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@RoyalJewels-xy9il 8 минут бұрын
Amen🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
@Vienna-ng6ix 21 минут бұрын
Even my parents look at me sideways when I wear my naturally shrunken afro and say, "Whatchu gonna do with that head?" 😑 I realized then how cooked the black community was... insulting YOUR own child about how they naturally are doesn't make sense to me. I understand that their generation is just like that, apparently, but being Christian and almost 65 years old, how haven't you learned a thing or two about how to be a decent person yet??
@omg3544 Сағат бұрын
Facts to the title
@healwithmare Сағат бұрын
💯💯💯
@chaynecotharn2161 Сағат бұрын
I wish I knew how to braid to get your hairstyle. I would wear that forever lmaooo❤
@Mindful_Actions 2 сағат бұрын
I’m binge watching your videos today..but I have been feeling like this..I love the decorations they are beautiful the lights, trees etc but I don’t care to be spending a ton on toys I end up throwing away soon as I step on one and hurt my foot lol.. I think me and my kids will start volunteering on Christmas instead
@healwithmare 2 сағат бұрын
Thanks for engaging with my content! I like the decor too. That’s one thing I still do enjoy but this year I didn’t enjoy it as much as I typically do. The toys don’t hold my daughters attention for long AND I step on them. I completely understand what you mean! I love your idea about volunteering with your kids. I definitely plan on adding my daughter in to the volunteering when she’s older. She’s only 20 months so she’s not allowed to volunteer at the homeless shelter with me yet
@Mindful_Actions Сағат бұрын
@ yes my daughter is 9 my son is 3 so he can’t but my daughter and I will definitely be volunteering this year..I’ve been reading my Bible more and I believe that’s what God meant by “to much is given much is required” he wants us to give to serve and not our family and close friends but those we don’t know those that have less than we have
@JadynG 3 сағат бұрын
There are people who are Asian or white (majority straight hair) that try to replicate Afro hair. It’s just not as popular as wearing straight hair (they probably bored with the same ol). However I do agree we need to accept our hair… we can start by learning how to properly take care of our own hair without using other people hair or that Kankelon hair that is an endocrine disruptors (mess up your hormones).
@healwithmare 2 сағат бұрын
Hey Jadyn! I lived in South Korea for almost two years, traveled to Hong Kong, Shanghai, and Bali, Indonesia (there are tons of videos here on my channel of me in Asia) and I NEVER saw those Asians who wear Afro hair. That doesn’t mean they don’t exist. It means they aren’t a majority or even a minority. I’m guessing it’s a very tiny subculture because I’ve never seen it in the flesh. I’ve also traveled to a lot of European countries and never saw a white person with Afro hair (I have plenty videos of me in Europe here on my channel). I’ve been to 26 countries total so far, so I am extremely well traveled. I’m still here in Accra, Ghana and I see Asian and Eurocentric wigs everywhere on African women. YIKES. Just had to say that..WE have the problem with our hair. That’s our burden that we carry and have to deal with. The first thing I personally had to do wasn’t to learn my hair. The first thing I did when I started this journey was to believe what God said about me being fearfully and wonderfully made. I still don’t completely understand my hair yet. But I look forward to spending time with my hair each day because my mindset has shifted. It’s a beautiful thing 🥰
@JadynG Сағат бұрын
@healwithmare I understand your point of view. In my original comment, I can agree on majority of what you said. However, understanding how to do your own hair is important when on this journey for acceptance in my opinion. As someone who has gone on a journey to accepting their own hair. It definitely starts with God ALWAYS. Then, secondly siting to understand our own hair ourselves. We put faith in other people on what’s best for our hair without spending time to know our own hair best. Learning one’s temple that God has graced us with is a beautiful thing. As someone who’s taken a walk with God on self acceptance, I’ve come to realize that it’s important to become a master of oneself in multiple facets. I pray for you to continue your journey and self discovery especially with your hair💜
@ChronicallyEngaged 3 сағат бұрын
Damn this the best way I’ve ever heard it put.
@healwithmare 3 сағат бұрын
I’m glad this video spoke to you ❤
@HakunaMatata4212 3 сағат бұрын
I started feeling this same way even about flat ironing my hair. I wont say i NEVER do it...but it literally used to be my "look" straight hair...my mother is Colombian and my father is black and i have very curly hair naturally and for so long i struggled with a sense of identity. Once i started my walk with the lord, i started feeling like those j.cole lyrics started coming to life when he said "no need to fix what God already put his paint brush on"...its like a slap in the face to alter your look, as if our eye or standard for beauty is better than the creators. 🎉 i love this, i love your content. ❤
@healwithmare 3 сағат бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing you experience here. I pray someone reads this and gets inspired! It is truly freeing to love and embrace the beauty that God has given us! 🥰
@HakunaMatata4212 2 сағат бұрын
@healwithmare thank you for responding 🥰!
