Why do we have to complicate things if a guy likes something about you embrace it. At least you are getting attention. There are many people when they getter older get no attention.

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I’m late but, we need an episode about how traditional BDSM & Kink connects w Anti-Blackness. Black men exploring BDSM Kink as traditionally practiced gives psychologically problematic energy imo. The role-play kink & many of the tropes have been in play long before Black Americans were treated as human in this society which makes exploring this as a black person more difficult. I would love to see BDSM kink that centers black ppl & does not rely on tropes & imagery connected with the Slave trade & the atrocity of that.

I'm an Australian white guys who loves dating black american guys. I enjoy their vibe and enjoy being with them. Is there any tips you can give me to be respectful. I know our cultures are different but i l love that. One of my friends is half black and I have known him for 20 years and his mother is black american so I have a good sense of being around a black family. I am drawn to their joy for life and positive attitudes. Any tips for forming a respectful bond would be appreciated.

In regards to the long distance topic, I get the sense from some men that they feel like guys long distance are more likely to cheat meanwhile they’ve been cheated on by every local guy they’ve dated??? I think trust, vibes, effort, consistency, attraction etc.. have no distance, but I do understand its not for everybody. I find the older I get the more I’d prefer someone more local but I’m still open to the idea of long distance.

Marriage is husband and wife/ not husband and husband/ do not pervert the marriage act/ family is man and woman not man and man/ children cannot results of two men/

When relationship is new 3-4 times a week minimum. After some time together frequency averages 2-3 times weekly

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"They don't want you. They only want who you can be" Bars. You are there, to fulfill their wants and wishes. The sex is not reciprocal. It is a dictatorship and it's tired and giving very unevolved

greedy for me the way i see it it dont mean to steal someone else resources , for me greedy mean me to go my own way and have my own resources even infinite things fixed things which me i like , that what it mean , dependency on someone else is part in imprisonment slavery

greedy for me mean to go my own way only while i dont see other people existences , is my self made self built rights to make it only in my own fixed way which me i decide single , togetherness is danger and imprisonment

me i like being fixed way , i am not going in the direction of the channel , i dont like multiple ways , because only me single i decide for myself and i like certain things , i allow you to go your own way maybe but i dont allow you in same coexistence with me , coexistence many times try to change me or to force me to like all kind of stuf which i dont like , i am not part in lgbt , it started from allowing you to be how you decide toward you forcing some sort of budhism mentality and i refuse that mentality , i refuse mixing with someone else , i go my own fixed way , i have my own fixed homosexual way to be a specific way to be , the channel agitate and stress me when it want to mix me or someone else with someone that when conflict apear , mixing is against personal decision ....so mkxing is a danger , very probable someone try to asociate with homosexuality in hope it will change it , that will escalate even more with fixed ways but for myself while i reject everyone existence and coexistence in same universe , i suport for each separated being to have it own personal space or similar to a universe where can even be fixed on a masive large scale without having to be bullied harased by lgbt , from now on i start being against mixing totally openly public and talk against any mix as mix is against personal decision , mixing sound similar to comunism and i dont want comunism and i refuse togetherness and coexistence of any kind and type , i am not changing my fixed way for someone else 🤮 , or for a comunity 🤮 , never , there is no negotiation , even negociation try to change my way so i refuse , i want my own certain thing type specific to exist and me to do not see other thing .... negociation is danger

Too late for me. Just got hiv.

Its interesting 🤔 as I look back on my life, I have dated and been generally attracted to Bi men.

J.R. is THE cutest!!!!!! And too funny 😂

I consider them to be bisexual straight men.. straight being the gendered aspect of the relationship and bisexual referring to the sexual aspect of it

OMG. Homeboy is right, Libras ♎️ and Scorpios ♏️ are VERY INCOMPATIBLE on paper. This is from a Libra dude, I cannot stand any of the Scorpios I have so far come in contact with.

Yes Dirty laundry is a great movie!!!

So what app is foe gay interracial dating? I'm in Michigan

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I love how she says she has privileges by passing as a woman and then those large strong masculine hands came into the screen😳😳😳😳

03:50 I’m a hoe in transition to being a housewife. I had an OF and that was not an issue for my man. The thing is I chose to do it. My man happens to be openly Bi.

