As an INTJ-A mom with an INTJ-T daughter, this is very very helpful

Yep. I am not doing work in the way my boss tells me to do it, because it is completely stupid doing it her way. So now she labels me as being hard to cooperate with. Ok, I am cool with that.

Wow! Spot on! I am a 59 year old INFJ, and I discovered that i am such a mere 5 years ago. I experienced all of the aspects detailed herein, again, WOW! 10:21

INFJ's can also fake being extraverts.

Um. I thought knowing what people were thinking was an infj super power. I KNOW what people think of me. And it proves right again & again & again. It's my crown that I know it, whether they think negative of me or not, does not matter to me. I don't care what they think, but I know what they think.

As a s INFP male I feel like this describes INFPs males as well. My best friend is an INFP female and we are basically just twins 😂

Im an Intj female and have always been treated as eccentric even by my father but ultimately they know Intjs will not take wrong decisions. Normal people think " can i do it or not" but Intjs think 'why cant i do it '

OMG! LOL ~ "Invisible!" I have had people lose their minds dealing with me in working environments. I once had a boss say, "What's wrong with him?! He's either visible or INVISBLE!"

i'm a parody of a paradox.

I am not even gonna watch this vid. Let me sum up being an infp man is terrible and I don't recommend it to anyone. Take care

After lining up the functions of INTJ and INTP on a spreadsheet, I believe that I've finally figured out why I keep flipping between the two on MBTI tests. I'm INTJ, but instead of introverted Intuition (Ni), I've got the INTP's Extroverted Intuition (Ne). The way I handle stress is also different than how the video talks about either type handling it. I'll get into a Thinking-Intuition loop. I've had to learn to just get up and do something else to disassociate from the problem so that my brain can reset and approach the problem with a fresh approach. It's pretty common advice, but it just works.

Yeah I'm seriously worried if I'll manage to meet a love of my life in the dating pool these days, as an INTJ-A woman.

The most frequently said: "If I need help, I'LL ASK. If I don't, please don't be bothered to offer it first, PLEASE'

I'm an INFP woman and I think most of my crushes have been men who are feelers. The idea that this isn't a masculine trait is nonsense. My dad was a soldier, but he has always had a kind heart and cared about my mom and our family. That's always been a top priority for him. Male feelers can be truly heroic and make the world better. Plus I think INFJs are really cool because y'all are very balanced in feeling and thinking. It's really cool to hear an INFJ talk about art and science in the same conversation. You guys are rare, but so needed in this world.

Micromanaging, no respect, fake people, idiots, time-wasters, human parrots that repeat whatever you say but really aren't listening, sensitive people, people who can't admit fault. People whom offer nothing to the convo.

My results were turbulent, but i think im a mixture of both. I dont care about other peoples opinions on my life, but i always seek self-improvement and always strive to grow and be better, even quitting jobs that doesnt satisfy my soul.

I do not buy the idea that INTJs are indifferent to the pain of strangers. The INTJ may not grieve if they feel that there is nothing that they can do to resolve the pain of a stranger, but that is because they are aware of the fact that the emotion spent on this does not make the situation any better for the stranger. Emotion without action is wasted emotion from the standpoint of an INTJ.

Kinda weird how accurate this is

I worked in high tech; I created a marketing strategy with a new market focused product that had never been tried before. A co-worker that was the director of marketing for our group was kept in the loop on this project but never got excited about the potential of this strategy. Literally, 9 months later he comes into my office all smiles and was telling me how great the program and how impressed he was. It took him that long to figure it out. By that time, the program had been funded by the executive staff and was a done deal. It is really disappointing when you tell someone that you respect their opinion something that thrills you, and they look at you like you are on drugs. 

