Remember Allaahu Azza Wa Jal created ppl differently and this is why multiple wives are allowed, not encouraged but allowed, if he meets financial and other criteria. If the Quran Kareem allows anything then a muslim cannot have an opinion on it.

i am impressed how u discuss this topic in a very empowering neat way

Solution is in Quran and Sunnah..

Sis it’s not just from penetration. If the two private parts touch ghusl is waajib.

If a man thinks he needs it so often he has clearly a problem, this is not healthy! He's addicted to adrenalin, which is by the way the most addictiv substance on earth and our body itself produces it, which makes it difficult to get rid off. He needs another purpose in his life, he should clean his mind with spirituality and avoid coffee, tea, choclat, and reduce meat, fats and stress because all this is adding more adrenalin. To much adrenalin also can make him bald, maybe at least this could convince him to focus on more important things in life !

Dude she doesn’t want to have sex five times a day and uses hygiene and prayer as an excuse (poor woman). Thats Completely normal too for a man or woman to be driven mad by such a demanding partner and I feel Sorry for her that she feels she needs to find excuses for completely normal wishes. You should think a little about what she wants and enjoys! Think about her a little - that’s not a normal rate at all and she has Every right to “refuse”. You might want to seek help for being a sex addict seriously

When you want do something with someone who is forced to do so is called abuse...

you look mansha Allah and beautiful, can you tell me your usual diet loolz anyway thanks for your diin ideas may Allah increase you in knowledge

Hi sister, i can't believe what i am listening to! Number 1, you are not a doctor as you said yourself, when you said ask a doctor. Plus you are not a Islamic scholar (Alima). And even if you were, why are you doing all this!? You don't need to get into all of this! Let them ask whoever they want! Please don't get involved in this! Go and ask an Aalima, that whatever you are doing is this right! We girls have our own izzat/respect, please stop these videos!!

That's a bit of a disgraceful message, especiallywriting to a lady. Not sure why you would put that up there.

This is very much appreciated

These comments are unbelievable, clearly some people don't enjoy it with their spouses multiple times a day. Its perfectly normal to have sex many times a day, me and my spouse desire each other so much, we literally can't get enough of each other and yes, we're both perfectly sane and don't need a therapist 😂

The marriage search is hell today due to a lack of honesty in that men desire one things more than anything. Past and future are looked at by both genders with one mattering more than the other to each gender.

Is it allowed for a woman to speak like this in public?

My comment is from a different perspective. This man may have a medical issue to feel so much sexual urge. He needs to consult a physician, and I’m not being judgmental here.

Well done sister! It's very important side to talk about it! How to start happy life together! So much love from Canada 🇨🇦

Polygamy is probably the answer to this. Wife should encourage her husband to add additional wife

I‘d rather start a bit non-aggressively asking for the purpose of intimacy between humans? Like , do you think that it is good for the psychological/emotional health to not getting hugged for a non-conventional reason the entire year? Note: conventional reasons might be like getting semi-hugged on Eid-ul-Adha, or as part of a greeting, without any actual relief from psychological/ emotional stress or anxiety or any kind of intimacy that prevents these kinds of states of mental pain. If your spouse is not someone where you feel at home, that then is not your spouse.

Bloody heck- too explicit, where’s the shame in your advice. No hsyat no wonder you’re on KZbin

Nobody trained the animals. Go and find out something else to do.

I'd like to clarify that, as I understand , for Muslim women, reaching orgasm without ejaculation and also without penetration does not necessitate ghusl. Please review and verify this information for accuracy.

Must be beset

What about letting him marry another woman?as you are unable to fulfil his desire

The man needs to get a job

Sister i know your intention is good but it's not appropriate or acceptable for you to be answering these questions for 3 main reasons: 1. It's a fiqhi issue and you're not a scholar as you stated yourself. Please preserve the honour of the Deen and leave these issues to QUALIFIED shukuyh. We would Never start answering medical issues if someone asked us, we'd say straight away "I'm not a doctor". So why on earth when it comes to the Deen - which is more sacred than medicine - is it suddenly fair game for everyone to have their 2 pence say on it and start issuing fataawa? (And yes, this qualifies as a fatwa because the questioner has asked for specific advice for their situation about an issue which the shari'ah governs, and you have given them actions to do based on their question whilst quoting fiqh and islamic rules.) 2. You can't take - what is a personal fatwa which needs tailoring to that specific couple - and apply it to the general public to take benefit from. You have no idea about the person you are advising and their status/condition. These are pre-requisites in Islam before you start giving a fatwa and advising them. Also, their advice is for them, it's not to be put on the internet for others to then apply it to their life. 3. It's not appropriate at all for a sister to be addressing this topic and speaking about sexual acts and orgasms - you are violating the rules of hijaab by doing this on a public platform in front of men. This issue should be addressed in Private not in front of men on the internet. Please stop making these videos. Jazakhallah khayr.

