verance 6 ай бұрын
Already slim girls using apps to become even slimmer is crazy
@leahmoogan5419
@leahmoogan5419 6 ай бұрын
it is crazy that we're inducing mass delusions about how people actually look
@thebilliexojean
@thebilliexojean 6 ай бұрын
I deal with real life body dysmorphia. The only time I ever use a filter tool is when I want to look less sleepy in a photo 😅 I do not alter my face, my skin, or my body. Living in the real world as a Black Filipina who is tall and curvy is complex enough! I’ve seen these video and makeup filters, and they really trip me out. I stay away from that kind of content whenever I see it pop up when I’m looking to try different makeup looks or hairstyles. I try to find creators who don’t rely heavily on filters to create, because that’s how I’m tryna be out here, online and off! I found this video extremely validating. I’d rather work on myself in real life and show THAT in my content 💕
@thewhitefang11
@thewhitefang11 2 ай бұрын
I remember going back to Korean school after I was really sick. Like I wouldn’t eat anything, and anything I did eat I just threw up. So naturally, I lost about 10-15 pounds. My Korean school teacher looked at me and announce to the whole class “Doesn’t Blake look so much more skinnier and prettier?” Like I was already self conscious in the beginning, but that comment made me want to cry. Like how my mom’s side is more conservative, and they were all born and raised in Korea. I remember while visiting Korea they would say stuff about how “We fat ones can’t eat it.” Like, I’m exercising, but it won’t work. I can’t loose weight. I hate it. I really don’t like beauty standards, but especially if kids and teens are pressured into giving into it. All those comments made me want to give up eating anything because I wasn’t hungry. I didn’t have an appetite, so that I could look pretty and skinny like the other girls at school.
@emilywang8841
@emilywang8841 2 ай бұрын
my family is the same
@cutechibichu
@cutechibichu 6 ай бұрын
omg, this is scary! We all know that what you see in magazines and on tv are not real, we know there's photoshop and editing but the whole body/face tuning that East Asia has is on another level! There were SO many times where I'd see a picture of the "doujin" makeup on pinterest and tried to do that make up on myself only to fail, thinking I'm just not good at putting on makeup but now I'm pretty sure it's just a filter! I mean there are people who are really good at makeup (I think, not really sure anymore lol). Anyway thank you SO much for shining the light on this! I can give up on trying to apply the filter with irl makeup!
@AJ_aayy
@AJ_aayy 5 ай бұрын
This is one good reason I'm not on social media anymore. I just don't feel like scrolling through literal lies. I miss when we shared experiences and related to each other, not this "I need validation for how I don't actually look."
@arusha._.
@arusha._. 6 ай бұрын
This video also points out that not everything you see on social media has to be real, i remember going through the "Douyin" side of Pinterest and I saw a bunch of images of beautiful Chinese girls, so beautiful that it almost looked like AI. It made 14 year old me feel so insecure. I had no idea that those pictures were heavily edited, I became so insecure to a point where i would cover mirrors just so i wouldn't have to look at myself and feel disappointed, the idea of taking pictures also seemed like a nightmare to me. The chase for beauty is really toxic in today's world, especially in Asia.
@Kaitopia_
@Kaitopia_ 5 ай бұрын
One thing I noticed is that many underground Japanese idols heavily edit the pictures they post and when others take pictures of them (like fans or when a concert ends) they cover their faces with their hands
@U-qho
@U-qho 4 ай бұрын
This is the case in entire East Asia not just Japan 🤣
@anhelinasv
@anhelinasv 6 ай бұрын
wow, thank you for motivating and inspiring to grow and improve youself. love your content
@CuriousLearnerX3
@CuriousLearnerX3 6 ай бұрын
"Use their body to bend metal or concrete-" thus, the "reality-bender" is born!! 💀🌟
@sigmaboy1995
@sigmaboy1995 3 ай бұрын
我以前在中国当摄影师,以前给网店模特拍照片都是不p图的,后面大概18年以后,拍摄的“网红”变多了,都要求美颜,到后面越来越夸张,我也不干这行了,因为我不是魔法师。 另一方面这些美颜软件给了普通长相的女孩一个机会,实现了某种层面的“平等”。
@barborazatkova6790
@barborazatkova6790 6 ай бұрын
Your vase in the background got my anxiety high
@Jesminda
@Jesminda 5 ай бұрын
Thank you! I thought I was the only one.
