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@mariaameral6007 2 күн бұрын
If we have to explain why a thing isn't deception then it is deception.
@katelyn371 4 күн бұрын
I just wanted to say thank you so much for sharing this. ❤
@carolynlambert8797 5 күн бұрын
sad to many people sorry about your favorite places
@sarah-5798 10 күн бұрын
Wow great video highly appreciated by an insecure person
@ginal3006 10 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video. I can relate to so much of it. I have a three year old daughter, and you are right - it does get better, and the experience just gets richer and richer. At the same time, as she gets older, I feel more and more like myself and cherish the full night sleeps, that she can play for 5 min on her own, that she has a strong relationship with her father and isn’t relying on my body for sustenance. I love our family life, as it is. I feel steady and strong and supported. I’m still wavering about having another child, but your video has been so helpful to reflect on and normalise my feelings.
@sdb09b 11 күн бұрын
I just binge watched a lot of your videos and you seem so relatable! Please make more content because we need people with your authenticity on KZbin. I'm currently trying for my one and only and your content made me feel better about what to expect.
@YourBeautifulBirth 20 күн бұрын
This is so beautiful. Thank you for your time in this video Valued ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@AnimatedBlast 21 күн бұрын
My parents each have 3. My mom and her siblings wish death upon each other. I resent my dad’s for stealing our inheritance and constantly inconveniencing.
@AnimatedBlast 21 күн бұрын
I can do one. But I don’t want to do it again.
@ladytichat 21 күн бұрын
I’m 41 . I have one. I sincerely thank you for this This is exactly the best friend talk I needed to hear. 😢
@FontChels 22 күн бұрын
Oh, huni, you're doing so great! I am post partum 11 months. I completely understand the mom guilt. But, be kind to yourself and love yourself!
@desireerondeau8781 26 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing this is so difficult, I feel like nobody i know really believes how intense it all is. I know this will all be fine in a week but then in another three it will be back. Its so hard to stay positive and not feel hopeless during this dark time.
@carinamoszek7482 28 күн бұрын
I started suffering with this 3 years ago. It has destroyed relationships and brought me to such low places that, even as a person with some history of depression, didn't know existed. I am just a different person 10-14 days out of the month. Your video was so helpful, even if it's just to say we're in this together. I was diagnosed and prescribed prozac today. Hopefully in the future there will be more options.
@TLCTLC-cg6cm Ай бұрын
I kinda hope your child doesn’t get born. I wouldn't wish this being an Only childhood on anyone. Not even on my worst enemies. It's cruel.
@TLCTLC-cg6cm Ай бұрын
Rather than having just one..have NONE... that saves your child from a lifetime of misery, loneliness and missing out on the most important aspect of life: Sibling bond.
@alexirossi Ай бұрын
I have zero sibling bonds but I can promise I’m not miserable 🙃
@TLCTLC-cg6cm Ай бұрын
@alexirossi being selfish like that is miserable. Others will keep reminding you, if you can't admit to it. Don't think about yourself alone. Your child's future. He will hate you for what you've denied him. I'm an Only child, so I know exactly how it is.
@TLCTLC-cg6cm Ай бұрын
@alexirossi yeah you do not need to come to me with that cr*p.
@TLCTLC-cg6cm Ай бұрын
@@alexirossi people that have only one child on purpose should be criminalised.. it is beyond cruel.
@sabrinadawoud5088 Ай бұрын
“This is beautiful but it’s grey” omg exactly how I feel 😢
@chailatecookies7341 Ай бұрын
No, my child doesn’t need a sibling to fight with.!! I’m enough to fight with her. That’s me telling those who bother me with these dumb questions. 😂😂😂😂
@chailatecookies7341 Ай бұрын
I have a 13 year old daughter and I’m one and done, good luck to those who want more. ❤❤
@mfischer4391 Ай бұрын
I really look forward to your videos always. They are so simple and refreshing. Thank you for vlogging on here. You make my days brighter
@s.g2344 Ай бұрын
I always thought i would have 2 children but then i had the most horrific pregency, my c-section got badly infected, the hosptial treated me like dirt and i got put on a gestional diabetes diet when i didnt need to be. Postpartum i had horrible depression and i think i went a bit mad seeing things that werent really there, i honsetly thought our flat was haunted at one point 😅😅. Also i never ever wanna go through a newborn stage again 😅😅. Plus i wanna be able to give our daughter all our energy and time. We also dont want to be struggling with money. So yeah we are 100 % one and done. 😅😅
@maikepijper Ай бұрын
Awesome parents :) I'm so glad I found your channel. You feel like a friend, who understands.
