Intimacy for muslim women

[@amirahzaky]

I would love to know your thoughts about this topic... and did you learn anything new from this video?

[@mohammadrafi895]

It is really informative. It is a big problem that we have started comparing our pleasures with our imaginations. We cannot define what an euphoria really is. It is better that we focus on the act instead of worrying out the result (pleasure). And I really liked your definition of sex - pleasure and connection. Most people focus on their own pleasure and then forget about it. Instead they should go slow and try to strengthen their love by means of sex.

[@IrshadShaikh-m1j]

And where are you from

[@AfrahAfzal1997]

Reason for sexual numbness?

[@johnsmithysmith1930]

@@amirahzaky great video. Please do a video for men, especially after age of 40 on how to increase libido for men. Lots of videos for women libido, but not men’s libido. This is a problem in our ummah. Please discuss, diet, as well as nutrition, exercise, sleep, etc. many thanks

[@sarahbegum2192]

@@johnsmithysmith1930 eat a well balanced diet including fibre, protein and healthy fats. Incorporate movement and daily exercise . And work on any childhood trauma and healing. Islam gives you the cheat code to life. Follow the sunnah .It's not complicated but it's the execution that people can't do

[@johnsmithysmith1930]

This sister does some excellent videos. You really fill the gap in the market for Muslims. Well done

[@patriciaosullivan4973]

Allah SWT asks the man to be kind to his wife. This is extremely important for a woman to feel loved and safe. Kindness, respect, trust would be a great place to start with.❤

[@johnsmithysmith1930]

Excellent video. Please do a video of what foods and what things a man can do to increase libido, especially when hitting their 40s.

[@gingerfellah5665]

Once again a sensible well thought out video

[@Cloud-fy3np]

Jazakallah, your videos are helpful with what to expect going into intimacy

[@amirahzaky]

Wa iyaki(i) alhamdulillah I'm glad you find benefit in my videos. May Allah bless you.

[@sarahbegum2192]

Most people done do the basic of health /exercise/nutrition/well being and seem to think thier libido will be high no matter what. Put the work in and see your libido change . Libido is a balance of physical, emotional, and relational factors. Prioritizing overall health, addressing any medical or psychological barriers, and fostering intimacy can significantly enhance sexual desire and satisfaction

[@sarahbegum2192]

Sexual health and libido (sexual desire) are deeply interconnected and influenced by a variety of physical, emotional, and psychological factors.

[@allykhan8594]

Alhamdulillah. Many things men can learn from this!

[@biryaniboy0427]

To elaborate the clit shouldn't be overly used when in the act of sexual intercourse. To add on, not every women can orgasm as they should, so take your time with her and allow yourself to be present when with her because women is usually in their head. Sex for women is psychological, and understand how you should "talk to her" when in the act of it. In addition foreplay is heavily important. Give her different sensations as well.

[@MohamedShou]

This is what I have to learn as a Muslim man inshallah with my future wife. Our brains and desires have been cooked by filthy pornography I’m actually worried if I can please my future wife properly Subhanallah

[@biryaniboy0427]

@MohamedShou You can pleasure your spouse it is simple. Just take your time with her (if she needs it), if not, then there is a possiblity for her to climax quick as possible. Duration of sex differs and varies overtime + the more you abstain from excessive masterbation the less time you will find yourself having delayed ejaculation. Remember the penis itself needs to heal since it is an organ which is receptive to the touch, excessive masterbation will never be a resource to that. Finally, every girl can climax but sometimes they can never feel themselves climaxing (or) they don't tend to orgasm, just keep a clear note of what your wife is like, mentally and physically because that is important to note.

[@abdou.b3259]

Why thé clit shouldnt be overly used?

[@biryaniboy0427]

@@abdou.b3259 Relying on one sensation ruins the act of an pleasurable orgasm. Two, clit shouldn't be overly stinulated a the main purpose of its the same as male penile glands. Too much stimulation cause it to fracture overtime and also ruins the purpose of lasting longer. The nerv part of the clit also is depending on how the host (your partner) feels before reaching or after climaxing.

[@biryaniboy0427]

@@MohamedShou Porn has its uses and indeed it is like a drug which also has uses. Depends how you consumed it. Just for now, understand intimacy, sexual acts or behavioural disorders from yourself or your spouse. Understand that foreplay is needed, and heal your reproductive organ as it needs to be rehabed, rehab your mind as well.

[@basirobaidi667]

Very great topic, thank you

[@sarahbegum2192]

Most people don't know basic. Regular physical activity improves blood circulation, boosts mood, and regulates hormones, all of which support a healthy libido.Poor diet or no movement can negatively impact sexual desire and performance.Emotional and Psychological Health Affect Libido too. Emotional and mental well-being are just as critical as physical health when it comes to sexual desire.

