You are beautiful! The world is gonna be yours.

I think you look young for 57

Youre a sweet woman, God knows what he left out of my armoury, here on earth, the police know my shortcomings 🤭

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Great information 🥰✨🌹

Yes I gave up a lot of pieces of myself while working and raising a family. Gave up body building, travelling, camping, hiking, cooking from scratch. Listing them out helps identify what I have to find and piece my self back together again.

Love the positivity and the reframe

"You Can Heal Your Life" changed my life, along with Abraham Hicks and Wayne Dyer. I love your Law of Attraction content.

Love this. :)

Thank you for the positivity, Shirley!! 🥰❤🌸

I'm reminded of an old newspaper cartoon where two anthropomorphic cows are sitting in their living room, the husband reading a newspaper and the wife saying to him "Henry, I don't feel content". Your video, dear Shirly, changes my perspective on what I find to be a play on the contented cow adage to a person who is feeling there's something missing form their life. Do I feel complete at this moment? I'm not sure. I spend a lot of time and energy helping people, which feels good, but is also draining. When I'm home I shut myself off from the world to try to recharge my batteries. I'm finding neither are really fulfilling, though I enjoy both. My most complete times are probably threefold. - Spending time with my sons, either playing toys on the floor, playing together at the park, or the countless hours standing on the side of rugby and football/soccer pitches watching them do their best. Being there for them, and all those hours and years has given us a powerful bond into their adult lives. - Living in a loveless and abusive marriage where my solace was stopping at the gym on the way home from work. My job required no loose shirtsleeves, watches, or jewelry, as they could be dangerous should an accident occur. Since it was easier to work out with the wedding ring and I was only there for my own Self, that stayed off while I worked out. I felt better about me, taking care of my body, but the lack of wedding ring seemed to bring advances that I couldn't, and wouldn't, ever reciprocate. It felt good to be seen as attractive while my narcissistic wife mentally and verbally abused me at home. At least someone found me attractive. Home may have been miserable but I wasn't about to make it worse. - While still married, I fulfilled a childhood dream and helped form a band. I taught myself to play bodhran and worked hard to become what I was told was the best. At shows we played, even Irish bodhran players would tell me how good I was. I don't know, I just loved being on that stage, singing and playing. We'd play to a pub of 5 people (all of them staff) and up to crowds of over 5000 and it all felt good. I just loved making music and being paid for something I loved wasn't work at all. Almost every show, I'd be given two or three phone numbers. So much so that the rest of the band nicknamed me 'the Magnet'. I was still married so I just accepted the numbers and never called anyone. What I did discover though, was that stack of little pieces of paper became a lifeline to turn to during the worst of the abuse. Someone liked me for myself. Divorced for 20 years now and the band long since parted ways, I find myself looking for a missing piece. The band has begun to think of playing again and I'm feeling strangely reticent about joining in. Perhaps it's just a case of stage fright after so long without the limelight. Maybe writing to you about it helps. It's funny, I was thinking about you having been a midwife and, now, a nutritionist and I'm reminded of your heritage. Of the hundreds of Filipinas I know, the vast majority are nurses and caregivers. Caring for others is ingrained into their collective personalities. Even here in Canada, the best in the health profession are often the Pinay ex-pats. Such a beautiful people, in heart and spirit. The rest of us could learn a lot from the hearts of the Filipinas. My apologies that this missive is too long. I know you're busy, Shirly. That you take the time to read and answer every comment is amazing. That said, I look forward to a time when you're working again and haven't the time to answer us all. Blessed Be, my friend. Always, my best wishes to you. ♥

Many Blessings to you. I really needed this. ❤

I love this approach ,good video.

Great video, Shirley!

I have a feeling that incompleteness is an unconscious epidemic affecting society for the worse. Thank you for your work Shirley!

Thank you for watching. I hope you enjoy this video. Do you even feel incomplete?

Your content is so valuable, but I noticed the views are a bit low. 📉 A bit of SEO work could fix that! Let me know if you'd like me to help.

Life can be so difficult we face things we never imagined we would but it’s a learning experience and we will and can heal from it I’m thankful I’m over my situation thanks for sharing this video Shirley 🌻

Hi Shirley just watched this video from 9 months ago and I’ve been through the same thing it’s not easy but in your recent videos I can see that you have come along way you are stronger and look better upwards and onwards from here like myself you were probably to good for him

Never give up. You are kind and so brave. This loss is only creating space for your better things to appear. 💐🤗

Take care❣️

Oh, good idea Shirley. Ill try to keep up xxx

I'm 69 and not giving up on wanting to be a racing driver! While we breathe we have a chance at life and living how we choose to live. keep your strong mindset and believe that you are worthy of your desires. Nor sure if i mentioned in a previous video about Dr Wayne Dyer saying to someone who had been made redundant! "Wonderful" Now you have the opportunity to follow your dreams! Keep following your's Shirley. 😊

Wise words resonated with me

Body mind and spirit, if we lack any of these, we will lack in everything

I love the spiritual stuff and I will check your other channel out 🌹✨

Hello, dear Shirly. I'm still a recent arrival here and enjoying your take on life and how to deal with it. As a man, I'm not sure your other channel has a lot for me but, being a lover of knowledge and understanding and wanting to support you and your journey, consider me subscribed to that one, as well. At the very least, if I ever have a partner again, I'll have a better idea of what she's going through. Peace always, my friend. Blessed Be. ♥

Great, listening to yourself is important, dont worry about it being 'woo woo' it is not, self awareness and meditation should be taught to everyone, from a young age, in my opinion. I have been meditating for about 35 yrs and i was a Buddhist monk for a few years just over 20 years ago, so i know the benefits myself. Keep going, and yes a good idea to have the other channel separate. Look forward to hearing more from you 🙏

Looks really yummy Shirley!

Yes please Shirley xxx

All the food looks so good. You’ve got skills!

I hope you keep growing no matter what ,God bless this channel.

thanks for sharing your other channel, that’s an awesome one! Can’t wait to watch your videos there!

Thank you for the link to your menopause videos. Although I have to say that I have really enjoyed the mixed "slice of life" spectrum of your recent videos, not just the nutrition ones that I benefitted from and commented on. But it's always wonderful to hear when someone is listening to their inner voice and I will look forward to see what you post, as it's clear that you are putting your whole heart in this work. Best wishes!

Thank you. I didn't know you had another channel but will subscribe. I also enjoy your videos on this channel as well

Joined the other channel 😊 I practice LOA (with Jesus as Source). Open to all your videos ❤

Ate Shirley, please drop the link to your other channel. 😊