Why Black gay men END UP ALONE | why 🏳️‍🌈 guys don't DATE TO MARRY

[@rodeclectic1068]

"We are hosting....Thanksgiving 👀 " 😂 after the host said it was recorded the day after Thanksgiving. Lol...#productive I get it.

[@george4u1960]

I’m not alone. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 42 years. I started out as the gay boy and now I’m transgender and I’m still with the same person you don’t know how to work your shit not all about muscles. All those things that you black brothers do who got the biggest butt who’s got the biggest penis all that mess start looking for love Who you are and you will have a successful relationship❤

[@Earthsylewind]

Even when you do tale away those things it’s STILL hard 😂

[@rogieherman6202]

I love your channel...I am not of your culture but finding love is universal and your channel highlights the need for us gay men to find and be loved. Keep up the amazing work Jai❤❤

[@dearblackgaymen]

Thanks for your support. You’re always welcome

[@kommetkhan2979]

@48:30 the story of how they met, it can happen. But to Jai's pount, people in general are obsessed with the idea and don't want to do the work behind the scenes to keep each other engaged. Specifically with black men, not many guys are willing to be that vulnerable and actually be that honest with another man. If he was white maybe. But black...i wouldn't hold my breath.

[@unknowndawgg7712]

this comment hits home so much istg

[@salpritalian81]

Great show. Love your shows. The realness. God bless 🙏

[@dearblackgaymen]

Thanks for watching with us. We love bringing some positivity to the culture.

[@DarylWalter]

Great show very enlightening

[@dearblackgaymen]

Thank you so much. What was your favorite part?

[@DarylWalter]

Honestly I loved the whole interview but I especially loved the appropriate or off base game.

[@jamesmason2605]

Great interview

[@kingjames9363]

Very nice couple! This episode is a 💎. Great conversation.

[@pyscez93]

Why someone being a total top or bttm being issue, is something I never understand, what’s wrong with that if someone gets off a certain way when it comes to sex 🤷🏿

[@dearblackgaymen]

Are you a total something?

[@pyscez93]

@@dearblackgaymen I consider myself a total bttm

[@StLBlknight]

This was a great episode. Loved the guests

[@dearblackgaymen]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@kommetkhan2979]

@15:30 100% agree. Same take for me. I love a girly man. But that attraction is not always mutual. About 9 of of ten guys I find attractive don't feel the same way about me. I don't want to say I'm an equal opportunity person because of course the attraction has to be mutual and of course. But I definitely agree, many of these guys don't want any of the guys that want them.

[@martinsinnerbrink]

Great show, loved the guests 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤😀😀😀

[@dearblackgaymen]

Thanks so much. Loving the support.

[@aleebell1]

I'd like to see older men as well (seniors)

[@Bobby-4200]

Love this fucking channel ❤ thank you jai and everyone who makes it possible I can’t wait to see it get bigger and jai please always remember to take care of your mental and know you have people who actually care for you

[@dearblackgaymen]

Thank you so much. I am excited to make this content and comments like these are just the inspiration we need to keep going.

[@rogieherman6202]

Omg...me and my fiance are Libra and Scorpio. And we just fit! This couple is IT...they speak truth

[@dearblackgaymen]

I know I learned a lot from them

[@Earthsylewind]

I swear every time i hear of a loyal gay libra i be soo surprised lmao

[@CortezTheKyng]

Preach pastor!

[@steph060286]

What’s the prom code for the bags?

[@dearblackgaymen]

DBGM15

[@jerryanthonygrigger]

Real love like soulfully felt love is deep, so it will be difficult. But I only want real soulfully felt love. This is powerful to see a married couple speaking. Def need more of this. It's the glimmer of hope.

[@dearblackgaymen]

Gave me some hope too. Thanks for sharing this

[@jerryanthonygrigger]

@ most def yo. Thank you for this podcast. A podcast to learn & listen from.

[@tonyrossbackinthedaymusicv3107]

I really enjoyed this couple, Thanks for sharing.

[@dearblackgaymen]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@robinr.n.416]

The honesty part ❤ 👌🏾

[@dearblackgaymen]

Thanks for your comment

[@claudewashingtonkevinthoma6527]

While they did have some insight there are things that are nuanced for this couple. It would be great to see a panel of multiple couples and multiple singles at different stages of singledom and coupledom

[@dearblackgaymen]

We may work on that

[@Earthsylewind]

@@dearblackgaymenplease that would be awesome

[@curiousboy88]

OMG. Homeboy is right, Libras ♎️ and Scorpios ♏️ are VERY INCOMPATIBLE on paper. This is from a Libra dude, I cannot stand any of the Scorpios I have so far come in contact with.

[@dearblackgaymen]

Libras are something else

[@milesbell11]

Love this and love them 🥹🥲 it’s possible 💚🤞🏾💛

[@user-yj2em2wi2s]

The host like generalized a lot. Your personal experience within the community does not apply to everyone

[@justgojustdoit3363]

A lot.

[@dearblackgaymen]

Understood. Thanks for adding this

[@TonyaD77444]

Both Jesus and Elijah returned as women and will marry each other. Matthew 19 12 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ says God prefers same-sex marriage and confirms transgender people are born that way.

[@doctordl7757]

​@@TonyaD77444😅😅😅 are you serious 😂😂😂

[@TonyaD77444]

@doctordl7757 You're allowed to be taken with the wicked if you want. If you want to make a decision to choose your own death and if you want to continue rejecting the truth you're allowed to. It's your own free will to make a decision that dumb. There's nothing I can do about it. It's your choice.

[@CortezTheKyng]

They are the cutest 🥰

[@jaithegentleman]

Ain’t they. It’s exciting to see them on the show

[@andrewyoung9202]

In Gay America 🇺🇸. It exists elsewhere!

[@dearblackgaymen]

Have you found it for yourself?

[@user-yj2em2wi2s]

The host really has an issue with this whole fem vs Masc topic and it’s giving insecure. People are allowed to have preferences and that’s ohk. So what if you fem and nobody wants you, it’s still ohk

[@allenmaa7064]

Is that you SaySo TV?

[@dearblackgaymen]

What are you talking about?

[@Bobby-4200]

@@dearblackgaymenright

[@anthonyr7208]

The hook up culture is real

[@thomasdahl2232]

My goodness, you guys live in a bubble. Get out of the gay dating scenes and you'll see that gay people all over the world live like everyone else.

[@dearblackgaymen]

Are you white-splaining here?

[@willionaire4204]

Higher vocabulary please 😅

[@justgojustdoit3363]

I normally don't click on rhese gay wanna be channels. But I really thought this would be a good topic but Im out after rhe first 6 minutes because of the host and his already stupid, bias and ignorant comments....i the first 5 minutes. And lots of interruptions injecting HIS bias not actually interviewing. Im out, from Thailand.

[@dearblackgaymen]

Thanks for stopping by though