Matilda is a real trooper. ❤ Hugs from Sweden 🥰

i can't believe that shes not embarrassed looking at this behavior

i think he just didn't know how to react because it was kind of in the moment. And as a muslim I will say call me what you want I am looking you right in the eye and the muslim men here from certain cultures they Haaatte it but as a muslim woman they think we know better if we are american then well its ok they are just who they are idk you know if you know

Zain other people in your comment section may not be happy because of the election but I'm am absolutely thrilled 😁😁😁🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷🇱🇷.

I think they may have talked about getting married and she just assumed he meant when he got there they would get married

Literally EVERY man ever “masks”……….every lying man! Call it for what it is. He’s completely aware of what he’s doing which is not telling the truth.

My American brothahs need to know you cant get engaged to another culture and expect to not get married and put it on hold for 10+ years like yall do us American sistahs

Masking is what we do to try to appear normal. When I was a kid, if other people were laughing, I'd laugh too in order to blend in. I didn't go around lying. Lying is lying, masking is masking.

Hi Zain! I’m a Portuguese fan 😊 so happy you like Portuguese food! What do you like the best? I love Moroccan food and I miss your culinary episodes. Wishing you a blessed life!

I don’t think he told her he was marrying her on this trip. But what I do think is, she assumed so and ran with it and he didn’t stop her or correct her. That’s still her fault. She should’ve had a definitive answer

Autism or not, bottom line just don’t lie to people

I used to mask for 9 hours a day in order to make a living, but it was never lying, it was just a different side of my personality... One that doesn't come easily or naturally.

❤ Zain…cool hat.

It is ok your bias yes she had the right ( 3 yrs later) 😂

I'm bemused since she drove with her brother / bus to city. But ET shows them " flying" together to her town.

Team work makes the dream work !!! 😂🤜🤛

I'm an American and I cook....... I'm an Alien 👽👾

Does she mean 80 cedis? I had clothes made while I was in Ghana and it wasn’t that expensive.

Oh Jeez ..Now he tried to get her to gaslight her family!

Chicken lady is scary. I hope that she finds peace.

Matilda is my favorite cast member.

I have never heard of masking!! Hummm❤

Why is nobody concerned that a marriage was expected and Niles has no family or friends present???

How come you didn't smack your knee at the beginning of the video like you always do.. ?? 🤣😅🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

I'm giving up the news until that yammy is gone so please increase your production we're gonna need a distraction for 4 years. Can you do that??

Yikes election

A rose by any other name is still a rose. His butt be lying! 🤥😩

You used me!! 😅

I’m in a relationship with a pathological liar…(I gotta make rent ) … at any rate he will just lie to lie . I’ll ask him what he ate for breakfast and he will make random stuff up when I would be there while he’s eating. It’s really challenging. He just lies no intentions just in a constant state of imagining I suppose 😮

