WHY FATHERS ARE FORCED OUT OF THEIR CHILDS LIFE

[@balancedwethuvisuals]

My baby mama sent me a message telling me to remove all my sons pictures that I post on my feed & that I should be prepared for court soon as she wants full custody of my son. She's literally doing this on his birthday month & I've literally been job hunting, interviews back to back, all so I can play a better role financially for him. She's been on my case since i haven't been able to send money for his essentials monthly since i lost my job, literally lost it all after we broke up, my apartment, my car, everything man, even myself. My baby mama done got me fucked up these past 2 years, I'm glad i bumped into you bro, i can feel an energy shift already.

[@darkknight7545]

So sad that a woman can be more upset at the man because of a decision SHE MADE than upset about something HE DID!

[@Nolaboy17]

This video is definitely for me. 16 years of that ish with my girls mother. Her and I relationship has certainly taken a toll my relationship with our children. Mentally and emotionally. I did jump off the deep end, but I'm dealing with another level of chaos. I'm dealing with incest in her family, homosexuality, etc. No lie therapy has helped me out a lot going about this situation. Now that I'm in position of Leverage, lol! I saw your "Leverage" video. Si with that leverage it keeps her away with the petty ish. I think it upsets her still that I'm still a good man and father. She's mentally and emotionally abusive towards our children. I tried the court way, but they say it's not neglect. Cool, I'll do it my way.

[@leightonvisagie]

Women like to be held unleash its accountable.

[@naturiatinajero6677]

My baby mama listens more to her mom than me that’s why we split

[@BugRaiser]

My baby mom won’t even let me call my son because I got married two years ago, what is crazy to me is she cares more about her welfare check than our kids.

[@hebrewx5651]

I'm glad u talk about how the toxicity of a baby mother can cause you to go to jail or dead, because she about to make me lose my religion.

[@numerouno2532]

I've never heard this put so eloquently, and all 100% true. The problem is that all the fathers going through the pain know this, but anyone else, both men and women, as long as it hasn't happened to them, then it's just a conspiracy theory that isn't true, this ensures the system will never change and women can go on destroying childrens lives with no consequences, it's a damn joke

[@Swain_]

Big facts bro agreed

[@hulk-smash-deez-hose.7951]

Walking away is the most powerful thing a man could ever do, support that child financially, but take yourself away from the disrespect.

[@Swain_]

Told no lies bro I agree

[@mikeylikesit74]

I disagree, a child deserves a good father and an even stronger man to deal with the drama. Dont allow your child to grow up like a toxic person because it was to hard to deal with the drama.

[@Swain_]

What do u disagree with

[@jaylobands3692]

As a child of this predicament, financial help isn’t enough. Money can only provide for tangible benefits; purchasable things. A father figure cannot be bought. And even after growing up and researching all of my questions on the internet, I’ll always have this void in me, feeling like I’m missing something.

[@Swain_]

@jaylobands3692 mothers need to know this

[@brooklynzombie_1440]

Man you don’t kno how much I needed this I shed so many tears cuz you get it and everyone making me feel like im wrong

[@bo197thre]

Keep your head up bro

[@MindOfOneKind]

Same! I really needed this.

[@dariquemashore5228]

Most definitely not alone brother. Remember this, We bend but don't break 💯🔥 stay strong my G

[@shawncobb1297]

I appreciate the knowledge fam. There's definitely a lack of content in this field regarding relationships. But I would like to add this point to the conversation from what I've witnessed first hand living through decades in this society. In the past, late 70's up to the early 90's. We, as Men had a Brotherhood established. So much so, that once a female had kids. No matter how fine she was, how fat her booty is, how slim her waist was, she was dead on the sexual market. No man would date her, let alone wife her up. I believe with the removal of the father from the home, so many men were not taught one of the most crucial skills a father passes down to his son. Which is sexual discipline and Principal. I've seen a change in where men are so vagina starved, that they will accept a woman no matter the codition. She could be a woman with 3 kids from 3 different men and these women are confident that they will get another man to wife them up regardless. And unfortunately they are right.. We have to take accountability for having such low standards as a collective when it comes to the women we entertain. This emboldens the behavior of these women because along with the state as a safety net, they know there's a cleanup man out there as a safety net as well. And truth be told, us Black Men are known on the dating market as the "cleanup man". We have to change this.

[@johnknowssports5624]

Unfortunately, the Court, therapists are of little help. Parental Alienation never ends. The “Drama” never ends Have another child with a Healthy Woman. Or, just Live Your Best Life

[@johnknowssports5624]

Pay the Child Support just like any other Bill And Move ON Dissuade and Release yourself of the negative impact and consequences of (your) child growing up with “Daddy Issues” or a Fatherless Son You Cannot fix it -and- YOU did not create it

[@alexanderpapii4866]

Going through it right now with my narcissistic baby mother was in a relationship with her for 13 years… we got a 5 year old together….last message when I was asking for my daughter she said “SHE WILL TALK TO YOU WHEN I GET OUT OF WORK!!” Been waiting still till this moment whoever sees this comment….. been like 2 months

[@Nolaboy17]

I would cut my losses. Trust ne I had to do it. When we stop asking to see our children is when they'll reach out. Blessings.

