Thank you so much for your warrior spirit and push back on 2day's culture...women r despite ....

I love that. What do we have to offer outside of our vagina. That is what men want to marry not a private part.

It may be “normal” but it’s not natural!

When I was 18-19 i always got approached by Men aged 30-55 but whenever i approached guys my own age, i would be turned down. This was because i looked much younger than my actual age and of course childlike features have an extremely low sexual and romantic appeal for some people. Despite this, i think age gap relationships spanning more than 6-7 years apart is taboo.

Men who prefer to exercise their options to date down do so for a multitude of reasons. Me personally, I know men who are divorced and choose not to go back down that path for said reasons. To each their own. That being said, they’ll date a younger woman who may be feminine, not carry emotional baggage from prior relationships, not bring a level of entitlement into the equation, cooperative, and a reinvigorating spirit. Speaking for myself, I won’t deal with a woman who gets a kick out of pushing back, revisiting past experiences, and projects masculinity. Those are some of the obstacles of dealing with most seasoned women, in addition to being rigid and set in their ways. If that man is well kept physically, that’s a win for him in expanding his options. Unfortunately, you’d be surprised how many women, they think it but won’t say it out loud, despise that. I know of not one woman, younger or seasoned, who doesn’t yearn financial security. For some men and the younger women they choose to be with, it may be an amicable trade off. If they’re happy, more power to them. Who’s to say that woman within his age range isn’t out for the same thing??? I think most women who have lived enough life aren’t honest with themselves in their assessments. It’s to be expected to “take a woman as she is” when they have failed to acknowledge their faults within, which oftentimes led to the demise of their relationships. People control their own happiness, and unfortunately that’s something too many seek from their significant. If both parties involved connect and complement each other in ways conducive for a healthy relationship, more power to them.

I know 4 women who had kids in their 50's. I think it's a norm the powers that be don't want highlighted. They need their minions sooner, than later.

Hmm. Well Anita, I’ve been perused by 3 mid 20’s men, DEFINITELY a generation gap! But boy they were beautiful to look at🤫. I’m far from rich, but I can hold my own. So it’s not the money 🤷🏻‍♀️. MOST men that have asked me out are 20-30 years younger than I am! Maybe because their income isn’t a priority, or their height isn’t a deal breaker, I’ve dated a man who’s an inch shorter than I 😁. I’m always told I look much younger, and often mistaken for my son’s wife. My requirements are intelligence, a beautiful smile, knowledge of traditional rules we both play, fairly healthy, and know the VALUE and incredible gift a virtuous woman is. I am WELL AWARE that a men, who takes his position seriously is EASY to serve and be submissive to. She will be along side him to build your empire and be your biggest fan, support, and brainstorming partner.

Never use e harmony! They are a ripoff! They continued my subscription without my permission even when I followed instructions to end it. I don’t even think the matches of men are real. It’s like playing a video game. Don’t waste your money!

Oh, my grace! Anita...this video here! Every single point. Radar on high now! I'm so turned off by their foolishness. Ladies, live your life. Even at these great ages, they get worse!! They are never satisfied. You can't get married to or expose yourself to that without adding sorrows.

If you are dating. You are not going to have a relationship.

Ms. Anita, I saw your video and felt drawn to comment because we’re definitely kindred spirits. I completely get the struggle of being a spiritual person in today’s world-it can be hard to witness. You talked about things you face on your platform, and I notice it in my life, too. I’m grateful every day and often see acts of kindness, probably because I do the same. Where I live now, people are mostly courteous, unlike when I lived in Florida, where I experienced a lot of rudeness and road rage. It’s hard to see people not even say thank you for simple acts of kindness. I wake up thanking God and carry that gratitude throughout my day, and it’s disheartening seeing others not do the same.

Since ancient times, the desire of older men with younger women has been a threat to an older woman's survival or lack of protection and provisioning.

Thank you for this! This makes me realize that I have A LOT to improve on (I'm probably like a 2 or 3) but hopefully it'll be a fun journey! lol.

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I say in my generation area. Cant deal with the silly mess of youth or even a generation back.

Thank you for this Auntie Anita! It’s funny, a few years ago 2 women asked me what was I going to do if I was still unmarried by the time I turn 40? My answer: Keep living! Lol and the ironic thing is one of these women is divorced and the other is in a long term relationship (but doesn’t believe in “traditional marriage”…whatever that means 😂). I’ve learned that people tend to project a lot and needless to say I’m no longer friends with these women.

A 45-year-old man was creepy and disgusting to me, when I was 20. I have always had a very physically active lifestyle......maybe 5 years older at the most.

