Share with us your grey area relationship stories!
@chengshengway4 жыл бұрын
Is it raining during filming? Because I hear like thunder sounds at 11:46 , 11:56, 13:27
@alonecozydot1954 жыл бұрын
50 shades of grey
@MusicMakesOne4 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed and loving this episode on 'grey area (in relationships)'! The perspectives from male and female gave me a good picture of how easy it is to enter a grey area; not communicating directly to the boy or girl, playing games and second-guessing. I absolutely like what Pepita shared here and knowing she, like anyone out there, could change her views on communicating and taking the courage to stand up for themselves. 'Care less about if they like you, Care more about if you even like them'. I'd like to see you guys do an episode on Emotionally Available Boys/Girls? yeyy?
@theflowergodleanne4 жыл бұрын
bruhhh bolin’s story got me looking at my screen like 👁👄👁💧
@alonecozydot1954 жыл бұрын
yea sia so intense man
@kitshan97984 жыл бұрын
At 0:00 why does Bolin look like he's font size 12 and rest of the girls are in font size 9
@alonecozydot1954 жыл бұрын
i cant unsee it now Arial 36
@potatochip37744 жыл бұрын
Bruh more like font size 100
@honeychristy80093 жыл бұрын
AHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
@chok21294 жыл бұрын
Bolin being appreciative and like the observant one and being happy for her change is soo cute like he’s genuinely happy for her and liked the change
@joeyyyiqi4 жыл бұрын
Girls need to learn from Peps (me included) regarding self-respect. It's really difficult saying no when you are in the situation. You go girl!
@hushy794 жыл бұрын
Kinda fitting that they are literally in... a grey area.
@chengshengway4 жыл бұрын
LOL
@clayjackpot46454 жыл бұрын
Was in a grey area once, and I now regret not asking if we were anything more. Now she’s attached alr and I still don’t know if she ever felt the same way I did...😔
@Rukawasendoh1174 жыл бұрын
5:34 captions are gold "everytime film with bolin always got "piak piak bam bam" 🤣🤣
@nikking55324 жыл бұрын
9:23 What Peps said hit hard.
@samanthaashleyy16934 жыл бұрын
Can you do an episode about platonic friends? 💕🥺
@alonecozydot1954 жыл бұрын
+1
@yinanisgood58614 жыл бұрын
love us a sensible self-respecting woman like peps!!
@BluuKiss3 жыл бұрын
I'm a girl and was the first to confess to my current partner, and now we've been together for 2.5 years and counting, and absolute best friends. :) Girls, don't be afraid to be the first to confess, better than bottling your feelings and spending so much time and energy guessing his feelings.
@TheRealBBFM4 жыл бұрын
Bolin, keep crushing it man! Talk loud, speak what you feel is right!
@summerswift134 жыл бұрын
Can we have an episode with Hafeez, Peps, Mandon and Chow? They have solid advices!!
@epiphadipity4 жыл бұрын
Wah the Bolin that one... One guy seeing her but she keep lead Bolin on??? Poor bobo
@gilliantoh46584 жыл бұрын
Totally been there. Was in that grey area in JC, then after army + studies it's just drift lor, plus didn't really have people to push and then parents and church being 'wait first'. Well ok so I wait until I single forever lor hahaha. I think the only thing was that the longer I was out the more I regretted not making that move and I almost felt I hurt people or led them on. Heck, good news, we are still friends and still keep in contact, we still religiously message each other on our bdays.
@nadynlia4 жыл бұрын
i've had a feelings for a guy for one year, i think. this happend few years ago, me and him met through app, we chatting, talked for days,months and almost a year eh. Of course at that time i asked him what are we, and he said ya just let it flow lah, i still need to make sure my feelings for you. Then I was ok, at least not so grey anymore, but a month later, he was dating with a girl. :) end of friendship
@alonecozydot1954 жыл бұрын
assh0le
@MusicMakesOne4 жыл бұрын
Do you think he led you on? If you don't mind sharing, have you ever confronted him to understand why he would date someone else when he was texting you?