@Lex1Dlover
@Lex1Dlover 6 ай бұрын
i love your video and how you explore all sides of the story
@zarichuu
@zarichuu 6 ай бұрын
Outrageous title😭
@venuriyasaraart5946
@venuriyasaraart5946 5 ай бұрын
Both Chinese and Korean beauty standards are scary to be honest
@INTJ_5w4
@INTJ_5w4 3 ай бұрын
The fact that what is considered beautiful in Asia, is unattractive in South American countries. Technically, there is no point in torturing yourself to fit a standard. If your intention is to be considered beautiful by everyone, then you're wasting your time. International beauty does not exist. My mother and brother thought Adriana Lima wasn't that pretty. I think she looks like a goddess. Not everyone will learn to appreciate your beauty.
@LeeraPetermiko
@LeeraPetermiko 3 ай бұрын
Im glad I have good parents and siblings who mad me feel beautiful that I felt I didn't need beautifying apps or make up
@UniqueUserName713
@UniqueUserName713 6 ай бұрын
I don't post myself on social media often but when I do I make the decision to not use any filters because I used to have super low self esteem and I think it would be bad for my mental health to only see a "beutified" version of myself, I remember as a kid I didint even realize snapchat filters altered your face and shit and would get super sad because I didint look as good in real life as I did when I took silly pictures with snapchat
@schmidty6513
@schmidty6513 6 ай бұрын
Btw Zoe your beautiful, like I never see anyone on your level it’s crazy
@mangopig5507
@mangopig5507 6 ай бұрын
So glad you left accounting to bring up the topics I have thought about but never have anyone to talk about
@nalurodriigues
@nalurodriigues 6 ай бұрын
omg i used meitu in elementary school as well! i also showed my mom back in the day and she LOVED it, used for a few years as well 😅
@hey_wolf
@hey_wolf 5 ай бұрын
I absolutely love how our natural queen ShaSha SooSoo was brought up LOL
@lolaaaaa01
@lolaaaaa01 5 ай бұрын
14:25 TRUE!! I was also in elementary school when I discovered beauty cam and apps like such and at first it was just for fun but as time progressed, I started to become more and more insecure. Thankfully, my country banned that app, and I quitted social media.
@monus782
@monus782 3 ай бұрын
I’ve wondered in some of your other videos on whether the West is catching up with east Asia regarding these… standards and it seems that the answer is yes. And as a longtime anime fan I remember when real life big eyes were mostly a meme but it becoming real really freaks me out for some reason.
@Gravity.96
@Gravity.96 6 ай бұрын
I have first hand experience with the ID picture thing. I’m Chinese and work in Beijing, I receive a lot of internship CVs. Here in China, it’s a common thing to include an ID picture of yourself in the CV. Everytime I meet the student in real life, they look nothing like their picture and I barely recognize them. They look like the picture if I squint I guess. It’s so strange and I hate it.
