After trying to escape this demon for over a year, I went seven days no contact just to receive an "I miss you" text. I felt so powerful not replying for days, but then he said, "I reached out to you because I tried to fix things" because he knew how much I begged and wanted him to fix things. I broke the no contact and cried, telling him to fix it, he then laughed and said "nope, I walk it back, I didn't mean that. what's there to fix? I am stuck in my ways and I am done here" He knew/knows how much words mean to me. Now, he randomly texts saying stuff to illicit a response like "you don't want me. why do you want me? you tell me you have no self worth because of me, you want someone else" in hopes of me validating, complimenting, or begging him. I've been stuck in this hell for 1.5 years too long, I pray to finally escape this narcissistic, evil demon worm for good.

Omg this happened to me. It was silent and I vomited something I knew he would use to destroy me. I regret it

Excellent videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don't know why I'm sharing this, but I really miss him

Excellent videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don't know why I'm sharing this, but I really miss him

I don't know if she was a narcissist at all, but I had someone I matched with who kept saying things like "I wasn't expecting to meet someone so fast that I'm so comfortable with", "please tell me your red flags because you seem too perfect", "when we're in a relationship we should do....", "I don't deserve someone like you", and honestly quite a few more. I was aware I was being love-bombed, but still doubted it because she kept telling me what she had planned for the next date and what she would do to me (intimate). She even brought up if I would want a wedding (an obvious red flag on a first date). She ultimately wanted to meet up the next day and was very sexual about it. I told her the next day wouldn't be possible because I had work, but that I would be free the weekend. Her texting personality changed and when I asked her what was up, she said that she didn't think she was ready for a relationship. I found myself being a mix of relieved and sad. This wasn't my first exposure to love bombing. A huge part of me really enjoys it (I am well aware I have an anxious attachment style lol). I should have listened more before making this comment 😂. You described my ex-wife. She one time told me to be more of a man like my cousin, asked my brother's wife if they could switch wedding rings because she loves hers, told me she wasn't a Christian anymore because of me, and that nobody would want to get in a relationship with me because of my ulcerative colitis, would get into close relationships with coworkers and then they would become her enemy eventually, I couldn't hang out with my best friend if his wife was around, and tried to track me on life 360. I ended up making a journal of everything I did around the house because she always told me she felt like she was taking care of me and that I needed to do more. She also controlled mowing the lawn and finances. I found out later that she was giving herself more money for "fun money". A ton more other stuff, but 3 years of therapy helped.

21:24 Sex. (this is one of many red flags) She picked the movie. It was about child sex trafficking. Well done film, but absolutely heartbreaking. Right afterwards, she wanted sex. Sex was the last thing I wanted in that moment, I was reeling from what I had just watched. But she was insistent. She told me the next morning over the phone I "didn't perform." When I protested she said, "It's just a movie." Because of all the narcissist videos I watch, (and what I've been through in previous relationships) I was quick to see how she set that stage to tear me down. I told her, "I don't think I'm the right person for you." Before thinking, she agreed, and immediately tried to backtrack. It was too late, I started blocking her everywhere, as she's trying to message and text. Last message that got through read, "you're a good guy." I know I am. ..blocked.

"We don't talk that way in my office/organization/profession" is one that I have used.

lol the spaghetti girl looks, dresses, makeup, EXACTLY like an ex of mine. TBH she was much more Histrionic Personality Disorder-- a walking poster child for it. Didn't realize it until I watched Dr. Shannon Curry's AMAZING direct examination (not the cross which got more attention, but the direct) testimony about Amber Heard during the Depp trial. Stunned me for weeks. She even looked and dressed and did makeup like Amber. Needs all the attention from all the men all the time. Less destructive than NPD but more annoying.

mine works 10-20feet away from me everyday, and i have to stay at this job for 2 more years lol

When you are telling them how hard you are trying, and how you might have snapped she uses those things against me. How do I stop that.

