Nice job! I like the idea of how would someone else manage these emotions with us...

thank youuu

Yay ! 🏳‍⚧🌈🍀🌱🍡✨ Definitely gonna have to bookmark this. The one from Busboys n Poets was hecking noice :D

Hey, I missed you❤

Great job!!!!

I hate when people repeat horrible stereotypes of the last century I lean towards the middle of lot of aspects of my life Frist I omitted my political views and later focused on my family and my sexuality

I just discovered your channel (I'm reading your book right now and it is very good)! Thank you so much for this video and what you do (from one Black asexual bean with depression and anxiety)

It seems like 99% of people hate bi men.

As A Masculine Bisexual Man. I Find you Highly Attractive. I Find you to Be the Perfection of Handsome YESSS Brother. Everything about you your Face You’re Eyes Your Lips Your Skin Tone is Beautiful Beyond Measure I noticed you Speak with Strength Courage and Wisdom. Im Very Curious about you.

One of the rare feminist men making videos on youtube 😆 good job keep up the good work!

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Doggo 🥰 But also agree with everything you said 💜

So sexy 😘🐻

I am a single man and i am after bottom married men. There are millions of bottom married men, whi are fathers and happily married to their wives.so YES they can be bottoms.

I am so glad that I stumbled across your video! I have watched a lot of videos on this topic, and most the time they were from the big and well known KZbinrs… and I’ll tell ya, I’ve never had one of them break this down as well as you have!!! Video after video all they say is to ‘process your emotions’ or ‘sit with your emotions’ and I’m sitting here like what the heck does that even mean?!?!… how?!?!… and here you show up in my recommendations and break it down perfectly in less than 10 minutes! Thank you so much for this, you surely are very gifted.

Some of my favourite channels don't have a schedule. Its just a nice surprise when a video pops up. If a schedule works best for you, then do it, but if you're doing it for the sake of some capitalist conception of productivity - that you have to be making something new all the time, bin it. ✌️

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I didn't become really comfortable in my sexual identity until a couple of years ago - 2021/22 around age 23 and I never even had a religious upbringing that decried being queer. It's (queerphobia) just so entrenched in society - even liberal ones. 7:00 wow society is so fucked up 😅

A lot of this is resonating. I stumbled onto the podcast recently and have listened to a handful so far ♡ Rly appreciated!

You have a true gift!!!! Thank you!!!

I needed this thanks I’ve come out as bi

Hybrid events NEED to stay! Also that description of accessible pride almost made me cry ❤

Lots of points I hadn’t thought about before as a bi person!

I cannot tell you how much I love your conversations on this channel. I found myself crying so many times during this - the truth and sincerity and experiences from the soul that everyone was bringing were just so beautiful. So many insights that I want to start thinking about and appying to my own life. Thank you for uploading this. 💜

I know this video older, but I’m here to say that, I cannot stand Saysotv. He is literally the bottom of the barrel trash. And he is a self hating, pick me gay that wants to be accepted by straight people, because in his words he is “straight passing” He claims he is trying to help the community, but in reality he is just a detriment to it, by spreading misogyny, and division amongst the community. If you try to challenge him on any of his videos, he would get defensive and will delete your comment. I still can’t believe this man has somewhat of a following, he is a total clown.

That was really helpful, thank you!

I honestly believe that society, in actual reality, is bi normative. Most women have no problem “making out” or more with other women. Most men, contrary to the bs sensitive to our masculinity bullcrap we speak, are horned up by man on man contact. But at the end of the day we search for the masculine and feminine balance. Maybe that’s just me. I love sex with both but more “heteroromantic” because I love that balance. The key is truth and in previous relationships I wasn’t true to myself so I could not express that to the female relationship partners I had. No correct definition but that is mine loves 🩷💜💙

My ex said I was too sensitive and that the world doesn't treat people kind, so it was okay for him to curse at me 🙃Like it would toughen me up...

My therapist showed me this app called How We Feel (only available on iOS) which is quite similar if you want an interactive version. I often felt that even though there are like 50 emotions, what I was feeling still didn't have a name on the chart :D

Where in north London is this? Islington? Good accent though love it

🌸✝️🦋 notice the colors are the bisexual flag and it still has a cross

🩷💜💙 I am a bisexual Christian and I might be hard but it is really beautiful

Brother, I LOVED this video. And I love the voice you have and bring, just from this first ever video I've seen of yours. Thank you!

I was not molested by men in any type or way and have had a good (not 50% but still a chunk) decent amount of same sex attraction since age six (I am bi or pan) and was deeply afraid and contemptuous and hateful of many straight men for much of my life.

Great video, thank you

Thanks for the info.❤

Thank you! ❤

Thank you so much. It is so spot on. I am 43 and I can’t tell you how many relationships I’ve lost just for taking the chance that you have to take if you want a healthy relationship and being honest about your sexuality. Whether they are straight or gay, if I am bi I am other; so much so that the knee jerk response is disgust. Women are disgusted and behave as if you have automatically exposed them to AIDS; and Gay men treat you as if you’re delusional, in denial, and therefore unworthy of the respect that is essential for a healthy relationship. All of this to the best of my knowledge is systemic: meaning that it influenced by family formative years; community adolescent years; society adult life. Acceptance of people for who they are is the problem we all deal with. But bisexual men have it the worst (personal bias based on belief as a result of my personal experience).

Very much appreciated💯❤

When my husbands mother “found out” (she already knew, but apparently had forgotten) about my bisexual orientation, the first thing she said to me was “don’t you dare cheat on my son!”. I was shocked because she had never once, in 10 years questioned my fidelity to him, *until* she realized my sexual orientation. Then proceeded to imply that because I had never dated a woman, that I couldn’t possibly know that about myself. Ugh, it was horrible and it completely damaged any positive rapport. She had praised me year after year for being such a positive person in her sons life and then I suddenly find myself villainized for absolutely no reason. Yet people have the audacity to say that we do not experience bigotry. They say we have it easier because we can “hide”. Since when is being in the closet considered a positive thing? These stories are so true and your video is necessary for this conversation. Thank you.

Amy

I know this is an old video at this point but as a bi man who only came out to myself and a few close friends less than 6 months ago I feel so seen in this video, thank you for this

This hits home , and I really needed to see that first graphic about religious communities, especially, but yeah, anyway. Everybody said what I would wish to say in the comments. Am truly always grateful at your presence and hope that your week's work is going smoothly. I feel like I've definitely got to revisit these concepts; recently got to realize how intense it is, in a good way , and will continue to be to hear others being open about breaking down the oppressive aspects of religion and how they personally feel on the other side of escaping the cultishness (esp if it's Catholicism...) Even now it feels like there's only like maybe two times that I've got to connect with others about it, and I hope they won't be the last ; w ;

I identify as a masculine leaning man. Especially as I age. I am bisexual, and yes I agree with you. I definitely get along with masculine bi men and straight men way more than effeminate men.

Proud bisexual bottom 💗💜💙

Its made up wholecloth !