9:35 Wow, that is an eerily accurate sentence. I have been dealing with a quite a few things the past 15 odd months. First starting university, realising that’s not where I fit in after falling into burnout. After that, I suddenly had no sense of structure in my life, so me and parents initially sought help for that. But, I didn’t click with my coach (nothing against her as a person) and thus I found it hard to tell her my problems lied deeper once I came to that realisation. And after that, I’ve been able to aim at the things _I_ want a bit better and I’ve been trying to be more outwardly authentic. I’ve not been feeling too great for the better part (or the worse part, I suppose) of those last 15 months. It’s been tough. And only quite recently have I stopped just internalising it by finally having been able to cry. Around close family and around friends. And even though I mostly feel sh1t now (I could go on a tangent as to how), I am confident that I will eventually grow beyond it. For the most part, at least. I _know_ the future will probably hold a lot of great things and it’s important for me to go out and take it. Being assertive for a change. It’s just frustrating that I can’t have that now.

When it comes to the second point, I’m currently not being spontaneous. I definitely feel that it harms me, because my Ne tries to spur me on. I am quite rational, I’d say. I’m a thinker (not in a thinker/feeler type of way, but I am introspective and I think a lot, which can lead to overthinking… and that leads to me staying in my comfort zone). But yeah, once I do convey outwardly what has been brewing inwardly for a long time, the results may come across as spontaneous or rash. But trust me, I thought things out.

"She frequently comprehends complex issues better than the majority of those around her... including GUYS!" A bit weird addition at the end there, as if this is generally uncommon with women. 🙄

Thank you..I do really understood you..us to us I got hope for the future..t

they say: The world around you is falling apart. I say: Don't worry; things can get better or worse. Hehe

I love this lol

I read because I want to be a better writer. I study how other writers do it well and even study how other writers do it poorly so I know what to avoid.

Described me perfectly!

"No, I am not irritated or upset about anything. At least I wasn't until you asked me that same question again for the thousandth time."

My father said, “I asked God for a son. He gave me a daughter with the character of a man.” He giggled after saying that. I think he got the best of both worlds.

They can’t handle us.

Ok so number 2 and number 1 seem to contradict each other.. anyone else see what I mean??

I am an INFJ and I have very vivid dreams that sometimes come true. Have been dreaming for years that a senior officer in MI5 with no intuition is being blackmailed over adultery by terrorists poisoning his country. He has a licence to kill them but they are blackmailing him and running rings around him because he has NO intuition! I also dreamt that he has a dangerous mole on his team, a woman he trusts because he has NO intuition. I was told in a dream that he distrusts someone called Kay but it's not Kay who is the mole. It's someone he trusts possibly called Sue or Suzanna. I wonder if these dreams have truth in them because I have a history of having some true dreams like the people in the Bible.

I dont we think its a race; self improvement is not about proving anything to anyone but ourselves. We always want to be the best version of ourselves.

funny how my boyfriend just took the personality test and I'm INTP and he's INTJ and it explains how we view things differently with similar approach in some aspects

My daughter is INTJ. She is brilliant and I love her to pieces. This helps me understand her. I am INFP, this helps my daughter and I connect.

I’ve always been on the outside looking in ! That works !!!

He is smart that’s for sure !

AAA I'm intp I understand

Intp here scarily accurate

I have these traits. Some days i wish i didnt.

"I'm not really an Extrovert, but I play one on TV."

This must be based on very healthy INFP's living their best lives. As an unhealthy INFP, this was one of the worst INFP videos I have seen.

Ive scared people, worried people, and had people assume I was angry or depressed. The entire time I'm thinking about a book and read and didn't even know that person was there.

So what do you ladies do for a living cause i need ideas !

I fucking hate being an INFJ

It was hell. No. No no no. NO! He had no emotional intelligence, my feelings were never understood and no matter how many times ive communicated my needs, it was dismissed and made about logic. It Was. Hell.

All im hearing is I need another INTJ. Seems perfect lol

i agree with everything except i am a true creationist with strong beliefs

I hear the sound of an accelerated metronome. I dislike feeling manipulated. Allow my level of interest to match with my internal indications.

INTJ-A but have some features of the INTJ-T in re goals. I don’t care about what others think about me because I can see people’s weaknesses miles away. In romantic relationships, I know exactly how the relationship will end before it gets started. What makes me an INTJ, period? I developed a comprehensive (grand) theory of social change in a few months when it took my professor 5 years to plagiarize his. I live between the abstract and empirical worlds. God is good. 👍