[@sarahbegum2192]

Most people done do the basic of health /exercise/nutrition/well being and seem to think thier libido will be high no matter what. Put the work in and see your libido change

[@MusaSela]

Nice video thank you for the information

[@sharminahamed2814]

This is very important as you should know. I'm 21 and I've been learning a lot in Madrasa since I was 13 and we're always told to satisfy our wives first. Allah is displeased with the lazy man who doesn't remain patient till she finishes her desires. "If during intercourse,the man satisfies himself first,he should not rush until she has fulfilled hers" this was an authentic Hadith which is very important

[@kinndah2519]

Every woman who's experienced endometriosis, sexual trauma, & pregnancy needs to get pelvic floor therapy. Ask your doctor for refferal. There's also a similar treatment for men who've experienced sexual & physical trauma. Yoga also helps tremendously. Take bioavailable vitamins and wild caught omegas, husband too. You'll see the difference.

[@samia6888]

We as Muslims can't do yoga, it is haram

[@kinndah2519]

@samia6888 No it isn't 😒 Yoga is excellent exercise for flexibility, circulation, pain, grounding meditation for mental illness, etc. There is absolutely nothing about it that's haram, in fact Allah would encourage such a healthy habit that's rooted in science and psychology.

[@Dr.Crepitus8]

8:00 Golden point of information . Thank you for sharing it in a beautiful way . Hope the people understand it optimistically. جزاك الله خير 🌿 from Nepal🇳🇵

[@oosmanbeekawoo]

"I am a woman and feel no pleasure during sex." This is the reality for both Muslim and non-Muslim women, who can only experience pain and suffering. So much for dating/pick-up culture, and no responsibility.

[@Sasuke_uchia-i6u]

??😢

[@Hannah.115]

What ? Why?

[@Sasuke_uchia-i6u]

@@Hannah.115??

[@Ancientofdayz1]

Why

[@Sasuke_uchia-i6u]

@@Hannah.115?

[@hudebv]

This vedio is sort of a step ahead . Very informative .although im not a muslim but this still helped me i I even forwarded it to my partner . I just wated to asked for long time that is ..actually i a previous vedio u menssion tantrik sex ..my request is if possible make a seprate vedio abt it .and provide more info ..i had seen after that many vedio after that about that but still couldnt have a clear idea Thans

[@SIKO7602]

Thanks ❤

[@stinger4712]

What do we do when there's such a mismatch in libido and desire for sex. He wants it 3-4 times a week she's good with once a week and neither of them are particularly interested in a co-wife situation.

[@Sasuke_uchia-i6u]

?

[@NurPutihAminah]

Have you tried supplements, herbs, foods specific for women's sexual health?

[@stinger4712]

@@NurPutihAminah no. Can you list a few common options to try?

[@Sasuke_uchia-i6u]

@@stinger4712 are you male?

[@subcool-hf3zg]

Get hin 2nd n 3rd wife

[@humayraafia6004]

Sis when is your book coming out?

[@jimmyfitz8168]

Very good video! What does Allah say about giving oral sex to women?

[@talent2437]

Oral sex in whatever form, shape or design is COMPLETELY PROHIBITED BY Allah to any gender to practice. Avoid at all costs.

[@KS-cl8br]

no hadeeth I know of mentions this so, so insist that your husband does oral

[@syedmubashir6074]

I'm muslim, but the question of Permissiblity for marital rape always confuses me.

[@dodgygeezer1965]

How do you know if a guy is virgin.

[@hakanarslan9754]

If he is good looking, he is probably virgin. I'm not virgin but all the women hate me for beign extremely good looking. hahahahah

[@dodgygeezer1965]

@hakanarslan9754 well I am uglier than a mud fence and yet I am all intact yet..

[@ibrahimshah3378]

Listen Allah assures us that good virgin men are for good virgin women, and the opposite for the opposite, so you do not need to worry and just trust Allah, he knows what's best for you

[@samia6888]

​@@ibrahimshah3378He said good men are for good women and good women are for good men, not virgins. Where did you get that from..you don't need to be a fornicators to not be a virgin.

[@priusa8113]

I hate sex with my husband and do it only out of a chore&obligation. I just shut my eyes and pray it’s over and it usually it takes 7 minutes. 😂

[@roninyeagerist4152]

Lady,communicate to him,ask him to put on muscle,talk ur desires and experiment discover what works for u,no man is born with instruction manual,you are in this for life,might tas well give it a try

[@eagleairborne7132]

If she doesn't love him, then no good will come out! 2. If the guy is unattractive, or bad behaviour, or dirty, then no good will come out of it.

[@minonasri3730]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@minonasri3730]

Why don’t u enjoy it tho? Is it bc ur several years down marriage?

[@OumaruABarry]

Ask him to look for soliton, I was having the same problem but Allahadoulillah I find so lotion,

[@christophersemenya9890]

There u go dearest ❤🎉😅

[@kutenurahmod5928]

How do you manage to keep a confident straight face, when addressing 18+ topics?

