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@melaniel7121 5 сағат бұрын
I love that this doctor doesn't blame the person for getting sick. I now know why I recently was diagnosed with an autoimmune disorder
@melaniel7121 5 сағат бұрын
I was recently diagnosed with an autoimmune disease. I had no idea how trauma, a bad 25 year marriage, and being strong for too long has jeopardized my health. How do I reduce stress and mind body harmony to improve my health.
@noelle71 Күн бұрын
What is the way to reset your body from chronic stress? Where in the video is this addressed?
@jasong6027 Күн бұрын
Life is all a pile if shit
@sihirbazinelkitabi Күн бұрын
Why I can't auto translate it to Turkish? :s
@Citizens4DefenseLLC 2 күн бұрын
The Enemy Occupied Media has been weaponized against people to induce stress, fear, and compliance. Our species will level up when we identify the Global Death Dealers, Transhumanists, and recognize the dignity of all life from inception to natural death.
@carmenlux1775 2 күн бұрын
I didn't get the best start in life, and so I spent my 30s in self-healing/self-development. I created a very healthy and peaceful life for myself, which made me believe I will live a longer life. Then in my 40s I realised that the world is f***ed and I'm not so sure anymore I want to live a long life. Ohh...
@psychedelicpython 3 күн бұрын
I suffer from chronic pain. that is in my bones and muscles. Doctors have me on pain medicine and muscle relaxers for it. I don't know if stress has anything to do with my chronic pain. I have a good sense of humor for many things in life and hopefully I process angr properly. I've been married for almost 35 years and my husband is a good person and doesn't get angry if I don't get thing's done around the apartment when I'm real tired or in a lot of pain. This helps me not be overly stressed. I just came across this video and I'm really interested in what Dr. Gabor has to say. I'm interested in the book "When The Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress". Maybe this can help reduce some of the pain I'm dealing with. 😊
@lauraphillips7395 3 күн бұрын
YES, I found a doctor who asked me about life factors surrounding my and my husband's pain!! I a so blessed!!
@lauraphillips7395 3 күн бұрын
Both someone can set boundaries upon themselves and their health AND they can still be nice within those boundaries that "Mother Nature" has already set upon a human being. Ignoring Maslow's theory is dangerous.
@mariettestabel275 3 күн бұрын
No Wars, no refusees No Wars, no trauma's....
@mariettestabel275 3 күн бұрын
I think most of the People can't pay a therapist like Gabor Maté,to expensive
@Gaeliclass Күн бұрын
Dr. Maté practices in Canada where they have socialized medicine.
@hamishrichaud1980 3 күн бұрын
Another way to stay healthy is to study Haute metaphisique by Frank Hatem. The sciences of the causes. (Physics, biology,...study the effects thanks to observation which cannot be objective).
@alessandrabarskey1284 4 күн бұрын
I'm enjoying watching this video on Sunday morning, having my breakfast. I really like thos man!
@Ren-1979 4 күн бұрын
I couldn't agree more. We have created a zoo for ourselves and now wonder why it's not working...
@Ren-1979 4 күн бұрын
Usually the most direct approach to a problem is the most effective. In this case, simply say NO when you feel the need to do so. Ingenious. In all seriousness. I will apply this simple wisdom from now on without exception. 👍
@mightymouse1005 4 күн бұрын
Bissell Van Der Kolk wrote "The Body Keeps the Score " fantastic book on trauma. Gabor Mata and Jordan Peterson are also very good
@mightymouse1005 4 күн бұрын
Yesterday, i braided my hair, i looked in the mirror and told myself I looked pretty. It may not be much to everyone else, but, it was a lot for me...
@mightymouse1005 4 күн бұрын
My husband died at 55 of cancer. He was a kind and compassionate man....
@mightymouse1005 4 күн бұрын
Women are programmed to be caregivers amd sacrifice our needs for the needs of others. We're taught to be nice and keep peace.
@GreenGrenouille Күн бұрын
“Programmed”? It is our natural way as mothers. We are not programmed to be this way.
