No.

No fuking way

"Let's see; she involved herself in something she had no business being in, looked at information she had no business looking at, and then posted it on the internet for all to see! WITHOUT OUR PERMISSION. I am not being petty, I am rightfully upset that she robbed me of a special moment and I am angry that all of you brush it off like it's nothing! If I did that, you'd be pissed with me for "ruining" the surprise, so why does she get to do the same to me?"

Mom's choice.......her consequences! She's the a**HOLE and doesn't need to be part of YOUR FAMILY!

Every Reddit Story about Parent Relationships be like:

It's sad how close friends / relatives " fall out" at the drop of a hat . They probably had underlying h8tred or jealousy ALREADY for the other person . So , they were itching for a chance to make the other person look bad. # knock them down a peg 😌💅

That’s the opposite of selfish, that’s loving your children so much you’d miss your mom’s wedding

I think it came out ending a lot better than it started for OP, and it was absolutely adorable when she told us that Mark scooped jack up w his first steps ❤

No you are not wrong. She Deliberately. Shared what was not hers to share it was yours and your husband‘s time to shine about your gender reveal. She was wrong for taking that away from you. She seems so smug about it.

Sooooo , Lil Sis has to wait 7 years before SHE gets married 🙄? Wow . After dating for 7 yrs , nvm....... , i can't even finish my thoughts . 🤦Big Sis is too silly acting 🥸.

No

You messed up big time. He probably saved for weeks for that present, and you threw it in his face bills before love.

Please tell me when next part cokes out 🙏🏻

To me she should keep fighting but if she loses she should fovus on the future, get a new job have more kids to fill the void and take care of them without any help from the grandparents or even letting them see the kids and in the future when Emma realises what happened and she hates the grandparents lets hope op has it in her heart to want a relationship with a child who said they dont want her

So, it's apparently not selfish for your mom to completely exclude your step kids even though they've essentially been your family for years, but it is selfish for you to stand up for your step kids? Fuck that. NTA.

My grandmother would say be true to yourself no matter what that means to you and to me that would mean if you want to wear makeup a certain way you wear a certain way if your sister wants you to tone it down so much that you look like you're ill or Bland and you don't want that then don't do it but just remember this you also have the the right to say I'm not going I don't have to go and I do not have to be subjected to this kind of ridicule and that's what it is because she wants to be the center of attention all the time

Vegan food is fucking banger bro. Im not even Vegan but thats tasty shit

What else CANT you trust her with? Minimal contact would be wise!

I would either move or if you had bought the house I changed my locks and I wouldn't give anybody a key. Anybody that showed up I was in my house while I was gone call the cops on them don't be a carpet

No matter how bad your best parenting was , it was probably better for her than the system. She gave you a good childhood and you possibly destroyed her childs life

YOUR PARENTS NEED A THERAPIST NOT A REPLACEMENT DAUGHTER!

NTA! Either the kids are treated equal or someone is playing favorites. Husband is a piece of crap for not backing up his wife here.

Oh honey, so very sorry you are going through this. It really sucks to be used and gaslighted like that. You are NTA, but your sister and parents ARE.

“You’re angry that I seem to be getting special treatment because I’m disabled? Sorry, life isn’t fair.”

I agree, with your BF because it’s your special moment not your parents they have gotten married so basically just Tryna take away your special moment

A week no you are not wrong you did the right thing and the people in your family accused you all wrong

Your baby, not theirs. Name YOUR child whatever you want.

GURL you are not bad person Amanda is PERIOD

You could be the a-hole because if they were actually allergic and you knew that you can get the cops called on you

You are not wrong. Both your brother and his wife are in the wrong. The only criticism I have is: what took you so wrong. Leave the rest of the family out of it. Not their business.

Nope NTA I would have called sooner.

She could have lost her life, and lost the baby, yet they still blame her because brother dismissed her concerns when she first started expressing pain. Nta

Help thats my name it really is luna

You're doing well. Phenomenal job. You're a wonderful mother to those kids. Those are your kids NOT just your stepkids. Yes they have their biological mother but you're their mother as well. Mothers don't have to be blood

Taking the Xbox and selling it when it’s not yours and you didn’t buy it is stealing it. But He shouldn’t of been on his x box 24/7

You screwed up bad I think u should've talked to him and I wouldn't speak to u either

It's their freaking wedding! Im a meat lover but no way would i be pissed that the food was vegan!

This isn’t about the gender reveal party is about the cousin‘s lack of respect. You do not post about another person‘s child without their permission and that’s exactly what the cousin did. Definitely go no contact because you will not be able to trust her to not post about your child without your permission in the future.

Food is food. It doesn’t matter if it’s vegan or not.

No yor right it's unfair

No! You were standing up for your children!Tell her to deal with it! Please stand your ground!

If they led people to believe that there was going to be meat options at the wedding... then yes... There's a mode responsibility to be directed at OP. This is the one thing that I don't get from people is that everybody wasn't doing a fit when they were oblivious.

No you are not The AH . Your mother doesn't acknowledge them , she's TA You are an awesome Mother. Glad you are standing your ground ❤❤❤

Stay on your daughters side because you could always get another love me you can never get another daughter like yours

I'm sorry but in this case I have to call op the villain mainly because I feel like she should ask others for opinion especially since she said "Emily acts out understandably"

Tell your brother and his family needs to move out! The family that says you need to support them can do it instead of you! Have a moving company move them out!

At the start when she said “she’s always been a bit” I think we all know what I was thinking

No if you can except her boyfriend she can except your step kids....

8:54 I feel like there is something more to him and the issues when he was a kid and whatnot

Y’all talking about how she is a good step mom but I am still having a heart attack from the bug that appear out of nowhere then disappeared