i was always told i should be ashamed of myself or SHAME ON YOU was yelled at me

MUTUAL AID!?!?! yes yes yes

Please help us all, Lord Jesus. Please help each one of us 🙏 Amen, Hallelujah. I love you Jesus!!

THE ENTIRE WORLD SHOULD BE LISTENING TO THIS MAN, THIS DR.

Thank you!

Human.nature.how.you.are.nurtured.plus habits and.customes.of.your.society..❤❤❤❤❤

I'm sorry i bought the book... should've requested from VPL.

America enters the chat

Lack of connection ...no it's lack of trust. I trust God and try not to forget that the unstable people in charge are beneath Him. I hope Jesus comes soon.

And it goes on and on. The snow ball keeps adding snow as it gains speed rolling down the hill. It just keeps getting bigger and bigger. That is why there is an explosion of the alligator population. It is a very dangerous world with all these wild animals running around except for the weaker ones who just get killed off. Who started the fire and it wasn't me?

I like everything he talks about.

I’m choosing to stop pause, and reflect upon the calm and tranquility. I have right now. Plus my 13-year-old son likes it here. I am choosing to live in a farm town instead of one of the fastest growing areas of Florida with my business.

Adore this man.

What are you supposed to do when you feel stressed?

I heard Mark Live at a Convention a long time ago and it changed my life. To this day I tell myself “first thought wrong”. Funny guy with a great message.

I'm 58 and still trying to sort out huge family trauma and so much death and loss over the years. It still bubbles up. Being around people is difficult, but I'm pushing myself to socialize more. Thank you for these impacts. It will help me know what to focus on in the future.

Thank you Dr. You literally save me😢

Right on point

I can't sleep

I agree. I have ADHD symptoms and they are full on. I also know I have this from trauma and it’s manageable.

Is stress a good thing though?

True .

So parents let their stress onto me great😏 hey I know how to self regulate better than they do 🙂 Thanks Gabor, genius.

It’s a valid theory. Most ADHD theories are based solely on the physiological and biological pov.No one touches more upon trauma and psychological perspective.There are many people who have developed adhd symptoms later in life after going through traumatic experiences.We tend to to see every thing in black and white. Rather than ignoring his pov as completely rubbish, it’s a new perspective to look at and dig into. Maybe there is something.

Dude was great ❣️

Well said. Thank you ❤❤❤

I also have ADHD ,am also a recovering alcoholic ( sober 16 years ) . I identify completely with Mates speech, especially trauma and impulsiveness. Who's asking you anyway , you said " if you ask me " , nobody is . Thinking with experience , and openmindness outside the box gathers more knowledge i would say .

The guy is a FAMILY MED PHYSICIAN trying to get famous giving his non science based OPINION on issues in PSYCHOLOGY. It's tough these days for primary care physicians, I know, my wife is one (Mayo Clinic trained). This guy deserves no professional respect. Just another KZbin quack. kzbin.info/www/bejne/mICUan-Nf5WNpK8

How many people on here giving opinions are actual Dr's or qualified to agree or disagree with Mate's opinion . Mmmmmmm 🤔

Dr. Mate is in a class by HIMSELF ❤

We will think and refer to you for many generation, like Nietsche, Jung. You are a revolutionary. I'm from the DTES. I'll be back there when I'm back in Canada doing more advocacy work, specifically working with Nurses and other Healthcare professionals that are navigating addiction and their careers. Had a few ground breaking whistleblowing articles out by CBC calling out corrupt "Addiction Physians" and their huge $$$$$$ conflict of interest in demanding the safety sensitive professional pay huge amounts for treatment and monitoring, no personal choices, forced AA...then the physicians profit huge bc they financially have their hands and pocketbooks in the inpatient rehab programs and monitoring programs themselves. So, they are writing letters to unions saying the patient do and use extremely expensive resources that THE PHYSICIANS THEMSELVES OWN. They have gotten away with this for so long because of fear and stigma. Voices have been muted for decades. Now we are heard. @wesup.org

This man was preaching! Not in the pompous, sanctimonious sense, but speaking truths this atheist can relate to.

Please tell me that there is a way for that adulte to mature 🙏

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The story of my life

It's so true

This all comes down to emotional intelligence with the key facets of: communication, trust, and vulnerability.

Maté''s ultimately very optimistic. The suggestion that doctors should ask us whether we are stressed or if we have suffered some sort of trauma in childhood, sounds great on the surface. But in our society as it is this can be used as much against the patient as to help them. The enquiry by an expert into the realm of feelings, I am afraid, often comes with a sense of accusation. These doctors are also warped, and cannot be de-warped by being taught new things! It also assumes that counsellors/psychologists will have a deeper understanding of the patients in front of them. In my experience a fair proportion of these professionals lack any real kindness. The question is, perhaps, whether kindness can be legislated for. And God forbid we get social workers on this track! It is not for nothing that the generations before us were very reluctant to talk about their feelings. Such openness can be used against us.

Do u really think this is news?

In one word - No. ADHD is not a disease. It is a neurological disorder. It is part of nature. However it is often misunderstood and over diagnosed.

Are you saying like I have psoriatic arthritis, essential thrombosis, ADHD, anxiety just a mess ! Should. You not take the meds? I used to be a meth Addict, been clean from meth for 10 years. My therapist provider says that’s probably why I used because I had ADHD and was self medicating! 🤷‍♀️

Dr. Mate do you do talks anywhere near Nebraska?

Pregnant and listening to this. I’m so blessed. This has changed my perception of parenting so much. Let’s go back to our true nature

Diatribes

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From trauma specialist, psychotherapist, addiction and child development expert, to philosopher😅this guy is so full of it, i can smell it.

Quite simply, i enjoyed listening to this talk and the knowledge given ..thankmyou

I want to heal. I hope y’all are healing too.

He doesn’t want to say the C word, but Erich Fromm wasn’t scared to. Capitalism as it is is entirely abhorrent and causes immense stress, breaks up communal living and is a HUGE cause of stress and anxiety. The incessant need of money to survive without a loving community to hold one up is why we’re falling apart.

Tremendous wisdom