100 percent of this. There’s a guys named Fathers right and Resources here on KZbin that helps dads get custody without a lawyer. Good video just subscribed swain 🏄🏼♂️
@MrBlackjack45616 сағат бұрын
If you follow what he i saying you will be single forever, No girl is approaching you unless you are a celebrity.
@user-nl7pb2vl9m2 күн бұрын
I know people don’t have a high view of God and His ways or His word. But the reason for all the drama is because it’s our way or no way. Men stop jumping in bed with these women. Don’t yall learn from other men? Genesis 2:24 "Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh" Mark 10:7-9 "For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder"
@William-pm5kr3 күн бұрын
my baby mama russian and crazy …..never again
@thelonehiker46984 күн бұрын
Guys might have sex with the unattractive women but that doesn’t mean they want to settle down or build with them. I think guys(we) do it as a short term solution. The baddies know men want them and it is very competitive as they are getting hit on left and right so they are going to have to weed guys out
@fvhellcat10604 күн бұрын
This is all facts. My baby mama didn’t know who the dad was to our child and she randomly reached out when she was born, took a dna test and long story short I have majority custody of our daughter. Had to cut ties with my ex after 2 years of her stepping out of the relationship(lots of drama). Now I’m happy single and working hard for my daughter.
@kevparso48205 күн бұрын
I’ve been subscribed to you for a while now. We even follow each other on Instagram, and man… I’m on the verge of walking away. As much as I love my child, this shit is getting to me. Family court is a scam. And so are these lawyers. It’s been 13 months since I’ve physically hugged my child. Shes constantly missing visitations, and nothing ever happens to her when she does. I cannot imagine dealing with this shit for 18 years. I really don’t know what to do. What you said happened to me. This is my first child, and she constantly triggered me until I took the bait. Now she has a final restraining order against me. If I was emotionally fit, none of this would’ve happened. She got me bruh. I’m really about to walk away from my child. Fatherhood should be a joyous experience. For me it’s a mfing nightmare.
@leightonvisagie5 күн бұрын
Women like to be held unleash its accountable.
@leightonvisagie5 күн бұрын
Brother this one saved me
@Karamel-joylove5 күн бұрын
Im a woman and this is💯
@johncuccinello7735 күн бұрын
I’m 28 and just finished school for a new career change. My early 20s I wasted playing video games and keeping myself isolated. I feel behind compared to a lot of men. Im ready for this new chapter in my life and really hoping I thrive in my 30s
@user-uu5qk3rk7w6 күн бұрын
Needed to hear this fr. Thanks
@LoveIsStronger2226 күн бұрын
You had a woman say the reason they liked thugs is because they seem like they have something else besides them going on but you said they can be with a ceo or a business owner Who has something going on outside of the woman they with And the woman will still cheat with pookie and ray ray
@MyBabyMoma7 күн бұрын
This is what happens when you deal with 5 Star Food Stamp hoes. Instead of paying a fortune for somebody else's dead hair to put on your head and getting your nails done. Try putting more food fruits and vegetables, fish and seafoods on the table. Cook your children breakfast, lunch and dinner instead of being another shitty microwave mom. Use that money to keep your credit in good standing. No woman should receive child support from any man she is not married to.
@Matthew-zu6tm8 күн бұрын
Tax or Tithe, both never are for your benefit. Ever. They want your time, money, and support. Go where you are appreciated and rewarded.
@Calistenics_mello9 күн бұрын
Yo bro..I’m currently living with my babymother, but I soon go to school to start my electrician journey to start a new career & also provide a better living situation for myself and my daughter. She’s 2, her mom says lil things to get under my skin but I don’t respond, we co parenting right now and it’s uncomfortable for me emotionally. But after watching couple of your videos I feel more comfortable moving forward and elevating, gaining leverage mentally. Everything for my lil girl man it just sucks sometimes when you gotta detach emotionally🫡 salute
@seenthefuture869 күн бұрын
There is nothing wrong with watching a game, it's the living in the world 24/7 fantasy sports, buying jerseys $$$, watching shows where people argue sports, watching games that don't involve a team you care about. It can be difficult to get away from it, If you go into almost any bar/restuarant in this country and there will be 10 tv's with ESPN or FS1 on. You can make this arguement for all celebrities/entertainment, find what you you really enjoy to watch and listen to, just use moderation, don't make icon's, idols, hero worship, stand in line for autographs, if you are a grown man.
@trententalamantez13069 күн бұрын
You're speaking the truth Brother! I dealt with a Toxic Mother for 16 years. Nothing felt better than finally being able to seperate myself from that woman when my daughter turned 18. Never again will I put myself in that situation again!
@erdemgelegen24522 күн бұрын
How could u bear 18 years?
@Slidehhy10 күн бұрын
Real talk
@brantk8111 күн бұрын
I'll care when they start paying me
@joshuajohnson446912 күн бұрын
This is super facts
@JPGETTHATDOUGH13 күн бұрын
bro 2:44 WAS UNHINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGED🤣🤣🤣
@davidgallegos692514 күн бұрын
Great video. I think the promotion of professional sports helps promote political parties. Support the Red team, blue team or whatever irregardless of what they say or do. Keeping people in that mindset of being on a team and lowering your own abilities or family abilities and community abilities so that you be apart of an illusion of something greater that your not. Plus the commercials are so long and for profit and just ridiculous programing.
@t-lo370714 күн бұрын
I think I fcked up. I’m currently in my early 20s and I’ve did yk with a woman that wasn’t my type physically. And I always freeze up to women I find attractive is there something wrong? I’m in the spectrum btw
@Swain_14 күн бұрын
Are you insecure about something ?
