That’s bogus ,you our a mom and your sister didn’t wanna die it might be hard to fulfill her wishes but u should at least try
@Dontmakemeloose18 сағат бұрын
That is not gonna work
@AjiaJ18 сағат бұрын
Well it did …
@vanessavelazquez2050Күн бұрын
You ARE the asshole. How self centered seriously
@artsy8972 күн бұрын
I’m a Grandma (70) I would take them if I were the Grandparents, especially if there were offers to help financially and emotionally by spending time with the children. I don’t think this child should have to give up their life plans to raise children when she didn’t want children. It’s a hard situation and maybe there should be shared responsibility?
@dianebaker46022 күн бұрын
Time to set your own preferences aside. Think of the emotions these kids are going through. They lost their mother and then the family members don't want them? It's sad to say, but how selfish can a person be when they can't think beyond themselves? There's a time when people need to grow into maturity, and do what is right.
@zippora99472 күн бұрын
i agree. she has a right to feel how she feels but the poor kids just lost their mother, they need someone more than ever right now. sometimes we just have to do things we don’t want to do.
@lunix32592 күн бұрын
The brother not wanting to take them and gets a pass?
@1A_-.3 күн бұрын
I cannot recommend getting yourself a wrap sling more! You can feed your beautiful babies and be completely hands free. Plus, they like the easy access and the fact that they are upright afterwards for the self burpies😂
@queenessiej69723 күн бұрын
You are amazing.. Such a wonderful mother.. Keep up the great job💪🏾❤️✨
@lisaweaver71643 күн бұрын
Girl, we've been doing this forever. Just keep loving those babies.
@cupofchi_3 күн бұрын
Wow. This is difficult. I wouldn’t say she is an AH for refusing. I actually think it’s mature to be able to say “no.” Especially when she mentioned her why and how she fears not being able to give them attention or possibly resenting them.
@cassg54933 күн бұрын
Queen!
@angelaortiz34063 күн бұрын
Love the story❤️ hate beans with a passion
@anngoad22833 күн бұрын
Her parents maybe in their 60s but she doesn't mention their health situations. Her sister chose her and if she didn't want to take them she should have made that clear to her sister before she died. She is an the ah in this because those kids lost their mom and she is basically throwing them to the wolves. The other family members are also the ah.The whole family should be stepping up for those kids. When children lose a parent or in this case the only parent it is devastating for the family to be arguing about how is going to take them is truly disgusting.
@Snowdrop1502 күн бұрын
She's not You can barely afford to keep three kids in this economy and besides she already explained to her sister she didn't want too, since she hasn't mentioned anything abt her parents health they seem fine
@TheAlexaLee3 күн бұрын
I genuinely believe she left her the kids because of her lifestyle. She doesn't have kids she has a high paying job and minimal responsibility so it makes since. However the family could be considered the asshole because 60 isn't to old to raise 3 older kids they're not that young that the grand parents can't do it. Her family wants her to give up her entire life to care for them but they aren't willing to do the same. I don't think that's fair for the aunt. She's literally just starting her life relationship and career. She offered to pay for the resources the kids needed for whoever took them in but they still don't want to step up either. It seems like nobody wants to actually raise these kids and would rather pawn them off and place blame on the aunt. Is it selfish yes but it is her life and it's better for her to be selfish than resent them for "stealing/ruining" her life when she never wanted kids. The kids mental quality of life matter as well as them having shelter and food. They also just suffered major loss so that could also be a reason the family is so adamant she takes them instead.
@chrissyclark37813 күн бұрын
Master at the one handed tasks 😤💪 you got this mama!
@mimidee1003 күн бұрын
We are super mums❤
@angelaortiz34063 күн бұрын
She surely is an amazing mother❤
@kaymcq20594 күн бұрын
She is so adorable. 💖💖💖
@queenessiej69724 күн бұрын
I really love and enjoy watching your videos.. You are such an amazing, humble and kind person and a wonderful mother too.. ❤️✨
@AjiaJ4 күн бұрын
Aww I appreciate ur kind words thank you😊❤
@rosiepretty5645 күн бұрын
Periodtttttt girl how is your kids and the newborn baby 🥰🥰🥰
@brandiart5 күн бұрын
Your hair is so beautiful ❤
@AjiaJ4 күн бұрын
Thank you!❤
@Qu1etst0rm20116 күн бұрын
Im here for it AND these comments 💀 made my day! I needed this smile and laughs today! Love it! This is amazing and all the feels at the same time!
