[FULL STORY] My Husband Forgot Our Anniversary, So I Forgot to Pick Him Up from the Airport.

[@hikari5964]

12:17 Did he just say "your anniversary?" Woah... wasn't that the five year of marriage anniversary? Shouldn't that be BOTH their anniversaries and not just hers? Shows how little he cares...

[@patricialadd520]

"Nobody's perfect"? To say that, it's become an excuse not to do anything. OP's husband struggles to do the bare minimum. Was he just raised by his mother? Where is his father? Was he never taught anything about relationships? His half-assed approach to make amends tells you he is self-centered and selfish. Since he bought the cow, does that mean she just becomes his indentured servant, catering to his needs alone? What if there were children? He would probably be indifferent to the needs of any children he may have also. Op's husband has taken her for granted. He never respected OP. And without respect, there is no love.

[@hikari5964]

@@patricialadd520 Yep I agree completely... and then there are his neverending excuses of work, stress and blah blah. Yeah, there may be a lot of work and stress but he can't keep using that as an excuse not to work on their relationship. He obviously does not care for OP and he doesn't give her the love that she deserves. I'm honestly glad that there DON'T seem to be children, that way it's easier to seperate when it comes down to that. And it will, if he doesn't start to SERIOUSLY and SINCERELY put effort into the relationship... and some half-assed attempts to "make things better" like cleaning dishes is nothing to help because in a working relationship those kinda things are expected- and his little date plan at that chain restaurant? Oh my god, honestly I'd probably have "accidentally" spilled my drink all over him if I were in her place before getting out of there or something. Such chain restaurants can be perfectly fine for eating when you are in a working relationship... but please, if you are trying to make up for something a bit more effort would be expected. And he also says that she has too high of expectations? Uuuh no? To say such a thing clearly shows that he is not fit for any kind of relationship at all... he takes her for granted and is too immature and selfish to take responsibility. And he never even truly apologized. There is no further need for OP to try working on this relationship because he clearly doesn't want to ACTUALLY make it work.

[@vespris]

did anyone else catch that OP started saying "left me stranded" instead of him. i thought it was a accident but then again at 13:24 it didnt seem like a accident.

[@suzannetaylor8110]

Yep all of a sudden shes the one left at the airport 😂😂😂😂

[@ecodiva7720]

Actually, I think that’s less of an issue on OP then then actually the bot who reads this often times these things will mispronounce words or switch halfway through a story. They’re just very unreliable. like they’ll change gender change POV is it’s just an issue with this type of like form of Reddit stories when it’s not a person reading it.

[@Grouchydragoon012]

Honestly the two just don't seem all that compatible as a married couple. Don't know the husband's side but from what I'm hearing we don't have the full story. Overall I don't trust either one right now.

[@zjebixx]

Why was she even with him for 5 years if it was like this from the beginning? What the hell?

[@pandamoon8067]

Not that I condone if the partner don’t pay attention to their partner can’t blame the partner check out on the marriage that can lead to an affair looking OP marriage most likely could lead to that

[@Sothy-x8i]

communication (hints don't count)

[@Sothy-x8i]

never mind

[@carneg1986]

And this is why i'm never getting in a relationship...

[@pattidrier9593]

You made a big deal about his behavior because it is a big deal!! And work stress is just an excuse that’s convenient for men.

[@kubac4787]

Exacly like "too much at work lately" for at least 5 years

[@carljay9593]

She mentioned the '' airport incident" a couple of times but she got it backwards because she was the one that left him at the airport.

[@Cocoa.Tresbelle]

How u go from leaving him at the air port to him leaving u at the airport 😂 such a liar 😂

[@elephantwellyphant6866]

Wdym

[@truhanfangirl]

0:50 for the shorts

[@Lisa.IlikefnafOk.]

Ty

[@SunnySlays101]

you comment made me drop my chapstick

[@Cecilia-w6p1t]

Tysm

[@melindaflick631]

Does he even LIKE her anymore? Does he listen AT ALL? I think they're done and have both drifted away. Just walk away and be elsewhere. You can't make another person change, all you can do is walkaway yourself.

[@NordeggSonya]

I don't remember when I met someone. I don't bother people with texts several times a day. I don't want to be bothered like that. Its a bit much. I was with a guy who only thought of himself and kind of ignored me. After 6 yrs I left.

[@syedafarahimran4599]

23 and 25 Wait a minute 23-5=18 25-5=20 So they were married at 20 and 18 😮😯😲😧

[@princessteatime8130]

0:57 Who came from the short?

[@tejaltakalkar5960]

So she is not working, wants a romantic partner and she wants to be pampered

[@jackcurl2005]

Not excusing anything, but they got together awfully young. Maybe this incident will cause his (lack of) maturity to level up, even if they don't stay together. (Not advocating divorce, but he's got to make some changes, including but not limited to letting her know that she matters to him and is a thought and a partner, not a checkbox for "married")

[@Esther-lm6pm]

Drama queen much? Op should have left a long time ago. Just staying for the drama. Then go back on everything you said and take him back 🙄. Staying for the perpetual victimhood.

[@The_space_frog57]

In op's defense this seems like the first time she REALLY realised it (tho I haven't finished the vid yet so I could be wrong)

[@lilogonzales6625]

"here, chocolate. Now, shut up."

[@alittleoddme1940]

But if she left, then you complained that she didn't give henry a chance. OP can't win with you.Try to work things out before you get divorced. Or is it only convenient when it's needed.

[@FLUNES]

I agree.