She cheated on me when it was our anniversary, at night time, at 4am, when I was flying back that morning, I knew about it for a full day and I kept on probing for her to tell me, I was trying to say "its okay to tell me, if you had someone over, did you have anyone over" its all met with "no" and when I probed with "are you sure, I think if you had someone over in our home I will leave" this was left with a "why are you asking, no.". The next day, I went to a therapist as I was about to really hurt myself, she gave me advice on how to bring it up with her. I did and she still DIDN'T admit to it, not really. Just some tears and some new rules I put down for our relationship for the meantime. Now, that I want to go and have relations with someone else, she won't let me. Since she cheated, our relationship is either open or over. Trust is gone and its going to take years to come back, she still hides her phone, shes still hiding her chats, she is still talking to guys on the down-low and even though I've forced a open relationship she still wants to lie to me.

not i have a serious question. i am about to go through final hearing for our divorce on Feb. 10 2025.. everything i tell her means something to me the worse she becomes and the more she aims her anger at those things i hold dear. im in the final discard phase because i havent spoken directly to her sense she left me for finding sexual text and planning her and the other persons time spent together when we divorce (weekends and holidays). but now things have got worse because i collected all her sexy clothes and bras and underware (plus see through bra and underwear got delivered the same day she left me) that she said she wanted back btw. so my question is, should i go to court? because im going to to get time with my kids that i deserve. i dont and cant afford a lawyer.... she took and got temp. awarded all our money we saved up till now, both cars, the house (she doesnt stay in still while im homeless), i got stuck with with 3 months not paid and she somehow gets our landlord to put all 4600 back rent on me and let her start fresh with a new lease agreement, and i am to pay her 1500 a month for child support without a job and i am just lost on what to do about court? i love my kids. they are my everything. 6 times shes taken them for months and 1 time a whole year! she tells my daughter that im in the hospital getting help .......... which is not true. so please let me know if u have advice for this final discard with children and about to have a custody battle..

mine hid our marriage for over 3 years. i asked her 3 times to change it back and the last time i kinda told instead of asked and she told me to change is sense i found it. i am not on social media because its a way for men to reach out and shoot their shot to endless women (at the beginning of our relationship/marriage). she refused to combine socials or drop her social.

Everything, really everything narcissists do dominate people, have the last word and DRAMA, DRAMA, DRAMA. There is only one solution for this energy suckers, and that is RUN or don´t take them too serious. I have stared to laugh about my mothers inability to think, react accordingly and take responsibility for her own actions. She moans but does nothing to improve her or the situation in common. Overall, I found, that narcissists moan much more than anybody else with makes them look pretty sad and, if not to say, look pretty ugly. Narcissists think they are smarter than others, more intelligent or more worth than any other human being on this earth but hey, how stupid is that?

Beware of selfie addicts! 🔔 🚩🚩🚩

Please add financial betrayal

Q. What do you want? A. To be 💯 happy. OK what does that look like? No answer...😅😅

This KZbin channel is my lifeline. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

I was dating a person the first five six weeks where so good . The they asked me to stay over one night I agreed and when we where laying in bed they where texting other people like how they text me . I asked if they were seeing other people and it’s ok we are just seeing each other . They then just one other person but to wasn’t serious . I made the mistake of saying I get kind of jealous and I’m really looking for a one on one relationship eventually . They then called me needy . The next morning they texted they had and meeting and they might have sex with the person with a lol . I new instantly they where trying to devalue me and play with me emotionally . I instantly with drew all my energy for this person and within a few days of changing my focus realised so many other red flags . I very self aware and have a very good understanding of NPD and I was fooled lucky it was so early on . Dodged a bullet there

Exposure is never a bad thing. Cowardly behavior is their thing. Take down the flying monkeys and anticipate the smear campaign.

Narcissist are people who acts like scared kids. They prey on the weak because it is a reflection of them. Don't even consider speaking to the narcissist when they come back. They take pleasure on your suffering, silent and no contact! They are incapable of loving or having empathy for others. Do not acknowledge them, ever!