@em_anet6 күн бұрын
I researched on issei sagawa manga pics and eating placenta video its midnight i feel like throwing up 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
@kaymcq20597 күн бұрын
I miss you and my babies :-(
@AjiaJ4 күн бұрын
We’ll see u soon😊
@angelaortiz34067 күн бұрын
Soooooooooo cute 🥰 you are an amazing mother love to watch❤
@AjiaJ4 күн бұрын
Thank you🫶🏽🫶🏽ur so sweet!
@angelaortiz34067 күн бұрын
Sometimes you gotta take a time out, girl. I understand you’re good.❤
@Rose202877 күн бұрын
Not true, my son was born with a knotted cord, they sent my placenta to be examined because it was enlarged & cord had a knot in it! Came back & said it was a true knot & most babies die from this while you're in labor!! Don't give misleading information this is a very serious concern & condition
@queenessiej69727 күн бұрын
I've really enjoyed watching this video ☺️🥰✨
@augustakaminsky7 күн бұрын
Keep working hard luv! You seem so sweet!!
@AjiaJ4 күн бұрын
Thank you😊🫶🏽
@NervesofNoodles8 күн бұрын
You cannot pour from an empty cup, well said
@AjiaJ8 күн бұрын
Have to find time for myself even if it’s only 10 mins🫶🏽
@deliveredanointed10 күн бұрын
Marla is a REAL TOP GIRL. She has her OWN stylist, makeup artist and lash tech. Just straight DOLLY SETTINGS. Judene, you may need to look into doing something in the cosmetologist field. Ricky seh, "Pure facts (fox) we talk, NO WOLF". Heyyy 😂😂😂😂
@Brentdoitthebest10 күн бұрын
oh hell- NO
@cupofchi_10 күн бұрын
did you make a follow up vid on how the okra water helped? i can't seem to find it, if so.
@user-fi7yh3qz4k11 күн бұрын
Fiance aka not married, technically single, bf/roommate who is willing to impregnate you twice but dragging his feet on making you his wife. Go to the court house already get married stop playing house.
@angelaortiz340611 күн бұрын
Beautiful❤
@AjiaJ11 күн бұрын
🫶🏽🫶🏽😘
@queenessiej697212 күн бұрын
Absolutely love your videos 😍❤
@AjiaJ11 күн бұрын
Thank you lovely 😊🫶🏽
@Plain.chubby_Moleఌ15 күн бұрын
Isn’t that canibalism?
@Plain.chubby_Moleఌ15 күн бұрын
Enought tiktok for today…..
@Offlineee_16 күн бұрын
Did the okra water work??
@ToeBabyJay17 күн бұрын
Why is it medium rare
@mariavlogsreaction18 күн бұрын
Amazing job ❤
@koalachick802919 күн бұрын
One of the best parts of babysitting was the babies
@user-hc5bj6ej3e19 күн бұрын
Your baby so smart I like your hair
@AjiaJ18 күн бұрын
Thank you
@riverparsell164019 күн бұрын
🤩 you look incredible for just having him! It took me two years to get back to my normal body 😂 I hope you’re doing amazing mama! God bless y’all! ❤
@AjiaJ18 күн бұрын
I still have a lot of loose skin lol but thank you! It took me longer to bounce back this time around
@erenalvarez122619 күн бұрын
Ok
@cmframp19 күн бұрын
I love your glasses!! Where did you get themm?
@AjiaJ18 күн бұрын
I Got them from firmoo !
@leslychavez21119 күн бұрын
I remember feeling so happy 😂😅 he was growing lol I dont really like newborn phase
@AjiaJ18 күн бұрын
Really?? I absolutely love the newborn stage !! They don’t do anything but sleep and eat lol
@user-fk4we8lm7c19 күн бұрын
Mine is 7... YEARS😮
@AjiaJ19 күн бұрын
Omg! My daughter turns 4 tomorrow, time flys 😫
@mariavlogsreaction19 күн бұрын
You look great did the okra water help 😅
@AjiaJ19 күн бұрын
Thank you!! I’d say it did lol i only pushed 5 times and he was out, with my daughter i was pushing for about 8minutes it also could’ve been the position i pushed in