@kingofdubb2133 5 күн бұрын
That's all very well, but as Gabor Mate himself says, if your carrying a lot of childhood trauma you need the help of a practitioner/therapist - you can't do it on your own. It doesn't matter if its Gabor Mate's Compassionate Inquiry, Peter Levine's Somatic Experiencing, Richard Schwartz's Internal Family Systems, or any other similar trauma-informed therapy, the more trauma you carry, the more sessions you are going to need, and the more expensive it will be, and unfortunately most people who are suffering from depression, addictions etc don't have that sort of money, so are these therapies really a viable solution?
@janetkinosian 4 күн бұрын
This is the key truth...and a big conundrum....
@AwakenedEmptiness 2 күн бұрын
All of these therapies focus on the mind... the only viable solution is going beyond the mind or the ego transcending the psychology. Even Buddha who was fully enlightened continued to practice self inquiry, mindfulness, or meditation. Simply because as long as we live the ego mind will try to trick us into giving our energy to the the mind rather than consciousness. As someone who deals with trauma I can confirm that a practice is necessary of understanding the egos psychological tendencies. This is so the mind is seen through and able to dissolve the psychological barrier which is all the ego or the mind is. It takes practice and a life long commitment but it reduces suffering which is psychological again of the mind or thought. Pain will always be there as long as our lifetime but how we choose to deal with it to be reactive to triggers or the trauma. Or to respond to the suffering of that wound with understanding. That is that love is understanding as they say. And all we need is love.
@cxuns 2 сағат бұрын
The profound realization of Buddha is to discover, we as ordinary suffering beings have long possessed wrong ideas of being a Self. As long as the self exists, the feelings in terms of all kinds of suffering are bound to manifest! There’re meditative methods in variety, are providing access for us to experience the Self as an illusory conceptualized subject. As long as we are no longer to hold on to this I, me, mine, the attachment reduced, the aversion reduced. The way how we perceive our moment by moment life can be uplifting to a whole new scope of Being, in stead of Doing. When we possess and maintain ourselves in the state of Awareness, we are unlabeled to any identities that we have accumulated in the past experiences or future projections. 🪷🪷🪷😇🙏
@christinecardimen544 5 күн бұрын
He says after saying no that you’ll learn that you are more important than those attachments…that really hit me so hard I started crying…
@meinhelskin 5 күн бұрын
Having drug footage behind this talk seems totally inappropriate
@irektaflinski5449 5 күн бұрын
I admire and love this man 😊but feel very identified with him because I grew up in similar way and pain 😢but something divinely helped me survive and thrive against all odds (shame, guilt and rejections) pain has led me to heal others and be in the helping profession and as I heal others I too heal my own wounds!! Thank you Dr. Mate 🙏🏾
@robynhope219 5 күн бұрын
I wonder...did he crack the code to his addictions?
@stringsnare 5 күн бұрын
my concept of boundaries and assertiveness is so non-existent, when he came close to Lorraine and asked what would you do, my answer was going to be "well if i could move from my chair, i'd move back"
@Jbvnm 5 күн бұрын
250 ml aspirin will be sufficient to get rid of shoulder /arm pain???
@angieguffey6255 4 күн бұрын
I take Ibuprofen for pain/ inflammation and it helps me. I will take either 400, or 600 milligrams. Other people take Tylenol but it’s not good for your liver. Also, a good muscle rub cream like BenJay or Icee Hot. There are lots of things on the market to help you. But if you’re having severe pain, you should go to your doctor or to the hospital for X-rays. I hope this helps some. God bless you 🙏
@Jbvnm 5 күн бұрын
What’s the quickest way to get rid of pain. Like arm or shoulder pain.
@cloudten8489 5 күн бұрын
There's a difference between living a lie because you need to please and being afraid of thr repercussions of telling the truth.
@sarahmyob6862 5 күн бұрын
Canadians dont have the luxury of stopping. The bills dont stop coming in because you got sick. And literally nobody ga darn whether or not you're dying. Bills are still due..