@hikari4433 жыл бұрын
Man sometime can be such a ass..but oh well I got that too.i believed he is dating someone too but he just doesn't want to let me know which I don't know why.
@exolnctzen13843 жыл бұрын
Watching this video made me realize I am currently in my first grey area and confuses my mind everyday now.
@icemilo214 жыл бұрын
the confetti floating around bolin when he was telling his story - HAHAHA
@calmthefdown7893 жыл бұрын
I have a lot of grey area relationships, it’s pretty common in Indonesian dating scene which is really sad. Especially when you are above 20, the chances of being just in the grey area is bigger than proceeding into a relationship. It’s usually grey area for a significant period and then you’re done and most of the time you can’t be friends anymore with that person. At my age, it’s a milestone you if you are in a relationship, that shows how much grey area practices are there in addition to the presence of terms like situationships, FWBs, etc. Being in a relationship is like a crime cos you’re expected to be serious from your partner and even peers, there’s always constant pressure to marry, etc. I guess that’s why these terms happen and grey area exists.
@sarahneo42244 жыл бұрын
PEPS DATS MY GURL MAN!!!!! Love that attitude hahhahaha
@AngSu3 жыл бұрын
I had been in a grey area as well. I really like this person and I know that he likes me also. We would text each other a lot and even go for movies and lunches together but got another Friend of him thirdwheeling us. I always try to hint/signal him but he always brush it off. Then oneee dayyyy, I found out from his Friend that he has a gffff in another country. Why he never told me and kept flirting with meee?After that, I stopped pursuing, going out everything and didn’t text unless need ask sth. He try to get me back and ask for movie dates but I don’t want aldy... I feel lied to and all my respect for him is gone.....After some time, we met again one day and I spilled out everything... I told him I liked him back then and about all the signals I gave. He said he know also but he doesn’t want to get into rs that’s why he play dumb. But back then he continued to go out with me and never tell me about his gf... He aldy had a gf and want to enjoy with me? What kind of mentalityyyy??? Want to get two birds at the same time is it? Wtf.Mind blown.... really cannot understand....now I aldy have a good loyal bf who always make sure everything is transparent between two of us... and that is his third wheeling Friend 🤣(plot twist)
@callietoh12264 жыл бұрын
Omg so sad bolin can't talk freely cos peps kept judging him,, leah is just done which is so funny
@zzopL2 жыл бұрын
I never heard about grey areas but thx for making this video
@gbp-i3h4 жыл бұрын
ngl i thought the title said "Blackpink In Your Area" LOL had to do a double take
@jasontung52534 жыл бұрын
How you like that?
@soobiskates4 жыл бұрын
omg i feel so sad for bolin T_T if peps is queen of grey area i think im king and im not proud :(
@vanessaong764 жыл бұрын
Hi guys can yall do a video on bro/sis code and "breaking them"!!
@VendyHalim4 жыл бұрын
Bolin's [One Car Park Lot] evolves to [BamBamPiakPiak Lot]
@libraries1444 жыл бұрын
i cant believe my comment got featured HAHA but thank you, this question has been in my head for yearss
@IIblackwidowII3 жыл бұрын
Omg i feel so sad for Bolin but im laughing so bad. Im sorry
@glossyfabsab4 жыл бұрын
i've had feelings for a guy for more than a year now. a few months ago, we started dating. however, the problem here is that he has told me several times that he's not looking to commit anytime soon, aka he doesn't want to get into a relationship and is not willing to "settle down". he also has qualities of a bad boy and currently has multiple vices/red flags which i wouldn't want in a partner.... but i really love him and would wanna take this relationship further. what should i do?
@alonecozydot1954 жыл бұрын
i think just shoot your shot and tell him you like him first eh ! Like never assume if he like/ don't like you unless you're rly rly sure. Kudos to you for being clear w what u want girl! Then if y'all get tgt, in some point of your rs u need to sit down w him and discuss how to reduce the "red flags" and compromise, cus communication is rly key... Like if you don't like smt about him which might affect your rs, u need to tell him abt it. Even if it may be uneasy or scary to talk about it with him but you have to try. Because A r/s rly only works well if 2 ppl talk to each other ya communication rly key. Yea maybe jus let him know how you feel first and see how from there~
@archangel3231184 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't follow the advice given above. It means he's trying to keep his options open and will not prioritize you. On top of that, he has multiple vices which are red flags to you. Don't waste your time and effort on such a guy, go find another guy who will always prioritize you and have the qualities you are looking for. You can do so much better.