[@ecodiva7720]

But what happened with OP isn’t what she wanted she wanted a change. She wanted him to try and fix it. I agree all his attempts seem like a half ass apologies to avoid actual accountability yeah honey here’s a restaurant that I know you don’t even like so now shut up Look chocolate now drop the topic

[@nbusiness9694]

I am so tiered of these stories not being edited. She left him at the airport then he left her.....please edit your stories.

[@mhiggins11]

Run, dude, run fast

[@kfc28371ify]

They BOTH should have left each other a long time ago.

[@roxcyn]

They both need to work on their relationship. The husband is working too much and focusing on spending time with his friends and coworkers too much. The wife (OP) seems like a stay at home wife and hyper focused on what her husband does and doesn't do. What wasn't said here: have you all done therapy? Would you consider it? How did you all meet, fall in love and get married? Is the husband's job a boss or C-level position? If so, you must realize he will be married to his job as it will be high stress but high reward. OP, do you work or are a stay at home wife? Are there children? As it stands with what you wrote, both of you are the AHs because you're not communicating effectively. I feel like both sides are hiding something from each other. Therapy, and/or communicating effectively with each other and/or making real changes will help improve your relationship and marriage. If not, you both need to prepare for divorce.

[@CATKAT-Kat]

DAMN he really tried but nope ofc try to make up 5 years yah no😂

[@georgeluthy6512]

Get a divorce

[@Videos_and_shitty_videos]

he was a red flag at the 5th one anyways you should have divorced him

[@HollyWaldron-g5c]

I know this is your decision but it doesn’t seem like a husband cares about you . Don’t fall into the trap

[@wolfbegame]

OP should talk to him about this a long time ago not waiting like 5 years I am happy that they're going to try out the relationship but I can't get the feeling that she's being a bit of a doormat and should should have just suck it up and left him but then again I'm happy that they're trying to salvage the relationship so it's just a mixed feelings I have

[@FLUNES]

This is the first story i dont understand at all. Maybe i missed a few things while reading/listening? But all i can hear/see is guy forgot annaverssary, girl got angry, and stopped picking him up from work, husband gets left out until midnight when he calls a cab, this makes guy more angry/sad, and girl is angry because guy forgot a single day. Is there something im missing? Like why is the girl angry besides the fact that the guy forgot the anaverssary?

[@ecodiva7720]

Because it’s a constant action, this isn’t the first time he forgot he has forgotten all of the majority of leading up to this one as well as birthdays and any other major events the issue isn’t the anniversary itself. The issue is deeper than that. It’s just that this anniversary was the straw that broke the camels back OP tired of taking all of the emotional labour of a relationship and she wants her partner to step up. So she’s not taking that labour anymore unless he takes that labour she didn’t abandon him at the airport out of spite she left him at the airport because she’s done being the only one carrying this relationship if it was just one anniversary, it would be fine. The issue is it every anniversary before this one it’s gonna be every single anniversary after this one he’s gonna keep forgetting he’s gonna keep ignoring her. He’s gonna keep emotionally neglecting OP.

[@FLUNES]

@@ecodiva7720 ooohhhh, that makes alot more sense, thank u so much!

[@jackcurl2005]

​@@ecodiva7720excellent recap. One commenter said she's mad because she's not "pampered". Dude, she's not even acknowledged. That's base-level humanity, not pampering.

[@macronyandthechickenstrips2293]

I’m confused

[@Lucarioaura212]

If your gonna be a spoiled brat then he doesnt need you

[@deedee14135]

After slogging through all that, my sympathy is with the husband. Who wants to work all day then come home and work some more keeping a needy, neurotic, passive-aggressive whiner happy? Worse, she hints but doesn't come out and tell him what she wants. Then she gets mad because he didn't guess right what she wants. Her idea of doing things for him is really doing things she wants, not that he wants. She wants the holiday stuff, not him. These two need to divorce and find someone else.

[@rebeccaconlon9743]

They both really needed to communicate better with each other. Definitely needs couple councilling/therapy. She wants to be noticed and loved, not treated like a robot. He just wants to keep plodding along with comfortable... both are in opposite ends, he's tired from work, ands she's tired of emotionally carrying the relationship. My experience is having spent over 16 years with my husband

[@littleLlewi]

@deedee14135 I agree because she's only hinting so how's he supposed to know also she's going over the top with it if he has business stuff he's gonna miss holiday like Christmas but by doing little things shows he cares big gestures don't matter it's the thought

[@Yaya2214CJ]

NTA but you need to take a stand and leave. He took you dinner at a chain restaurant? Since when do you have to make a reservation at a chain restaurant lol. Lady he's not going to change. But lady you're a bit of a whiner. Good Lord he couldn't do anything right by your standards.

[@haimaui]

Hello

[@ravencrystal4808]

8:04 ?

[@Heartgirl_Lu]

So happy I’m the first comment I always watch your videos I watched almost all of them I love your channel

[@heather8855]

You are such a bad wife I feel bad for your husband and he book you a dinner night and be grateful for what you get he might just don't like going big things for you SO JUST BR GRATEFUL YOU ARE NOT GRATEFUL SO BE GRATEFUL

[@ecodiva7720]

But the issue is it’s not about what he liked. It was an apology. If you make up an apology it should be based around that person that you’re apologising for. in a relationship both partners should take on the emotional labour of the relationship so that means chores planning dates celebrating if OP is the only one doing the chores if she’s working that’s unfair if she’s a stay at home partner then it can be a bit more excused, but the other stuff can’t if she’s the only one planning holidays planning dates planning events the only one who does any actual emotional labour in the relationship then of course she’s done with her husband‘s bullshit. She’s carrying the relationship on her own without her husband carrying his weight a relationship is a partnership. Both partners have to work together to make it work. It can’t just be all on the woman or all on the man. It just can’t be all on one partner no matter the gender.