It was literally the site to p*rn and he says it's from a manga site he uses and he's always up before me he has been more closed up and not as open towards me

I was in a relationship where the man was attentive, mature, and committed--- I was hoping to fall in love with him based on those qualities. The physical attraction wasn't there but I was also hoping that would develop over time. I didn't jive with his sense of humor and often times I felt bored with our conversations. I blamed myself and would then feel resentment. I broke things off because it wouldn't have been fair to string him along, hoping my feelings would change. On the flip side, I was once in a relationship where the physical attraction started off weak and increased the more I realized that his essence resonated with my own. It's a seemingly simple question with so many answers...

I left 6 years ago and I’m still dealing with the trauma of it all.

Now that I know precisely what I'm suffering from, I can take steps to correct it.

I think about suicide several times a month. I felt it just now. It's almost as if suicide is my fantasy. And in a way it has made me happy. But I know I don't really want to die.

My anniversary date is my wedding day.

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its been 10 years..some were amazing full of recovery others are just dark voids....

I was upset when my therapist validated my feelings. 😢 I don’t know why or what is going on but this week was really difficult and I’m not happy with therapy this week mainly

I think mine is sick of me

I guess I'm one of the lucky people, my wife doesn't get jealous about porn, sometimes we watch it together, we even go to topless bars sometimes. Maybe that's why we're still married after 30 years while pretty much everyone else I know is divorced. If you think that your man's never going to look at another woman with desire you're living in a fantasy, that's not going to happen. As long as your man is not having an affair (I've never cheated on my wife) just let him be a man and you'll have a pretty good chance of being happy.

I think we need to remember that men and women are completely different. If a man catches his woman watching porn it's probably not going to bother him much, but for some reason when men watch porn women take it personally, it's like the women are jealous of the girls in the movies when it doesn't really bother men if it's the other way around. If your man is watching porn why does it hurt you so bad? Men have been into porn since we used to find our father's Playboy magazines when we were kids. Just because your man watches porn sometimes does not mean he doesn't love you, that's just how men are, I'll never understand why so many women take a man watching porn as some type of personal attack? It's not, it's completely normal. Men are going to be men, either accept it or be alone. Any man that tells you he never watches porn is a liar, wouldn't you rather be with a person that's honest about it?

Porn addiction does not exist. If someone is watching a lot of porn there's a reason why that has nothing to do with addiction. Are we the same person that he or she fell in love with or have we let ourselves go? Are you the sexy man that she married? is she the sexy woman that you married? Instead of acting like it's an addiction maybe you should try spicing up your love life maybe even watch porn together. Your sex life has become boring, why not try to spice it up a little bit? PS. If you just leave that person and go into another relationship sooner or later you're probably going to end up with the same problem. Again do something to spice up your sex life, that doesn't necessarily have to involve porn but try something. Attacking that person and constantly fighting about it is just going to drive that person farther away. If you are not willing to at least try to do something to spice up your boring sex life and you just decide to blame your partner for everything instead of trying to make it better you might as well just walk away now.

I just had my first session and I can’t stop thinking about my therapist . I feel so weird about it. It’s not a sexual obsession I just keep thinking about her and I can’t wait for our next session because I feel safe talking to her . Thank you for this video

Trauma ptsd socalled psychologist met in Women Center drop me when she was in her private practice. Just bc I gave her a feedback about what I hadnt appreciated and asked questions on my healing process.

trust me the only thing that actually works for many is to make them know they can alwas do it. and we should also support peoples wish to leave if thats what they truly want

This video is what I needed

Porn ended my 36 year marriage. I knew he looked occasionally. I was so wrong. He was addicted and couldn't give it up for 10 minutes. Don't waste your life like I did ladies.

Just be honest with yourself, you were there for the money weren't you

Listening to her was a waste of time

My favorite is being told "nothing is wrong, you're just depressed" Hey retard. Maybe theres a reason Im depressed?

If wife / girlfriend not having s@x then p@rn is being watched

My bf of 2 yrs is doing these things

My husband revealed his lies to me by telling me, one and a half months after we were married, that he has never loved me and that he married me because if what I do for him. He told me it wasnt even me specifically that he wanted to marry, just a woman with my traits. This man told me he loved me the whole time we dated. Our wedding vows were love,love,love, love this and love that. He also revealed an alcohol addiction. This isnt even all of it. He pretended to be someone he's not as far as his personality. The man I dated was a mirage. I am now married to a narcissistic stranger.

Haunting is a very apt term. My wife left me for someone else, though she still denies it even though I have read ALL the texts and even her own words that multiple times were her saying she was choosing the other person over me (which is STILL its own painful thing to deal with because I STILL was an honest answer), and there really is something like her ghost that lives in my mind walking around our once-shared house. I don't know if it's unhealthy or not, but I sometimes talk to her. Sometimes to tell her that I'm sorry for not being a better man in protecting my family from the temptations she faced, sometimes it's to yell at her for all the manipulation and lying, but regardless I can scarcely do anything without seeing her sitting there holding our baby, or playing a game with me laughing like idiots, or laying there needing me to take care of her when sick. And none of that is made easier by the fact that she didn't even say goodbye. Not even while signing the divorce papers. The sensation I've told counselors is like someone came along and killed my wife and then started wearing her skin, but to everyone else it's just the same person.

