You are not the asshole. You are the ONLY one doing right by your sister, actually. She needs a cold dose of reality. Your mom and grandmother can’t see it, because they’re blinded by her babies. You are correct. You are not responsible for her life choices and you are doing right by YOUR family. ❤❤
@Anime1029Knight3 ай бұрын
No you are not a bad person. She already has kids & she doesn’t have any outgrown clothes and furniture from her own children. It’s her own fault that she’s not doing as well as you. She needs to stop playing games with men & start taking responsibility for her own actions in life. She needs to start thinking about her own family instead of just relying solely upon being spoiled by her parents & Aunt & grandma. They are actually hurting her by spoiling her so much they need to stop giving her everything for free she is no longer a young little girl anymore she’s a full grown adult who has children. If everyone in her family passes away in the future & she is left alone with her own children how is she going to survive without her parents, aunt & grandma & siblings. She needs to take responsibility for herself and provide for her children all by herself. She needs to mature as an adult especially if she since she is a mom. You are independent and mature & a strong mother & a great wife hence why you have such a great husband/father of your children. You are a steady strong independent mature woman who can provide for your children hence why you have such a strong independent loving caring mature husband/father of your children. If she was just as mature and independent as you are then she would have such a great husband as well but unfortunately she is just playing games with men hence why they are not able to stay with her as a great husband to her. Avoid your parents, Aunt & grandmother, they need to just let her grow up and take responsibility for her own decisions in life or else they will ruin her forever. ❤😂🎉😊
@itscindyn3 ай бұрын
YANTA. She’s on baby 5. It sounds like you’ve all been helping her a lot. It’s okay to put your family first. Yes, she’s your sister, but if she continues to make the same poor decisions then she will get the same poor results. I come from a big family and we all help one another, but know that we all must put our own family and kids first. She doesn’t even sound like she’s taking any accountability for herself. They’re redirecting their anger/disappointment at you when it should be on your sister and the baby daddy for not practicing safe sex. 5 kids in this economy!? That’s crazy and purposefully being a burden to your loved ones. That is not right at all. Sending you support and well wishes for a smooth and stress free pregnancy 💕