@queen1001 3 сағат бұрын
Hi Mare, I recently bought your E-book And was wondering where do you recommend for me to buy those ingredients for my edges? I also have traction alopecia.
@healwithmare 3 сағат бұрын
Hey! Thank you so much for your support and purchase. I hope you’ve been enjoying the e-book so far. I got all of the ingredients from Amazon. Hope that helps 💗
@healwithmare 4 сағат бұрын
I am so thankful my memory cards have all the footage stored. But I am so annoyed that I can’t record more footage on my camera. My husband brought his so I’ll be using that. But the devil is so basic! He does this every time He sees me elevating. God also gives the devil permission to do these things in order to prepare and refine me. I am no longer blind to the schemes of the enemy. I’m moving forward and creating content for you all. We are going to change the world on this channel! Love y’all ❤
@Tina_O 4 сағат бұрын
Hey girlie. Are you ok? I just read about a bombing or something that happened at a clothing store in Ghana (I think the same location where you are). Although I read there were no fatalities (thank God), I pray that you and anyone you traveled with are safe and sound 🙏🏾.
@healwithmare 4 сағат бұрын
Hey Tina! We are doing well. Safe and sound. I heard about that too. The world is off to a wild start in 2025. We are covered by the blood of Jesus ❤❤🙏🏾✝️✝️
@RoyalJewels-xy9il 9 минут бұрын
@@healwithmare Amen🙏🏽🙏🏽 Remain safe Goddess❤️
@Mindful_Actions 4 сағат бұрын
Wowww..he does things like that very sneaky but predictable..I just bought my first camera today…This year is the year…
@healwithmare 4 сағат бұрын
Girl I'm so glad you're moving forward and trusting your intuition. Keep going and let me know if you need any help. I’m rooting for you 🫶🏾
@Mindful_Actions 3 сағат бұрын
@ Thank you!!! I appreciate it 💙
@_mangolassi 4 сағат бұрын
Woman to woman, your naturalness is sexy.
@_mangolassi 4 сағат бұрын
You didn’t have to finish your sentence, I already knew you were gonna say everybody was in a wig. Just gross. A community of self loathing individuals 🙁 I can only imagine what those types would think about someone like me who wears an Afro and no make up lol
@healwithmare 4 сағат бұрын
It’s a shame people would rather wear someone else’s hair than their own. 🙄 I’m proud to wear my afro and embrace the beauty of my natural hair, and I hope more people can join me. I’m glad to hear you proudly wear your fro as well ❤
@_mangolassi 4 сағат бұрын
@ Oh yeah, my pfp is our fallen sis, Gangsta Boo her soul rest in peace. I say anyone that has bitter emotions towards your video really just has to do the spiritual work to change. I look at it as art. I appreciate you bringing this up. The first rule of life is to love yourself
@healwithmare 3 сағат бұрын
@@_mangolassi For me I love God first and everything else falls in line. God already said He made me in His image. I believe that and no one can make me feel insecure ever again, now that I know the truth. Thanks for engaging with my content 💗
@blaqueruby4946 4 сағат бұрын
I love the beads...
@healwithmare 4 сағат бұрын
Thank you. Me too 🥰
@philtoner2621 5 сағат бұрын
You're real and that makes people beautiful
@healwithmare 5 сағат бұрын
I completely agree! I pray more people choose to be real and stop following the masses. Thanks for this comment 💗
@lisapokuboateng7135 5 сағат бұрын
And then the other excuse "the wigs are not white hair, they are brazilian/indian hair"............... like they think they ate with that comment. 🤣
@healwithmare 5 сағат бұрын
Lmao right, as if that’s any better?! It’s still putting someone’s beauty above your own and promoting their beauty for free. I stand ten toes down on the title of this video 🤣🤣🤣
@kimigirl4794 8 сағат бұрын
I needed this video and you are so right.
@healwithmare 7 сағат бұрын
Glad this video came on time for you 💗
@aniya_hill1922 9 сағат бұрын
Did I just find my people?!!😫. I used to get look at crazy for saying I will never put something in my hair that’s doesn’t look like me. And heavy on “we invest in texturism” how do we expect our kids to love themselves if we don’t show them what that means first?