@sarahmyob6862 5 күн бұрын
If you complain about it our government will offer you maid
@Ayla93-ij3ln 6 күн бұрын
I wonder what Gabor’s opinion is on getting childhood cancer, then living as an adult childhood cancer survivor!
@kimsmith7212 6 күн бұрын
THIS IS DEPRESSING. NO OFFENSE. I ASSUME I WILL DIE YOUNG TOO. A NURSE, "SMOKER,A DISABILITY, AND THE STRESSORS. I WISH DRS HAD TIME TO REALLY HELP OTHERS. YET GUESS THEY TOO WILL DIE YOUNG. IM ALWAYS MORE CONCERNED ABOUT OTHERS THAN MYSELF. I HATE THE SMOKING. IT'S NOT JUST QUITTING, YOU ALSO HAVE TO RESET YOUR MIND.
@Yolduranduran 6 күн бұрын
I have a bitchy attitude as a survival skill. I dont want to be too nice because it has kicked me in the gut in the past. I was brought up to be a nice girl and all i have gotten for it has been a long time eating disorder, depression , anxiety and overall misery. I am 55 and would like to be able to live thw rest of my life in peace!!!
@teachatami45 7 күн бұрын
Energy switch
@MilahanPhilosophersCorner 7 күн бұрын
Very educational and helpful.
@julieamigliore 7 күн бұрын
What about children
@mariettestabel275 8 күн бұрын
We must care for each other. Helping each other. We are so sad sometimes and ask never for help...
@leemorse3067 8 күн бұрын
Incredible information thank you! I struggled with migraine headaches starting around the age of 12 or 13 until I was in my late thirties going through a divorce found a great therapist cognitive behavioral therapy she told me if I continue to coming to her within a month or two I would never have a headache again and to this day never even the slightest headache and it was all from suppressing and repressing trauma from childhood
@geraldineangelamurray3001 8 күн бұрын
My baby has asthma and a skin condition. How has he done this subconscious?
@heidimeigs5192 9 күн бұрын
I am living with chronic pain and auto immune problems. My wonderful GP has talked to me for yrs and yrs about my stress. About how I do and also do not handle it. She is from Europe , although has spent her adult life living in the US. Her approach to treating me is different from American born and raised drs. I’ve always known/ “felt” she is 100% correct but have not tried therapy. I recognize that I am not acting logically by refusing to seek the help she has recommended. The thought of therapy scares me. So it follows that the onus is on me to take control of my healing.
@MyOver50 7 күн бұрын
Do it!! You'll be amazed at what barriers we have that we don't even know we have.
@PallasAthene12 9 күн бұрын
I spent my childhood terrorised by my narcissistic mother. Grew up suppressing my anger or upset and people pleasing. Did all the overtime at work and more people pleasing. Ended up with MS aged 41. Now people say it's made me bitter because I'm actually enforcing boundaries for the first time, pushing toxic people away and doing things that make *me* happy rather than putting other people's interest first.
@windowshaker2295 9 күн бұрын
People know how to say No when you need money.
@cereal4u 9 күн бұрын
Ask why not the addiction but why the pain, you cannot punish the pain out of people who suffer from addiction.
@marjorieolah2106 10 күн бұрын
I'm sorry for your loss.
@grandmastergyorogyoro532 10 күн бұрын
Attachment & Authenticity.
@williammartin9450 10 күн бұрын
Dr Mate is national treasure! Unfortunately the background music is a dire distraction 👎🏻
@coryturke7336 10 күн бұрын
Does Gabor have verifiable scientific evidence that describes the mechanisms by which stress converts to cancerous cells? And another question, does Gabor have any connection list we can use to find psychotherapists aware of this connection who would be mindful of the intent when doing the psychotherapy?
@lisa_lightguided 10 күн бұрын
💙
@jenniferrezende1460 11 күн бұрын
What about the young children who get those diseases? It has to be genetic, environmental etc
@dclark6357 11 күн бұрын
This fell in my lap, I needed this. This will be life saving as I am drowning.