@AvikaYadav-xe7zh
@AvikaYadav-xe7zh 6 ай бұрын
Why did I crack up when she mentioned one peice😂😂and honestly they dont look pretty rather creepy to me like is that even possible💀💀
@mist3995
@mist3995 5 ай бұрын
For people with Xiaomi phones: I discovered a couple months back that with the update came these beauty filters, I turned them all to the max to make funny pictures to laugh with my cousins but they really make you look like Chinese Models x Slenderman. Btw, if your photos look too smoth lately, the auto-smooth is turned on automatically, you have to go to settings to turn it off manually, this is on top of the "beautify" filter straight from the phone camera
@marzipan_69
@marzipan_69 6 ай бұрын
It's a little sad that no one is talking about central asia
@rainiminiatures2184
@rainiminiatures2184 6 ай бұрын
slenderman and slenderwoman is coming to get us
@TiredcatxD
@TiredcatxD Ай бұрын
As someone who is half asian half European, and who has lived in both the west and asia i have been affected by both beauty standards so much it actually pains me. From the age of 12 id remember there were days id cry and thing i wasnt worthy of living because i was ‘fat’ (i had an eating disorder and was well underweight) and because i thought i was ugly, i wouldnt even let myself go outside
@havensohn3821
@havensohn3821 6 ай бұрын
I’m ugly everywhere I’d have to disappear to fix whats wrong with me lmao.
@glo_win
@glo_win 5 ай бұрын
Don't tell this to yourself and live your life happily!!
@affectojfgidi1246
@affectojfgidi1246 6 ай бұрын
More people need to see this video instead of another portion of filtered beauty content. We're living in an illusion
@shethegurl_shurl4964
@shethegurl_shurl4964 6 ай бұрын
Looking splendid as ever❤❤❤
@Sarah-pj4vo
@Sarah-pj4vo 6 ай бұрын
Anime bodies and anime faces = This just reminded me of Jessica Rabbit - who is a 'glamourous' human like cartoon character from the 1988 movie ' Who framed Roger Rabbit?'... and guess this....she was apparently Roger Rabbit's wife in the movie! 🤣Even cartoon characters get married!😟😳🤣 ...But actual humans have a more challenging time getting and staying 'happily' married! 🥺😔
@madimoe8331
@madimoe8331 6 күн бұрын
She ate this outfit. ❤
@snowecaddel9454
@snowecaddel9454 6 ай бұрын
Skin colour, waist size, weight, curviness, skinniness, face size, leg size….this is insane. This isn’t some game where you can just customize your character💀I’m so glad my parents moved out of Asia.
@DestructionAesthetics
@DestructionAesthetics 2 ай бұрын
Girl the long form was EEXCCCELLENT!
@ayoZero._
@ayoZero._ 6 ай бұрын
i always looked up to the body type of franky and kaido in one piece. hope to achieve it in the near future ☝🏽🗣️
@Bubibichit
@Bubibichit 5 ай бұрын
very manly❤❤
@Mallikaaa_04
@Mallikaaa_04 6 ай бұрын
It's true that asian beauty standard is brutal. Like in India having fair skin and curvaceous body is the standard and sometimes people are bullied if they don't fit this. Even their own parents sometimes pass harsh and rude comments.
@MOUNABAADDI-wf1tr
@MOUNABAADDI-wf1tr 6 ай бұрын
It's huge problem in the word now but in the end we still live in reel word we can see the reality of each other 😊 Love you always froom morocco ❤
@DelJuna
@DelJuna 6 ай бұрын
Right😂
@cleocat1098
@cleocat1098 3 ай бұрын
Related to the balessa ad: I come from an asian household too and boy, the shock on my face when I learned how human reproduction works in 3rd grade in school was BIG
@aysmch622
@aysmch622 2 ай бұрын
I'm glad i'm those type of people that just accepted my little acne and little scar... And at least my body still average in my own country (not east asian standart) LOL
@gigithemouse
@gigithemouse 6 ай бұрын
People are afraid of themselves.
@eFOXize
@eFOXize 2 ай бұрын
I just want to say that I have never really struggle about my body, and yet in my 35 I am founding myself with intrusive thoughts about my body, especially now when facing health issues. So yes, it is already in life of everyone and everyone slowly developing body dysmorphia. Because it is everywhere. Thanks a lot for the video, its needed to create content like this.