Thanks for having us. 🙏🏿🖤

He is spot on about having to work on you. That’s where the work takes place and that’s what makes it “hard.” I’ve always said a relationship is only going to last up to the point where you stop confronting and correcting your own shit or if you continue thinking the other person is suppose to fulfill or “complete” you. Learn what makes you tick and what you need out of life to be self fulfilled, and also learn what you need to heal from. Your partner only reflects back to you the triggers within yourself that you need to work on. That’s the work. That’s the hard part. The relationship will only enhance your prexistent or nonexistent happy place. This comes with the need for extreme self awareness. Thanks for listening to my by Ted Talk lol. I am 4.5 years SGL married, 12 years together in total and while he’s the easiest and most peaceful companion I’ve ever had, the relationship itself has been a lot of work. But good work 😊

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Not me because someone is straight. I don't feel safe around someone homophobic. The question is why don't you feel safe around straight people?

I think bisexual women have a 50/50 chance of being in a same sex relationship but bisexual men have a higher preference for a heterosexual relationship. I think the lure of a heterosexual lifestyle is too much for most bi men. I’ve seen quite a few relationships end because bi men want children and it’s easier with women .

How swallow of you. He called dressing, stuffing? That was your deal breaker? Dinner sides?

I love labels. Lets me know who is who and lets me know if we are compatible. State your business up front.

Sick. Really sick.

The grass is truly greener , where you water it.

"This isn't good for YOU. So, it's not going to be good for him."

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I luv a thick guy. I find thickness to be very attractive and I love nice hugs and cuddles 😍

Generalizing the personality of a whole group of people based on their sexuality is so childish One doesn't really have anything to do with the other

Most big guys aren’t good because they don’t have a lot of practice due to most of the bottoms they met who got excited by their size but couldn’t take it. Smaller to average guys are almost never turned down. So they get much more good sex. Plus, they have to work harder to prove they’re as good.

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It’s incredibly selfish to just be “looking out for your own health”. That mentality is really dangerous to our community. Do better

Marica nailed it... It reminds me of the tv show Pose where LuLu tells Bilanca: "it all comes down the totem pole until it gets to us on the bottom for others to stand on and feel taller (closer to God in this case). Its a blessing when no one can stand on you anymore.

Everything went down the drain when people became obsessed with “roles” and what those roles meant. As time went by, guys started using these labels to determine who were the “men” in the relationship. Allow sexual roles to be determined on a case-by case basis, and allow the energy between two people determine what they want to do, And consider using ALL the f your body parts to get the best sexual experiences you can have.

The hook up culture is real

My experience with bisexual men is that they see gay men as second class partners. Gay sex is fun but they don't want to face the hostility that gay men sometimes experience and therefore prefer women for serious relationships. Also, it's easier to start a family with a woman.

Imagine catching your top bf , bottoming 😬

👑Congratulations💙, Dr🩺. Daniel

LOVE DBGM posdcast ❤, but why is Wes on this one. He seems very closed off and stuck in his ways of feeling he can’t learn anything new. I could just imagine how his podcasts go!😅

I romantically and emotionally checked out on Bi/pan/DL men,They are just for sex and sex only. I had bad experiences with men who are not attracted to men exclusively and I tried to be as open minded as a could but this is what made things worse. I involuntary checked out emotionally and romantically on those men completely. I will talk to you only when you are hot and deep down I know that it’s because of lust not because I actually like you. Back in the days I wanted those men to see me and love me but know they actually come and when he starts to act all lovey dovey it makes me cringe but when a gay guy does it, it gives me butterflies.

I enjoyed this conversation. Regarding the reading of books, as the super-power country in the world, it's sad that the culture of the U.S.A. is so anti-intellectual. In almost every TV show and movie, popularity and/or being a sports jock are glamourized and the smart kids are ridiculed as geeks. No wonder the U.S. trails other countries in terms of education and has so many dumb / willfully ignorant / bigoted people (voters). 🙄 Then, with respect to the black community in the U.S., I've heard many accounts where black kids are teased by other black kids for acting 'white' if they are smart and well-spoken -- which is such a self-defeating part of African American culture. Hopefully that's changing. 🙏🏽

I used to be very religious, now Im not. Being black and gay. I feel like mainstream abrahamic religion just wants nothing to do with me. I don’t believe in the religious concept of a God anymore but I’m much more at peace than I ever was with the Jesus people.