@healwithmare 7 сағат бұрын
You found your people, Aniya! Welcome to the channel. We are here to level up in our God-given beauty. I’m tired of making excuses. Loving my hair is a choice. I have a daughter and she deserves to live freely ❤❤
@TargetedIndividual101 13 сағат бұрын
Rocking braids children wear isn't gonna get u that spanish or white man 😂😅. Wear hairstyles appropriate with ur age
@healwithmare 13 сағат бұрын
Yikes. This comment tells me a lot about your mindset. I’m happily married and thriving. God bless you and may your mind be set free in Jesus name 🙏🏾
@3Kitchen6Karma9 19 сағат бұрын
Peace & love thank you
@healwithmare 18 сағат бұрын
You’re welcome 💗
@Swayvystarr 20 сағат бұрын
just looked at my 613 glueless and sighed. All jokes aside, this was a really compelling perspective...like ouuuuuu...clock it
@healwithmare 15 сағат бұрын
Lol 🤣. I appreciate your silliness. I’m truly done signaling to other races of women that they are better than me by wearing their hair. I am literally perfect the way God made me, so are you ❤
@BrittanyKath 22 сағат бұрын
This was my last hairstyle before I locked my hair and I loved it. It looks beautiful on you
@healwithmare 22 сағат бұрын
Thank you Brittany! You and your locs are stunning 😍
@BrittanyKath 19 сағат бұрын
@ thank you 😊
@healwithmare 14 сағат бұрын
@@BrittanyKath you’re welcome ☺️
@HanRosetta Күн бұрын
Whew you look AMAZING❤
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
You’re too kind. I appreciate that 🥰
@lalat5899 Күн бұрын
I just want clear skin. I understand but nothings wrong with wearing wigs and makeup as black women we’ve been doing it(playing with our hair and makeup) since the beginning of time. But I feel your sentiment
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
Honestly, my skin started clearing up when I got closer to Jesus and stopped wearing makeup. Just a tip. Also, just because we’ve been doing something for so long doesn’t mean it’s the right thing to do. Something is seriously wrong with not feeling comfortable in our own God-given hair. Thanks for engaging with my content 💗
@exveganbadgal Күн бұрын
Girl you look gorgeous!
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
Thank you 🥰
@exveganbadgal Күн бұрын
Amen! Gorgeous African lady!! Thank you for repping our god given beauty! ❤
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
I'm so glad my message is resonating with you! Thank you for the compliment 🙏🏾🥰
@lisalee3067 Күн бұрын
Your braids are beautiful! Absolutely agree with you if you love yourself you represent you. I’m a loc wearer and I love my hair.
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
It’s truly that simple! People want to write think pieces and convince me otherwise. Absolutely not. What you love, you promote. I love my God-given hair so I promote it by wearing it happily. Thanks for this comment! Locs are gorgeous 😍
@shishim6813 Күн бұрын
This was so good
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
So glad you enjoyed the video 🥰
@CharlotteMasonTT Күн бұрын
Ppl are so prejudiced about hair - if you’re hustling in the Fortune 500 workforce , there’d be haters. I experienced that ! I’m not a wig wearer but It’s a fashion accessory and covering, not a big deal. You don’t face expose all your essence to the swine
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
A fashion accessory that is someone else’s hair texture? It’s not that simple unfortunately. I used to fall for that rhetoric back when I was a wig wearer but no one can fool me ever again. Remember, my opinion shouldn’t matter if you are content with the way the world is. But over here we are leveling up in our God-given beauty. Period 💗
@FeminineCityJazz-qd2zm Күн бұрын
I’m here for the hair 🙌🏾
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
Thank you! I’m really going to miss the ease of getting nice styles done here in Ghana 🇬🇭
@katechipata9934 Күн бұрын
Going by your logic, we promote the cosmetics industry when we wear makeup 😂😂🤦🏾♀️
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
This comment is awkward because that’s exactly what we do…😅😅🤣. Thanks for engaging with me! Hahaha 😂
@4blikeme165 Күн бұрын
Lmaooo you PLAYED YOURSELF. Please go read a book. So silly 😂😂. Duh you promote the cosmetics industry when you wear makeup. You thought you were making some magnificent point? So strange. The things some Black woken will say to hold onto their Asian wigs lmao #demonic
@victoriadrummond9244 Күн бұрын
Your hair is done and beautiful.