I don’t want to die but I don’t deserve to live

This is exactly what my relationship is like 😢 he’s frustrated I’m not over it yet and keep talking about it.

Why the hell would anyone cry in therapy...grow up you're an adult.

Im a recovering addict. I have been married for 19 years. I had the addiction before we married. I have lied to her a ton of times. Im a fool. I may have destroyed our marriage. In the oast 15 months i havent watched porn by definition. Unfortunately i have slipped up 3 times by watching softer stuff like videos of half dressed women. So i decided im going to get a dumb phone and it will be arriving at the end of the month since my slip up have been due to my phone.

Was with a man that was so called good to me. 2 days into meeting he said he loved me and needed me to be his woman despite how much I stressed I needed to move slow to not get hurt/make yet another mistake in life.. we prayed together and all… 2 days before our 1 yr anniversary of meeting we spoke before church things were normal. When I called him later he didn’t answer but called right back with his ex on the phone and said “I just called to tell you I’m going to make it work with my woman.” Whole time I was literally or so I thought his woman. I feel horrible and extremely embarrassed and ignorant. Totally blindsided.

My husband would actually be overwhelming doting on me trying to overcompensate. Like.. he feeds me all kinds of compliments and it feels more like he is trying to prove something or he is guilty. At first I would think he was just realizing my pain and trying to help my self esteem from tanking. But over these years, I have found that he is just trying to protect his addiction and get it off my radar. But I am extremely intuitive and I know he is just hiding his secrets and hoping that if he distracts me I won’t be hyper vigilant. But he won’t talk about it.

When 99.99999% of the time someone lies to you you will learn to pay attention to other things for insight. They may tell the truth rarely but you've learned not to trust them because of the 8 million other times. There's certain traits I look for to decide if someone will be trusted and when they're the control freak type, the bullying type, the everything is about them and they'll do whatever it takes to have people believing them even if it's not true I avoid those because there's no amount of money or anything that's worth that kind of constant aggravation.

5 out of 5.

What about when you get no closure and you don't have that person being accountable, taking responsibility for what they did?

I'm in 60's and I've not cried since I was a teenager. My wife finds it really difficult. She said it impossible to ever read my emotions...good or bad. She's also never seen me get angry. She says my biggest issue is that I'm never in the moment which she finds a little sad. My view is that people are way too soft these days and cry for the stupidest of reasons.

I've never been vulnerable or opened up in therapy...never have, never will. I wouldn't do this unless I trusted a person 100% and I don't trust anyone 100%. Also I never and mean never leave my comfort zone, as this is the only way I can remain feeling safe and more importantly in control. I suppose I'm a bit like Sheldon on The Big Bang Theory...in that I don't like and/or feelings and emotions...hence why I've become a master at surpressing and/or repressing them. I think the world would be a far, far better place if we removed feelings and emotions and relied instead on pure logic.

I used to have doubts about a cure for herpes type 2 until I came across Dr Ozuka while looking for a cure online

It’s like your brain is hooked on dopamine, and your body craves that fix. I’ve been battling this for probably 30 years now. I wonder why they won’t officially classify it as an addiction. It’s a $1 billion industry, and they don’t want that to mess with their business.

I’m unable to articulate what’s going on in my head I have multiple diagnoses and way more undiagnosed I just feel like I’m losing this battle

Are the signs the same if they are relapsing ?

Private browsing has made porn access literally impossible to detect

It makes me so upset when our therapist keeps saying “it has nothing to do with you” it’s him. However he says negative things about me, my body, and our emotional intimacy is all but dwindled

My teen's boyfriend broke up with them the same weekend he was being "grounded." Was he really being grounded? Was the breakup a part of the grounding process by the parents? Who knows. We will never know.

That was a really good video!! 😄👍

I am emotionally and sexually withdrawn, not willing to be vulnerable and intimate and open anymore, after years and several hurts with his sexual kinks and expectations, me always being inadequate compared to what he wants. Up until a week ago, he was getting sex twice a week, but we had a big blowup and now I don't want to feel like a hole to be used or a prostitute anymore. Now we're not having sex, because I've just had enough of trying to satisfy an always unsatisfied husband. He is getting grumpier and grumpier and I know he's suffering blue balls, but both of us can't tolerate my emotional withdrawal when we try to have sex. It's too horrible and awkward, because I feel like I'm just a hole he's using. Where do we go from here? I am withdrawn and shut down, tired of being hurt and inadequate.

Why does this chic look like a porn star?

You're not kidding, why is this stuff coming out and it's so common?? it is just a shocker, what is happening😢

Hi Diana...porn helps me to get sleepy at night on my mobile phone

I got my Masters in Marriage and Family Therapy. I told my therapist that I would never cry in front of him; it was too weird and that I am used to holding space for others to cry and being a caregiver, not the other way around. Literally, the next session I was ballin' my eyes out about past trauma to him. I told him I didn't expect that to happen. He told me he knew that was going to happen. 🤣😂🤣😂

Comeback and make more videos please 🥺