@carmenmibert8528
@carmenmibert8528 12 күн бұрын
Whoah, this is sick. I love your true content of your video ❤
@thisnthat7760
@thisnthat7760 4 ай бұрын
As a 5'5 asian.. the last time i was 45 kilos was while i was in ill health and suffering from anemia, now I'm 49 kilos and my health is better
@ilovecatssosomuch
@ilovecatssosomuch 3 ай бұрын
wow :( im the same height as you and im 65 kilos, how do you do it?
@YilAmarillis
@YilAmarillis 3 ай бұрын
the more I see filter-faces, the more I got bored and be happy to see normal faces 😅 They kinda look all the same... And in the end: I am happy to not be a Teenager anymore and have a healthy relationship, so that I am not influenced by this (too much, I would lie when I say, I never tried filter but mostly because of my pores - But I could instead wear some foundation). I hope that people will soon wake up and see that naturalness is also beautiful and that strength and self-esteem make the eyes and smile shine on their own. It is so sad that there are more and more body dysmorphic people. But we ourselves are the cause of this huge wave. But this, like other eras, will be over in few blink of an eye...
@shio5234
@shio5234 6 ай бұрын
its a big reason im not on many social media. i have never had big issue with my appearance, but everything has this natural filter. even what should be a colour filter, squishes my chin and nose down. it makes me feel uncomfortable. because its like, this is how its preffered. even if i like myself, i find myself to play into it, because, i do find i like myself like that more. but its dangerous, because its not real. so i look in the mirror with a new knowledge, if i could just shave some of these things down, if i could be LESS, i would be worth MORE. which is not true. i love the human form, and its sad we all feel this pressure.
@Liligamer-vt7pb
@Liligamer-vt7pb 2 ай бұрын
Something similar actually happened to me. Recently my school took some pics of me for the student card and when i recived it i was photoshopped, my face was smaller, my neck basicaly didn't existed and my acne didn't existed either ( i have big cheeks [since i was born] covered with acne and i'm comepletely fine with it). And for those wondering if i live somewhere i asia, the answer is no, i live in Brazil
@UlzanaDallas
@UlzanaDallas 15 күн бұрын
This is WILD! I’m so happy i don’t live in Asia.
@lyanaslooking4heaven
@lyanaslooking4heaven 2 ай бұрын
0:10 AHHH ITS JIAEFK FLOPTROPICA UNITE🗣️
@Naya-Roseg
@Naya-Roseg 4 ай бұрын
The most I do to photo shop is to remove a booger I didn’t notice while taking the picture 😂
@jeremifrancisco1
@jeremifrancisco1 6 ай бұрын
Damn, don’t people notice the so obvious alterations, are people so oblivious to it?
@annetteareid4128
@annetteareid4128 6 ай бұрын
I was 16 when I realised the reason none of the pupils photographs on the walls had acne was because the school had been photoshopping it out. I only realised because I had a photo of me on the wall with completely clear skin when I knew I was having a huge breakout at the time. They did not ask if photoshopping was okay. I mean what teenager does not have spots at some time.
@holymacaroni2466
@holymacaroni2466 6 ай бұрын
I am currently in Vietnam and oh my gosh the people are all so pretty and lovely in real life. When I exchanged my Instagram with some people and saw their profiles, it really shocked me to see their completely different online persona. In some Hotels I got skin whitening shower gel and the Models on billboards Just don't look human. I hope somehow this extreme trend in south east asia just dissapears..
@aviscii
@aviscii 5 ай бұрын
I'm'n'a be honest: I'm a man, and not ashamed that I watch Zoe videos ... but that sponsor block caught me off guard
@TheMarvelsEdits-ce7ux
@TheMarvelsEdits-ce7ux 5 ай бұрын
I used to use this app that I think is Korean, and make videos on it when I was really little. (Not for social media, just for myself for fun) Not too long ago did i realize how light it made my skin, and how there was not a single "natural" filter that did not alter my face in some way.