@t-lo370714 күн бұрын
@@Swain_ I’m gonna say this I’m currently trying to work on myself even with socializing as an introvert. There’s times when I’m insecure abt other guys better looking than me
@Swain_14 күн бұрын
Gonna do a video on this
@JoKeR-jz9ch14 күн бұрын
I'm 28 haven't dated anyone nor had any girlfriend.. not in a single relationship.. and I'm focusing on my career right now.. but at the same time I also want to experience relationship.. Am I late to experience my first relationship ship or..? Shoul I wait for a bit or.. Should I take a move? Please help
@Swain_14 күн бұрын
Gonna do a video on this topic bro
@JoKeR-jz9ch14 күн бұрын
@@Swain_ thank you
@devdev736615 күн бұрын
30 is definitely just the beginning feels like 20s is elementary school 30s is like college
@MontemayorMark15 күн бұрын
Yo Swain could you make a video for young guys in their 20’s? I’m currently 23. What would you tell your younger self? Thanks big bro Salute
@Swain_15 күн бұрын
I got u bro
@MontemayorMark15 күн бұрын
Let’s Go Swain💪🏼
@juanyanez75516 күн бұрын
Guys if ur reaching 30 and not in shape get in shape and make sure u good financially if not make it a priority, girls younger or older will want u , women reaching 30 its almost basically over Stay strong kings
@Dbz-yo5ct17 күн бұрын
I agree you have to take a step back, she wants you to fight her because she is unhappy, once you're able to emotionally switch off, but still be in your child life she's lost, everyone was telling me this, and I didn't want to listen, but the courts and a bitter baby mama condition good fathers to be basically become babysitters/child minders for their own children. Wish someone had told me what you said before I got married to my ex good advice, a woman's mother is the one you need to watch out for, if she rules the house with an iron fist and there is a father in the picture, and he lets her run rampant avoid it like a plague.
@peterreid976918 күн бұрын
Great advice.
@apostolic66018 күн бұрын
Swain is back. Prevention before cure. Excellent message. 🙌🏾
@kyysofyee18 күн бұрын
As a young 20 year old single father your channel really helping me and inspiring me and giving me hope i appreciate you 💯❤️
@jayo30742 күн бұрын
Make sure you stay in your kids life bro. I was in the same situation as you so I know what you going through
@jovonerobinson494518 күн бұрын
Right . 1000%
@NYJets9418 күн бұрын
Physique is a status symbol. Great video man!
@MassGainingGuy18 күн бұрын
When a man is in great shape, everyone will stop and stare!
@justicevibes125220 күн бұрын
Why are single moms told to go back to their child's father?
@Swain_20 күн бұрын
It’s usually their best option and it’s. Better for the children
@alexandrogalicia871120 күн бұрын
You not the only one for me women are evil
@marquisnishawn659821 күн бұрын
I walked away from it all and havent said a word , my life has been peaceful ever since. I never wanted a child to begin with . I hate that i had my only child with a single mother . Biggest mistake of my life. Fellas, just walk away. Your peace of mind is all you have. LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES
@Swain_21 күн бұрын
AGREED BRO
@sincerely_Iam22 күн бұрын
🗣️🫡🦍💯💪🏾
@sincerely_Iam22 күн бұрын
Right on king 🫡 it get greater later 💪🏾🙏🏾
@sincerely_Iam22 күн бұрын
💯 real spill
@dufflebagguniversity23 күн бұрын
💯 🤦🏾♂️
@LightSoldier22223 күн бұрын
This is much deeper than being about black women’s “nature” as y’all call it; it’s very psychological. We need to be talking about how a lot of this has been influenced and caused by the thug/hypermasculine archetype being heavily glorified and set as the standard of masculinity in the black community, and how that needs to change that, especially since these unhealthy standards are being pushed on the black youth. Both black men and women are influenced and shaped by this standard, so the men aren’t just conforming to it solely because black women are attracted to it. Black men are pressured by the community as a whole to live up to this, and black men also reinforce this image amongst themselves. This image is also reinforced by the media and music most black males primarily consume and by the rappers they idolize.
@KnockturnalGaming24724 күн бұрын
A fucking banger bro
@Swain_24 күн бұрын
Thank you bro
@angelsmith208024 күн бұрын
My nigga you speaking str8 facts my G …
@zparchives758426 күн бұрын
I'm a single father been a single dad for 6 years , my son's mom is not active and didn't even wish me a happy father's day , it hurt a little but most Importantly I have to focus on being the best man I can be and eat the fact I chose the wrong woman and do better
@mzmagnolia294026 күн бұрын
Facts 💯
@TomBricks31027 күн бұрын
You can definitely re-imprint a pre-imprinted woman, it just takes a super advanced level game, AND you gotta be as good looking and as alpha as the one that imprinted her, once these things are established, and she is already attracted to you (meaning she isn't making rules for you already) then reimprinting her is really easy work, those with pimp level game know exactly what I mean. Once you re-imprint and upgrade her mind, she's yours forever. BUT it's still a lot of work, so personally the juice is not worth the squeeze, so she gotta be worth it. Just my two cents
@Swain_27 күн бұрын
It’s not even worth it to convince her you are good enough is a waste of your time
@TomBricks31027 күн бұрын
@@Swain_ well there's no convincing in the process, it's takes two to tango, if she has genuine burning desire for you, then you don't need to convince her to do anything. It's a natural process. But I do agree that it's not worth it, better be with a woman with no emotional baggage. Cheers bro!
@4yajustblazin21 күн бұрын
Hell no, too much work on a theory. Super hard pass