Ms Anita , i think you forgot to link the podcast episode where you go in depth about this🌸

I'm not a fan of it, but I don't think Tim gave good reasons on why they are challenging. Most relationships the people have things in common, shared experiences, and don't have major age gaps...and they still don't work out. She wants you for your money? I think most women over the age of 25 have the same income requirements. They probably even increase with age. The Kendra G show is an example of this.

From a biological perspective, if there is the desire to have children ( fertility is required) with the resources to take care of them( generally having to be established), it speaks for itself.

I think men being with younger women makes more sense because women tend to mature faster than men and are ready to settle when men their own age still want to have fun. Older men who are ready to settle can find younger women who are looking for the same things.

Idk.. I’m early 40’s & I find so many attractive Christian male KZbinrs who are in their early 30’s. If I ran into them.. I’d be open to dating. I see nothing wrong with gaps.

I think Both sides are being used. 20 yrs is too big a gap for it to reasonably work. Even in a 10yr age gap both parties are going to be in different seasons in thier lives

I'm personally not a fan of age gaps greater than 10 years. I had just posted in my stories on Facebook this past Sunday about getting hit on by a man who couldn’t be older than 25 years old and a 60-year-old. I'm in my late 30s but have been told by men that I look to be in my mid-20s. The younger guy who approached me is more than 10 years younger than me. The older guy is more than 20 years older than me. I could see myself dating neither. I just can't do those age gaps.

Lust is powerful. I think societies done a great enough job highlighting how men are driven by it while downplaying its significance among women. Over all the young person is in it for resources. The older person is in it for lust. Men conveniently have the reason of fertility. It is problematic in general but that doesn’t mean it’s not acceptable in my eyes.

I believe 100% that most guys are not honest with themselves and since they are not honest with themselves then they can't be honest with a woman and that's the problem that I see with guys today and I do agree with you Anita because a coffee date is a perfect way to get to know each other before putting to much time in to make sure both of them are comfortable with each other and then go from there.

LOL! yessss we want stability. I date older and I also ask older men whyyyy they date younger for my own research. Yes it’s a double standard n older men know what it is and accept it as such.

Also Anita, do you have videos on topics about how females and mothers can get their lives together, be more organized, how to set things up for our kids, etc. A few of us are feeling a little stuck in this area😂

I totally agree!!!

I had a male friend hang up on me when I said I don’t vote. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

I don’t vote!! 🗳️ I vote for TMH God. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

I love you Anita!

Love you, Anita! Shine Away, dear... Many of us would Loooove to have a moisturised skin like that... ❤🎉❤

I sent this to some of my female family members thank you ❤❤❤

She's his meal ticket 🤦🏿‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️. He's young enough to be her son. 😮😮😮 How is he worth $6 million when he owes over $200k to the government....red flags dancing in the air. Smh. I'll give it a year tops.

Lucy said.... I have nephews his age. Their moms will have a fit a 50 year old dating their son or Marrying.

If a woman or man has not been married for an extended period of time before… in one ear out the other. People in general should be careful who they listen to and that’s a great point in your video.

She ain’t new to this, she dated Tim from Sweetie Pies’s who was also a felon. 🤷🏽‍♀️

On your last point... Heck, there's a lot of married people I would NOT take relationship advice from!! 😉😅

Yes, Triple A please do a part 2! 😄

Sexual discipline is the only way to fix this “ hookup culture “. We are responsible. Every situationship, one night stand, they make men think their native is the only way. A lot of men my age don’t wanna work for a woman. Close them legs. That’ll make em earn it.

I agree with you Ms. Anita. It is especially the black church, in my opinion that allows so much to go on. Smh. and let's just be honest most of the leadership are participating in these acts as well. The church I went to we had many couples that were in leadership that were very toxic . Cheating galore smh. I feel that they don't want to turn away people because that's money walking out the door. A lot of these black churches don't stand for anything but🙄 the almighty dollar ...it's sickening . Too many people playing in God's house. I don't understand why the keep showing up Sunday after Sunday with no real change. Honestly there are alot of people who become codependent on the church..void of true transformation. 🤷🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️.

My mum is also a jehovahs witness i left at 15 as i was abused by one of there elders and it was coverd up. Im glad my family brought me up with the morals. It was a shock when i started associating with the world. I thought they were exaggerating when they warned me 🤦🏽‍♀️

Jennifer looks like a knockoff Barbie. She always sounds less than smart when she opens her mouth.

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1. Transparency is good 2. Life is a journey and she's enjoying her journey 3. Nita, men her / my / and your age have ED, we have to date younger if they still want quality s3x. 4. It crushes Red Pill narrative that women are washed up at age 30 and 35 5. This could be a business marriage keeping her on the show longer. But to your point, we all need to do our own inner work to identify healthy partners.