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
Thank you so much, Victoria 💗
@marydanessa Күн бұрын
Glowing ❤❤❤
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
Thank you, Mary 💗
@curlswithisa Күн бұрын
Finally girl say it louder
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
Someone had to say it!
@europasatellit3 Күн бұрын
Thank goodness everyone os entitled to their opinion. I don't promote anything when I decide to do whatever on my head. What others think is not my thoughts or intentions. They are free to project all they want. I love my natural hair and rock it often. I love wearing turbans and rock it often. I love wearing extension braids and rock it. I love wearing curly bundles and rock it. I like doing whatever to my hair without worry of color or heat damage. I don't like straightening (chemical or the device straighners) or coloring my hair, hence the use colored extension and bundles. If others think that's promoting people's hair texture, so be it 😅. Everyone likes to talk about hair. How about our fashion style? Most wear european styles, ones that weree started during colonial times. Some wear their traditional outfits but the majority of people only wear them in the country of origin. Examples are India, Middle East, and some Black majority African countries. Anyway, enjoy styling your hair how you want without worry of others' options
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
I’ve been set free. I am sure of myself and the hair that is naturally attached to my scalp. Which is why there is no use in truly responding to the points you are attempting to make. Our God-given hair is all we need. It’s beautiful and the way God intended. Period. Thanks for leaving this comment and engaging with my content. It helps my channel a lot 😍🤗🙏🏾
@4blikeme165 Күн бұрын
@@europasatellit3 yall always want to justify your insecurities. Keep snatching your edges. On this side of KZbin we are content with where our hair is at in the present moment 🙌🏾💗☺️
@CaribbeanGlow Күн бұрын
I will never forget i was in a popular shopping area on the boarder of a Black and Hispanic neighborhoods. All the black women wearing 30inch buss downs with the caterpillar lashes, im the only one that day with my puff picked to the heavens above. Big, full, luscious. I felt beautiful that day. I walked into a supermarket and the Hispanic cashier coudlnt stop staring at my hair. (I had sunglasses on), her entire body language looked so uncomfortable and started to caress her straight hair over and over, while almost forgetting to scan my items. It occurred to me that she was probably so use to black women wearing her beauty on her head, that when seeing one who didnt glorify her beauty, it made her uncomfortable. Imagine having black women, daily, for weeks, months, years, decades, spending billions to look like you, giving you an ego boost out of this world and you ran into one who didnt. Who found her own beauty worth celebrating. I didnt give her that ego boost and it made me smile cause I will never wear another race's texture to covery the glorious crown I've veen blessed to have by God Himself!
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
Girl this comment had me smiling ear to ear! They don’t know how to respond to our confidence and natural God-given beauty. The minute we finally realize how gorgeous our hair is, the minute they start to question their own beauty. It’s pretty sad. At the end of the day we are all God’s beautiful children. I truly love being comfortable in my own skin. No one can take away the confidence that God has blessed me with. 🙏🏾🥰
@NatalieMayOfficial Күн бұрын
Looks so lovely!! 🥰
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
Thank you so much ☺️
@laurendilaurentis6467 Күн бұрын
You kill every style 😍😍
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
You’re so sweet. Thanks, Lauren 💗☺️
@GREYNIN2462 2 күн бұрын
Im Ghanaian and 30-40 dollars 😅 they practically robbed you
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
And as an American, I’m okay with that and I know they waxed me girl. I love the finished look and it would have cost $100+ in the USA 😅
@tizzubestar 2 күн бұрын
It looks gorgeous!
@healwithmare Күн бұрын
Thank you 😊
@N3VLYNNN 2 күн бұрын
One thing you have to understand is that Africa is like 50 years behind the U.S. in terms of decolonizing your mind and embracing natural hair. All of that "black is beautiful" culture came from African-Americans. Don't go to Africa expecting to see "motherland" love. It's even more regressive, with the exception of extremely remote villages that have retained all of their pre-colonial customs.
@healwithmare 2 күн бұрын
Actually, there are definitely women here rocking their natural hair with pride. No matter the historical context, we have to bring up the absurdity of it all. There is no way Black women on the motherland should be desiring hair that isn’t there’s. Period!
@GinettesAButterfly 2 күн бұрын
Speak on it
@healwithmare 2 күн бұрын
🗣️ always 🙌🏾💗
@ShowBusiness-gf6qn 2 күн бұрын
Thank you somebody needs to say it. If I want straight hair, ima rock my natural straight hair 🔥
@healwithmare 2 күн бұрын
Exactly! I rather just straighten my hair if I want a straight look. But I honestly am finally content with my hair texture so I don’t have the urge to