It is not correct to claim that a marriage can be annulled due to porn addiction. Read the fatwa on this by Shaykh Abdurragmaan Khan on seekershub.

Having sex once a week or once every two weeks is not normal. We should be having sex much more frequently than that. This would help against p*rn addiction.

Let learned, qualified scholars talk about this. Have some hayaa. Women would be behind a veil or covering when they communicated with strange men. There are options to keep this behind a pay wall and only have this interacted with women only.

Camon tell the woman to fear Allah essence of marriage is to seal yourselves from haram...let them calculate hours of the day and have it multiple times b4 salat....

Polygamy is the solution

5-6 times a day? Bruh, that's a bit too excessive... When you say other parts of her body, does this include her mouth?

He might have sex addiction. It is a real non-substance addiction and should go to therapy for it.

He might just be a man that truly needs more than one wife.

Extreme lust: shahvat is disgusting have some self control! Leave this poor woman alone!

How hungry are you?😂

Maybe he should stop taking viagra 😂

As a man i would say 4-5 times every day is much but in this video its not mentioned so i guess 4-5 times a day in a month is ok. There is no need to see doctor for that! That day wife do nothing order food hire a help for kids and even book a hotel room. After few times it will automatically reduce to 2 times, 1 time is not healthy for both husband and wife, because man with only one sex partner releases quick in first time so women dont enjoy and second time man stay longer and also give pleasure to women and than wife also start enjoying,

Most of the wifes spend hours in kitchen to make delicious foods for husband but hesitate to take unusual shower for their husband, ?? And its not about 4-5 times a day im talking about its even one time in few days, only available on thursdays as friday is the shower day???

Old saying, way to win husband heart goes via tummy, in reality its bit bellow tummy

Their are 2 solution relatively one is easier, allow him to get 2nd wife, if u think this isnt easy for you than choose the time where their is long gap in prayers, like in winter between isha and fajar loong gap, in summer after fajar till asar long long only need to ghusal for asar extea!

Gud question but bad answer. Pls reach out to proper Fiqh scholar. Our mother Aisha commented on this issue. But to suggest ppls to go stimulate themselves avoiding penetration so ghusl will not be required Not good idea

Y'all criticizing him that he may not have a job are all jokers. You probably did not think deeper on this matter. 1. What if they're newly wedded and he's on leave 2. What if he's working from home and will often have several breaks in-between with the wife doing nothing but watching TV etc (just an assumption) 3. What if he's living on a very good passive income due to his great investment choice and doesn't have to be out there working. Etc All these are assumptions so just think before you criticize because it's not mandatory to comment on this video. And to all the young ones that are inexperienced with different life scenarios, I understand.

What is the ejaculate touches her hand during a hand job? Does she have to perform ghusl?

Ghisl is childish, it will create bad smells…but interesting story. Your new subscriber, thanks for sharing.

Marrying 4 will solve this issue in no time.😅 However, this seems like some sort of addiction which needs to be medicate. Common tips are : Instead of giving in to an urge to use, come up with alternative activities, such as going for a walk or calling a friend or family member to talk, so that you keep busy until the urge passes. Be prepared to deal with things that trigger your cravings for intimacy, such as being in an environment where others are using. May allah help us buidling a healthy relationship with our spouses.

Get a second wife brother. That’s what helped me when my wife couldn’t keep up with me requesting 4-5 times every day 😊

First of all this man needs to see a doctor and therapist. Secondly, this man needs to understand that he is not in paradise yet. He is in this dounya which means he has to work for his place in paradise and not follow his desires, even when it is hallal. A true muslim refrains from it. Especially when it is causing harm to his wife...Having multiple wives is not the answer cause you can't hop from one to another several times a day. What he should do instead is go to the mosque more often, read the coran, pray more often, fast several days a week or more... Besides from a normal job, do some voluntary work to help people in need, help your wife with chores, help your family, neighbours, community... Do something more meaningful to earn your place in jannah instead of harassing your wife and following your whims and desires... any exessiveness is haram it doesn't make a difference whether is eating too much, sleeping too much, working too much(in bed) and yes even praying too much. You cannot forsake your other duties Islam is all about moderation!!! So take care of your wife...keep her healthy and sane

This seems like a deeper psychological issue. He needs to see a therapist or hormone doctor. I feel bad for the wife

Assalamu Alaikkum Amirah, I don't think that's the question he was asking. It's really about how many times they get intimate in a certain period. Does that mean they need to do Ghusl every time? If they're being intimate multiple times in a short span, they can just do ablution to stay clean without needing a full bath, unless they have a prayer in between.

Just a suggestion, the brother can marry 2nd wife and share the sexual and after burdens. That way ur wife also will not be tired and each wife can ghusl thrice a day. It heavily depends on ur financial situation and ur wife to be ok with it.