Solid advice. Too many people age out of lifestyles but are in denial. They push themselves like they are in their 20s. In your 50s and older, this becomes counterproductive and often dangerous. Seen it over and over.

This is amazing;

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Hearing this is empowering!

OMG I LOVE this! I am a new channel, and did a video about Invisible Woman Syndrome (didn't know that was an actual term), mostly for practice and got hit pretty hard by male comments. Many were kind, but some quite hostile. All saying, they have felt invisible for their entire lives, or in their 20's and 30's. I think there are definitely some societal and cultural leanings, but how we see ourselves and engage in the world and overcome so many stereotypes. I feel freaking blessed to see this video! I am 52, and I am here! Thank you!!

It just depends how well you take care of yourself. Theres some hot women that age out there im sure. Look at christy brinkly ... even though shes rich with time but just making a point.

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Glad someone is speaking about this "invisible woman syndrome" that is not a requirement by any means. Yes, to avoid it one must have interests and passions, positive energy, be curious about others, and care for the one body they've been given...but why wouldn't you want to do these things? Why wouldn't you prioritize yourself in these ways?

beauty is a feeling but remember men give priority to young healthy if you can hide your aging then great but at time is ticking lol no one wants to spend a moment of time with ugly women

how can you think your sexier than you were at 18 please tell the truth your wrinkles are visible so that indicates to men that your sexually invisible its just a fact men will look at a woman and in a couple moments we decide if she's attractive if your skin and body look old we will look the other way the truth is you can act crazy and no body cares thats why you become invisible you now get treated like a man all these things you talk about are male power and thought patterns work old women work in the work force because thats all you have probably never had children

I’m 50 and my best friend always tells me whenever we go out and walk into a place all heads turn 🎉

I do not see you turning heads..so narcissistic. You think you are better than you actually are. And you are over doing the botox and blurring your true skin.

I in no way want to take away from her video. But I’m very concerned about the plant on the shelf behind her. 😢

I have always been invisible. I am plain

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Actually what people mean by “ The world don’t revolve around you “ is that if you were to die today, God forbid. The world will go on without you. So love one another and God bless you

I’m 51 and even though I’ve put on some weight and my face is slowly giving in to gravity, I’ve never felt so sexy and confident in my life!

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You are so beautiful, intelligent and you look so young... but please watter that poor plant on the shelf. ❤

What if all you do is work eat sleep and even at work you have to wear a uniform and when you get home we’re just too tired and exhausted even on the weekends to go anywhere or do anything that is my worry every day just pure exhaustion and I’m 53 myself 😟 the next thing would be depression. It’s a vicious cycle, especially when you are in perimenopause. 😥😓

Hilary Silver you are beautiful.

Thank you for speaking in a manner in which I can fully (finally) hear. The entire transcript is powerful in every word but especially the statement "self sacrifice is a lie of giving something we can't afford to give..." WoW!

I don’t care if nobody turn their head when I’m walking in. It’s just fine. Other women accept me better if I’m normal and plain and at 58 I need friends (female) not men.

Wow. You don't look a day over 40!

I appreciate the concept of looking no further than the mirror, meaning that I am the solution to whatever I feel disappointed about. 👍

Are you ready to discover how your world truly revolves around you? 🌍✨

I agree. I do attend a grief group which has been a tremendous source of comfort w the loss of my mom but overalI I've never liked the idea of therapy in general . I think i always felt like it was a crutch and long term a waste of money. My mom went to a therapist who instead of helping her ended up commiserating w her over their husbands. It made a bad situation worse.

I'm 57, just went back to school with 20 year olds and and I am here for it!!

So glad I came across this! I made a video called "5 Surprising Benefits of Exercise" and #5 is becoming more visible. I talk about Invisible Woman Syndrome for midlife woman, and how fitness makes us feel and become more visible! Just subscribed to your channel. 🙌

I've often thought this. low self esteem.

True

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I turned 50 in March & I do feel invisible, I want to feel attractive . I’ve gained so much weight and the fupa is more noticeable. My skin is dry . I don’t even like seeing myself in the mirror. I started taking control of my health eating better trying to stay active. I’m going to see my family after 3 years. I’m so stressed out and feel embarrassed about the gain weight. Thank you for this video this was eye opening for me.

This is so true!! I am more confident now than ever over 50 even though I am not as fit as I’d like or not as fill in the blank. I don’t care anymore! I accept myself the way I am it’s so nice just not trying anymore. It’s very empowering 😊

The validation you are giving me for the choices I am making is huge ❤ thank you

I have always been this way. My whole family thinks I am selfish.

Really powerful information!

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Glad for the positivity in the comments!! ❤.

Its a cultural thing. In my part of the world women actually get noticed over 40. And divorced women remarry faster than those who have never been married.

This is so powerful. I've always struggled with all of this. New sub here. I'm bingeing to catch up. Lot's to ruminate. Thanks for keeping it short and to the point.

I’m so glad I found you! I put myself in a habit everyday first thing everyday exercise. You’re so right. I’m doing what is best for myself and I switch it up through the week. This one habit has made a significant difference in my life. I also stopped eating after 8. I’m not always rigid on that if I’m hungry after 8 I will allow myself a healthy snack. Upon these two things I’ve seen so much change in myself physically mentally and emotionally ❤

Really

You’re not turning anyone’s head 😂 It’s not bullshit , you’re delusional 😂😂 You hit the wall 20 years ago!

What a smart lady! Subbed

Im 43 and get with 20yr olds.

Just wow!

Great video. Anyone know where Hilary got her shirt?

I have men my daughters ages hitting on me at 43- I validate myself today. 40s are the new 25s- no joke.