[@daniellucero4694]

BM took away 4 of my kids never left there side since they were born and now im being ignored cause i don't want her back....but ima love from a distance till my time comes where im complete witt them again...and if it don't happen i also accepted that outcome as well sadly

[@nampleguru]

Will this bitter baby mama change her ways and come to her senses ?

[@sincerely_Iam]

Right on king 🫡 it get greater later 💪🏾🙏🏾

[@Soulbarbernumber1]

Thank you for articulating the battle ground better than I ever have.

[@mikeylikesit74]

Been active and had my child since the were 3 months a majority of time. She has done everything from creating toxicity in my previous relationship which is over. Saying negative things about me to my child. But at the end of the day, my child's bond and relationship is amazing and she doesn't communicate and thinks her mom is a liar. Keep it moving and be there for your child and ignore all the rest of the noise.

[@Swain_]

Best advice right here long as our kids appreciate us can’t worry about why the mom thinks we dnt owe them anything we owe our kids everything

[@tremaynestaples1458]

And I see the fucked-up thing about it is she can leave you for another man and still hold a grudge along with the child captive for years to come let me explain my situation when my son's mother left me he was 8 months old he'll be four in June it wasn't even a whole 90 days before she monkey branched into another relationship that one didn't work out because she was rubbing the new guy in my face and had him around my child as it turns out her and the new guy was in a car accident thank God my child wasn't in the car she called me crying hysterically but me being the empathetic man that I am I showed her sympathy and told her that was God and yet to this day she still keeping my child from me and my family it used to bother me to the point where I didn't want to live anymore now that I am whole and healed I recently received my CDL-A here in Detroit Michigan so child support won't be nothing to me seeing my child to all the good fathers keep pushing it all falls in our favor in the end

[@MisfitFilly]

I’m in the same boat 🚤 too man

[@tremaynestaples1458]

​@@MisfitFillyThat shit crazy as hell bro smh

[@MisfitFilly]

@@tremaynestaples1458 if you need to talk send me ya nunmber in going thru the same thing rn

[@brockstown3038]

Respect brother! Going thru this right now. At the end of the day gotta show up for your kids no matter what!

[@Swain_]

Valid bro we def have to do that

[@balancedwethuvisuals]

DAMN i felt this.

[@ernestagyemang-botchway108]

I was fucked up mentally when she is not letting me see my kids for months ,seeing vedio was gold it helped me alot...it's not an easy thing to stay focused, it drains you bad...To any man going thrg this u r not alone.

[@dariquemashore5228]

Man put this man on a major network 🛜 #CNN #NBC 💯🔥

[@sweezy9667]

If you're watching this King content watch it 10 more times cause this is the purest game out here.salute King

[@Swain_]

Thank you bro 🙏

[@sweezy9667]

Check your email when you get a chance bro

[@BugRaiser]

I’m not tryna put my business out in front street but my baby momma got caught abusing my kids and cps have taken them from her. I feel so many emotions and all I’m trying to do is see if the court will let me get custody it’s just sad that the system is designed to give the man a hard time and not offer any help to the man but now I’m sad angry disappointed and happy because I know daddy is gonna do it right.

[@darrylwilliams9214]

Man my dude u are helping more than u know! Yah bless u and ur household

[@theoreticallygod53]

Im doing videos on this topic cause I've been dealing with this for over a decade from 2 different women... plus the child support issue not being able to get most jobs but still find a way to stay positive and push through

[@Jooonnness]

Been on KZbin as a viewer for a long time and I study social media regularly. I say that to say keep bringing this level of value consistently and Your page is going to blow up. I appreciate you and see ya at the top.

[@Swain_]

Thanks bro 🙏 hella motivation from your comment

[@ayednicolemedia3384]

Thank you for this video .

[@Swain_]

No problem bro

[@ayednicolemedia3384]

@@Swain_ well I’m a girl this my back up page. I just wanted to hear a males perspective from this because : I’m single, no kids, 2 degrees and a great career path. My current situationship is with a guy that is having is baby next month. We started dating basically when she moved out her 4th month pregnant . Right now we’re not dating because he expressed that he wants her to to move in with him again after the break up after springing on me last minute that she’s in bad health this whole pregnancy and he just wants to do best for the child then it leading to how he would feel regretful for not trying to make tings right allllll while trying to still have some relationship with me. As a woman with alpha women traits, there’s no way I can settle for that. He keeps stressing that it’s literally just for the child . But like I told him, the fact that you couldn’t come up with a plan to put yourself on child support and custody rights since she already decided to move out of your house to her own place and all this talk about how she is actually financially better off . Sounds bluff to me and I told him you are still emotionally attached to the woman, and I ain’t got time to settle into the mothers suffering because she can’t be an adult and either can he to move on & effectively co parent.

