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Ida left said nothing BUT NEVER returned to her house and don't have her around at your house.

"Im not criticising her dad. We talked like fwo adults. She asked, and i gave her an answer from our perspective. It is what it is. im sure you had good intentions, but it's time to relax the grip. Were already raised as much as we can be "

You did what you needed to

Harry Potter Fans knowing James and lily are meant to be…

No you’re not wrong to walk away and you’re siblings should have offered to help you instead of sitting on the couch eyes glued to their phones here’s what you can do the next time that happens turn off the Wifi and see how they would feel

Do not ask questions you do not want to hear.

Uh no she said she asked op because she knew shed be honest

Agreed.

I’m halfway through the video and OP’s parents have disowned her twice so far…

She asked for the honest truth she got what she wanted

Well... she wanted honesty, and she got exactly what she asked for

NTA she wanted the truth, and it also sounds like OP wasn't even being a dick about it. they told the matter how it is, no sugar coating but no unnecessary meanness either

You left some tooth picks in

Yta no matter how long it been the ring isn’t yours you had no right to sell it

Is it just me or does almost every one share they same kind of language it’s creepy and starting to suspect something…

The mother was like: I don't understand why my kids won't talk to me Me: oh, I wonder why...

God knows she owes you money. And she's just using you to get your money and like you said using you like an ATM.

She told you to tell the truth you told her the truth and she got mad that’s her fault for being idiot

I’m sick of these shorts leading to a 20min story 😡🤦🏻‍♀️ if I wanted a 20min story then that’s where I would have gone 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Bro opened her villain arc💀

She asked for the truth so she got the truth

She said she could handle it and she kept pushing don’t ask what you can’t handle

I liked the way it ended. FINALLY, a relationship that healed!

If I were her, I would have said (at the dinner) “I love you, Mom and Dad, I love ALL of you, but my parents crossed the line, and I need a break, so I HAVE to do this. I’m sorry to myself, my parents, and all of you, but I have to do this.”

The fact that ur parents never caught on shows just how bad they were as parents

Absolutely not the jerk. Few things chap my hide more than entitled parents who try to micromanage every moment of their families lives and then try to shift that energy on to other people. The quote of “clean your own damn house before you tell me how to clean mine” comes to mind. If Sarah doesn't release the grip and stop smothering her children, I guarantee you they're going to rebel as they get older and eventually, at their earliest convenience, move out and go no contact. I've seen it happen. For example, I knew a lady who had two kids from two different marriages seven years apart in age. When her daughter, the oldest, wasn't being completely ignored, she was parentified by her do-nothing mother into being her spoiled younger half-brothers nanny. Mommie Dearest treated her son like he could walk on water, never disciplined him, taught him a healthy respect for boundaries, that the word no is a complete sentence or any sense of accountability. Unsurprisingly, he got worse as he got older and one day [surprise, surprise] he was taller and stronger than her. I had warned her, for ages, but she wasn't doing him any favors by treating him like he was the second coming of Christ. Because I'm male, single and adamantly child-free by choice, she dismissed everything I had to say as I “didn't know” what I was talking about. She was all smug like she had won. One of those people who thinks that her opinions are facts, if that tells you anything. After realizing it was like talking to a wall, I told her that I hoped her arrogant logic would be sufficient comfort for when her son inevitably raised a hand to her or ended up standing before a judge. She did not like that. Because she was an emotional vampire who pulled focus, no matter how inappropriate the situation or occasion may have been, I went no contact with her when her son was a moody, angsty, rebellious 13-year-old. From what I remember, she was at her wits end and whined to anyone who would listen to “what went wrong.” What went wrong? It's called she was a lazy piece of crap irresponsible adult who never should have had kids.

I'm unsure if this is standard banking procedure, but I believe opening or funding a child's account without parental notification may be against regulations. It seems that most banks require parental or legal guardian consent before a minor's account can be opened. This is unlike inheritance, where beneficiaries receive assets only after the benefactor's death. While notification isn't required for wills, opening an account establishes legal ownership in the child's name, and this likely requires guardian approval if the individual is a minor. Only say this because it seems people think she had i choose not to tell her sister about the fund but mostly she had to in order to open the fund anyway.

I'd have my resume up to date at all times.

The mental gymnastics the parents had to go through to continue defending Leah against OP are gold media Olympics worthy

My mom said I was the black sheep of the family. My bro was the one who'd been arrested. Thanks, Mom.

Nope absolutely not stand your ground girl

well now you know people can't take the truth usually. it's a hard one.

is she stupid? is he stupid?

You told her what she didn't want to and kinda knew already and it upset her. You did nothing wrong, she asked so it's on her.

I would want to know if I was attending a vegan wedding so I could eat beforehand lol definitely in the wrong

Let me guess you saw what Squirtle was doing and you came straight to the comments?

Absolutely not in the least bit wrong. OP set down a firm boundary and is not asking for much, just a little respect. Mother-in-law said the quiet part out loud. At least the husband stood up for her. I'll give him credit where credit's due that he's standing by her side and won't allow the parents to see the grandchildren until they apologize. They might begrudgingly do it or double down. Who knows? Still, if I were OP or the husband, I would not let those people around my children because God knows that type of toxicity can screw a kid up.

People asked for the truth but when they hear it they deny it & call it lies -my thoughts around 11 pm at night

11:39 family should also not try to ruin eachothers lifes or favorite one child over another

She asked and she was given

8:49 why cant her *own parents* take the "duty" of supporting their *own daughter* financially

We summon the paragraph guy

Why not point out that it’s not the only one of those bags and she has the ability to buy one for herself? Or buy her a knockoff. More importantly, why the fuck would OP EVER agree to promote a go fund me that is painting her as the villain of the story?!?

NTA! Claire should have labeled the container beforehand. It's not OP's fault for assuming it's for free grabs. No one better argue with me about my comment, please?!

Tell them bite me a polite way of you got to be f-ing kidding me

It's annoying when people ask for honest opinions and say they can handle it but they infact cannot handle simple honesty

SHE asked!!

She needs to accept the truth

No