@alonecozydot1954 жыл бұрын
@@archangel323118 true dat
@pheebs20834 жыл бұрын
hmmmm... I think you already know the answer to your own question already. Never ignore red flags thinking they will resolve. Most importantly, don’t let your future self regret the choices present you makes!
@leechong22914 жыл бұрын
Hahaha, BOLIN our piak piak🏆🏅🎖️👏👏👏
@leevan50rrie4 жыл бұрын
In Europe/America etc they dont really have a 'confession' culture, it's a very Asian thing. Maybe your confession shocked the French girl / didn't feel like a natural progression of the relationship to her.
@alextks934 жыл бұрын
Now we know why Bolin was so worked up in the episode with Sew. So the parking spot was temporarily reserved for an Asian Renault.
@yipeyaya3 жыл бұрын
Great video!
@jasontung52534 жыл бұрын
Leah and Bolin forever bickering lol.
@hannes97884 жыл бұрын
Bolin's story sounds like an anime plot sia legit. Just my opinion if y'all don't see it that way, is fine
@Soulrrr3 жыл бұрын
i agree with peps here! not gonna give boyfriend privileges to someone who is not willing commit to me. i value her perspective, wish to see peps on more episodes of zula chitchats!
@cheryllim22624 жыл бұрын
pam: i like to touch veins me: where that subtle thirst trap go HAHAH
@natrahlee23184 жыл бұрын
STAN PEPS 2020
@magisterygaming38464 жыл бұрын
great episode
@yingghit974 жыл бұрын
The ultimate dream cast doesn't exi......
@rayquaza673 жыл бұрын
Leah is so hilarious 3:18
@phoebechng4734 жыл бұрын
would like to see discussion about dating at a later age or single thou being at the right age to be in one.. as normally the relationship discussion is more on the early age..
@jadeyywadey4 жыл бұрын
more peps plssss:>
@daniramdani15784 жыл бұрын
Does bolin has another clothes?
@alonecozydot1954 жыл бұрын
I don't think he has a wardrobe
@ronnnnnhaha4 жыл бұрын
um if you have time and dont think you would waste your time on me but can someone actually explain to me what does it mean by being in the grey area?
@Baijixiong4 жыл бұрын
Not sure what are we that kind, r we good friends or do we like each other
@ariel32344 жыл бұрын
an undefined relationship!
@alanchen66224 жыл бұрын
The area between friends and lovers.
@ronnnnnhaha4 жыл бұрын
yooo i didnt expect anyone to answer but thanks 😙
@KK-qo2zm2 жыл бұрын
Bolin never thought of what's next if she really accept him after he go over to Hong Kong to look for her (if she didn't change her hotel)?
@zaw35734 жыл бұрын
Omg Peps we like the same....... touch veins, dont know what we are..........
@matildawormwood41814 жыл бұрын
i can't get over how differently they sit hahaha cross open cross cross
@leechong22914 жыл бұрын
I've noticed too 😨
@kyliechia974 жыл бұрын
what is that weird echoey background noise once in a while in the video. (a bit like people's stomping on the floor) It's kinda distracting
@roddy54914 жыл бұрын
This episode is a grey area. All the uncensored vulgarities but "bam bam", "slurp slurp"...
@jybow4 жыл бұрын
Wha pat pat Bolin, had it rough.. :( 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
@tyenwang73424 жыл бұрын
Bolin真很可憐哈哈哈 btw I dont know if Bolin ever studied in Taiwan, when eh? cause i also live in Taiwan rn haha
@sakimylani2933 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHAA THE 3 GIRLS ARE GIRLBOSSING BOLIN FUCKING FUNNY