[@1MillTicket]

Thank you brother. God had to send me to your channel 🙏🏾. I needed those words of encouragement. Your words are 1000% percent correct. My daughter is 3 1/2 and I’ve stood up before I knew the child was mine. She told me at 7 1/2 months pregnant. While I was living in another state. I travel for work and I took a major pay cut and took a different career path so I can be home more. I even moved back to the state where my child reside and got a non traveling job and off on the weekends. Still not able to spend quality time with my daughter. Been through the courts with 2 petitions they just won’t hear me out and my traveling career working against me. I can’t even get a damn weekend with my child smh 🤦🏾. Man I almost lost it. I don’t know how I’m still standing. I’m on Childs support and Yes I did choose to walk away atleast for now. My mind wouldn’t be able to bare. If I stay in the toxic energy I would probably regret doing something

[@Swain_]

i promise it gets better bro stay on track follow your purpose take care of you first if you not good u cant provide for your kid dnt fall for the mind games

[@kingsolo0072]

Just Came Across Your Page Man, And It Speaks Volume. Keep It Up Bro.

[@cynthianesbitt6197]

I really feel It's between the couple envolved, how they decide to manage their household! Some men actually does their deudilligence, " are situated where they can take care of home! Some women, "maybe because prefer to make their own way, " or has been abused, " they prefer to have their own money! At the same time their are men, " maybe women, "whom because they take care of home, they feel they run the house as they want, " yet their despositions sometimes can become unbearable, "abuse their dependent spouse, "children! "Sometimes women in an not so sturdy relationship become mentally and Physically abused by the abusive man of the house, " depending on the couples involved! Sometimes there are women whom doesnt know how to keep their hands to themselves! Menxand women, "If its not working, " If you can get out!!, "your parents already reared you , " no man or woman has the right to put bruises on you! Sharing of the bills in an lot of cases, " allow one another to handle the bills for the week together, "or contribute, " allowing one another to have a little something left to enjoy one another, "maybe hang out with friends from time to time," make you miss one another. Buy something for your man or lady, " when you can, "the children, "sun glasses, bubbles and an short set, "shoes or one or the other, "put some up! "Its the Weekend Baby!! No two couples are the same, "no two women, "no two men" It depends on the relationship, "the chemistry, "learning to respect one another, "take an leap of faith, "learn to trust one another, " make one another top priority, " build your chemistry "whether you are together or "out and about with friends, "family! "You cant compare all women, "men's disposition as the same! Again, "I truly feel it's up to the couples envolved, "how they manage their lives together! It's important when finding that special someone, " make sure that you see something within them , that give you an special feeling, " that you would like to get to know them. An lot of times if you choose to physically get with someone before you get to know them," lack of self control, "Its possible once you've been with them, "you realize, " you doesn't really like them." Sometimes you're stuck with them, "for an while, "Is how "bad relationships "come to be. "Just saying!! No person necessarily know 100% If you have an winner, " the right one for you, "that's disputable. "If so, " try and hold on to them, " "represent your family values, "give it all you have, " much luck!!

[@BugRaiser]

I gotta hire a lawyer and the child support is more than my rent it’s messed up.

[@Aricochet78]

My situation has been as you described. Video eased the pressure on my head for a minute. Sincere thanks.

[@TCGcart]

I will never let my sons mom take over his life it’s just not in my dna 🧬

[@bengettinit7317]

My bm just quit responding. I dont know what else to do . I think at this point im contemplating moving back to my homestate the disrespect is ridiculous ive accepted my faults years ago but seems the closer i get to my little girl the more she keeps her away from me . She tries to let a 6 yr old make decisions for herself its so sad because its not me thats suffering most its my little girl who is suffering much more. Thanks for the video you have a new subscriber

[@virgilf3]

New subscriber, great video

[@freslice5054]

Can you make a video about a mature woman and the company she keeps like a toxic sister or a friend that's married and still a 304 and the effect of the little girls that's going to grow up the same way and thee son a simp

[@freslice5054]

Immature women sorry

[@Swain_]

Solid video topic I got u bro

[@freslice5054]

I got a story fa that a@@ bro and it need to get out straight narrsacistssss

[@Swain_]

Email me or Dm on ig Instagram: @trulyindigenous_ email in bio

[@henrywatley2168]

Bro is it right to show my 15 year old daughter one your videos, or would be wrong move based on how she would react to think this specifically maybe about her mom without saying.

[@Swain_]

Nahh bro put your daughter on game the earlier the better

[@henrywatley2168]

@UNCOMFORTABLE CONVERSATIONS appreciate you, bro

[@beastmasterakathabarbaric1509]

My kids one of the top athletes in the state and his mother keeps him confind in the house and tries to get him booted off the team and has him on school nights staying up till 3 am on school night cleaning her shit

[@glockcarrier]

Amazing video Brother. God Bless You.