"They are not worth a minute of your time." This is so correct. I dated a Narcissist for nine months, and she had an insatiable thirst for control and power. A narcissist only wants to TAKE, and never give. No contact and be successful. Also, and this is a hard one, cut contacts with her inner circle (friends, groups, etc), and do not visit places she or he often visit. This can be interpreted as a desperate attempt to reconnect or to "stumble" on them. Become a ghost to them as they honestly were to YOU. Delete photos, throw away gifts and anything related to them. Get them OUT of your system and breath a new air, tune in to a new frequency and help one another. She may think she won, but I became stronger, grateful, and have more empathy for others. I have become a better person, and that is something a Narcissist refuses to accept, oh well, too bad! You all deserve better. Thank you for your video. I love you guys!

Never allow them to force their rules or force their narrative onto you

I got my sanity back, but my body is still healing. I got lucky.

"thats your perception"

@4.48 finally saw your cat ❤

Not sure but I think my ex was a narcissist well is she broke up with me due to my concern about some things she did then she flipped it back on me saying she should have been concerned about my female coworkers within two weeks she monkey branched she told me I was not there enough but also I had to work because she wanted to be treated like a woman and not have to work

Lady's voice sounds like the voice in Psych to Go videos... 🙂

"Death by a thousand papercuts"

I have been trying to find out for the past 4 years whether or not my boyfriend was cheating on me, i have evidence in messages etc but until now he always tells me : it wasn’t me!! Lol and the story keeps changing every time!! My instinct tells me , he did cheat on me though😮😢🙈🙉🙊💔

That is why in 2024 I finish all friendships with such kind of people and now I'm happy and content ❤

Point 3: what about a female narcissist faking to be a man. Because of the entitlement of being trans and oppressed and a victim?

Spot on 👌👌

If only you all would go away...i forgive no one.

Yes. He would always say “ play along” whenever I started getting upset.

This is it right here

Hypothetically and definitely not serious - what about a 12g slug?

They can't surprise me with anything anymore

Yes, Everything youve said is true and relavent.

Simple problems work for them to cause stress for you. They create issues when you're managing well. It's confusing and zaps your energy and focus. Their goal is chaos for their ultimate control. They want power over all.

I am 60 years old, and just now learning I was a victim of 2 female narcissists. My mother and younger sister.

what about if the energy vampire are your parents ?

Worse yet is a narc mom

Oh wow! Thank you so much for that! I got to hate that person so much that I was beginning to think that I was the narcissist! Even my own family were thinking that I had an issue but in the end, Im suffering and when the one too many drop falls, I just explode in an uncontrolled abusive reaction. Im a compassionate person, I love when I get to work on my flaws to get to the best version of me and the thought that I could be an a-hole was really disturbing. I kept hanging to the fact that regrets and pointing at my flaws were the only way to think that I wasnt a narcissist myself but in the end, you've explained it so well! Thaaaank you so freaking much! You've made my heart lighter today and forever

Why are you smiling, inappropriate smiling is a red flag. This ain't no joke, it's not amusing.

Actually the narcissist caved to me. I cared less and joyful when I told him I didn’t want to see him anymore he then text back that I would miss him. I told him I am good. And the day after, he contacted me and asked to see me one last time.

Here for a periodic tune up and to remember things I tucked away. Its a much different discernment miles and miles into no contact. The real bonus is an affliction vaccination to many forms of manipulation. Both personal and in commerce. 👏

Once I lived in another (very popular and touristic) area for 6 months. I invited my closest friends over for a weekend in that period. I also asked my brother and his CN fiancee (at that time I didn't realize she is CN). She said (when my brother wasn't really paying attention): Well, just give us the keys when you are in your hometown.

My Best friend turned into a Narcissist big-time we grew up together we were best buds for a long time but then he changed i think after he lost his father not sure when but i noticed alot of the time he needed constant praise and admiration and when he was not the center of attn all the time he would start acting weird. in the end i basically gave him some very harsh words in the end of our friendship. the last straw was him giving me a hard time in front of other people and also giving me shit about my weight and so forth in the end as i said i gave him very harsh words---i told him Fuck off and Die...... i then went off grid silent 3 years ago. recently i noticed he tried to add me as a friend on Facebook i Immediately blocked him/his wife /and his daughter as i don't want him having any access to my life on social media i tell ya this guy is the worst of the worst the kind of person i hate with a passion its for the best that i never see him again or speak to him again if i every did see him again it wouldn't be good

You are so fine you've been getting prettier over the years❤