@lalalanf2955
@lalalanf2955 6 ай бұрын
When Zoe said it's easier to edit your required results in pictures than actually work on body, suddenly I got reminded of 1st half of the movie WALL E where everyone were shown to be on their own virtual world. Where they'd completely forgotten about real human connection.
@yanamagera
@yanamagera 3 ай бұрын
I'm a classically trained artist. 9-heads body, meaning the height of a person equals to 9 head lengths, is not natural at all. It is not possible! The proportion is 7 heads, 8 with really tall people.
@kyle__dotme
@kyle__dotme 6 ай бұрын
1:38 - im guilty to this. i really just hate it when i dont look presentable in that pic but they still post it anw ugh
@lou__ley
@lou__ley 6 ай бұрын
I LOVE Zoe but have to say I always have mixed feelings about this “embrace your natural beauty” message coming from an actual natural beauty. Don’t want to sound bitter, but like…it would take filters upon filters for me to look as cute. Idk. It’s weird. Please keep making these commentaries though, Zoe, I really do find them so fascinating and well-researched!
@Tiny_Koi
@Tiny_Koi 6 ай бұрын
The beauty of people doesnt live in their skin, it lives in their hearts. I understand what you are saying but you need to be kinder to yourself. I used to think I was ugly because I used to compare myself to every other person, I wanted to be someone else. Beauty is in almost every person ive met its just that beauty isn't uniform like social media and magazines tell you it is.
@lou__ley
@lou__ley 6 ай бұрын
@@Tiny_Koi thank you, I do understand that. And I appreciate your kind words! There are many aspects of my appearance that I’m really happy with, but it’s those few big issues I have that keep me from being 100% content with myself. I do also try to be as kind and “beautiful” on the inside as I can, but of course that is its own thing and even though it’s even more important, and I totally get what you are saying, it’s ultimately unrelated to physical appearance. Idk. Maybe I’m naive to a bigger truth that will set me free one day but I doubt it so long as I have to keep living in a society 🥴
@andromedamessier3176
@andromedamessier3176 6 ай бұрын
Nah it just seems to me that your face doesn’t fit your OWN beauty standard. That doesn’t mean you’re not pretty. My sis is like that.
@lou__ley
@lou__ley 6 ай бұрын
@@andromedamessier3176 yeah, I can see that. I think you’re right. But… man it sucks since my opinion is the one that matters most 😅
@user-bi8ko7kc6h
@user-bi8ko7kc6h 6 ай бұрын
Similar to lip fillers and bbl here in the west 😅
@Bulmachan224
@Bulmachan224 6 ай бұрын
It's funny cause I naturally have the under eye thing when I'm really tired lol
@kendramarkworth6855
@kendramarkworth6855 6 ай бұрын
We are getting closer and closer to Ready Player 1 every day. Pretty soon, we won't be seen outside our screens anymore.
@adriannamorton0414
@adriannamorton0414 2 ай бұрын
Their bodies on camera: beautiful The fence in the background: ~~~~~~~~
@alishersarimsaqov3948
@alishersarimsaqov3948 5 ай бұрын
As long as you use this kind of filters and cameras, you'll want to don't show off yourself , don't want to live in a real life and judge yourself for not being beautiful so it leads to stress and other health issues. That's why I think being thankful for who and how you are is the best way to LIVE IN THE REAL LIFE because in this way, you don't judge yourself and spend more time with your family, friends, favorite activities,sport s and so on. I have something to tell you if you are reading this. 👇 Get more real friends rather than subscribers. Be clean. Believe and love yourself. Respect and spend more time with your family/friends/relatives. Learn usuful things. Find out who you actually are.❤
@jungshooked6532
@jungshooked6532 5 ай бұрын
Why do people not understand that every person is made different and is not supposed to fit in one freaking beauty standard, also the concept of inner beauty is vanishing these days It's bad
@Raba742
@Raba742 Ай бұрын
👌🏻so true
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