[@theredomar]

haya has left the chat thats why

[@haniahmed7534]

I live in UK I am 40 minutes plus no doctor never helped from you I heard Vaginisum all my life never had pleasure still today I feel that I am not human may Allah help ❤

[@Hududuudu]

@haniahmed7534 she has videos talking about this matter in details pls go check it out and In sha Allah it will be solved soon.

[@HumayunMirza-s8f]

I highly appreciate u for talking on the muslim women's sexuality n the huge problems they suffer throughout their lives. The root cause of sexual issues of Muslim W is the Hadith based patriarchal Islam, which tells W their bodies r dirty, shameful n fitna. Sexual desires thoughts act n pleasure all r sin, shameful, disgraceful, prohibited n behaviours of bad girls n whores. Their body is their family n husband property n meant for husbands sexual gratification n reproduction n nurturing children. With these general conditioning women sexuality n sexual desires r buried under shame, sin, dirty, embarrassing, misinformation, anxiety n cold passive detached response. This basic block needs to be challenged by challenging the hadiths which promote these false Islamic concepts. This is the start of a long journey towards acceptance of ur sexuality, discover n learn how to pleasure ur self.

[@somebody2310]

Hadeeth based patriarchal Islam ? Sexual acts , thoughts, acts and pleasure are sin ? Islam does not prohibit the spouses from pleasure and enjoying one another in a lawful manner. You are speaking of something cultural please don't say Islam that's not from Islam.

[@HumayunMirza-s8f]

U are somewhat right in saying the body shaming n a general negative perception of sex particularly is a cultural thing but many cultural mindset is rooted in weak/unauthentic hadiths. Generally in the muslim culture due to false religious concept sex is for men gratification n reproduction. Men are supposed to initiate n do intercourse n women should make themselves available for men whenever men desires sex. Simple intercourse n women passive availability is not a reason for sexual pleasure for many women.

[@samia6888]

Allah swt created human beings in the best form, women are included in this. Cleanliness is a big part of our faith also. Allah blessed women with giving birth to future generations which is a huge honor. The fitna of women is their natural beauty that attracts men of all kinds who can harm them. it doesnt mean anything is wrong with them. Women's bodies are NOT anyone's property at all, we all belong to Allah. Our famililes nor husbands own us (which is the reason why we do not take our husband's last names) and sexual thoughts, feelings, etc are sinful when not in a marriage (take a look at how rampant hookup culture is and how it is affecting society) but when in marriage you get good deeds for having sex with your spouse and pleasuring them. You have to also have foreplay before sex to make sure the woman gets as much pleasure as possible from the act.

[@JJ-qd9yl]

@@somebody2310 they didn’t word it the right way, maybe English isn’t their first language

[@Ancientofdayz1]

Then why not leave Islam? It's a misogynistic religion

[@haychgas1447]

How do you know wether a girl is a virgin?

[@asyed1995]

All Young have to know After Halal Legal. Marriage .Full Healthy Faithful Faith Financial Freedom Farming 👪 .All To. Can see " Tabvay Nabvi PBUH.

[@rja478]

If you have no shame Then do what you want

[@kamilhameed9158]

What triggered you?

[@ThiernoIBah]

Allahu Akbar exposed u married is a sin,bad influence

[@IrshadShaikh-m1j]

Assalam walekum are you marriage or not marriage

[@InspirationalLeader2024]

She is married to

[@IrshadShaikh-m1j]

@InspirationalLeader2024 she is marriage who are you

[@ultrabossKM]

Why does that matter? She is helping people learn important information for their marriages. Also she said she is married before.

[@London_01]

FEAR ALLAH. SPEAKING ON THESE ISSUES IN PUBLIC 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@NurPutihAminah]

Better this than learning from non muslim sources. If you dont agree with you dont have to click on the video

[@michelleknightley1208]

If it’s not spoken about how does anybody learn. The sister as not spoken in a dirty or vulgar way Being quiet about things or brushing under the carpet is no good for anyone

[@imaknexus]

Grow up man

[@samisiddiqui6803]

Hmmm...17 if sexless marriage ...never consummated.dont even sleep together .....but no fight nothing ...just normal easy going life ....obviously no kids ...lol. how rare is my case...? ....if it not had in 17 yrs than won't happen until end of life either....pretty rare case I guess ...

[@Hannah.115]

That’s very sad. Why don’t you just let go?

[@Hannah.115]

That is really sad, humans need intimacy. Why don’t you let go of this relationship??

[@kinndah2519]

Why are you not divorced?! Divorce.

[@Hududuudu]

Communication first

[@kinndah2519]

@Hududuudu Are you crazy?! 17 years of no intimacy and no kids and you think "communication" is the key here?! Habibi...this is WAAAYYYY past the level of communication. She should've left more than a decade ago! Communication is for ppl whom have been having a problem for a few days or a week😒