@cristinacouplestherapy3819 Ай бұрын
Thank you so much I completely totally agree with you and I so much would love that majority of families in our world would be a family like you! Mother father and only child and you're only child will get really a wonderful development If you parents will keep going stain together this Child will developed your potential much More better than arrest of Kids because she will have enough of attention, advices from you at time love kindness at the same time she will not be Ableton Priest and egoist because except of child in the family also exist marriage and couple relationship end of course in order to have healthy relationship people have to dedicate time to each other to contribute to relationship of each other. So that's why only child incomplete family will never grow up to egoist selfishness and spoiled because exist couple relationship which will also motivate this child have San Francis share with Souls friends because mother and father and the relationship are a great example for this child to be friendly! Good luck to three of you guys! 👪
@maikepijper Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this, Alexi.
@HomemakerDaze Ай бұрын
I grew up poor and teased for it so having one child is all i can handle financially while im single or always in this economy lol
@HomemakerDaze Ай бұрын
You may have made up your mind but also dont forget in 5 or 10 yrs you can change your mind or your body might accidently change your mind for you haha
@HomemakerDaze Ай бұрын
I relate. Pregnancy morning sickness and then no sleeping for years lol really put me off! And my bladder issues are worse now. I have anxiety snd insomnia and my child is 11 😅 so motherhood is tough. He's still in my bed lol sensory overload having a child. Best of luck ❤
@HomemakerDaze Ай бұрын
So true. I'm a very attentive parent and hang with my son ALOT so he shouldnt feel very lonely. And i have a mum friend with 2 children we visit now. Thanks for sharing!
@HomemakerDaze Ай бұрын
Im 35 soon and have 1 11 year old. Im single so i mightve missed out on having another. Few more years to find out but decided to stop rushing just for that reason. ❤ my son is very close to both me and his dad and we have lots of fun. I have 2 sisters, hated them and hated my parents lol bringing up a child with love is whats important.
@massagesfrombeyond8498 Ай бұрын
Your not failure it’s a learning experience and if it helps, I’m terrible at making scrambled eggs and that is one of the easiest things to make
@nathat4250 Ай бұрын
Well said. Subbed.
@ImranRimon Ай бұрын
Your videos are of fantastic quality and clearly made with professionalism, yet it’s surprising that you’re not seeing more views or subscribers. I took a deep dive into your channel and noticed that your SEO score could be better. I’ve captured screenshots of the problem areas. Would you like to discuss them?
@burnthepalo9416 Ай бұрын
Wise young lady. Just beautiful. ❤
@ShatteredRippleBooks Ай бұрын
I wore make-up from age 20-26. Then didn't wear it for years I'm 52 now. My boyfriend passed away in May I have anxiety and depression and he took care of me until he got ill. After he passed away it really knocked my confidence. I needed to feel good again. So I started wearing a little makeup again. Not much just a little concealer for my age spots and some blush and lipstick or lip balm. I still look very natural because I'm not covering my skin in foundation. I know it's not a necessity but it makes me feel better.
@GoldenMrobbie 2 ай бұрын
What month is the best to come visit the PNW?
@Areutherehello 2 ай бұрын
I like this video. I need to visit secondhand stores more often. They can have really great finds!
@amysill3815 2 ай бұрын
A sibling is the greatest gift you can give to your child.
@alexirossi 2 ай бұрын
So is a healthy and happy mother ❤️
@alexirossi 2 ай бұрын
I also entirely disagree. If you listened to the video you know how I understand both worlds. My siblings destroyed my confidence and sense of self. They’re the worst relationships I have. They’re definitely not always a gift
@mineandmine4528 2 ай бұрын
@amysill3815, I am the youngest of 5 children. I am NOT close with any of my siblings. They have all screwed me over. Giving your child a sibling is not always the greatest gift you can give your child. The greatest gifts you can give your child are a quality life and relationship with both parents. Also a healthy life and healthy relationships. Have you ever heard the story of Cain and Able ?
@mynameisyamell187 2 ай бұрын
Not when your mother treats you all differently….