TLDR -- The difference between masking and lying: Lying in order to gaslight people into thinking he spoke up and is blameless is NOT masking. The behaviors he displayed at the time when he was going along with those plans despite his own feelings was masking. He is taking advantage of her trust and limited knowledge about autism (...with another lie. Lol) I really like this couple, but I want it to be clear that the lying well after these situations is not what masking is. It is actually still just lying, like the intention was the same as with anyone who is lying to make themselves look better. --- Him being uncomfortable with people being mad at him for his past actions so he knowingly outright lies IS NOT MASKING. It is lying. Masking involves trying to hide autistic behaviors by doing things to pretend to be like everyone else in that situation (often by mimicking / mirroring their behaviors and mannerisms to feel like you fit in). Masking is learned behavior that helps you not stand out in a group. It is not simply knowingly lying about facts that make you look bad. He was masking when he kept going with her "misunderstanding" that the wedding would be happening. This wasn't an inability (or poor ability) to read social cues causing him to repeatedly lie about the wedding right now, either. He knew very well what she expected and listened to her go on about these huge plans for SO LONG. He just didn't want to upset her and in turn have her be mad at him, so he went along with it until the very last minute when he couldn't keep that up anymore. That was masking, not the lies he was telling "now" to the producer and to Matilda, and almost to her family before she called him out in the car. (Which is why the producer felt comfortable calling him out. Doing so as directly as she did was actually very helpful and in my opinion completely appropriate. He took her feedback pretty well, too! And why Matilda being direct with him in the car was also SO helpful for him!) His masking behaviors would be those that went with the flow of these situations he felt uncomfortable in. Masking is NOT the lies he makes up after those situations to try to convince everyone else that he did actually speak up and say what he was thinking at the time. He probably used to get people mad at him for immediately speaking up, I can relate. I would LOVE to be able to get away with being as direct as I am without consequence, but people see it as confrontational rather than as what it is -direct communication that is often used to clarify or to prevent future misunderstandings. But I don't think I should get away with lying about something, esp big things, that may have even involved who I am talking to just because the truth makes me look bad if I chose not to be direct and went along with what they wanted despite how I felt. I don't get a free pass to lie and gaslight people. No one likes to feel responsible for negative situations that they caused (esp if caused by masking at the time)... That all being said, Matilda has done such an amazing job responding to everything he's thrown at her. She is accepting him and trusting his explanations. Her understanding and trust in their relationship is so refreshing to see! She is guiding him and giving him explicit permission to say things that he has been worrying he cannot say without upsetting her. I think this couple is adorable and really do care about each other. I just wish he didn't take advantage of his autism diagnosis to get away with these really big, easily disproven lies. That isn't masking. But, maybe he will eventually stop lying to make himself look better (even tho it does the opposite bc hes lying to people involved) with enough reassurance that she will always try to understand where he is coming from and give him the benefit of the doubt when something comes across too direct.

No masking..vid as promised😁😆

Thanks for your cultural sensitivity to Americans, Zain! Today was rough...

Yes of course this "autistic" liar guy got himself a beautiful, sexy , fun and intelligent woman. And she's really into him (what ever or the reasons). 😂😂😂😂. The autistics I know are incapable of lying, that's what makes them awkward

Niles isn't masking, he is gaslighting a form of narsisstic abuse. Masking is not stimming in public. If Niles was diagnosed with autism it is probably wrong, it's probably just narsisstic personality disorder if he does that regularly. It is extremely uncomfortable to lie like that.

Zain .Wear what ever you want and dont let the angry liberals intimidate you. I support president Trump and am not even an American , and yet , I have received online THREATS from these sick deranged low life's . They use threats and intimidation to get their way . They are a bunch of cowardly nut cases who should be committed.

After listening to Melicia’s interview (ET) this morning with Niles, it sounds like they got married. They filmed almost two years ago.

They have restored my faith in love too

I love them together ❤

He complained about a $80 skirt. He doesn't have the bride price...

❤ thank you 🙏 😅 we needed this video 😅

HE IS NOT READY FOR THE KNOCKING😅😅😅......

YOU USED ME (THE MASK)...

Matilda repping Ghana so beautifully!

Matilda managers her emotions well! Siblings bring out the psychotic in most of us so I can see why her brother warned Niles. 😂 Thanks for dropping the vid. We depressed ass ‘Mericans appreciate ya.

Hey yo, if your girl has your back (and feeding your bars) like Mathilda did during the knocking ceremony..brother you've got yourself a KEEPER!

Honestly, i really want to see this couple work 😄 Matilda is so understanding. It is a breath of fresh air compared most other couples on this show. But the difference in cultures is big. In the US some people get engaged for a year or more before actually marrying.

Niles doesn't want peace.. He wants problems always!!

Zain that intro will never not be funny to me 🤣😆😂😂 “I already told you I don’t want to be with you anymoreeeee” 😂

Bruh 😅 3:16

You should make videos longer 😭