@PittsburghSportsFan43 Ай бұрын
I'm the 3rd of 4 kids. (Would be 5/6 but mom had 2 miscarriages before me) Two older sisters and a younger brother by 1 year. Sister #1 is 8.5 years older than me. Sister #2 is 3 years, 7 months older. The oldest, we are not close at all. The second oldest, occasionally. And I absolutely loathe and despise my so called brother. He was physically abusive when we were in our teens til mid 20s when I cut off all contact. Also threatening to kill me twice. There is no benefit whatsoever to having, really any kids, but specifically more than 1. How many adults do you know that are close with their siblings? Or were growing up? My dad is the oldest of 3. He had one sister and one brother. Only ever close to his sister. Mom was the youngest of 6. She had 3 brothers and 2 sisters. She was close to one of her sisters and reasonably close to one brother. My other aunt (mom's oldest sister) and three other uncles, (dad's 1 brother and mom's other 2) I barely knew, if at all. All these arguments for having multiple kids, particularly these days when everything, from birth to medical bills to cost of living, childcare, food and college, pretty much rules out anyone not making 5 or 6 figures, minimum, a year, being able to afford a kid.
@rchhtt5210 2 ай бұрын
I relate a lot. I have a two year old little girl. My sister and I are not close, she’s 6 years older. She has a severe mental illness and my mom is her guardian. Growing up my sister had more needs than me. I felt like the little “big” sister a lot of times. My mom was amazing but she had so much on her plate that I didn’t get everything I needed emotionally. I am super close with my mom though. I just never want my daughter to feel that way. My mental health was awful from the lack of sleep for the first 8-9 months. It took 15 months to start feeling better. I have been thriving ever since. I can never go back to that dark place again…it was very scary. I have gone back and forth but if I am being honest, I know my marriage, daughter, and self would be happier and healthier staying just as we are. I love being able to give my daughter all my attention.
@coraliehoney 2 ай бұрын
I love your channel! It feels so genuine, part video diary part hanging out with a friend. Really enjoying seeing what life in the PNW is like for you!
@ttul 2 ай бұрын
I’m so glad you shared this. Thank you so so much.
@andrealustig3547 2 ай бұрын
There is truth to both sides. As someone who lives a holistic lifestyle, I understand that internal battle. Makeup is good in moderation if it brings you joy 😊 also picking natural brands is less harm to the environment
@BetweenHereAndThereWithDALiLA 3 ай бұрын
Energy attraction, Manifesting and Claim it! Vibes 🏞️🍄🙏💪🏽✨🤗💚🧿
@alydiafraser9290 3 ай бұрын
Ahh I have your video saved on my phone from 2 years ago where you talk about not wearing makeup and how bad it is for you and that it's good and forever chemicals etc because it inspired me.
@alexirossi 3 ай бұрын
And I still believe all those things! But everything in moderation ❤️❤️
@chloehull2557 3 ай бұрын
Congratulations and cheers!! 🎉🌲
@lilwarrioraleena 3 ай бұрын
Wow what a view! Congratulations 🎉 (I’m currently in a move, a long process for us)
@alexirossi 3 ай бұрын
Thank you!! Moving is such a process!
@heatherf614 3 ай бұрын
I recently found your channel because of your one and done video and I related. My husband and I are one and done and our baby girl is 3 months old. Newborn stage is SO difficult and there’s so much nobody tells you about it. The mom rage was insane for me when I was brand new at being a mom and I felt so guilty about it. We also tried breastfeeding and only ended up exclusively breastfeeding for 2 weeks before having to pump and then bottle feed and ultimately switched to formula by 1 1/2 months. No one tells new mothers how hard it’s going to be or how we can help ourselves. Your videos have been a light for me and I so appreciate you being so genuine and honest when you post!
@alexirossi 3 ай бұрын
This means more than you know. What you described sounds so much like what I experienced. ❤️
@chloehull2557 3 ай бұрын
This is so cozy! Is this your new home? It is so beautiful!
@alexirossi 3 ай бұрын
It is! Definitely a work in progress!
@chloehull2557 3 ай бұрын
@@alexirossi it is looking so lovely and so much like home already! We have been in our home for a year and a half now and it continues to be a work in progress, hahaha! You are doing so great!!
@rachels4882 3 ай бұрын
It's the Luke's mug for me
@alexirossi 3 ай бұрын
It’s my favorite!
@AZ-cq3us 3 ай бұрын
Huh?? I don’t get this video-EXCEPT FOR the concept of” NEED COFFEE!!!!!!” 😂😊
@rpwingfield 3 ай бұрын
You are allowed to change your mind on things! Wear what you like and do what makes you feel good.
@dodgecityvanlife 3 ай бұрын
Nice 👍
@kennethjoneification 3 ай бұрын
So good to hear someone being unapologetic about having one child! I love having one kid. I mean, I still feel overwhelmed on an almost daily basis, lol, but especially when it's both of us parenting together, it feels so manageable and our life is so full and so fun <3